₦airaland Forum

EgunMogaji:
It’s actually not my job to educate Nairaland strawberries

The takeaway here is that I didn’t know you from Adam before you quoted me.

As I said already, you’ll tire away as usual.

Amateur!

Amateur at what?

EgunMogaji:
I give no more weight to your opinion than to that of a gnat

Amateur.

amateur at what?

EgunMogaji:
Except that you quoted me directly, whereas you are a nonentity

You will tire out as usual and wither away back to whence you came from.

Amateur. Again.

amateur at what?

You do seem offended though

shaybebaby:
Try Croque Monsieur if that's your weakness. Don't be fooled by the name , it's French ham and cheese toastie. You will thank me for it..its pure bliss on the taste buds.

Smoked cheese, I recommend scamorza.

screenshot for the future

shaybebaby:
You coming with me to Italy, then I'll see if your statement stands. Cheese is life!

Italy is definitely in my travel plans, so I’ll see when I get there

I do love smoked cheese on my sandwich. That’s the only time I use love in the same sentence as cheese

shaybebaby:
Gerraway, I'm her sister from another Mister and I didn't get an invite.

fair weather in-law

Pitiable. Pathetic

SAMBARRY:
LMAO. Is this just dawning on you.women have been brainwashed, drowned and saturated with self demeaning sermons from the pulpit, from Their family since conception, bringing them up with such idiosyncrasies so what do you expect

Self respect, self esteem, self care ,mental health care is irrelevant

You have to live for a man's approval for your position not to be snatched and when I hear some prayer points in church I get very irritated. Prayer points like

1.another woman will not take my position in my husband's house

2.every strange woman ( referring to side chic's) pursuing my husband (as if the husband is the victim) dieeee
Even in engagement ceremonies you hear prayers like my husband will find only me attractive, his penis will not work when he sees other women, he will find joy In only my breasts as if he doesn't know what he's doing

EgunMogaji:
Am I suppose to be offended?

Amateur.

in the same sense that you thought your post was going to reduce any woman.
As there as hordes of women out there, so are there men and you are replaceable as well.

If the shoe fits. Then by all means please be offended

I read posts from women who agree with opinions like his and shake my head. The damage is strong and deep.
I don’t think they can be healed anymore. For a woman to knowingly agree with schools of thought that reduce/minimize her, it shows irreparable damage to self esteem. Super disgusting

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE from deluded people!

FIRST of all , nobody can "steal" someone that doesnt want to leave
SECOND the reason side chicks are able to become wifeys is because these DELUDED MARRIED MEN cheated on their wives with low lives women. if these men had any respect for their wives, they wouldnt do that, but sadly, these men dont know what respect/trust means and THAT'S the reason why side chicks can move in, (not dumbaasss text msgs)
LAST BUT NOT LEAST only a very stoopid woman would even see anything RIGHT in this garbage.... if a man chooses a side chick over his wife, then count your blessings and let that deluded man live with that stoopid woman (they deserve each other)...because any smart person knows that, if you are a side chick, and you now take over his wife's duty (aka becomes his wife), then your old position as a side chick will be open to find new fresh younger applicants, duh!

you certainly CANNOT expect a man who cheated on his wife to be with you, to suddenly NOT cheat on you if/when you become his new wife, do you?!

EgunMogaji:
The she too will be replaced by yet another side chick.

There’s a limitless supply of women.

You have been replaced multiple times and you don’t even know it. Your type is very funny and delusional

There’s no secret to it. It happens because the man is an idiot who gave the woman a chance to get into his marriage. Before it got to the point of ‘stealing’ him, he was the one who wooed her and all what not. Nobody steals a person. They walk away when they want to. The evil narcissistic ones among them try to make it your fault.

dokiOloye:
There are more women than men in every country of the world.
If every Nigerian woman votes for a female president, its a done deal.

there are more men than women. Stop being ignorant

michael142:
Naija women lack sense. We can't allow people with 20% sense to rule men with 100% sense.

How about someone like you with 2% sense not be allowed to live with humans? Fvcking iimbecile

They are happy while their judges are miserable. What are you doing with your life? Live it and stop minding other’s lives so much

But guess what? We are not owing you food pictures. I find it funny that some people just walk in and demand food be posted (you’re like the 100th person who’s done that). Use YouTube , cook up something and post too. Don’t wait for me or jaguguli88 or chasers etc. alternatively you can go to catering school if this means that much to you. I don’t have problem with you using the thread in the ways you mentioned but coming here to call the same people you’re following hypocrites means they can’t be of service to you anymore.

Also, If you think that ewa guy was attacked unjustly, then I can’t take you seriously. Someone that was being continuously nasty to everyone. Do you know how many time he was ignored yet he kept being an A*hole. I don’t know what your angle is or why you think it’s hypocritical for someone to show care to someone they have disagreed or fought with.

In any case, you’re the one derailing the thread now. Bye

Tellemall:
I mentioned that some of us are here to motivate ourselves to cook in the post you quoted. There are different uses of the food thread and not all of them are about posting pictures of food. I can decide to drop in and like a really good post, then try it out myself or buy it.

What blanket shade? It's an observation. That was established in the first post on this.

This is not the place to validate guilt or insults. Neither is it the psychologists bench. This is the food thread.

Maybe you guys forgot.

I sometimes come here to see what you, chasers, jewelstone, jaguguli88 and mariangeles prepare then try to replicate it. Not pages of some online fight.

The one that discolors the water is beet

Purple skin potatoes are white inside like regular potatoes

flyca:
Oh, wow. Nice to know.
But what is the inside color of the purple potatoes.
Because what I presumed beets is purple/reddish inside. When cooked, it dis-colors the water to dark purple. Is it the same?

flyca:
Please can someone teach me a new way to enjoy beets (purple potatoes). I just do beets and stew like normal potatoes, but I believe there should be a munchier receipe for it. Anyone please.

Roast it in the oven; peel and dice/slice up for your salad. Use vinaigrette salad dressing not the creamy type of dressing: dried cranberries (found in stores) and carrots make a good addition too. Any greens of your choice is perfect and chicken or fish is the ideal protein for this type of salad. Enjoy

Caseless. Now this is a crime.

JewelStone:
When the inlaws come over for brunch...you make them happy

I’m your in-law. Why wasn’t I invited?

GoTV if people care about you, it doesn’t mean they can’t disagree with you. If they point out what’s wrong with your point of view, it’s not hypocrisy. Just take a step back and read their suggestions. At least one person among all of them will make sense. At least.

Right now, I don’t know you but I do care because I’ll be very saddened if you go through with your threats of hurting yourself or hurting everyone else.

That said, I still disagree with you. not on whatever caused your relationship to fail but on how you’re going about it and I won’t hesitate to tell you that. because, if you’re able to realize how you’re wrong, maybe you can make a few adjustments and hopefully the situation can be resolved in the most realistic way possible.

I think I will refrain from commenting on your matter henceforth. Just don’t hurt yourself or anyone else please. Take care

Caseless:
Cococandy

What’s my business with this?

MACDONALDuzoma:
that means u went to owerri gals dear. Chai what a wicked world

Yes I did. Head girl of 2007 set, so most of them will know me.

It is indeed a wicked world

Because you know your comment is stupid that’s why you don’t want anyone to quote you

Women don’t owe men sex. Motherfocka

ladiesreject:
Perverts every where.

But the mature girls are also not helping matters. I mean, why is it so difficult for them to allow men sex them? It is as a result of this difficulty that these perverts choosed to prey on the vulnerable.

Sex shouldn't be difficult to give out as a girl. Please, help men satisfy their urge and you'll be blessed beyond measure.

Just cut those mens' genitals and feed it to vultures, by doing that, the mature girls will hopefully start doing the needful if they have conscience.

On a serious note, girls, no de make man suffer cos of toto abeg. Haba!
Las Las e go still smell

Don't quote me please

Congrats to her for owning her truth

MissIndependent:
Taken with pounded yam.

that dry fish is worth a fortune.

chasers:
why? you don't wanna get fat..

not that. It’s not my favorite but I can eat it with some things like pizza, omelette and a few other things

chasers:
Very sweet you gonna love it,give a try

nope. I’m not really a fan of cheese

shaybebaby:
I knew you lived in Italy from your food.

Ricotta just confirmed it for me.

We have ricotta here too.

chasers:
Ricotta Cheese.. Thanks

cheese on pancakes? That’s new to me. Is it tasty?

So this your post is purely about food huh? So much for talking about going back to food without a single picture of food to back up your request. You could have posted a food picture. But you didn’t . Instead you choose to ignore the facts and throw blanket shade at people. Wow how appetizing. tell me if this one is breakfast or lunch.

Tellemall:
With their later responses of pity etc, why didn't they just ignore him? What was their point if they would regret it?

Bolded is the point of the earlier post.

It doesn't make sense. So many people who it didn't concern decided to join in and abuse him. Now they're all humble. This thread has more insults that the politics threads and we're not discussing ideologies here, just posting food.

This place is supposed to be about food and not people.

People fighting. People crying. People feeling inferior. People abusing people over food. People feeling superior. People posting pictures of people. People posting their meet up conversations. People. People. People.

Some of us come here to motivate ourselves to cook, not look at people or the inane details of their daily lives.

Can we just get back to food?

Guys Sorry for the derailment please
We just have to keep our brother here from doing anything drastic.

Here’s a salad to munch on in the meantime. Last night dinner.

Almond crusted seared salmon on a bed of kale, quinoa, chopped avocado, sweetened cranberries and sliced brussel sprouts tossed in vinaigrette (I didn’t like the brussel sprouts) but I liked everything else.

This house bread is why I go to the Cheesecake Factory. So yummy

GoTV:
Woman i can see you're based in America hence this your mentality cos their law seems to favor women. Why would i be denied access to my children for God's sake?

you shouldn’t be denied access to your kids. You’re their father. And the law does not favor women here. It does what’s fair (for the most part). You know as they say “to the oppressor, equality seems like oppression”. GoTV Don’t be that guy.

This is Africa where men call almost all the shots in marriage.

Well that is absolutely wrong and unfair: you should have realized it too. I’m glad times are changing. Get with it

So I'm expected to continue paying their bills but can't have full access to them. Isn't that enough wickedness?

No it’s not wickedness. You pay the kids bills like a regular dad who loves his children would. You get equal access to them as she does. She takes care of them like a regular mom would (which FYI is usually more hard work than sending money). You will both be doing your jobs as their parents, and get to have them in your lives as much as is fair to you both and not disruptive for them.

What if she decides to remarry so another man will raise my kids according to his beliefs cos definitely the mother will want them in the same roof with her.

Have you thought about what if you remarry? Wouldn’t the kids get a new woman in their lives who has different ideas than their mom? Well it’s the same thing here. Unfortunately that’s one of the costs of getting a divorce. On the bright side, blended families can also be beneficial to children once they get over the pain of the divorce. You and your new wife, she and her new husband all get to raise your kids whenever it’s your turn to have them.

I have families that can take care of them if everyone dies. I understand your position, but sometimes desperate times calls for desperate actions.

That’s less beneficial than having new step parents. At least one of the original parents will always be in the family with them if everyone lives.

It’s your pride talking now rather than your sense of what’s best for your kids. Keep your pride at bay and agree to share custody with your ex. You will see how easily that solves your problem.