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jagugu88li:
1-3 helped teach him how to bake
4 - his cake......why is chopped on the sides...no idea. Story is his kitchen looked like a playground after everything.

Respect55:
Financially and otherwise.

Nihilstjnr:
If you think abuse is the reason for this mess, you're clearly in denial or deluded.

The alleged abuse is a symptom of the a much deeper malaise in the marriage - the wife had clearly recognised her husband's capability for greed and cruelty.

If you're able to analyse properly, you can see that at every stage, this woman took steps to protect her investment because she knows who she married.

They made money together, but hubby decides he wants to use joint profits to fly his dad out of the country for medical treatment, as well as build a house for his parents. The woman realises that this man is ready to take full control of, and squander their joint funds, so she demands a split.

A sensible man with kids would know that his first priority is to his kids and would have first focused on putting a roof over his children's head. Instead he left his kids under rain and went to build a house for his parents. No surprise he walked away from those kids in the end.

Next, the woman builds the house in her name, again because she knows who she married. If you genuinely think that it's a mere coincidence that the man tried to order her out of the house, then I have a bridge to sell you.

Think about it, the man is claiming to be annoyed that the deeds weren't in both their names, yet he stold her to get out of a house, where as far as he knew at the time, she was listed as a co-owner anyway.

This is a guy who wasn't concerned about her rights in the first place, and the woman clearly recognised these tendencies and took steps to protect her neck.

Steps that have been justified in the end.

I believe there's a lot that hasn't been said yet, but if you think that her insulting his parents is what triggered this wahala, then mehn...you're inexperienced in life.

Nihilstjnr:
A man can fly abroad with his father, but walk away from his kids at the drop of a hat.

He can build a home for his parents with his money, but contribute only a little towards housing his own family.

That sounds like someone who's preoccupied with being a child...Instead of being a father.

That's even beside the point. What is clear to me is that the woman saw this coming and wisely protected her investment.

when you consider that:
1. he tried to kick her out of the house and
2. he's now demanding full ownership of a house he admits to contributing very little to.

it's obvious that her move was justified.

Sensible people will be asking how she was capable of such foresight... I'm sure in her heart of hearts, she knew since day 1 that she was married to a monster.

Caseless:
you've not done any of the listed before? Say God....

toprealman:
how are u meatpie maker

Pipedreams:
You always comment like a fool, A bitter feminist that has been hurt to death. May God heal your bruised soul.

Respect55:
It's obvious u r frustrated. I can help u.

Respect55:
Seems you hold the destiny of nairalanders in ur palm,lol.So who do I think is wrong here?
Take ur bitterness somewhere else abeg

Earthbound:
But you sef, you made it sound like you're pained. No need to engage these niggas na. No matter how much you try, you can't win.

Toks2008:
Soro niyen

elektra:
I don't know why you are referring your version as the true story, this is the exact story your wife told us.

Now let's be honest with each other, I know you know that the document should not be changed to your name ONLY.
She put in 100% of her part of the profit into that house. You split yours into three, contributed a lot less than she did. Why do you feel you deserve to have your name ONLY on the document? Why aren't you asking for both your names on the document?

You are planning to take away something very precious to your wife (her kids) because you want to cheat her out of the house.
You know your wife will probably choose her kids over the house, aren't you being wicked?
So this is how your wife will entirely lose out of that business that she worked so hard for?
Once she changes the document to your name, you will own both your parent's house and the house your wife built. And she will have nothing to show for her sweat

You claim you did not mean it when you asked her to leave the house. I don't believe it, because if you can cheat her entirely out of her efforts like this then you likely meant what you said

jmoore:
It is only in Nigeria,one would tell you that second-hand tyre is better than brand-new. Hian!!

Mine means something and I am keeping it for myself.

Respect55:
I understand ur pain

OfficialSam:
So you lost yours too?
No wonder

Caseless:
Cococandy people

Caseless:
"remember our deek leads us to all sorts of crime"?

This innocent janitor is about to lose his job because someone with a hole in between her legs is on the loose.

Abbeybailey:
I am telling our guys now in Chicagoland that they shouldn't rely on their PR Card any more. He's going after Africans, Carribeans and Hispanics revoking Green cards and deporting massively. I grew up in Chicago and i remember Late Jerry Falwell and Pat Buchanan telling Americans about Browning of America. That's trump's agenda. The MAGA stands for Make America White Again. This Trump is not only a bigot, he's a vile racist. I was coming from South Africa in March and stopped in Lagos for few days to see my parents and on coming back to Chicago through Air France, two people with Green Card were detained at Ohare Airport by CBP. That's Trump America and that's why the racists are showing their faces unashamed.

Abbeybailey:
If you want to see how much of a vile racist our president is, just Google Central Park Five and see that the blood of racism is running through his veins. I remember the case just like yesterday because those five minorities were about the same age with me.

Abbeybailey:
Those guys hailing the racist pig don't even know the pig doesn't give a fvck about them. 99.9% of Trump supporters on Nairaland have never step their feet on an American soil. If Trump doesn't care about the Blacks and Hispanics in his country, I can safely assure them that Trump doesn't give a flying hoot about them 7.000 miles away.

coluka:
Learn to think for yourself and stop vomiting verbatim what you have been spoonfed by the loser dems and fake news liberal media

els0nm0rali:
Well not as beautiful as you. IN MY OPINION.

Bomgirl:
Sorry, I had already typed it somewhere so I just screenshot it.

Rhemy2013:
My sis,this one done pass research oh

HajimeSaito:


You found yourself in a world class university where your status as a local champion celebrity in Nigeria counts for nothing and where there are no handouts or sex for marks. Tough luck.

Liftedhands:
Amen feeling sleepy sef! Ekene ngwa climb back let's go home.