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IslamRe: Prayers For Couples Trying To Conceive A Child (TTC) by Cocodiva: 6:46pm On May 14, 2013
phewme: @coco diva, I am based in lagos. I was there yesterday but was told they relocated a while back. I was unable to get their new address
What !!! They've relocated? OMG ! Its been a while I've been there.But don't worry,all hope is not lost.I used to have their number but I changed my phone.Though I still have the old phone but the battery is bad.I'l see if I can get a battery to slot into it so I can retrieve the number for you.let's hope the number is still in use.Or better still,I still have the hospital card,which should have the numbers of other branches(I hope).but its in another location which I may not get to in about 2weeks.But don't worry,we must locate them by force by fire (lols).I'l try my best to get it for you.just hold on for about a week or two inshaAllah.takia dear
CelebritiesRe: Angelina Jolie Reveals Double Mastectomy (Bosom Removal) by Cocodiva: 2:44pm On May 14, 2013
adexsimply: you guys shuld learn how to read!!! the BR3ASTS are not gone!!!
Read carefully again.the b.o.o.b.s cells have been removed and replaced with expanders.its not the conventional slicing off of the B. Normally done for those that already have the disease.its a recent form of B. Re-construction.
@post,Angie is one tough woman.Good move.what's the point of keeping them B.s when they can harm you in the nearest future.
PoliticsRe: Fulani Herdsmen Kill Over 50 In Agatu, Benue State by Cocodiva: 9:58am On May 14, 2013
Fulani fulani fulani everywhere. What is it with this people spilling blood everywhere they go. And where did they get guns from? angry
TravelRe: Can I Travel From Lagos To Us By Sea?how Much? by Cocodiva: 1:23pm On May 13, 2013
@ OP , If really you've obtained a valid Visa,its very possible to travel by sea to the US.Though not from Nigeria cos we don't have cruise ship available yet.You can go via Europe. Except you want to go with a cargo ship which is not advisable due to lack of comfort and safety.Travelling by sea is not as dangerous as people are making it seem,it just could be long and boring.
IslamRe: Prayers For Couples Trying To Conceive A Child (TTC) by Cocodiva: 11:46am On May 13, 2013
phewme: @ coco diva, my dear sister, thank you so much for the info. May Almighty Allah grant each and everyone of us our heart desires. Amin
You're welcome dearie, amin to your dua. Wishing you all the best with it. Keep us posted on how it goes. Hope you are based in Lagos.if not, venuss and I have mentioned other states where they are.
IslamRe: Prayers For Couples Trying To Conceive A Child (TTC) by Cocodiva: 11:40am On May 13, 2013
VENUSS: Asalamaleikum , just taught to add that they also have the korean hospital in kaduna around angwa Rimi or so, I have not been there but I ve seen the sign post several time when passing by.
Wa alykum salam. That's great ! Din't know that.Though am aware they have their main branch in Benin, Edo state. Guess they are getting higher success and hence expanding. Madam, where have you been? Hope you're doing great? Have you decided on when you're starting your new cycle? May Allah make it easy-amin
IslamRe: Prayers For Couples Trying To Conceive A Child (TTC) by Cocodiva:
phewme: @coco diva, pls where did you do accupunture? If it is here in Nigeria, pls can you give me the address. Thanks so much.
Yes it was here in Nigeria.KNH, Unity street Ikeja. Its Korea-Nigeria hospital.Its run by Koreans. Its pricey though but was well worth it.For female fertility,its a complete package of accupuncture session,cupping session,massage and electical stimmulation of the uterine-ovarian axis.And they give herbs too.and you know cupping was recommended by the prophet too.Its very effective if you don't have any underlying issues.Atleast I know of a sister that used them and got her BFP after trying for 2years..Hope this helps!
IslamRe: The Difference Between "Islam" And A "Muslim" by Cocodiva: 7:24am On May 12, 2013
maclatunji: The only understanding they get of posts is that which suits their arguments.
You are right
IslamRe: The Difference Between "Islam" And A "Muslim" by Cocodiva: 9:17pm On May 11, 2013
GooseBaba: Bros..! When Joseph kony and boko haram dey operate at least we know this bastards are out for blood. But when common drawing from another continent about a Muslim prophet can trigger the death of Christians and other bystander. You have to agree with me there is a problem. When coco diva agrees that it is good enough reason to kill someone because they disrespect her prophet. That is a problem...when fatua is issued because on writes something that is offensive to Islam.. Bros! There is a problem...am I right? Or am I right..? Bros... Talk truth..
Its either you could not grasp my intended message in the previous post or you've chosen to delibrately mis-quote me.Well,for the sake of clarity,I did not support the action of the person trying to kill you because of your blasphemous utterances.I only pointed out the fact that we all are different in our temperament and ways of expressing anger in different situations.And that it was wrong of you to have said that as no peace-loving individual would purposefully incite others for whatever reason.I will never support the killing of people based on personal judgement.Islam does not permit killing people without just cause.I hope this puts you straight
IslamRe: The Difference Between "Islam" And A "Muslim" by Cocodiva: 1:36pm On May 11, 2013
novicali: That they were wearing cross does not in any way make them Christians, the Christians that spread the gospel never killed anybody to do that
That they were wearing cross probably makes them muslims. Right?
IslamRe: The Difference Between "Islam" And A "Muslim" by Cocodiva: 12:47pm On May 11, 2013
Kairoseki77: These books are written for eternity. They are supposed to be followed for an eternity. Each line is supposed to be an eternal truth, directly from an eternal God.

Historical context shouldn't matter.

You are making excuses. You are being dishonest. You can no more claim "historical context" about those quotes than you can about the parts of the Quran that command Muslims to not eat pork.
So because its mean't for eternity,it shouldn't be relevant to the present time of its revealation? If you don't know where you're coming from,how would you know where you're going? Nobody should doubt the relevance of history if such a person is serious about his existence.
IslamRe: The Difference Between "Islam" And A "Muslim" by Cocodiva: 12:00pm On May 11, 2013
GooseBaba: So the reason in question is good enough for killing someone abi? And you are educated and you reason like the mayguard that made that attempt. I Rest my case..!!!

Mod: what is with all this hidden post..?
I have not said its enough reason.If you are half as educated as you seem to believe you are,you'l understand the point I made simply put, is "let sleeping dogs lie". Ever wondered why you'l insult someone's father and he'l simply say same to you and another will break a bottle on your head in response? Figure it out!
IslamRe: The Difference Between "Islam" And A "Muslim" by Cocodiva: 10:19pm On May 10, 2013
GooseBaba: [font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]

Back in 95 one of your brethren (northern muslim) tried to bury his dagger in my chest..because I made a joke about his prophet. Is that not enough reason to be on guard around Muslims? Including southern Muslims ...
Read over what you typed again. You made a "joke" about his prophet! A muslim does not joke about any aspect of his religion.This is different from you sitting quietly in your house and him bringing his dagger to kill you for no reason.The same thing is happening here on NL.people should learn to respect other people's faith!
IslamRe: The Difference Between "Islam" And A "Muslim" by Cocodiva: 10:08pm On May 10, 2013
babaolofin: Muslim Brother (Engr. Alfa),

I like your observation about some comments made by people on this forum. However, I disagreed with your position on the difference between Islam and Muslim when you quoted Ahmed Deedat that I have known to have grossly misquoted bible so severely to the extent of making himself the worst jihadist this generation has ever witnessed. There is no iota of truth on his preaching which is mainly based on discrediting the bible and the christian. I have never seen anybody in the christian fold that has made discrediting Al-Quran and Muhammed (S.A.W)his focal point. Millions of Nairalanders may not know anything about him, he is a man that has made discrediting Jesus and New testament his focal point. He claimed to know bible inside out and misquote bible and make mockery of Jesus to the admiration of his co-travelers who are very ignorant of the bible, Jesus and the holy spirit.
You really don't need to lie to prove your point. Ahmed Deedat would never make a mockery of Jesus. And contrary to your point of saying he talks to ignorant ones,he has had several religious dialogues with chrissians and pastors out of which some have accepted Islam.What he does is to bring out contradictions in the bible and not to make any mockery.stop mis-informing the public!
IslamRe: The Difference Between "Islam" And A "Muslim" by Cocodiva: 9:48pm On May 10, 2013
Bonapart: Muslim? Terrible religion
Going by your post, your religion is worse.
IslamRe: The Difference Between "Islam" And A "Muslim" by Cocodiva: 9:36pm On May 10, 2013
Kairoseki77: A Muslim is the person that kills you, Islam is the reason.
So why haven't you been killed ever since? Are there no muslims in the community you reside in? Same goes for those people that "liked" your post
RomanceRe: ''I Slept With My Brother-in-law By Mistake'' by Cocodiva: 6:09pm On May 10, 2013
This story is obviously not true!
IslamRe: The Difference Between "Islam" And A "Muslim" by Cocodiva: 6:00pm On May 10, 2013
@Op , Nice post.
IslamRe: Prayers For Couples Trying To Conceive A Child (TTC) by Cocodiva:
Asalam alykum my darling sisters in the house.Barka jumah.May Allah,the most Merciful of all those who show mercy have mercy on us and grant our Dua,grant all of us precious fruits of the wombs that will be the comfort of our eyes-amin.
Firstly,I'm indeed very happy today cos I got good news that my friend and sister in Islam just put to bed a bouncing baby boy after 6 years of trying! This raised my hopes a lot and put re-assurances in my heart that its just a matter of time before ours come.let's remain patient and steadfast my sisters cos Allah will respond to us not only because of our efforts,but because He is Allah who can do all things.May He grant us pious offsprings sooner than we expect.
@Rainyday,congratulations to you today as you add another year.May Allah,who has brought you this far continue to be with you.Grant you long life in good health and in safety and all of the good things of this life and hereafter.And by this time next year make you celebrate with your twins(abi na triplets)-amin.I changed my diet.I stopped sugar completely and now take more fruits and veggies.I maintain this till now.I blend fruits and veggies everyday and i exercise.I did all of them one after the other so I don't even know which did the trick.if you need more info on any one ,let me know.
@Amazeballs,I'm so in love with this your e-cake o.I don't mind a slice actually. I hope its sugar-free sha.lol
@AmatuRahman,hope you'r doing wonderful.pls let's hear the good news o.May Allah be with you
IslamRe: Prayers For Couples Trying To Conceive A Child (TTC) by Cocodiva:
Asalam alykum dear sisters hope we're all doing great?May Allah ease our task-amin.
@Rainyday,your cycle is regular going by your description.its not clockwork 28 days doesn't mean its irregular.As long as it visits you monthly,its good.
Your day 3 blood work however,may be on the borderline of fair and high.Depending on the grade used by your clinic.Each clinic has its own interpretation used in their grading.its relative,you'l get the appropriate grading from your clinic.but its definately not a bad figure.some women get way higher than that and still get pregnant.May Allah grant us our heart desires and bless us in them-amin
CultureRe: PFN, Anambra Community Bicker Over Killing Of Snake by Cocodiva: 1:28pm On May 07, 2013
saintneo: EKE NEKWA ONYE UKA ~ PYTHON, CHRISTIAN HERE

I was born and raised in Anambra, I have always known of this tradition in Anambra. These snakes visit home stay with children without harming them. I have never heard of a case where there was injury or death as a result of this snake. In my place in Enugu, there is snake we don't kill as well ~ Awgo Ocha(White Snake) usually small in size.

Somehow, there seems to be an equilibrium between these snakes and their communities. It is the same equilibrium we have with other animals like dogs. Also, these snakes could be endangered species.

I'm against the killing of this snake. Firstly, this snake was sleeping in the children's room. For the snake to be sleeping, it means the snake had being there for longer period without harming anyone. Why didn't the pastor secure his children first before seeking its destruction? Why didn't the pastor show any mercy?
Your analysis is scary o ! So the man should have left the snake to continue sleeping in his children's room and moved the children outside for safety? In a house he's paying rent on ! Or left the children there for the snake to baby-sit. Nawa o
IslamRe: Prayers For Couples Trying To Conceive A Child (TTC) by Cocodiva: 5:18pm On May 06, 2013
Asalam alykum all.
@Tbaby4real,you're welcome to this forum.May Allah grant our requests.
@Beetle,that your alfa na sophisticated one o.lol using skype and emails.That is why the prophet SAW said every innovation is in the hell fire.Allah perfected this religion in the life time of the prophet Q5:3 so whatever was not done or approved by the prophet and his companions in their lifetime is not part of Islam.And we should not do it.Those things he gave you to chant were never sanctioned by the prophet in any hadith.ya Hafeez more than eleven thousand times! Subhanallah.it was not even the practice of the prophet to be calling Allah's name endlessly without adding his request immediately.As long as we stay within the confines of the sunnah we'l be safe and sound inshaAllah.he just wants to keep you busy with problems so that you'l keep having use for him and keep giving him money.He's probably making his own efforts using your name etc to send those things to you may Allah help us.Those people are full of deception.I'v heard of the case of a lady seeking a husband who went to an alfa.the alfa gave her something to use.The next thing we saw was the lady becoming the alfa's wife.even though he already had other women in his house!These powers exist no doubt but those people using them have sold their souls to shaitan and are just making efforts to decieve people and also ruin their lives.please don't even speak to him again.let alone skype him.continue with the duas and you'l be victorious inshaAllah.it'l pass.and intensify tahajjud cos it is at that time the jinns are active.Allah'l safeguard you by His mercy.
@Amazeballs,your experience with the mallam was a funny one.lols
IslamRe: Prayers For Couples Trying To Conceive A Child (TTC) by Cocodiva: 12:02pm On May 06, 2013
Asalam alykum All.Hope we'r all doing fyn.
@Rainyday,so sorry AF reared her ugly head on a happy day for you.Take heart cos Allah knows and would do the best for us in good time.your experience on your trip was hilarious.
@AmatuRahman,glad to hear you'r doing good.may Allah make it a success.
@Beetle,my dear sister,hmm..this is really a thing.I'v lived in Lagos for a very long time and I can assure you stuff happens.My sincere advise for you as a sister in Islam and a fellow TTC person is to steer clear of any alfa or whatever the likes of them call themselves.They cos you nothing more than troubles and heartache infact,they make you commit shirk to Allah.which is the highest injustice one can do to one's soul.whatever prayers this so-called alfa gave you invited the jinns to you and increased your predicament cos jinns are very difficult to deal with once they have their attention on you cos they see us but we can't see them.forget about him saying your MIL is responsible cos these people tell a lot of lies to make you believe them(both jinns and alfas)the prophet SAW said in a hadith that the jinns say one truth and add 99 lies to it.Visiting this people has destroyed a lot of homes I tell you.where one member will be implicated in being the cause of another's problem.I'v seen one very close to me happen.you shouldn't even be patronising such places cos the prophet SAW sai whoever visits a soothsayer and believes whatever he says will not have his salah accepted for 40 days.its a very serious issue which should not be taken lightly.Don't allow TTC drive you to commit shirk to Allah.pls don't despair of the mercy of Allah cos its only Allah that can grant children none other than Him can do it.Allah says in the Quran that all other people you call on for help and assistance don't have power to o anything,they can't even help themselves.if a fly were to take from their food they can't even get it back.so please let's be wary of all these things.don't take adise and suggestions from everybody.only people that are islamicaly upright and have the fear of Allah.(Referring to the person that referre the alfa to you).right now,re-proclaim your shahada,stop the prayers the alfa gave you,repent to Allah sincerely,regret ever involving in this act,free your mind of evil tots towards your MIL and commit to Allah in prayers.Make sure to do the morning and evening recommended supplications in fortress of the muslim book(try and get it if you don't have one)so as to free yourself from the jinns and recite or play surah baqarah in your home always.please don't allow this episode to break your marriage.cos it could! Enough said.
IslamRe: Prayers For Couples Trying To Conceive A Child (TTC) by Cocodiva:
Asalam alykum my fabulous mothers-to-be (very soon inshaAllah) . How are you all doing? Hope we're all holding up well cos our bambinos are on their way already (positive vibes). Barka jumah, may we witness more of it-amin
@Zeezzy,lols.I can totally relate with your post.Its crazy I tell you.I can guaranty you the ring thing makes no difference to some of them.Some men are just weird chasers.may Allah help us cos some men are just lustful creatures.And just like you too,I always wish I had two children carrying all around which would prevent those men from coming close.That's another prayer point o my sister!let's mention it to Allah so that he'l grant us those chilren fast.lol
@naffysah,you can go ahead with your IVF.its still safe to start folic and other vitamins shortly after conception cos our bodies have a store of those things anyway.As long as you eat well balanced diet you're good.the natural tendency is for the body to pull from the reserve for the baby first so taking them will replenish your reserve.you can start now but don't delay your IVF for it.may Allah make it a success for you and all of us-amin.
@all,may Allah grant our duas very soon.@amatuRahman,hope you're doing great?its a done deal biithnillah
IslamRe: Islam is Against Wife Oppression by Cocodiva: 10:25pm On Apr 26, 2013
[quote author=Okija_juju]Officer Shun!!!!






grin What a wonderful world..
[/quote]There is no compulsion in religion.therefore for you your religion and for us our religion.our Islam is ours,the Quran is our manual and we live our lives by it.we are not apologetic about any verse or word in it.if you choose not to understand the explanations that have been offered to you,so be it.Allah is not ashamed to tell us to truth,therefore,we shall never be ashamed to tell you kristians the truth about our religion.
IslamRe: The Muslim’s Guide To A Successful Job Interview. by Cocodiva: 9:56pm On Apr 26, 2013
This is a nice one with good insights and powerful reminders.but unfortunately ,muslim ladies in hijab are usually being discriminated against due to the hijab.even when they are clearly qualified for the position.This has compelled some sisters to drop the hijab or "modify" it.may Allah help us
IslamRe: Muslim Inspired Fashion In China by Cocodiva: 9:24pm On Apr 26, 2013
dare2think: Then I guess Islamic countries are the most moral in the world!!
Yes of course. Got a contrary opinion ?
IslamRe: Muslim Inspired Fashion In China by Cocodiva: 5:29pm On Apr 26, 2013
PapaBrowne: Let me put things in better perspective.

Why are there countless mosques in United states,UK and other Chhristian nations worldwide, but In Saudi Arabia churches are not allowed. In Qatar Churches are not allowed.
Why do muslims want the right to wear the hijab everywhere they go and wouldnt allow non muslims dress the way they want in their own countries?
Like it or not,Islam came to standardize everything that came before it.it is the yardstick of the muslims.So, a muslim uses the Quranic teachings to regulate his/her life.A muslim does not believe in freedom of everything he/she does in life.He weighs it by the teachings of the Quran.so if the Quran orders muslim women to dress in a modest way to guard both the women and men of that society from immoral acts why in the world would the government allow non-muslim women in that same place to dress "as they like"? Figure it out.
IslamRe: Prayers For Couples Trying To Conceive A Child (TTC) by Cocodiva: 1:15pm On Apr 26, 2013
Asalam alykum my dear sisters. Barka jumah. May Allah make us witness many more and grant us all the benefits inherent in it- amin.
Hope we're all doing good. May Allah grant us our heart desires soonest. Much love to all
Christianity EtcRe: UK Priest Allows Muslims To Pray In His Church, Hit By Abuse On Facebook by Cocodiva: 1:20pm On Apr 25, 2013
Lilimax: How come the Moslems are following suit tongue. The most annoying part is the noise from the loudspeakers coming out fron the mosque every morning...
Why do you harbour so much hate in your heart? So there is no noise coming from the loudspeakers when Xtians worship?
Car TalkRe: The Audi And Volkswagen Issues Resolution Thread by Cocodiva: 12:38pm On Apr 25, 2013
dazz4me: @Coco diva, I sent him message already, may be he is busy he will definitely respond when he has time I know him for that.
Okay , thanks for that.Hope he visits soon.
Christianity EtcRe: UK Priest Allows Muslims To Pray In His Church, Hit By Abuse On Facebook by Cocodiva: 10:47am On Apr 25, 2013
Right step in the right direction. A good example of a tolerant christian.

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