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Asalam alykum all. Just a reminder ;
Through calamity the believer seeks reward, through hardship, sins are wiped away and our status is elevated before Allah and there's no way to attain it but through patience.
"And surely,We shall try you till We test those who strive hard and the As-Sabirun(patient) and We shall test your facts." Q47:31
May Allah make it easy for us-amin

rainyday: Salam alaykum my lovely sisters!!! I hope we r all doing great. Its bn a while. Af gave me a red carpet welcome on d 1st of june ... Hmm. What can I say. I have decided not to stress myself much and improve on my closeness to Allah SWT...so no more thots of ttc,jst taking each day one step @ a time. I pray Allah makes dis journey easy for us all. @ Beetle...u r welcome. May Allah accept it as an act of ibadah and grant u ur hrt desires. Thanks for praying for us. @Beloved,coco diva,zeezy,AmatuRahman,venuss,safe06,phewme,Amazeballs,naffysa,onono planet,abibby,monyinoluwa and all....may Allah bless each n everyone of u and make ur affairs easy for u. Amin. Love u all. Ma salam

Amin. Love you too honey. Just relax,take a break to refresh and rejuvenate and get back into the game cos your BFP is around the corner inshaAllah. Put your trust in Allah and you'l find Him sufficient for you.

@amatuRahman, missed you. My network has been haywire.would get back ASAP

Assalam alaykun wa rahmatullah wa barakatu sisters.@beetle,may Allah accept it as an act of Ibadah and grant all the duas made therein-Amin. @ beloved,don't worry your body will definitely cooperate when Allah wills it to.very soon you will get your miracle BFP. @all,may Allah grant all our heart desires and bless us in them-amin

maclatunji: The love being shown amongst you ladies on this thread is so beautiful and admirable. May Almighty Allah answer your prayers very soon.

. Amin brother.

Asalam alykum sisters.Hope we're all doing fine.just thought i should post this as a reminder
"worrying is like a rocking chair;it keeps you busy but gets you no where"
The prophet(SAW) said:"No muslim supplicates to Allah that does not involve sin or cutting the relations of the womb,but Allah will grant him one of the three things.He will either hasten the response to his supplication,save it for him until the hereafter,or would turn an equivalent amount of evil away from him".The companions asked,"what if we keep requesting from Allah?" He replied,"there is more with Allah".(At-Tirmidhi)
So lets keep up the faith that our supplications are being heard by the "All-hearing" and being treated accordingly.And very soon inshaAllah they would materialise the way we want them to-amiin
When we supplicate,lets put the following into consideration...
Ask for anything and everything halal
start and finish with praising Allah and sending blessings upon the prophet(SAW)
Start the dua with yourself and work your way down to the other people you would like to pray for
Remember to ask for forgiveness,pray for guidance and jannah and other muslims
The prophet(SAW)would sometimes raise his hands when making dua at the time of dire needs
Being humble as opposed to shouting and being aggressive
Be confident that Allah will answer your prayers for Allah does not respond to a disinterested,negligent heart.
Use legislated duas-like prophet Yunus prayer when he was trapped in the belly of the fish,prophet Ibrahim prayers when he was thrown in the fire etc in the Qur'an
May Allah grant our duas quicker than we hope-amiin

phewme: @coco diva. I will like to send u a mail. This is my email address phewme12@gmail.com. I will really appreciate it if u can send me a mail. Thank you

I've PM you.check your mail dear.

zeezzy: page 129 of the book 'evil eye'. THE SPELL OF INFERTILITY.
Allah may destine by fate dat His servant remain barren.No human or jinn effort can change this.But if a certain physiological problem accounts for infertility,then a medical attention can be sought.In a situation where infertility is inflicted by the devil,jinn or through sorcery,the spiritual healing prescribed by Allah and His messenger can be appropriately employed.Some scholars of sunnah have identified d following symptoms of demonic infertility:chest pains which may be more severe especially after the Asr period and towards evening or night hour;nightmare or restlessness in sleep;psychological stress and severe headaches or migraines e.t.c
A woman who is taken as a spouse by the jinn or perhaps admired by a certain demon may suffer this spell.She may experience a pleasurable demonic intercourse in her dream or even a twilight in state,which may consequently result in a pregnancy conception for the jinn,without having the feeling in real life,while she may also continue to see herself giving birth to children in her dream.She is of course seen in the world of jinns as a wife and those children are taken to be demonic kids,fathered by her husband-demon.However,a jinn propelled by a way of sorcery to effect infertility in a woman may on the other hand exist in her blood stream,and each time the woman experiences a pregnancy conception,the jinn appears in her dream,kicking her in the womb so that she may experience a flow of the demonic blood stream.
The healing is very simple,only if the patient can be faithful to Allah and trust the efficacy of His words:[b]Listen to the ruqyah cassette thrice daily;read suratul saafat every morning or listen to it;and read suratul maa'aarij during bedtime or listen to it.Then recite the following in some oil of black cummin[habbatu sauda]:Aayatu Qursiyy,the last verses of suratul Baqarah[284-286],the last verse of Suratul Al-Imran[190-200];Suratul falaq and Suratul Naas-all of which must be recited 7 or 70 times[each]in the oil of black cummin[abbatu saudah].The patient should rub her chest,ribs bone and forehead with it every night while retiring to bed.
All of the ruqyah verses[just mentioned]should also be recited in a bottle of honey - from which you take a spoonful every morning,on rising from the bed and swallowed with it the early morning or [pre-fajr] saliva.This healing process should continue for 45 days,with the condition that the patient would strictly adhere to the divine comands and abstain totally from sin as much as he can.Shaykh Baaly confirmed that a number of patients have been cured of infertility,through this means.To Allah be the glory.[/b]

This is awesome and expository information.May Allah reward you for this.jazakallahu khairan.Now my mind is at rest with it.May Allah make it easy for us to do it-amin

Asalam alykum all.hope we're all doing fine? May Allah ease our task-amin.
@Zeezy,were you able to get a quranic or hadith reference from the imaam that gave you the dua?or have you been able to confirm elsewhere afterwards? Cos its good one gets such a sanction from the Qur'an or hadith lest one falls into bid'ah unknowingly.May Allah guard us against such.I'v also tried consulting learned ustaz about it but no one has been able to confirm the source.we all should try and consult the learned ustaz we know so that we can confirm it.may Allah be with us all and crown all our efforts with success-amin

Asalam alykum sisters.Reading through all of these write-ups made me emotional and close to tears.But what can I say? We're all humans and its natural to feel sad and downcast when things are not going our way.But then,we should also remember that we have a God that is capable of all things and He is Monyashau.He does things how he wills and He knows best.This just brings to mind the story of the companions in the battle of badr.when the muslims were being killed despite their small population and they were asking the prophet "when will the help of Allah come"? And Allah responded via a revealation in the Qur'an "verily the help of Allah is near".My sisters,indeed the help of Allah is near.when events get to the climax,it surely must come down.when things get extremely difficult,be rest-assured that the solution is nearby.I feel bad too cos I was really hoping on AmatuRahman's BFP and looking forward to her telling us the goodnews only to hear otherwise but who are we in the know?cos only Allah knows all things.A muslim is one who soldiers on after a fall.cos he knows that all his affairs are good for him.so let's take heart and move on being happy and hopeful of Allah's mercy.we actually have a lot to be thankful for.our lives,our well-being,our marriages(some women lost their marriages after trying for just 2years),even being able to afford going to hospitals to seek treatment is a blessing in itself cos some people cannot even afford it.so let's remain thankful cos Allah says when we're thankful He'l bless us more.pls AmatuRahman,Rainyday,Zeezzy,Beloved1993,Phewme and all.Allah will be with us all.

AmatuRahman: @ coco diva, 've received your mail and 've replied.

I've seen the mail and also replied.

AmatuRahman: @ coco diva dear i did the blood test today and is negative. I actually started spotting (brown) yesterday and bleeding today .
Jazakallahu khairan sis. I just sent you a mail,ve u received it.

I just changed the password to my e-mail.so I dint get it.pls re-send it.thanks

Wa alykum salam,AmatuRahman dear so sorry to hear this news. Did you do a blood test or you POAS? Cos there are times you may not get a BFP early in your test and after some weeks,you get a BFP.just try and re-test after some time.But whichever way it turns out,Allah knows best.Just put your trust in Him.He knows what's best for us and at the right time He'l make it come about.

@Rainyday,you're welcome.
@Zeezy,you've been silent,hope you're good? May Allah be with us all-amin

VENUSS: @cocodiva, does the site you got the supplements from offer shipping service or you heard to use a shipping coy?

Actually,I used fertilityshop.com and they don't ship directly to Nigeria.DH's colleague was in the U.S at the time so she got it for us.But there are other sites that stock the same items that can ship to Nigeria.e.g herbstock.com

@Rainyday,my dear I'v responded to your post in one of the previous posts.I did a lot..so you can give it a try.Though its not available in Nigeria and you'l have to order it online.All the best on it.and you can ask for clarifications on anything.I'l be glad to answer.

Asalam alykum all.Hope we're all holding up?May Allah grant us our heart desires soon.
@Phewme,sweetie so sorry about your miscarrige.wow,and to think you were not even expecting it.This goes to show that we shouldn't lose hope at any point in time.On the other hand,its good news o.That's your body sending you a message that you can do it on your own with just a little push.I think you'r a perfect candidate for KNH.what your body needs is just all natural support not plenty drugs.just have a little rest and re-try cos chances of a BFP after a miscarriage are higher because of high levels of hormones at that time.Miscarriages are fairly common.though not mainly due to stress but also other factors like chromosomal abberations and malformations.its just the body's way of getting rid of what's not coming right.so still thank Allah.it could also be due to low progesterone levels which is essential for the support of the growing foetus.so,this just shows how you should pay more attention after every ovulation.so that you can follow up with your doc.immediately.May Allah replace this loss with that which is better-amin.takia of you

Love him or hate him, governour Fashola is a trailblazer in Nigeria. Eko o ni Baje o !

@Beloved1993,Alhamdulilah that you had treatment when you did.The gift of life is the most precious.Also you need to be in the best form of health to carry those twins inshaAllah.so it all happened for good.I assure you DH's stress was not wasted,its an investment cos nothing we do in the way of good will ever go to waste as Allah has assured us in the Qur'an.And I use this medium to pray for all of us also that Allah in His infinite mercy reward all of our efforts so far on this TTC journey with healthy twins and triplets that will be the comfort of our eyes-amin

Asalam alykum.Beloved1993,so sorry to hear that.May Allah grant you quick recovery and healing.Allah knows why it happened and its always for the best even though we may not understand at that point in time.May He cleanse your shortcomings due to it-amin.May Allah be with you.

Asalam alykum dear sisters,
@Amazeballs,may Allah make it easy for you.Just take it one step at a time.
@Venuss,as regards your question,I think it depends on the person involved,some people are more easily stressed than others.So for such people,they really need to slow down and take things easy.But for others,they can do things like they normally do.I'v even read a research that says its even better for women who do IVF to do normal daily activities and mild exercises that it aids implantation! Suprise suprise.But above all,like you said "what will be ,will be" cos whatever Allah decides,nothing can change.
May Allah bless us all-amin

babyosisi: Finally @ tunshe,chew on this





It is reported from Ismail ibn Ibrahim from Ayyub from Naafi from Ibn Umar who said: "Let none of you say 'I have acquired the whole of the Qur'an'. How does he know what all of it is when much of the Qur'an has disappeared? Rather let him say 'I have acquired what has survived.'" (as-Suyuti, Al-Itqan fii Ulum al-Qur'an, p.524).

From what book of hadith did this come from?or did you fabricate this in your room? I hope you don't just pick anything on the internet and believe it is part of Islam cos Islam is well guarded beyond all that.Go and read the saheeh books of hadith if you want to know the correct Islam

babyosisi: No
You ban me and delete my posts when I disgrace muslims in arguments
Allow me this once to teach some people lessons

You can never disgrace muslims,you can only disgrace yourself.He who thinks he can mock others only seeks to mock himself.we are mean't to educate ourselves in a mature way and not be crude or hostile in our approach to issues .The use of that word "disgrace" coming from you shows how dark your heart is and hence the kind of teachings/religion you claim to follow

babyosisi: Start by telling us why Allah had some areas of the Koran abrogated and they were replaced with newer "revelations"

Why did Muslims go for pilgrimage at Jerusalem before the venue was moved to Mecca?

Why did the 4th Caliph gather up and burn all the Korans circulated then came up with a standardized Koran


Many of you argue for arguing sake and deceptively too when you have the similar parallels

Ask Maclatunji not to ban me like he normally does and I will run you out of this thread quick
There are people here you can't tell those tried and tested lies to
If only Maclatunji will allow my words stand
I promise to back them up with Muslim history,the Koran and the hadiths

Please don't begin to sound like you are so knowledgeable about Islam because people that know nothing at all about it would feel you know.Those handful of things you mentioned all have histories behind them that we can tell to support those incidences,valid ones at that so where is yours?Moreover you cannot compare a few abrogations with throwing away the whole of the old testament just like that! God is not a God of confusion and moreover I understand the verses of tithes in church is contained in the old testament why is that?or do you pick verses that suit your desires and throw away others?

Salmoneus: So why doesn't your creator punish the blasphemers himself?

I'm very sure you wouldn't wait for your creator to arrest the armed robbers,murderers etc
There are always laws guiding certain people and states that are meant to be obeyed by the people.such laws are usually upheld by certain individuals in order to ensure sanity.

[quote author=Kairoseki77]Don't these people get tired...?

Islam isn't going to survive the next few hundred years.

Imagine these people crying about western education when people are living on other planets, driving flying cars, and living to 500 years old.

These fools will still be chopping off hands and jailing teenagers for danc.


In your dreams.Islam has been in existence for the past 1500 years and will continue to be as long as the earth subsists.so suck it up!

gramci: I pity muslim women, they are always the victim

Don't take paracetamol for someone else's headache.Quit the pity party

Krasid: Stupid stats.How did they know?

Na lie, Na lie. You will not believe until you fall victim. Instead of you to believe and think of ways to prevent it and also educate others around you.you are busy asking how they came about the figure. Doubting Thomas! SMH

MizzD: Asalam Alaykum to my mumslim sisters in d house. I'v bin a silent reader on NL. Am glad we have dis kind of thread 2 encourage us all. Av also bin ttc 4 almost 2yrs now but Alhamdulilah I got my bfp last month.May almighty Allah grant everyone bfp sooner dan expected.
@AmatuRahman, wish u a successful 2ww nd waiting 2 get d good news.Had my procedure wv Dr Emeka nd handing ova d bfp baton 2 u.

Wa alykum salam sister.Alhamdulilah rabbilalamin.may Allah grant you a happy and healthy 9 months and a safe delivery-amin.I love news like this.May Allah make this good news go round all of us-amin

phewme: @coco diva. Thank you so much. I found this on google map- Korea Nigeria Acupuncture Centre. Located at osolo way, mushin and they have a branch in benin. I will locate the place next week.

@AmatuRahman, May Almighty Allah make this cycle a success for you and everyone of us. Amin

That's awesome news.Glad I could help.All the best with them.May Allah put His baraka in it-amin

Asalam alykum my sisters.Hope we're all doing great.May Allah uphold our patience and grant us our heart desires soonest-amin
@Rainyday,please try and start those lifestyles o.Anyone you can do pls do.may Allah make it easy.I know its not easy to stop sugar but just keep your eyes on the prize(the twins&triplets)and you'l be motivated inshaAllah.I tell you my health is much better for it.I wouldn't want to write a long post but let me just give you a tip.Take it weekly for starters.for a week,avoid anything sugar.you'l have to say goodbye to a lot of things o.it involves a lot of sacrifice.soft drinks,snacks,biscuits,chocolate(was really hard for me).And then replace them with healthier alternatives.that'l make it easier inshaAllah.e.g honey instead of sugar.for me I replaced beverages(milo,bournvita) with green tea+honey for breakfast etc.just make the sacrifice and let go.with time you'l find it easier.I'l drop more tips as time goes on inshaAllah.
@safe,are you referring to what I did at KNH or the others?if its at KNH,it has a flexible plan.depending on how you want it.
@all,whatever means we use,may Allah put His baraka-amin