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PoliticsRe: Incessant Rape: Iwo Monarch To Distribute Pepper Spray To Female Residents by cocolacec(m): 7:26am On Jun 13, 2020
cpu2006:
Iwomite grin seems to be taking things for playing. The same Iwo is where u will see baba alawo contesting for chairman position. They should please be serious at least 2 hours in a day.
The money used to produce pepper spray will be enough to change life of atleast 30 person for better.
Babalawo is a Nigerian and he has the right to contest under the constitution which guarantees freedom of worship.
Foreign AffairsAfrican American Invention And How They Advance America by cocolacec(op): 3:20pm On Jun 12, 2020
Some of the Inventions African Americans created in America and their contribution to the advancement of America


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_FvLbuw0Pi8
FoodRe: 51 Bags Of Quality Rice Available For 21,000 Each by cocolacec(op): 11:11am On Jun 08, 2020
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CrimeRe: Opinion: Indecent Dressing Is Really One Of The Causes Of Rape by cocolacec(m): 9:57am On Jun 08, 2020
AdamsAbubakar:
The truth should be the world's most bitter pill. When some of us maintain that indecent dressing is one of the causes of rape, some cyber attackers are quick to conclude that we are 'rape apologists.' They are quick to declare that babies and hijabis get raped too. Someone even poised that why are women not raped in beaches for dressing indecently? Of course the rapists are not really dumb to that extent, for they know they will be mobbed instantly by people there for attempting a criminal act. While it is true that babies and hijabis get raped, we must not forget that indecent dressing is not the only cause of rape, but just one out of many other reasons why it is perpetrated by rapists. Recent revelations show that some rapists heartlessly have carnal knowledge of babies because they were instructed by a spiritualist/babalawo/boka to do so in order to make quick money.
Ever wondered why a country like Saudi Arabia records as low as 0.2% of rape cases per year? Some may think it is because of their laws, but that is not the reality. A high level of morality and decency has been inculcated in these people. The punishment for rape under Islamic Law differs among scholars. It may include exile, crucifixion, amputation of legs or killing of the rapist if they used weapons on their victim(s) and threatened them.
A country like the US where rape is a heavy crime, and women supposedly have 'freedom' records one of the highest rates of rape in the world. Al-Jazeera reported in 2016 that more than 100,000 American women are raped yearly. This number would have greatly increased.
It is a well-known fact that a 'rugged dressing' by a female can easily arose a man's libido. When you wear a sexy dress, you are not only looking supposedly attractive but sexually inviting to predators who may not be nice enough to ask for your consent. The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines sexy as "sexually suggestive or stimulating". This is exactly how you appear when you dress 'sexy.'
Contrary to the death penalty some are advocating for, the truth is, death penalty will never solve the problem. We have many bodies in Nigeria for example designed to fight corruption which is still thriving in all sectors. More attention should be given to the root of a problem. It is not until it grows into a tree that we will start thinking of which axe will be sharper to cut it down. Since the society is a product of various homes, the fight against rape should start from the root, our homes — charity they say begins at home. Parents should therefore be able to properly discuss sex education with their children and let them know that rape is wrong. If this is done to a good extent, we can start talking about the sanction/punishment which is secondary.
In conclusion, this post does not in anyway justify rape like some will say. It only points out a reason why it happens. To justify means to prove or show to be just, right, or reasonable. When you say bad roads cause accidents, you don't mean accidents are right or reasonable. It does not also mean you are oblivious of other causes of accident like alcohol, bad car condition or reckless driving. You are only speaking out against the bad roads and suggesting that they be fixed so that there will be less accidents.


#SayNoToRape
#SayNoToIndecency

© A.A Isa
Saturday, 6th June, 2020.
Rape is widely underreported in Islamic countries because of fear of Honor killings by family members(males),forced to marry the rapists.The victims is blamed,I once spoke to a Saudi lady who was raped in her home by three men but she never told her parents.
Virginity is a big deal to Arab women,if she marries without being a virgin she could be killed so they go for hymenoplasty, is a simple procedure that will repair a torn hymen or build a hymen that is not present.The surgery will not restore virginity, but it will allow for women to tear and bleed the first time they engage in intercourse after surgery.
How come your Nigerian sisters are getting raped by Saudi/lebanese/Qatari/Emirati employers while serving as housemaids in their homes.?
Will men become rapists in a community simply because everyone is naked like the Amazonians or Himba tribe of Namibia?

Victims of Rape and Law: How the Laws of the Arab World Protect Rapists, Not Victims
https://www.jurist.org/commentary/2017/05/mais-haddad-arab-world-laws-protect-the-rapist-not-the-victim/

Iraq sex files

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7pZVQrY_AF8

bacha bazi boys, Afghan 'Dancing Boys' Tell Of Rape, Abuse

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oU6q6EaXBlM
RomanceRe: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by cocolacec(m): 5:18am On Jun 07, 2020
OritaIbadan:
You see because of her good attitude toward work and her costmated godly lifestyle we had make an attempt of assisting her to further her education before the lockdown. So I was seriously discouraged.
You can still support her education.She could be sleeping with these men for extra cash to help her family.
CrimeJust Like Serial Killers,rapists Won't Quit Unless They Are Stopped" by cocolacec(op): 1:20pm On Jun 06, 2020
Around the world, rape and sexual abuse are everyday violent occurrences -- affecting close to a billion women and girls over their lifetimes.

But if rape is to be understood to the point where it can be dealt with, we need all the information we can get. And one piece of information that is missing is Why Men Rape.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qglDQy_o9zo
Christianity EtcRe: OPM's Hospital Treats A Muslim Woman For Free by cocolacec(m): 10:26am On Jun 06, 2020
RapistOnBail:

Religion causes Division
Religion causes Division

Religion causes Division

Religion causes Division
Religion causes Division

Make una wise, una no want.

Hungry and suffering kee una there.
True talk.Religion is a tool of the elite and occult to control the masses.Divide amd conquer is the rule of the game.

Religion brought Slavery to Africa,discrimination,hypocrisy etc.
I wish the world will only practise humanity and
spirituality alone.
We as humans must learn to love ,respect and tolerate each other.We must ignore our differences but focus on our common goals.
CrimeThe Rape Victim Who Fought Back and Shamed a Nation by cocolacec(op):
BY CHARLOTTE METCALF ON 1/09/15 AT 3:22 AM EST

The woman who greets me at Addis Ababa airport is very different from the traumatised girl I last saw in 1998. When I hugged Aberash Bekele goodbye 16 years ago, I had just finished filming a BBC documentary about her called Schoolgirl Killer. At 14, Bekele was kidnapped by a gang of horsemen, raped and then put on trial for killing her abductor.

Her story forced Ethiopia to confront its brutal customs and change its laws. Today she's the mother of a 10-year-old son; she's plumper, her hair is hennaed and styled, her shoes sparkly, her nails varnished gold. Her story has now been made into a feature film called Difret. Executive produced by Angelina Jolie, Difret has already won awards at the Sundance, Berlin, Montreal and Amsterdam film festivals and Bekele is once again the talk of the nation.

Bekele is one of 11 children (now aged between 52 and 19) by the same mother and grew up outside Kersa, a small remote town in Arsii, southern Ethiopia, where her parents are subsistence farmers. She was on her way home from school when horsemen with whips and lassoos surrounded her, grabbed her, threw her over a saddle and took her to a hut where she was locked up and raped.

Her rapist then announced he was her husband-to-be. In Arsii it was the custom that if you wanted a wife you went out and kidnapped one and it's estimated that, in 1998, 30% of marriages were initiated this way, with varying levels of violence.

Bekele escaped, stealing the guard's gun. When her abductor and his men gave chase, she threatened to fire but they ignored her. So she pulled the trigger.

Bekele was nearly murdered by the furious mob that gathered but was rescued by family friends, then arrested and put on trial. She became the first cause célèbre for the Ethiopian Women Lawyers' Association and was finally released on the grounds of her youth and acting in self-defence.

Despite her release, Bekele was exiled by the Kersa elders who didn't recognise the courts. Unable to return to her family, and in danger from revenge threats by her dead abductor's family, she fled to Addis.

When Schoolgirl Killer aired on the BBC in 1999, it struck a chord with the British public, who sent in enough money to send Bekele to a safe boarding school to finish her education. I lost touch with her until last year when an Ethiopian cameraman alerted me to Difret.

I went to see it at the London Film Festival. Centre stage, as the main character, rather than Bekele, was Meaza Ashenafi, the then head of the Women Lawyers' Association, whom I had interviewed for Schoolgirl Killer. The producers had changed Bekele's name, but some scenes in the film were almost identical to Schoolgirl Killer. I found Bekele and flew to Addis.

Bekele now works there for Harmee, an NGO that aims to eliminate violence against women in Arsii. Dr Daniel Keftassa, who founded Harmee in 2006, picked me up from the airport with Bekele and we made the five-hour drive to Kersa, where Harmee has its headquarters, and where

Bekele's family still lives. On the way, she told me about the film. She was never consulted during its making, and when she found out about it and confronted Ashenafi and the producers, they told her the film was not about her.

Rounds of legal negotiation followed but no-one agreed to put Bekele's name on the film. So, on the night of the film's première, she obtained a last minute court injunction to stop it being screened.

The producers had just screened Jolie's televised address, in which she said that Difret was based on the "untold story of Aberash Bekele," when she arrived with the necessary papers. Bekele ultimately signed an agreement, which means she feels unable to complain or take further action.

Meanwhile, the film was temporarily released in Ethiopia but blocked again by the children of Bekele's defence barrister. The film's producers did not respond to a request for comment nor did Jolie's personal assistant acknowledge receipt of emails.

Bekele, Keftassa and I arrived in Kersa. Apart from a new mosque, it's the same shambles of mud and corrugated iron shacks strung along a few dirt roads. We went immediately to see Bekele's family, who live a walk away from a new dirt road in a thatched hut on their farm.

After eating, we sat around a fire under the stars. The grandchildren began dancing as one of the daughters beat out a rhythm on a plastic jerrycan and the family sung traditional Oromo songs. Bekele looked happy as she sat in her father's embrace, a small nephew on her knee.

Her brother told me about the day she was abducted. He was in the same class at school and went home early. As he cradled his infant son, it clearly still haunted him that he was unable to protect his sister.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3it3fMR-To
FoodRe: 51 Bags Of Quality Rice Available For 21,000 Each by cocolacec(op): 1:32pm On Jun 02, 2020
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Christianity EtcRe: Deceived - The Jonestown Tragedy | Documentary By Mel White by cocolacec(op): 5:22pm On Jun 01, 2020
Senator Says 17 Foster Children May Be Among Jonestown Dead
SAN FRANCISCO, Feb. 16,1979 — Initial inquiries show that perhaps as many as 17 foster children that the California authorities had placed with members of the People's Temple may have died in the mass deaths in Jonestown, Guyana, Senator Alan Cranston said here today.

The Senator's remarks at a news con?? were based on a report to him by the General Accounting Office, the investigating agency for Congress. He emphasized that the report was preliminary and that the investigation was continuing.

The investigators have been combing county welfare files for three weeks because Senator Cranston said at a Washington hearing that his staff had been told that perhaps as many as 150 foster care children died at Jonestown. That estimate has since been discredited.

When he was pressed to give details of the investigation, Senator Cranston said that he could not be positive about the findings because the records were so scattered and because errors in assessing files had already turned up. For example, jive names were taken off the list of foster children thought to have died in Guyana when it was found that they left the foster care rolls before going to Jonestown. They may have died there, but not as foster care beneficiaries.

“Some of the children were being supported by foster payments, averaging $200 a month, for as long as four months after they were moved to Guyana,” he said. “Others had their payments stopped, or may have been assigned a legal guardian within the cult, and it is not yet clear whether support payments from California continued.

“Some children simply disappeared. We don't know if they died, ran away and escaped, thereby saving themselves, or if they came back before the mass suicides.”

Senator Cranston said that only three children receiving foster care had been positively identified as dead in Jonestown. One of these, Vincent Lopez of Hay. ward, Calif., had been previously identified by reporters. Mr. Cranston did not name the two others, nor did he give the names of those whom investigators have identified tentatively as foster care children who may be among the unidentified bodies.

Identification of 635 bodies taken from Jonestown was made through fingerprints, but most of the children in the People's Temple had not been fingerprinted. Senator Cranston said that 227 persons under 18 years of age had lived in the commune and had not been Identified.

The 17 children who are on the tentative list were from 5 to 18 years old. Senator Cranston said that Federal investigators had found records showing that there were still 12 active cases of foster children with People's Temple families that had not gone to Guyana. He said that he had notified Gov. Edmund G. Brown Jr. of California of this so state agencies might check on the children.

Suspicion Not Substantiated

Mr. Cranston was asked if there was evidence that the Rev. Jim Jones's followers had placed children in foster homes that the People's Temple controlled so the Temple could collect the foster care payments.

“I don't have evidence to substantiate that suspicion,” he said.

At another point in the news conference, he said, “I have heard rumors about people who were working for one level of Government or another who were also members of the People's Temple. It is quite possible that this shaped their judgments in ways adverse to the welfare of the children involved, and that is being looked into at the present time.”

It was in his work as chairman of the Child and Human Development Subcommittee of the Senate Human Resources Committee that Mr. Cranston began to inquire into the possible misuse of the foster care program by the People's Temple.

Moving of Cult Bodies Urged

SAN FRANCISCO, Feb. 16 (AP) — A court‐appointed interfaith group recommended today that the 570 unclaimed bodies of members of the People's Temple be trucked to the San Francisco area for burial, at a cost of about $302,800.

https://www.nytimes.com/1979/02/17/archives/senator-says-17-foster-children-may-be-among-jonestown-dead-not.html
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PropertiesHow Much Can One Buy A 4 Bedroom House In Lagos? by cocolacec(op): 3:44pm On May 27, 2020
Hi everyone,
How much can one buy a 4-5 bedroom house in Lagos?.Ikeja,VGC and Amuwo odofin are areas of Interest.


Budget is N 20-25m
PropertiesRe: For Sale"" Luxury 3bedroom Det-bungalow At Ajah + Pictures by cocolacec(m): 11:29pm On May 26, 2020
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Christianity EtcRe: Deceived - The Jonestown Tragedy | Documentary By Mel White by cocolacec(op): 6:01pm On May 26, 2020
CNN documentary on Jonestown


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_yIJCiV9Xg
Christianity EtcRe: Deceived - The Jonestown Tragedy | Documentary By Mel White by cocolacec(op):
The Peoples Temple was, as David Talbot notes in Salon, successful in part because it was politically useful: “Jones could be counted on to deliver busloads of obedient, well-dressed disciples to demonstrations, campaign rallies, and political precincts.”

There were already signs, however, of a sinister undercurrent to the Peoples Temple. Followers were expected to devote themselves completely to the church’s utopian project: they turned over their personal wealth, worked long hours of unpaid labor for the church and often broke contact with their families. They were expected to raise their children within the commune. As a show of commitment, Peoples Temple members were asked to sign false testimonials that they had molested their children, which the church kept for potential blackmail.

In his 1980 study of Jonestown, the writer Shiva Naipaul, younger brother of VS Naipaul, argued that the Peoples Temple was at heart a fundamentalist religious project – “obsessed with sin and images of apocalyptic destruction, authoritarian in its innermost impulses, instinctively thinking in terms of the saved and the damned”.

The result, Naipaul wrote, “was neither racial justice nor socialism but a messianic parody of both”.

Jones, who had long believed the US was in danger of imminent nuclear holocaust, had been searching for a place where his church would be “safe” during an apocalyptic event. A magazine article alleging abuse in the Peoples Temple spurred Jones’s desire to relocate. He chose Guyana, a former British colony in South America whose socialist regime was politically sympathetic.

In 1977 the Peoples Temple moved its headquarters to a remote area of Guyanese wilderness. Here, Jones declared, they could build a utopian society without government or media meddling. Battling an oppressive tropical climate and limited resources, they began to convert the dense jungle into a working agricultural commune, soon known as “Jonestown”.

The church delivered Jones’s rambling monologues to Jonestown’s inhabitants by megaphone as they worked. In the evenings they attended mandatory propaganda classes. Jones’s writ was enforced by armed guards called the “Red Brigade”.

Jonestown had little reason to expect interference from Guyana – a “cooperative republic” whose government happily ignored signs of the cult’s authoritarian and paranoid bent. Back in the US, however, parents of Jonestown inhabitants – concerned by the strange letters, or lack of letters, they received from their children – had been lobbying the government to investigate.

After a family in the US won a custody order for a child in Jonestown, paranoia escalated. The commune became an armed camp, ringed by volunteers with guns and machetes, threatening to fight outsiders to the death.


During the (imaginary) siege, Black Panthers Huey Newton and Angela Davis spoke to Jonestown inhabitants by radio patch to voice solidarity. Davis told Jonestown inhabitants that they were at the vanguard of revolution, and right to resist what she called “a profound conspiracy” against them.

Sometime during this period Jonestown began drills called “white nights”, in which inhabitants would practice committing mass suicide.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/world/2018/nov/17/an-apocalyptic-cult-900-dead-remembering-the-jonestown-massacre-40-years-on

Christianity EtcDeceived - The Jonestown Tragedy | Documentary By Mel White by cocolacec(op): 5:39pm On May 26, 2020
An apocalyptic cult, 900 dead: remembering the Jonestown massacre, 40 years on
More than 900 people, many of them children, died in a mass murder-suicide in 1978 by drinking cyanide-laced punch at the order of cult leader Jim Jones.

Four decades ago this Sunday, the Rev Jim Jones, the charismatic leader of an American cult in the Guyanese jungle, ordered his followers to murder a US congressman and several journalists, then commit mass suicide by drinking cyanide-laced fruit punch.

The Jonestown massacre was, before 9/11, the largest single incident of intentional civilian death in American history. More than 900 people died, many children. It was also a devastating cultural trauma: the end of the last strains of a certain kind of 1960s idealism and 1970s radicalism. Jonestown’s legacy lives on in the ironic phrase “drink the Kool-Aid”. (In actuality it was Fla-Vor-Aid.)


Although he would later become a symbol of the darker side of the west coast counterculture, Jim Jones was born to a poor family in Indiana. Described as an intelligent and strange child, Jones was instinctively attracted to religion, especially charismatic Christian traditions like Pentecostalism. He cut his teeth as a street preacher, and was, unusually for the time and place, a passionate advocate for racial equality.

Although Jones’s followers would later be stereotyped as sinister, brainwashed idiots, the journalist Tim Reiterman argues in his seminal book on the subject that many were “decent, hardworking, socially conscious people, some highly educated”, who “wanted to help their fellow man and serve God, not embrace a self-proclaimed deity on earth”. The Peoples Temple advocated socialism and communitarian living and was racially integrated to an exceptional standard rarely matched since.

In 1965, when Jones was in his mid-30s, he ordered the Peoples Temple moved to California. He drifted away from traditional Christian teachings, describing himself in messianic terms and claiming he was the reincarnation of figures like Christ and Buddha. He also claimed that his goal all along was communism, and, in a twist on the famous dictum that religion is the “opiate of the masses”, that religion was merely his way of making Marxism more palatable.

By the 1970s, the Peoples Temple, now based in San Francisco, had gained significant political influence. Jones’s fierce advocacy for the downtrodden earned him the admiration of leftwing icons like Angela Davis and Harvey Milk and the support of groups like the Black Panthers – a tragically misguided political affinity, given that more than two-thirds of Jonestown’s eventual victims were African American.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FQ-FkTLPrAw&t=624s

CelebritiesThe Ottoman Slave Who Became Queen Mother . by cocolacec(op):
Kösem Sultan, (born c. 1589—died September 2, 1651), Ottoman sultana who exercised a strong influence on Ottoman politics for several decades at a time when the women of the palace enjoyed significant, even formalized authority within the palace.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Db7iU1x4WU
Kösem entered palace influence through her marriage to Sultan Ahmed I. Like many royal brides, she was said to have been of Greek origin and beautiful when young. Her particular beauty helped gain her favouritism from Ahmed and, combined with her intelligence, was able to earn her considerable authority and influence in the palace among his wives.

Upon Ahmed’s death in 1617, she used her influence to support the claim of his brother, Mustafa I, to the throne. He was considered mentally ill, and Kösem was able to exercise power through him, but he was declared incompetent and deposed after only three months. Mustafa was replaced by Osman II, Ahmed’s son through another wife, and Kösem was sidelined, but Osman’s reign was cut short after a revolt of the Janissary corps in 1622 ended his life. Mustafa was temporarily reinstalled.

Kösem’s son Murad IV became sultan in 1623, giving Kösem the prestigious position of valide sultan (“mother of the sultan”). This powerful position—complete with pomp and circumstance—had gained considerably more authority in recent generations, especially as the authority of the grand vizier had waned. Kösem’s position was all the more powerful as she enjoyed full regency for the first five years of Murad’s reign, when he was still a minor. When he came of age, he ruled with a heavy hand but was occasionally known to consider input from his mother. He continued to rule until his death in 1640, thought to be related to chronic alcohol consumption.

The throne then went to İbrahim, Kösem’s only remaining son. His rule was marked by neglect and mismanagement as Kösem lost his ear and left the palace. Though absent from the palace, her relationships and influence in court remained intact. In 1648, with the empire in a sad state, she and other court officials conspired against İbrahim, and the Janissaries overthrew him.
Mehmed IV, İbrahim’s six-year-old son, was his successor, and Kösem once again exercised regency. The title of valide sultan naturally passed to Mehmed’s mother, Turhan Sultan, but Kösem remained her superior with the new title büyük valide (“grandmother”). A rivalry ensued between the two, as Turhan began to form her own faction within the palace and among the military. Kösem conspired to unseat Turhan Sultan by deposing Mehmed and replacing him with his half brother, whose mother would not pose a threat to her authority. Turhan Sultan learned of this plot and preempted her. On the night of September 2, 1651, Kösem was strangled in her bed by men in Turhan Sultan’s entourage, who reportedly used either her own braids or the strings of her bed curtains to kill her.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/K%C3%B6sem_Sultan
FamilyRe: I Cause Pain To A Lot Of People by cocolacec(m): 7:02pm On May 22, 2020
Divine89:
Hello everybody. I am Nigerian based in France. My English it is not 100% perfect but I will try to make it possible for you to understand me with the help of google french to English translator and my story is also long sorry for that.

When I was 9 years old I joined my uncle, my mum's younger brother in France. He declared me as his daughter. During that time he only had one child, 2 years old. He and the wife were so loving to me. I never lacked anything in their house.

But when I turned 12, I went to secondary school. I met some bad friends there. This is where the problem started.I became a very difficult child. I will go to school come home late. My uncle will beat and beat me but I never listened. I smoked my first cigarette at 12 and had my first sex at 13 and I started running away from home to stay with boyfriends. Sometimes I can go for a week and when uncle reporta me missing, the police will be looking for me, then they will bring me back home.

Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me. I told them he was beating me with belts, electric wire, they don’t give me foods and I really said a lot of bad things about them doing to me to make my teacher believe my story so they could take me away from them because I wanted freedom and my teacher believed me and reported to the police and child protection, they are people who take away abused children from their parents. They took custody of me and my uncle three children, the youngest was 6 months old to their care and they gave us to this white lady to care for us and my uncle and wife were arrested for child abuse and the police were doing some investigation.

After spending 1yr 9 months in care of the white lady I dropped out school. They found out that I was a difficult child that I lied to get freedom so they have decided to give my uncle his children back to him while I stayed in care of white people but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this.

I have given birth to 6 children by 6 men and none of the children is living with me. The first one was taken away from me at 2 months old because I beat her up and fractured her hands and I also tested positive for heroinn (drugs), so that did not stop me from giving birth second child was removed from my care 4 hours after birth she also tested positive for heroin the same way my other children were removed at birth too so I carry on with my lifestyles. I did not care about my children at that time all I care about was sex, alcohol and drugs this is what I wanted and I have been to prison several times for selling drugs and fraudsters. The longest I have spent in prison was 2 years then after i left prison, I met with this sister who introduced me to this church she attended so I went along with her, the pastor told me to confess my sin to him and promised it will be a secret between I, him and God which I did repented and accepted Jesus as my saviour. To be honest, my life did changed a lot, I fell the peace in my heart , enjoyed going to church every Sunday but this pastor went tell his wife my life story and the wife told everyone in church my life story and started using it against me so it made me so angry that I left the church in November 2017 without looking back. I have decided not to attend any church again. I have stopped alcohol, taking drugs and sleeping with men I no longer do it. I prayed at home, read my bible and behaving good and it's almost 2 years I havnt slept with a man and i went to look for my uncle asking him for forgiveness but he has refused and I send him many text messages begging him to forgive and I still no heard anything from him or the wife even their children I have tried to ask them forgiveness they have blocked me and they all want nothing to do with me even my own parents and siblings in Africa they have rejected me, none of them want to talk to me, my parents said i am dead to them, it is so painful I cry everyday in my prayers, as for my children 4 of them are adopted with new family. I can't see them again maybe until they are 18 years old If they want to know me if they don't want I will have no choice to accept it and my 2 youngest children i am only allowed to see them once a year in a children play centre with someone supervise because they don't let me to be alone with them and soon I will stop visiting them because they are planning to adopt them to a new family too that will mean I will have nobody on this earth.

I regret my mistake so bad I wish I could change it but it will no be impossible. I can't have more children because they will be removed from me like the others and I am only 31years old. I don't know if my repentance was genius because my family has refused to forgive me and my question goes like this if they never forgive me will I ever found happiness again or I will just have to accept it until I died?

Please, advise me in a Christian way maybe if there's more I can do and also prayed for me so my family will be able to forgive me and also pray for my two children that nobody will adopt them so I can get custody of them and i promised to be a good mother to them, please I am begging you in the name of God.
If your story is true and you have truly repentened from your old ways.Try to relocate to another country like the UK or Ireland and start a new life and family there.You can also change your name in your new country to avoid french social service tracking you to your new country.
CareerRe: Should I Expose Them? by cocolacec(m): 6:28pm On May 21, 2020
Abbeylanre15:
I work in finance company and I'm in charge of all accounts. All monies are been remitted to me. The M.D of this organization is such a generous but uneducated woman. My colleagues are leveraging on this to siphon organization's funds to their various pockets. I'm not oblivious of this fact because I'm so sensitive to things around me,but I am d God fearing type that won't participate in such a dirty act.
I've called majority of those in this illicit act privately to warn them and let them know the implications. But to my utmost surprise, the bull-shit keep getting high and d MD is not the type to tell such hidden things, she will reveal the identity of her Intel.
The problem now is that,if this act persist,the company may go bankrupt sooner than later. Even though,the job is not worth dying for,half bread they said it's better than none. I can't afford to be jobless.
Please advise me on what to do?


NB: I'VE SUBMITTED APPLICATION TO OTHER COMPANIES BUT NO RESULT YET.
No wonder unemployment is on the increase in Nigeria. People tend to forget that the Govt alone cannot provide employment for its Citizens in any country. This entitlement mentality of Ngerians must stop!!.

In Europé the employees treat the businesses like their own,you will see companies established in 1914 still running up till now.Anyone who curses the politicians are cursing themselves because the politicians are a mirror of the Nigerian society.
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Squillaci:
I mean, is it sold in Nigeria?
I dont know ,if it is sold in Nigeria

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