CaveAdullam:
1. This is the 21st century and women have the right and ability to not make pregnancy happen.

A. There is the monthly birth control pill.

B. There is a female condom.

C. There is a female instant birth control pill.

D. She has the full right to say no. And if he persists, she tender the case to the relevant security unit.

E. Lastly, there is abortion.

2. Life is a game, if you act dumb you will be treated like a doormat. If she's not ready to be a mother she must refuse the man or know how to control pregnancy.

3. Counterintuitive, why doesn't the man stay away from sex when he can't provide for a mother and child? That's why I said it is a game, a h0rny man doesn't impregnate women from his imagination, if there is a willing and h0rny woman, he will fvck her.

It is then left for the woman to judge the man before sexual Intercourse. In the animal kingdom, females are the choosy sex, that is, they choose males they will mate with and females are the gatekeepers of sex. If women say no sex, so be it. Nothing happens. No reproduction.

The cost of pregnancy is risky and high, any woman that is reckless with her womb will not go unpunished. She must be wise.

4. This is not to exonerate the expectant father, he must be forced to provide for his child and the mother because as far as he knows that he is not ready to be a father he should have abstained from sex or used a contraceptive even though he expected the woman not to be negligent. Both should carry their cross.

5. Unwanted pregnancy, sorry to say, is her fault, the same way a guy spends all his money on her without him having sex with her or receiving the relevant returns.

There are always red flags that tell if a partner is a real or fake deal, but romance and luxury blind the eyes of men and women respectively thereby making them choose the wrong deal.

Sigh.

dennis3888:
Good day everyone please i need your candid advise and opinion

Am about to leave my bank job of seven years with a salary of 100k for a new business note the business has already been set up already

my fears is that am married and you know what that means i have ready responsibilities. so am now having fears that what of it doesn't work (which have been praying about seriously).


probably the fears is just in my head. your opinion please

dennis3888:
Good day everyone please i need your candid advise and opinion

Am about to leave my bank job of seven years with a salary of 100k for a new business note the business has already been set up already

my fears is that am married and you know what that means i have ready responsibilities. so am now having fears that what of it doesn't work (which have been praying about seriously).

Why won't it work my brother.

If you can successfully keep your bank job for 7 whole years, then you got all it take to make it work.

It's your personal business bro, I'd die there and also successfully leave it for children if i were you.
Good luck already!


probably the fears is just in my head. your opinion please

dennis3888:
Good day everyone please i need your candid advise and opinion

Am about to leave my bank job of seven years with a salary of 100k for a new business note the business has already been set up already

my fears is that am married and you know what that means i have ready responsibilities. so am now having fears that what of it doesn't work (which have been praying about seriously).
Why won't it work my brother.

If you can successfully keep your bank job for 7 whole years, then you got all it take to make it work.

It's your personal business bro, I'd die there and also successfully leave it for children if i were you.
Good luck already!


probably the fears is just in my head. your opinion please

Ninejaywon:
U wan just kill urself ontime.
It seems you don't know excessive ejaculation and muscle building are two opposite poles. They can never meet.

Why do you think top athletes refrain from anything ejaculation weeks before their competition? This is because testosterone which is the body's muscle building and Masculine hormone is conserved when there is no ejaculation. If you can practice having sex without ejaculating, the better for you.

mach7:
In life, try to be unique.

What he wore, trendy or not trendy, did not diminish the output or quality of his words. His statistics checked out, his ideas on economic reformation was quite ebullient and the fact that Shettima will handle security is also a masterstroke (as this is thed edge of experience he has over others). These are the things that I would have expected people to dissect and discuss.

Nigerians, especially the online generation should stop majoring on minor things. That is why there is a dearth of intellectual discussion on Social Media.

Tolexander:
This Raul record that appeared as the greatest feat in football then being torn anyhow now.

Nothing lasts forever

BastardWike:


Don't get it twisted, no one is desiring his return except the Northern cabals that removed him in the first place! They're now selfishly trying to bring him back knowing he can only rule for 4 years so that they would take over again after 4 years and continue ruling Nigeria! They don't want another Southerner who they know will want to rule for 8 years!

Don't be gullible, it's all about selfishness of the North and their penchant to dominate the South always. It's never about the good of Nigeria! The same person they called all manner of names and claimed he was so corrupt everyday and mismanaged Nigeria when oil prices were high is the same person they want to bring back??

Nigerians will be foolish to fall for this rubbish and Jonathan will even be a bigger fool to accept this offer knowing the reason behind it.

iamvictorbassey:
The whites really did a good job on Blacks. So much they detest good things of life and call it vanity.

A white man's paradise is here, whereas a Blacks' is in his thought, thus no need to live like humans. We can just live like animals and hope that some day the sky'll open and one white boy in a white robe and a horse gon come fix Lagos-Ibadan express better still take us to a place designed with Gold.

And you complain that your politicians are screwing us? Nah!! Them just don see us finish, say majority of us no get sense. And those protesting are inconsequential.


One here is even expectant of bad news and jumping on every post so that he can tell us how to prepare for one motherf.ucking imaginary White boy. Face Palm. Damn!!


I'm not in support of elected representatives stealing money, but always coming to Nairaland to call money vanity is damn too hypocritical and stupid 'cause that's what you f.ucking wake up everyday to seek.

You could post this shi.t on here because you made some money to buy data and a phone. And don't come on here acting all holy when I don't know of any charity foundation in your name. You don't even help your neighbors, all you do is accumulate and hope for more and hypocritically criticise those who are cashing out more than yourself.


B.astards who'll jump on the next better paying job, be here calling money and material things vanity.

Ion even know how I'm trapped with this much concentration of black dumb thinking mothe.rfuckers. (Face Palm)

Jullima:
You actually have it backwards, Nigerians will never mind their business when it comes to people’s lives and their personal choices e.g when to marry? When to have a child? How many children? Etc. However they will look the other way when a crime is committed, e.g 419, domestic violence, rape etc.

Just like you OP, you’re seriously comparing criminals committing a crime to a young girl’s private life?? Her boss has no business with how she lives her life, his only business is how she does the job she’s been paid to do.

Kirinwa:


Oga there's no shame in going after someone you care about. Why not ignore instead of further humiliating your fellow man or you think you are the only one that saw it?

There's a reason such words as persistence and patience were created.

This is an adult forum, stop forming nonsense like you are any better.