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Rubbish story. If you believe this, you can believe any shitt.

In other news what amount of sex is too much. Find out here www.nairaland.com/3839888/what-amount-sex-sex-abuse

Sex as we all know is to be enjoyed between / amongt two / more persons as the case may be. Lately, We have heard about Men demanding for sex 3 times daily from their wife and some even go as far as demanding for sex when their wife is heavily pregnant or menstruating. Women are not left out, a woman told me last week that any man that cannot knack her at least twice everyday for one hour cannot date her.
It's really scary, there was a case of my friend who traveled to see his camp friend, he knackdd the Bae four rounds and fractured her waist. Please nairalanders, what amount of sex can you classify as sex abuse?

beautiful232:
Sorry sir,my comment was not meant for working class people like you..

who is not in Lagos? who doesn't know Lagos traffic? who is not working on the island?

which man will not satisfied his wife?

if your wife keep telling you what you just typed now,you will say she is cheating...

OGa satisfying your wife is a different thing, demanding for sex atleast twice every night Is a different thing. It is madness to demand sex atleast twice everyday, marriage is not all about sex Oga. Sex is important, it is sweet, it is an exercise and the right of every couple. However, sex shouldn't be abused.

bencarson007:
I disagree with you... We all work hard. I run a cabbing firm as a part time business together with my job... And I work till dawn most times cos my cabbing company is in its growth stage but I still do my bedroom chores very efficiently... Working hard is not an excuse and vibrator is not an option for married people else God would have given it to us as a spare... And besides the poster is selfish thinking about himself only and not his wife's feeling or urges... That's not cool bro.

OGa u are being unreasonable here, do u knack your wife at least twice everyday? No one is saying you shouldn't knack your wife but there is time for everything. Everyday sex is abnormal and crazy. Only craze pple do that. Everything is planning, there have to be spacing though sometimes u two might be in the mood and disregard the plan. Any woman /man that demands sex atleast twice a day is suffering from sex disorder and needs to see a psychologist

Sfateema:
Twice a day
That's not too cool of a demand.
Man check yourself, you must have been loosing weight

2wice a day is Too much and abnormal for a working class married man / a man who has lots of business doing. It's this kinda woman that can have sex during her period. Sex is not food, it weakens the body, that's why most people sleep for hours after "good sex", You can't have sex every night and be at your best during the day, it's demanding. She should get a vibrator, hmm, but I hope she fantasizes about her husband wen using the intimacy gadget and not her ex or one guy on fb. Marriage this days is scary, ion know if I will marry sef

beautiful232:
can imagine the way you put it?

that you don't like it?
and that you like it once or twice a week?

your playing yourself..cos sex is very good.

and if she didn't like sex,you will still complain

in short you will even cheat on her...

Men and their wonders

Twice a day is just too much for a working class married guy. Just like a banker that has to leave home as early as 5.30am to beat traffic at Island, he comes back 8pm and u expect him to hop on the woman for 1hr, wen he should be resting, when you older you will understand.

pbs4real:
is it too mch

2wice a day is too much oGa except u jobless. If u work, u will know how stressful it is having sex and staying up at 9t, wen u should be sleeping and getting refreshed for next day, 4 times a week ain't bad, u can have sex all day on Saturday, in d afternoon, evening and night on Sunday, it doesn't have to be everytime on weekdays, it doesn't make sense

Some comments are just hilarious, how does a serious guy who works from 8am and comes back 8pm, have strength to bleep a woman 2wice a day. HABA, you will just die before your time, I can't kill myself because of sex. No I won't. I am not jobless, have to hustle to meet family needs, we can have mad sex on Saturday, morning till night, 6times, ion mind , but any sexual activity that affects your source of income is a no for me. Marriage is more than sex though sex is important. When I was an undergraduate and jobless, my sexual drive was crazy, four times a day and will be looking for more the next day, but now I have more responsibilities, stress and all that so my woman should understand. Most guys giving u advice to bleep her twice everyday like ow sex is breakfast are kids and jobless folks. Make sure you make her cum any time u two get intimate to make up for previous nights u left her stranded

beardlessdude:
sister, no thank anybody. This information won't bring you 1 naira! Believe me, I've been there.
Nothing like online money, na to go real work in the real world get salary ooh

Y u discouraging her. The fact that u failed doesn't mean she won't succeed, after all there are different roads to success

High Blood Pressure also called hypertension is a silent killer. According to Wikipedia Hypertension is a long term medical condition in which the blood pressure in the arteries is persistently elevated. What this means is that blood is carried away from the heart at an abnormal level. The World Health Organization has identified hypertension, or high blood pressure, as the leading cause of cardiovascular mortality .Recent research by The World Health Organization puts the death caused by hypertension to 7.5 million, about 12.8% of the total of all deaths.


Blood pressure is recorded in two numbers(120/80mmHg).The low number, called “diastolic”, is the pressure when the heart is at rest. The pressure is measured in millimetres of mercury, or mmHg.Ideal blood pressure is between 90/60mmHg and 120/80mmHg.

High blood pressure, also called “hypertension”, is considered to be anything consistently above 140/90mmHg. Over time, this extra pressure puts a strain on your heart and blood vessels. It can increase the risk of blood clots forming, which could result in a is a major risk factor for coronary artery disease, stroke, heart failure, peripheral vascular disease, vision loss, and chronic kidney disease.

Identification of HBP?

1) Headache

2)Heaviness in the head

3) Sluggish movements

4) General redness and warm to touch feel of the body

5) prominent, distended and tense vessels

6) Yawning

7) Coloured and dense urine

Loss of appetite

9)Weak eyesight

10)Impairment of thinking

11) Drowsiness

12)Hemorrhagic stroke

What are the causes of HBP?

1) Hereditary element: Just like diabetes , hypertension can also be hereditary. There are chances if one or two persons in your family have it , there are tendencies you could be victim of it.

2) Lifestyle: lifestyle factors also play a big role.Being overweight or obese, having high salt intake, smoking and not exercising are the main risk factors.

3) Medications/Pills:Some medications can also cause high blood pressure, such as the oral contraceptive pill, steroids, and some painkillers such as paracetamol,tramadol etc.

4) Race: People who are from African or Caribbean descent are also at increased risk.


5) Gender: Unverified sources also showed that females are more likely to get HBP than males as they grow older.

6) Diet: Consumption of wine, meat, and pastries, increase in the volume of food in a meal, eating lots of carbohydrate can lead to HBP.

7)Pregnancy: Stats show that pregnant women have high blood pressure especially during their 6th - 9month of pregnancy.

Stress

9) Job: Some jobs are very demanding and stressful. Employees are sometimes subjected to various degrees of tasks that increase their stress level. Some even work from 5am to 9pm and sleep for less than 3hours each day. This factors can lead to an alarming blood pressure which could be disastrous if care is not taken.

10) Depression.


How is hypertension treated?

There is no cure for Hypertension. This means it can only be managed, early detection of this condition make its management seamless.Some of the ways of reducing blood pressure includes

1) Losing weight

2)Living a healthy lifestyle and saying no to smoking,alcohol e.t.c

3) Eating a healthy diet; taking more fruit and vegetables and reducing fat, salt and caffeine intake have all been shown to significantly
reduce blood pressure.

4)Taking up regular exercise can help too.

5) Checking your blood pressure regularly.


[bPrevention?[/b]

1) Maintain normal body weight for adults (e.g. body mass index 20–25 kg/m2)
2) Reduce dietary sodium intake to <100 mmol/ day (<6 g of sodium chloride or <2.4 g of sodium per day)
3) Engage in regular aerobic physical activity such as brisk walking,strolling (≥30 min per day, most days of the week)
4) Limit alcohol consumption to no more than 3 units/day in men and no more than 2 units/day in women
5) Consume a diet rich in fruit and vegetables (e.g. at least five portions per day);


[bHypertension and Sexual intercourse[/b]

If you suffer from any type of heart trouble, it's only natural to have concerns about whether sex is still safe for you. It is advisble to stay away from sex until your blood pressure is normal, however most people with HBP can enjoy sex safely.

Sex -- like any other form of exercise -- does get the heart pumping. And, in rare cases, the extra exertion could trigger a heart attack. But the risks are encouragingly small. According to a report by the American Journal of Cardiology, fewer than 1 percent of all heart attacks occur during sexual activity.

Still, some people need to be careful. As reported in the journal, sex really can be dangerous for people with severe hypertension that isn't under control. If you have high blood pressure but aren't receiving treatment -- or if your blood pressure is soaring despite treatment -- your doctor may ask you to abstain from sex or other strenuous activity until your pressure is under control. If there's any doubt about your safety, your doctor will order a stress test to measure the effects of exercise on your heart.


Stay Safe.

JohnnyBling:
Oga xxxteddyxxx i hail thee
My ish right now is this new fish I just caught like late last month. Things got cool, made her laugh a lot n stuff, we hung out a couple times at her place tho. At a point she was the one doing all the start up convos n calls too. I had to form a lil bit sha, learnt that sometime back at caring less, wen a girls feeling u.. like last week I went to her place after she called me, we kissed, I pulled out n she brought me back in, wanting the kiss more. Unfortunately for me, I had no condoms on me n I swear I felt like crying. Had to postpone the smooching to another day. But right now things has gone sour, I really don't know where I went wrong, but I have a feeling I didn't get romantic enough with her, right now we chat n I start the convo most times.
Boss, I just need ur advice on this. Thanks

Probably she has deciphered your game and she is now on the defensive side. Most baes don't like it when they offer you so much and you turn them down, it happened to me too, this Bae was cute, sexy but she was the expensive type. I am equally cute, well groomed and comfortable. We got talking exchanged numbers, I called frequently, branch by her office once in a while, she opened up she was dating someone and reiterated the need for me to back off cos she didn't wana cheat as a sharp guy I convinced her I want to just be a friend. We fixed a date on a Sunday, I told her I would pick her up after church, Pastor that day preached about karma and it touched me, so after church I called her and I asked where she wanted us to hang out and she said my house, we went to my house, got her a drink and cooked for her, then we got talking and playing,we started romancing, then the Pastors words rang again, I just couldn't continue. She dressed up and left. That was the last day she came to my house. I think the Bae has lost interest in U Sha

Somethings don't just move me again, very irritating

This generation has lost it. Is it social media or what. Most comments here are morally reprehensible, I am so ashamed. Why lesbianism? Anyway Thank heavens most lesbians I met are now changed. Though am not sure if they still practice it in secret, cos bad habits don't go easily

Fabuloz:

I yam watching you.

Babes won't like this. When you see a lesbian you won't even know she is one. It's not written on their faces, it takes time and experience to decipher them

meiyol:
I just lost my relationship due to genotype issues..he is AS and I'm AS. We knew abt our genotype incompatibility frm the very first day..we were cool with it or so i thought. We were together for a year nd some months before we switched to long distance relationship cos of his job. I'm a med student, he is a doctor, so we both knew wat it meant. I was cool with it cos the signs were there that God put us together..everybody knows it, his parents, my parents..we ourselves knew it that our paths were ordained by God.. Then suddenly, from nowhere, he comes up with dangers of having sickler kids, the diseases they face, their pain and all..he suddenly stopped talking abt d fact that we may be lucky not to have any of our kids as sicklers, or medical methods we could use like IVF and all..our parents are both aware of the genotype ish, mine are very okay with it. He said he's not sure his parents are okay with it and yet they call me EVERYDAY to assure me nothing will go wrong and to cheer me up and all.. i questioned him cos it made me feel he was looking for an opportunity to leave..and he didnt give me any reply, just stopped talking to me.
Our introduction was slated for next year, he is my first love, I've been so loyal nd i pray for him.. I feel so used and heartbroken..my instincts tell me something is wrong..I'm back to square 1, where would i start from? He was my best friend, my everything..now, it's just me

U funny, life doesn't work that way. There will always be someone better who will make forget about him. Just move on, pick urself i
Up, there are a million guys out there waiting for u

Hmmmmm good

SGANIVA:
some girls ignore but this is not right , I once miss a girl that I admire so much on nairaland because is chatting, some people don't actually know how to chat but talks better on real life

Oga this your English can strangle the girl. Haba kilode

pocohantas:
The connection with hell fire is for those who will come from the biblical part, you saw their posts but jumped on mine with selective understanding. Even the opening post is looking at it from religious aspect. A man is the head is your African culture?
It was also African culture to kill twins...draw ridiculous tribal marks etc

You have rejected gay bills, but gays are still thriving in Nigeria with some raping innocent young boys to death.

You all always quick to say two captains are never on a ship, it isn't even the captain that physically navigates the ship. Well, it aptly describes most Nigerian husbands, figure heads...the wife does most of the job.

No one ever said gays don't exist. We all know no matter the jail term, there are still people that will practise what they deem right. We frown at such practice in Nigeria and other nations should respect that fact. A man is expected to be the head of the family, he takes major decisions and is expected to protect his wife and kids. There are rare occasions where a woman acts as one probably because the man can't perform his role properly. There can't be two heads in a family, that's just it. Such situation leads to kerfuffle and kakistocracy

It's lekeleke o, it doesn't disappoint, we even use to command birds to stay at one point in the sky. Memories

I have a business Plan? I saved over 150,000 I want to buy foodstuffs from remote areas in the north, transport it to South South and sell at cheap rate. I need help on how to achieve this without going to the north myself, lalalastica mynd44

Yoruba baes

ymee:
God is the only one who gives and takes.
Please I'm seriously in need of a job, being jobless for a while. thanks Bsc mat/comp.sci 2.1 location: Lagos Contact me for...your any of these SERVICES 1. Computer appreciation 2. Web designing 3. Online registration 4. Corporate training 5. Software Training 6. Graphics designing 7. systems repair, installation and troubleshooting etc babs4realscience@yahoo.com

Jack of all trades. You better pick a specialization

GloriaNinja:
NA THE GUY LOOKS MALNOURISHED

Mumu. Receive sense. Must everyone be fat.

Funny

Protest currently going on at PHED HQ IN AKWA IBOM. All staff have been chased out by angry protesters who stormed the office in buses. DETAILS LATER

RUBBISH. WOMEN WILL ALWAYS BE WEAKER BY MEN. IT'S JUST NATURE IT WORKS THAT WAY, MEN ARE MEANT TO DOMINATE AND RULE.

everybody cannot be an entrepreneur, management and decision making requires alot of skills, patience and hardwork. I remember when I finished service I didn't get a job for 6months, I ventured in teaching in a primary school and organized private lessons. I did that for 1year, It got to a point I almost gave up on myself and God, but God had plans for me, I started as an intern in a firm, the firm retained me but I got a better offer twice my salary. Don't give up, work on yourself. Entrepreneurship isn't something that just works immediately. However, it pays

He should be grateful him and his wife are alive. He can always get another car, phone and camera. Nothing can be equated to the gift of life

charlsecy:
He didn't talk about spirits or gods. He discussed the existence or otherwise of Hell and Heaven.

There is no way you would talk about heaven or hell without mentioning spirits or gods. GODS and spirits live in heaven / hell. If Gods or spirits exist then definitely heaven and hell exists. Logical