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A picture is worth more than a thousand words.Need i say more

This is so so sad.Just read it on twitter,how can this be?10 pm?Unthinkable,most businesses will simply grind to a halt.Is this the best the intelligence community could come up with?

Nigerians are notoriously & atrociously religious it's almost unbelievable.'leave it to God''God dey''pray for the nation''Allah is watching,reh,reh,reh,bla,bla,bla!Those are some of the popular slogans that have been ingrained in our thoughts,thus the docility we find ourselves in.We're all expecting our miracles after investing heavily with the numerous men of God scattered all over the place.Who wan die when my miracle is on the way.

In the words of the legendary Fela:'We fear to fight for freedom,we fear to fight for liberty,we no wan die,I get one child,papa dey for house,mama dey for house,i wan build house & so on & so forth

Please can you point me in the direction of any book or article that lay claims to fidelity being a man's thing from the days of yore until recently?Even the Greek gods mythology is steeped in adultery & infidelity.I don't know the books you read probably the ones you wrote yourself but they sure are affecting your cognitive skills.


Zeus was the god of the earth and the sky. His symbols were the thunderbolt, the eagle, the bull and the oak. Although he was married to Hera, his elder sister, he would frequently cheat on her with many mortal women. other goddesses and nymphs. He is depicted in statues and paintings as a middle-aged man seating on his throne or throwing a thunderbolt.


http://www.greeka.com/greek-mythology.htm

Jbenue:
Its not just the style of the housing alone, in nigeria most of our cities are dead in a ton planning sense, the city center in nigeria always looks disjointed there seems to be a lack of synergy in the ay different buildings relate to each other. There is always a roadwith no pavement what so ever boardered by Open drains(I never undrstood this concept). The buildings on the side of the road are either right up against the road making it crowded or to far from the road creating a space for litter to accumalate. Furthermore why must there be a fence between every building? The cities would look so much better if there were shop terrises in ros rather than the disjointedness of individual buildings boardered by a cold fence. Nigerian architects, city planners and city planners have a lot of work to do if we are to catch up with the rest of the world.

you keep going on about catching up with the rest of the world.Have you factored security into the equation?Those fences are erected to do the job of the police,sad but true

queensmith:
Right- now i see where you get it from. My intelligence is displayed by my ability to make conclusions drawn from research backed with solid evidence.

Yours is copied from a statement written by God knows who and proven by God knows what.
Where on earth did they recieve the idea extra marital affairs have been around since men were living in caves when at that time there was no such thing as marriage?

Where did you or the author of this piece of trash learn your own history?? Monogamy is the natural form of human relationships, even before the invention of marriage men were living- one wife ,one cave.

Diversion from that is a result of intimate perverseness and moral limits continuously being tested.

We even see evidence of this on a daily basis- the foundation of family for example. Most only keep one best friend, we only openly date one partner, and even developing civilisations continue to outdate legal polygamy.

I suggest you pick up some books describing mans evolutionary social affairs before you make rooster based assumptions and try to push foolish ideas on others.

No matter how many biggotted men try to further justify thier nonsense by pulling rubbish out of thier arses the bases of infidelity will remain the same.

They are all a bunch of perverts!!!

Indeed.Yet you failed again to show that intelligence & the 'solid rock evidence'.Oma se o!

queensmith:
just because its [b]all you know in africa [/b]doesnt mean its as old as the origins of the earth? where the hell did you get that idea?
why do you think the Romans are soo socially famous for their habits of the 18th century?

Because they embraced and glamorized moral decadence.

Even the cavemen were proven to be monogamous, polygamy only became soo popular because people mistook the fact that some men had more than one wife according to the ancient Assyrian rule- The additional maidservant is given by the wife if she cannot bare children.

Cheating is a intimate perversion, whether its going anywhere or not!

All i know in Africa indeed.You just keep going on & on about monogamy without substantiating anything.Shows how intelligent you are.

The union, in marriage of two members of the opposite sex is a tradition that has been around since men were living in caves. So have extra-marital affairs. Since almost the beginning of time, humans have believed that marriage was important in maintaining a cohesive, healthy society. Another belief that was collectively held about marriage was the idea that the union was to be monogamous. Despite this belief, some human beings can't seem to live a monogamous lifestyle. Research has shown that affairs are as old as marriage itself.
Why do people have extra-marital affairs?
Some say that monogamous relationships are not natural. They believe human beings are not biologically inclined to mate for life. I say that for every person who has had an affair there is probably a reason to justify it, in their eyes. My opinion is that we set our expectations of what marriage is too high. When our expectations aren't met we look outside the marriage for someone who can meet them.


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^^Did you just say cheating is relatively new?What planet are you from?Infidelity is as old as the origins of the earth & it's not going to end now or any time in the near future.It's still a man's world but it wouldn't mean nothing without a woman on it

It's official: the conventional wisdom is false. It's not men who leave their wives for younger, blonder temptresses; it's women who leave their husbands for—well, just about anybody. Or nobody. The fact is, women initiate 66 percent of divorces between partners over forty. That, at least, is what they reported during a major AARP study, released last year. That is also the impression one gleans when contemplating a new spate of books and shows, from ABC's already classic Desperate Housewives to hot spring titles including most notably Undressing Infidelity: Why More Wives Are Unfaithful.

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2005/07/fidelity-with-a-wandering-eye/4064/

lukecent:
Men cheat abi? bt ma question stil remain who do men cheat with, goat, dog, ape or monkey

Abi o.We keep 'chasing' these girls & they never run away.What's a man to do?

Men's default position is that they want to secure as many women as possible. Virility is part of the male psyche. There is a biological drive, to some degree, to reproduce.

Violence.Nigerians are hardwired to be violent

dayokanu:
In the winter months get a boyfriend to warm you up. Its called going green

going green indeed.Eco friendly

Fashola is working,Lagos is drowning

kandiikane:
lool, what?!!?

Depending on who you're with the payment is done together with gas and electricity and you get your bill every three months. . The bill they sent for my household this month was four hundred and something pounds(bill for the last three months). That amount is too much unless some just love to waste energy, its ridiculous if someone is paying that amount.
And three hundred and something was on gas.

Four hundred & some fraction?   What exactly where you guys doing,burning the house down?

So it had to take Sam Omatseye to get the widow working.*smh

'A friend of mine' 'a friend of mine',that's all we ever hear now.No more personal experiences,long story

^^I've seen how your type end up.You'll be back here in 15 years;'I've been married for 15 yrs without a child,please advise'

Illiteracy remains the root cause of religious intolerance in the north.Added to that is the Wahhabi styled Islam being practised that stifles advancement in religious thinking in the North

MariAmara:
For all the idiots asking this question, the man is not a magician. It took Obama four good years to bring back America from its economic and health care turbulence, and he didn't have uneducated Almajaris bombing different parts of the country at intervals.
So please shut your mouths and go eat a brownie, or hot suya!

I think you're the one that needs to shut up here

cold:
For those preaching patience;I say hush it already!It would be a grave mistake if Jonathan listened to, or worse joined, those who preach patience. No, Nigerian leaders don’t exhibit any patience before they embark on looting – they often start their very first day in office. Why must the long-suffering citizens endure endless exhortations to remain patient, fast and pray, trusting that God, not their leaders, will one day descend from the sky to build their roads, furnish their schools with labs and libraries, create jobs for milling graduates, empower our power authority, conduct credible elections free of manipulation, provide potable water, prosecute corrupt officials, dispose of the hills of trash that perversely decorate Nigerian cities – and do much more.

Da Doctor:
@ COLD, This guy you too daft jare, make i leave you,

So you no go wan marry VIRGIN, oya na HOOK ON TO YOUR 'OGBONGIDI' With expired puntus, i wonder how she would look, anyway.,,,i dont care, as long as u enjoy her,

But dont forget to enrol with ZANDHA, she will brush up your mentality

Oh so na virgin you dey find?Ah,ah you for talk since maq i know how i for taq follow you.Olodo

Da Doctor:
[color=#000099]@AKAN AND COLD,

[b]A WOMAN SHUD BE AS PURE AS SHE CAN BEFORE MARRIAGE, ABI GOOD THING NO DEY HUNGRY UNA?

Do you intend to marry a virgin?If your answer is no then I dare say your dumber than I gave you credit for.If your answer is in the affirmative then i sincerely hope you don't end up with a 'surgery to restore hymen' kinda lady cuz at this rate things might not end well for you

For those preaching patience;I say hush it already!It would be a grave mistake if Jonathan listened to, or worse joined, those who preach patience. No, Nigerian leaders don’t exhibit any patience before they embark on looting – they often start their very first day in office. Why must the long-suffering citizens endure endless exhortations to remain patient, fast and pray, trusting that God, not their leaders, will one day descend from the sky to build their roads, furnish their schools with labs and libraries, create jobs for milling graduates, empower our power authority, conduct credible elections free of manipulation, provide potable water, prosecute corrupt officials, dispose of the hills of trash that perversely decorate Nigerian cities – and do much more.

Da Doctor:
lets see, YOU GO RUN DEY FIND HELP SOME DAY.Anyway, i guess you have employed a counsellor already sha.

U WAN TAKE YOUR HAND CALL POLICE FOR YOURSELF, ,,GO ON  AND ENJOY THE'CELL' Then  

Seriously i don't want to sound like a doomsday prophet but I look into your future & I see nothing but chaos.*shudders

The feeling is mutual

Well I havn't completely lost my mind.& i've seen children turn on their biological parents,in some cases killing them.I hope your case would not end up like that

Let me reiterate,you're an i'diot for airing such a useless opinion.What's all that BS you folks always yap about forgiveness & stuff?

@Da Doc,i'll restrain myself & call you an i'diot.& to think you're one of those on here always mouthing off abt Christ & Christianity.The hypocrisy of these christians is overwhelming

I'm currently involved with one.She's as cute as they come,intelligent,well spoken,in short she ticks all the boxes save for the baggage.I'm even considering tying the knot but still giving it some thought.

The OP is high on cheap drugs

These monies can be paid if the government in the respective states are serious.Streamline the civil service,eliminate duplicitous offices & roles,cross check,double check & re check for ghost workers.Furthermore, reduce corruption to its barest minimum & you'll have enough to go round.Anything short of this is a complete waste of time.

The sooner Muslims realise violence is not their exclusive preserve the better it would be for everyone