₦airaland Forum

lilvicky68:
If you confront her in a calm place..you can ask why

Once I did, what one of the girls told me is that it's not by force to talk to people, so I lock up

lilvicky68:
Have you tried asking why?

How u want use ask person way no want talk to u or way dae even avoid u... Y?

lilvicky68:
Lol..e be like say na overhyping be your problem

Sorry...

But it's very confusing. I don't believe in witches or all those spiritual things, but I can't seem to know the reason y for absolutely no reason at all I have never really dated any girl in my life.

azraeljaheel:
Then I must say this with all certainty that you have spirit wife that must be threatening your female friends once she senses you guys are getting close


Seek help from pastor righteousness 2

I don't believe all those things but It might be true, if I put my pic on this nairaland I fit cause problem. Only the day I put my back on Facebook I almost cause big problem.

But in my life I have never had a gf before despite how much I try

azraeljaheel:
Maybe you have halitosis


Or body odour


Just saying


Or would you consider yourself they clingy type ?

I don't have any of those things, it normally goes from us being good friends to outright malice

TripleAR:
You trying to hard to be friends with them
They will take you for granted

Am trying my best, me once I close that door I don't know how to open it o. It might become forever. That's y I try to prevent it.

I know people that we haven't spoken since primary 6 till today for this same reason, till today I don't know what happened

I beleive am one of the nicest person's on earth, not just my beleive I know that.

I am the kind that keeps to my word even if it takes years I always keep to it.

Over the years I have this issues with girls, I would meet a girl we are friends no issue, no strings, I try my best to be the best if friend any person can have, but for no reason absolutely no reason at all the lady or girl would just stop talking to me and that's it.


It had happened alot of times, I know girls that we didn't quarrel nothing at all we just stopped talking, it's been over 15 years we are not talking.

Now same thing is about to happen again to someone I have known for some months, she just stopped talking to me and always avoids me, I am trying my best to know the issue she just ignores me. Am not doing that cause am weak, am doing it cause I know if I stop talking to her it's final. We might not talk to each other again in this life, and I don't want that to happen.

Does anyone know what the problem is

Police hardly arrest this type, they are busy looking for well dressed people to tag yahoo boys

Yes we Igbos support them, oil was discovered by the north.

OsusTroller:
This shameless olosho LovePeddler


Where is miracle sef?

Shameless village boy

Dont waste your time.

Banking and finance became useless the moment they opened it up to everyone whether u studied banking or not.

The funny thing same procedures u need to get a job is same people from all d way from engineering need to get job.

They can't even say if u studied banking u don't need ican or acca, an engineer with ican has more hopes than u

BigDan69:
Dude u funny, I am making money u are telling about all these crap.
No worry Shey na bush meat and hiking? Vacation dey for that one

Na poor man mentality way think say everything na all about money.

When u grow up, u would know that a stage would come in your life that money is no longer important but living life to the fullest, till then continue making change thinking your enjoying

SuperSuave:
Omo.. sorry

D only girl I try catch, na V. I try tire we no fvck only for her to fvck my friend wen I go. My friend tell me she start to tell me say e happen by mistake.

Oya fvckees mk una stay together leave me alone, it's been years now the girl still dae disturb me

Till now they can't provide her picture

spiralwedge:
This is so myopic. Looks like an opinion from someone who isn't well exposed or impoverished to some extent.
You waste 1 year doing exactly what?
Fvckking, and risking your life for what exactly?

You will create thousands of your own adventures if you use that to learn skills and develop your career and start earning good money then go on vacations.

Some use that period to prepare to move abroad, write exams etc.

NYSC will be scrapped soon, only people like you will miss it.

You are saying my post is myopic, but same u put as your bio, everything is temporal enjoy the moment. Or do u think it's by talking

creativeinventor:
Guy pardon me, but these reasons are so stale.. so because of swimming, eating bush meat and trekking miles you never imagined is the thing that makes us don't know what we're missing by not doing NYSC.
See guy that thing is a complete waste of time wether you like it or not, especially doing it for Nigeria. We get opportunities everyday, if you think it's only in Nysc that you'd get connections then you haven't taken advantage of things around you. As far as I'm concerned, concentrating on your life time goal for that one year is miles better than serving one Country called Nigeria.

It's your choice no be by force

BigDan69:
Lol guy u no well, I am mot loosing anything. I went to camp, I don Bleep tire for school nothing dey inside.

So u think going to camp is all abt in your words bleeping?

If na fvck carry me go nysc I for no go.

First time in my life to swim in a river happened in my nysc, the learnt how the swim during my nysc, not to talk of the fact that during my nysc I ate some bush meats that u can hardly ever get in cities, I met people I could never have met in this life if not for nysc, experienced things I could never have experienced, climbed hill I could never have climbed, trekked for miles I could never have imagined. The list goes on


Dae house if u want dae, dae see the same people u saw dz year, saw last year and will see next year and use it as a reason to justify it, an opportunity to shuffle the cards.


Na u know sha

eplanning:
You mean Akwaibom and Calabar, not cross River. Because Ejagham are not with you. They'll rather go with Biafra. Soon oron will seek their own country, then Anang will seek their own.



Y'all hiding under Biafra agitation to demand small small nations should wake up. Otherwise if Biafra leaves you, y'all are finished. Fulani will chew you raw. Join forces together now. Many of your people already believe in Biafra. Philip Effiong from Akwaibom led the Biafra struggle.

No one will stop you from excercising your autonomy as Ibom nation in Biafra because what's being proposed is a confederation.

Everytime una just dae find find trouble

I support ibom republic. I stand with ibom republic

lereinter:
Flee from here � devil

How

BigDan69:
Lol guy u no well, I am mot loosing anything. I went to camp, I don Bleep tire for school nothing dey inside.

So u thini its because f fvck

BigDan69:
Mad o
Well for me I am currently serving but a ghost. I cant watse my 1year like that.

You are the one loosing out. Sth that in your lifetime you only get to do it once, I repeat once in a lifetime and it never happens again, and you refuse to attend. Who do u think is loosing?

What you are doing right now u can always do it other years. But u can never serve again.

Add 1+1 together

I no get any corper escapades, they sent me to an isolated village in delta far from other corpers, even getting transportation was hard we had to flag down trucks and cars.

To make matters worst they sent 2 girls and 11 guys. To make it even more worst the community hated corpers based on the sexual attrocities past corpers commited.

Their were some children in the village that was born by corpers who left and never appeared again that u can still see in the community. Plus a former corper before us took some secondary school girls to a hotel for an orgy and it leaked. So see problem for us

CSTRR:
To be fair, the south South idea was a just idea.

To be able to attract more investment and attention to the minorities of those regions rather than hiding them under the looming Igbo umbrella.

The problem is ungratefulness and some people not knowing who their real friends are.

It doesn't change the fact that restructuring and South south creation are good ideas.

Tell me what you want the FG to restructure in the south east?

When I tell these people that they should be careful what they wish for they say u are efulefu. That's how this restructuring they are shouting I know that give them 20years they will start regretting and blaming the north

In reasonable countries when they see this kind of news they will try and prevent or stop it.

In Nigeria they will deny it, go underground and build more prisons for citizen's that are hungry.

And some people Will support them

Park to a new location

This guy is going to be removed as twitter ceo soon, mark my words

In d man's voice they say the best of military is more better than democracy

I can't debate with all of u, am leaving this for Igbos of the future.

This should always be their focus.

Aviation and rail industry.

When economy comes in the region.

Those infrastructures must always come first

During Buharis interview he made a particular reference to the southsouth, he didn't say they will not give us their oil as the southsouth always claimed we wanted from them. Now the new talk is they won't grant us sea access.

The fact that that count he their mindset, that they are not thinking of their future or anything but as far as Igbos don't get it they are ok with it.

Igbos should come together, settle down and invest in a generation of Igbos that would know everything about aviation technology.

Everything, let's look for a way to develop our aviation sector so much that sea trading would be useless to us.

U guys are showing the world that Nigeria is bad and are still complaining that there's no jobs.

Ordinary Nigerians abroad are scared of coming home, not to talk of foreign investors.

Continue bad mouthing the country let Ghana continue to benefit.