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Neimar:
u don see Onyi Alex?
d girl sweet pass Ini

party go bad with them

Your head dae der.

Onyi Alex just look like American Brittanya Razavi. She's so hot that there was a time that Zahras husband Ahmed indimi used to follow her on Ig

Quality20:
Just yesterday I saw a lady who likes to give escorts to guys. Men u need to see how guys have damaged her: her beasts so flat like worn out slippers, vulgar words from her mouth and maybe a damaged vg or some shameless diseases. Men we need to fear God oh. Who's gonna marry these damaged girls? If u must use a girl, must u damage her body?

She wasn't offering her services for free. Those guys were paying for it, or was she forced?

Guys would be bad if she was being fvcked for love and got dumped after

U use ur two handles to comment just to fool yourself.

Its allowed sha

Starboytwo:
Good day all,

It's pretty simple, can I be forced to sell my inheritance?

My late pop passed away 4 years ago, he had 11 surviving children from 4 wives, me and my younger brother were the last kids from the last wife...

He left a house in Lagos which we presently reside in but in recent times it's been the topic of sale by other siblings.... our stance remain 'NO SELLING'

Additional info

1-Me and my bro are in our early and mid 20's,we live in one of the apartments

2-The remaining siblings all have families of their own outside Lagos

3- Money is obviously the Motive for selling, but its emotional and psychological for us, dunno if this count, but id also add that my younger brother is a 'son of the soil"here, schooled here and erythane before pop passed, 3 of the siblings have never been here before. Older folks call popman "Baba Shade" we only met at the burial...

We had a Family meeting/reunion mid last year and the house was thrown in a debate, while majority of my siblings choose to sell the house, me, my brother and our eldest brother(2nd born) were against selling...

However, my elder bros and i spoke on new year day and i got to know his stance had changed concerning no selling, he cited heavy pressure from other siblings and he is very tired. And maybe he needs money too...

Which prompted my creation of the thread and asking "can our house be sold without our consent" considering we are in the minority for team "no selling"

Can we be forced to sell? despite having no intentions to do so, and how does the legal system cover for us...

N/B- there is no discord or fight or anything among siblings, we all live in peace and contact mostly through phone calls sometimes.....

If that's the only house ur father built and didn't build for others then u have to sell it

If the house is the ONLY house built by ur Father, and the other siblings want to sell it.

You guys should sell it out at once

AreaFada2:
Remember these are siblings where some do not even know each other. For OP, it's family house. For others who only called their father 'Baba Shade'. it's not a family house. They have no attachment to the house. But are entitled to a share of the house/asset. When polygamy and many kids come into play, selling the house is the best option. That's why writing a will and testament is crucial.

Unless those who consider it family house and attached to it can buy out the others to retain the house. Like I pointed out, when it comes to inheritance, sentiments hardly matter.

This is not a matter of sentiment its a matter of logic.

Baba get 4wives build 4houses for all the wives.

Then baba die they locate last wife house for sale, for wetin now, what of the ones baba build for una?

eazriel09:
You are the selfish one here, you are already laying claim to your Father's house like other children are not the son of your father. The best thing to do in this case is sell the property and share the proceed but I see you don't want to sell because you want to continue staying there and completely claim the property after many years

But other family members live in houses built by there father why must only his own family house be brought up to be sold?

livebyday:
Who made it his own estate ? Or are you speaking for the sake of it?

State facts not emotional rants . Who made it solely his own estate legally?

Or are you a land grabber who thinks all estates are first live first own?

This is not a movie

Its not his estate. We are not arguing that, just as the one the other siblings stay too are not there's, if they sell out the one he occupies when time comes will they easily sell out there own, even if they do will they give him a share?

jmichael259:
My dear forget sentimental attachment. For your own safety, stop saying no when you have been so outnumbered.
The elder ones from first, second and third wives have more rights than you.
1)Can your own share (or maybe with your brother's share) reach like 3-4mill at least?
So that you get yourself maybe a plot or half and site something to substain you and run from polygamous brouhaha before it starts turning messy!!
2) If they're such decent or learned folks, then you should implore them to come together so 11 of you enter a legal partnership agreement as a consortium or cooperative and then lease the land and/or property. Depending on the location, banks, hotel, school, plaza might be situated on it. Outright sale is loss. Lawyer, bank manager can advise you better on this.

This kind of situation, 4wives for that matter and d youngest I assure u if these boys see 2m make them thank God. Except they sell it for over 50m

Starboytwo:
yeah you are right, selling is not entirely a bad thing, we don't collect rent, people working beside and outside our house were surprised we were the landlord, me and my bro be Og's mehn, we live our life and bother nobody, only privilege is rent free and you'd think we are just another student...


It's one of the siblings dropped account number for tenants, that's how rent is collected, I never collect rent etc.. .

Guy stop being an OG and wise up o... U are not a kid again if u are above 30. How would ur dad just die, a house that u lived all ur life, ur far away siblings would come and drop account Number for rent. They couldn't even delegate things to u

Kaeboy:
Why are you calling it your house? It belong to you all, only you can't be enjoying the house by living in it while others think better to sell it and share money. The norm is to even share the property since your dad is no more. So how do you share a house? Sell and share if course. Don't be too entitled

But the dad built houses for others too, y must they sell only his own family house, if they are to sell it cause there's no will they must sell the one his dad built for them too

AreaFada2:
Since your dad had no will, in many cultures the house would even belong to the eldest male child. He can then allocate rooms to other siblings who need accommodation there. Not sure what your culture says about it.

If at all possible, start seeking alternative accommodation. Don't be wedded to "a public" property belonging to 11 children.
Sadly, attachment, sentiments and emotions are irrelevant in a polygamous situation without a will.

Why things may not be going messy right now, it only takes one or two of the siblings falling on hard times to ramp up the pressure to sell. As you admitted, some of you do not even know each other that well.

Why must they sell only his family house when the other siblings have family houses too,
If they want to sell anything and share it so everyone can go there separate ways then everything must be sold both the family house of the other siblings.

tropaz:
You are just a selfish kid
@OP

What if you are just a damn bastard?
Think about it!!!

Intact, other siblings should ask you for house rent from the day you started staying on that property till the day you make up your mind to sell...

This is a very ignorant statement.

Why must it be only his own family house, why can't the other siblings sell there own too so they will all be even. And no one will be selfish

extremelygolden:
My dear, you don't need all this. Just pray that God will bless you so you can build your own house(s) in the choicest part of the city. At that time, you can even come back to repurchase the house from the current buyers and renovate it to your taste. Or buy another close to it's current location and convert it to an edifice.

But until then, be alive for us and your loved ones.

Why all of una too dae reason slow. What is the benefit of this your comment to his predicament.

A 25years old guy is about to loose his family house and u are advising him to loose it and pray that one day God gives him money to buy a better house, which kind of thinking is this

Starboytwo:
infact I'm now ready, but it should be in record that we never consented for future purposes

If u sell it once money enters there hand, ur family share will be the smallest, apart from that you guys are plenty, u would be surprised when they give u just 1m as ur family share. What can that 1m do for u as accommodation in Lagos.

Even if the sharing option was to come up, they can rent out the other flats while the entire extended family share d rent but selling out ur family house is a Big NO.

livebyday:
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You don't know law , this is not a Nollywood movie !

The law is very clear, he only has superceeding rights where he is stated as sole beneficiary of the estate ! He is not !

I was involve in something similar recently ..

He has no rights above any of the other children!

His late father should have named him sole beneficiary unfortunately he didn't !

Fact!

Just as they too have no rights too when it comes to there own various estates. If his own estate is to be sold and money given to everyone, because there's no will, the estates of the other wives must be sold too, cause there's no will naming them sole beneficiary too.

I too have experienced something like this

If u sell that land since your family is the youngest you will get the smallest share.

The share u would get, it won't be long till u become homeless. And that's not a smart move.

lorhema:
Tough but true.

There's nothing true here

livebyday:
Firstly it's not your home more than it's theirs .. there is no will indicating your as primary custodian of the estate (the house)

So whether you where born and raised there is totally irrelevant.

Yes the house can be sold without your consent and all children are deemed beneficiaries of the estate and you are not stated in any document as executor of the estate hence you have no power above the other children.

The house will be sold.whether you approve or not and it doesn't belong to you it belongs to all biological children of your late father . Whether you live there and get married there is irrelevant the home is not yours

Move out , it is not your inheritance it's all of biological children's inheritance

But other family members have houses of there own built by there father. But they want his family own to be sold.

If they are to sell he's to share the money then every body's house must be sold too and the money brought together and shared.

Starboytwo:
Good day all,

It's pretty simple, can I be forced to sell my inheritance?

My late pop passed away 4 years ago, he had 11 surviving children from 4 wives, me and my younger brother were the last kids from the last wife...

He left a house in Lagos which we presently reside in but in recent times it's been the topic of sale by other siblings.... our stance remain 'NO SELLING'

Additional info

1-Me and my bro are in our early and mid 20's,we live in one of the apartments

2-The remaining siblings all have families of their own outside Lagos

3- Money is obviously the Motive for selling, but its emotional and psychological for us, dunno if this count, but id also add that my younger brother is a 'son of the soil"here, schooled here and erythane before pop passed, 3 of the siblings have never been here before. Older folks call popman "Baba Shade" we only met at the burial...

We had a Family meeting/reunion mid last year and the house was thrown in a debate, while majority of my siblings choose to sell the house, me, my brother and our eldest brother(2nd born) were against selling...

However, my elder bros and i spoke on new year day and i got to know his stance had changed concerning no selling, he cited heavy pressure from other siblings and he is very tired. And maybe he needs money too...

Which prompted my creation of the thread and asking "can our house be sold without our consent" considering we are in the minority for team "no selling"

Can we be forced to sell? despite having no intentions to do so, and how does the legal system cover for us...

N/B- there is no discord or fight or anything among siblings, we all live in peace and contact mostly through phone calls sometimes.....

Dont sell anything. If u are to sell your house they too must sell there own houses too, let all the house of all the wives be sold and the money shared amongst all the children.

The other wives can't have roofs over there heads while they expect u to be homeless.

Highest u would find out that ur family share from the house might be just 1m or 2. That's a year or 2years rent in Lagos, would those same family members allow your family move into there house when u now become homeless.

They just want to intimidate your family since your family is the youngest.

dawnomike:
Thread carefully... I pray God grants you wisdom to handle this right. I can understand how you feel

What is the significance of this your comment to his plight. If everyone starts telling him this would he solve his problem

debbysure01:
Before nko, is that not where most rich people are?

Will you like to Burn that fat in 28 days? Check my signature.

That's not an excuse

Mokason28:
I don’t reply childish people

I repeat get sense o

Mokason28:
Rivers and Lagos State equals Amechi and Tinubu Heads Money launderers
Mr Magu please sir be bold enough to mention the names of people and companies involved in this heinous crime

What is ur problem, so u are saying Amaechi is more corrupt than Wike.

Get sense o

I am an Igbo guy but I am disappointed at our people. This yahoo and fraud has eaten dreo into the lives of our people

Xavi2019:
There's no lie there....

The story no even complete.

Plenty Infos about Nigeria is still lacking

With the way north carry Islam for head I thought they would side there Muslim brothers. But it seems I was wrong, they only remember Islam Islam when it comes to Nigerian election and how to destroy beers and alcohol

Islam should stand together, its time for northern Nigeria to show us all the sharia they practise up north, them carry Islam for head pass Saudi Arabia.

By reacting to the US attack

Who else discovered that, all our great pastors of Nigeria that keep seeing vision and prophecy's, no one predicted the US attack on Iran or the upcoming ww3.

Funny... Na better one chance we enter so

Trailer way don dae since

3years later light no still dae