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STOP waiting your time, they don't have the continent best interest at heart, if they did, the continent won't look the way it did now or before items of democracy, education, infrastructure, economy, etc.

Any partner you're been deceive to relie on are there for the interest of their nations, citizens and economy prosperity.

Go to some African countries with Chinese presence and see economy and infrastructure growth within few years, STOP believing in Europeans/Americans.

1. Men PAY attention here, be wise NOT to send your wife to school, if her parents cannot...you're better off doing charity (send an unknown woman) to school.

2. Men PAY attention here, if you overly support your wife career or finances, you will end up like this late Obi.

*Women/wife, their family before marriage, and money/success in business or career are in a top secret relationship, you're better off NOT knowing, if you do...your marriage will END and you will be ridicule by ALL even before and after the divorce.

benjackugo:
https://igberetvnews.com/1445157/saint-obis-marriage-took-away-friends-acting-zik-zulu/

Welcome to true reality of men, lessons learn for others but keep in mind Karma will come visiting and UK isn't what most people think.

Even the nursing degree don't mean a thing, the reality of earning and taxes, and cost of living will set in and not to show after 25yrs.

Make she go ask the people there....

God1000:
This is bad, a married woman for that.

People should pay serious attention during courtship, don't ignore certain red flags.

Some people are just unpredictable, they will turn to snakes and chameleons, break your heart and leg it.

It's called grooming, your new wife is so lucky...

Jennyclay:
These useless men won’t go and fight their mate.

But they are good at punching women at any slightest provocation.

All women beater shall die this year!! Amen!!

Maybe you should tell women's to learn basic courtesy. North truck drivers, came back after so many frustrating days on the road without TV to watch, she's been home watch that TV everyday or night.

What will it take for women to respect themselves and don't provoke men?

Move on, only unmarry kids thinks the way you do.

Your father have different fancies and challenges in marriage as an individuals that you'll never know, and he exploited and dealt with his issue how best he can...if you found out about his shortcomings, forgive and move-on, when you marry you'll understand.

Don't get fool by Nigerian women, she's doing it in public to get the reward...she's not doing this to her husband or in-laws.

I don't understand how educated men allowed their educated and working class to keep her earning while she expedite spending on theirs.

Whatever disrespect you get from such women you desire it, she came into marriage to contribute, grow and development the relationship and family, not a burden. If she thinks like African women, you need to get it off her head or parents ahead as soon as possible otherwise, it's time for the marriage to end.

If you needed an illiterate, burden and entitled non-working class girl/women, you should have gone for such but if you marry educated and working class, she either be part of the financial solving problems or get the hell out including her family in today 2023, we're no longer in 1940 - 1980.

If wife contribute to finances or family project you will earn her respect, loyalty and no non-sense f*ck her boss behavior but men get what they allowed.

When you're successful, mom take control of your marriage and your wife. They become a threat to your wife because they feel, she didn't deserve what they have invested in and they will take control of the yield.

She will show you and your wife alot of emotional abuse and turn the other children against your family, if she doesn't have her way. And every effort you have made to help other children, they will all feel entitled and see it as nothing, and become disrespectful like her.

This was my experience too, and you cannot please them until they die...infact, I work oil and gas too in Nigeria got feed up and relocated aboard, she came visit and the hassament and bully continued, even after returning to Nigeria. Your wife is her tools, and the poor girl trying to create peace but she and the other children wants war and threat to her marriage.

Ignorance, bad education and lack of exposure dey worry you.

They implement it here because we're the World poorest country but use the most expensive data cost per capital, and we have the population to profit there pocket.

This are some of the reasons most developed countries refer to Nigeria are the gaint of Africa.

My dear leave and you don't have to consult anyone. This was his parents problem and the successful park it in your garage.

If you continue to stay, him or you might not leave to tell the story because domestic violence is on the way, and the devil will use either of you.

The police should be looking for you as we speak because you're not concern but jealous of the amount of money been spent on the girl rather than you, the male friend.

Do not play ignorance with Northern Muslims (Hausa/Fulani) Okada riders operation operandi.

If you allow them, they will take over your state or community and become a threat to you/generations - deadly extreme violence and religious rights.

So when you see Israel treat them the way they do it, you have to adopt that same pattern to get your space and freedom from them. Taking a bike is small but take them out of the street.

If you join police or army or what ever jungle justice groups, etc and you brutalize and kill innocent citizens in gruesome way.

Your day of revenge or vengeance and disgraceful killing is in the rearview mirror.

Those that kill by the sword will die ultimately by the sword if you commit such offense. And will lenger to your generation.

Beware of your job responsibilities and how you conduct it with humanity and sincerity in the rearview mirror.

Women are generally ungrateful creatures even to God. #Eat forbidden fruits - it's a proverb "she commited adultery" despite all the warnings and brought shame and reproach to humanity.

Doesn't matter how nice and great she's now, like all others single-mother or not, you will have reality check with her in the course of marriage and you may not be strong to hold-on unlike if she wasn't a single mother.

So get ready and process your future and old age with her, your children and her child or children. It's more like having two (2) wives with children. #Rough road ahead

You are very smart and have ask questions most people don't.

1. Marrage is a competition, weather you like it or not. You will believe when you sign off your rights and she gets the ring and start having kids.

2. Make sure you're financially and career/business ready to support your family anytime including emergency.

3. Culture and religion don't allow us talk about sex but weather you like it or not, you'll get bored with one partner overtime - same reasons husband or wife cheats or marry second wife.

4. Your siblings will become your worst enemies because they not satisfy with what you can afford but in competition with whatever you give your wife, husband or children.

5. You wife will disrespect you when you don't have what other married people have e.g, house, car, school fees, charity for her family, etc.

6. Her money, your/our money will become an issue because she'll never help or bring her own, she'll when you dating but not married.

7. Your wife wants your asset and outleave you when age comes. Their brain change after having children and becomes ungrateful, and unforgiving.

8. She'll demand and get loyalty from the children than you, so stay patient and watch from a distance.

You not a good guy or cheated. You got what you deserved and missed having free lunch from the first girl you EVER loved but she doesn't love you back, and prefer to share her clitocurrency with anyone.

Which house? The one you rent or build or the one you and wife dey share rent and feeding money?

You better learn to humble yourself, instead of this arrogant policy you giving your life partner and mother of your children.

You are insulting yourself, children and generations,
everytime you rude to your wife. Be a gentleman, process your words or actions before you commit them.

2saviourfriday9:
see sense

Shouldn't Nigeria be the richest country in the World if ritual killing for money works, yet they are undevelop, poor and borrow from other nations to even pay salary.

What a mess this slaves continue to dehumanize themselves and blame whitemen for slavery.

Lagos and Abuja are busy building fancy houses in wrong locations without industry to employee the buyers.

They seal and buy but cannot feed or sponsor their family education and are force to sell and leave the country.

Location/ocean view in Lagos that should be assign for vacation resorts are allocated to developers for housing...clueless and incompetent government workers/professionals. Even the roads inside those estate cannot fit Keke, and no sidewalk.

It's doesn't matter, Africans are afraid of their children having access to porngraphy LOL.

It's a spirit and God given to have the knowledge of everything including sex, when the time comes for them to know, they will know regardless of their physical age that you only understand and not their internal and mental maturity.

Interested of picining, learn to talk to your child about sex, consequences, rewards, timing/marriage, etc.

Because Nigeria do things in a hurry. In other part of the World, they prepare for what head and provide what will be needed but in Nigeria they plan in a rush and proceed in a crash mode until information or data is necessary to solve problems but they cannot get it.

All over the World social security number or national security or identity number is created in 10-digit for easier memory by the citizens to remember when needed but in Nigeria, the numis longer and moreso, created 3-4 national identification number without knowledge on which to use in tracking anything.

The cell/mobile phones numbers are equally created with area/state codes all over the World to enable easier tracking but here, the numbers have no order and if you calling from Lagos or Abuja, no one knows, no wonder emergency calls placed in Kaduna endup been picked in Ibadan police patrols.

Sign of incompetency everywhere in Nigeria. All over the World, pilots train and go after terrorist but here, always crashing and they quickly point to uninvestigated and unverifiable mechanical failure to continue their human error and incompetency.

Stop whining like little children, do your job to make Nigeria attractive to investors....it's a free and competitive World #Lossers

Who is confuse or more confused?

The West and Europeans granting male and females to change sexual identity or the trans-genders themselves?

If you allowed them change their identity and even have more human and professional rights than Blacks, Christians, Muslims, etc.

Why are you still identifying them as male or female and wouldn't allow them play in female sports? If you have granted and accepted them their change rights, they should fully be allow to participate.

World leaders are more confused and hippocrates than they want citizens to perceive them. #KnockJobs

Goggle Brekete family on Youtube and watch their programs, if you're confident and can tell the truth and nothing but the truth, contact them and attend the program to tell your story.

You will get justice by the grace of God.

Where is the motorcycles and plate numbers, who register them with road safety and can the military intelligence visit those homes or address for investigation or questioning to ascertain no more young or old terrorists still leaves in those homes/address to prevent another attack in two weeks or months.

Nigerian have 6 or more SIM registered with different services providers, even register SIMs for non-Nigerians, visitors and diasporas.

The government should stop relaying on NIN and SIM registration but enforce telephone area code for each villages/local government to cities and states to ascertain call originations.

9ja people, who is fooling who? Na the same untreated bore hole water (canal rock clean water) them they refill in your cans.

If water board is not working in Nigeria, where do you think they get the water from? Imported?? LOL

Beware of personal vedanta. It's shameful PDP have nothing to offer the present government and citizens by collaboration and suggesting ways for the country to move ahead, must they be in power to be relevant or be a Nigerian? All they do is criticize all weeks, month and year..

There is no such thing as a weak or strong man. Relationship is a contract, if a girl friend or woman leave or the man choose to leave, you're FREE to collect everything you have given her.

That's how it's done in Western nations, only African women like to exploit men.

If you have been or planning to please a Women, read or view this image. Goodluck!

NO HANDOUT FOR NORTHERNERS WHILE THE REST OF US WORK OUR OWN WAYS TO SURVIVE.

Yeah, it's true but then, the southerner go learn work from young age and don't known where destiny will take them. They found the market naice eventually in the North.

Are you asking Nigeria to pay for your people (Northerner) trainings to be self dependant. Nigeria didn't pay for others, so tell your people and the politheificians to adjust, so parents there can afford to send their wards to learn work.

Youngadvocate:
The vociferous progressive muslim, Emir Of Kano and Former CBN Governor, Lamido Sanusi has yet again sought to speak meaning and reason into his conservative and seemingly intellectually disadvantaged northern brothers and sisters, charging them to learn from the commercially minded and productive Igbo people as well as other progressive southern tribes that have set the pace of development in the country and apparently left them (the north) behind.

He wrote on his Instagram page:


"I choose to fight for the progress of Nigerians and suggest solutions to their problems. It's my duty to speak the truth about the ill-effects of conservative Muslims who are harming Islam rather than helping it. I condemned their refusal to expand their knowledge outside their own religion and failure to realise that knowledge is power.

I also correctly concluded denying the right to pursue scientific and technological knowledge and restricting people to Islamic knowledge is the best means of ensuring that Muslims in Northern Nigeria will be remain economically backward. I'm upset at the legion of beggars on the streets and is trying to bridge the gap between the backward North and the Southern parts of the nation.

I still believe that conservative Muslims are still stuck in the 13th Century and their claim that children need no other knowledge than Islamic studies flies in the face of reality. All the poverty, under-development and immense suffering in the North are a result of uneducated masses refusing to learn work or a trade.

The majority of technicians in Kano are from the South while untrained indigenes beg. How does that make sense? Why is it that conservative Muslims who claim to be against scientific progress enter aeroplanes and fly to perform the Hajj in Mecca rather than using camels to cross the desert! Why do they watch sermons beamed by TV live from Mecca and read the Holy Quaran on their laptops yet profess to abhor modern technology? I'd like to point out that there is no harm in copying from the West if it brings succour to the masses of poverty stricken Muslims in Northern Nigeria.

After all Saudi Arabia, the "home" of Islam is known for its highly-rated airline, modern hospitals, indigenous oil industry and space program all of which make it a world leader. In our backward nation, we insist on denying the truth. Unless Northern political leaders like Governor Yari pay attention to me, there will never be a day when anywhere in the North will be like the modern Muslim cities of Kuala Lumpar, Istanbul, Jakarta, Lahore, Greater Cairo, Dacca, Karachi, Dubai, Riyadh or Faisalabad"


https://www.instagram.com/p/BSvvLdXBl-s/?taken-by=sanusilamidosanusi

http://igbobia.com/?q=again-lamido-sanusi-tells-the-north-how-much-backward-they-are-suggests-they-learn-from-ndi-igbo