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Westerncape:
We started talking over the phone, I know the guy she is dating and even her friends admitted that she is in a serious relationship with the guy..

I picked her number up from her iG page where she sells fabrics materials.. we started texting and sent her my pics via WhatsApp and she checked me out on iG as well..

I teased her with us trying something nice out between us more like a relationship, she truly confesses being in a serious relationship with her guy and even told me how much the guy means to her ..

She has been asking us to see, and take her out for us to talk better and she can be sure of who she is texting, I told her no problem, I already picked a date to take her out .

We were supposed to see last week, but because of my work schedules, I couldn't make it to her place, but while she thought I was still coming, she told me how bad she needed a body massage because of her work stress, I teased her that I will do the massage for her , she changed the talk and said no , that she was only telling me how weak she was after work.. I knew its all scope.

The matter here is that, she said she can try to double date but it would be a no sex relationship, then I asked her what of normal cuddles and kisses, then she said no that, until she sees the whole thing as a long term relationship till she will give it all..

So do u feel something could happen between us on the first date or second date .. I no wan slow and I no wan too fast..
depends on how you play your game!, If you can get her to your house, you can get her to your bed!...
And also is it that she doesn't love her bf anymore or what ?..lol, most women ain't capable of loving, they go into relationship based on what they can get out of it!( You should have seen this countless times on this forum) Just asking respectfully o

but based on the conditions she gave you, you are about to be milked bro, so play your game right and milk her before she milks you!

Mynd44
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Raphael007:
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Mrphilia:
My spelling errors correction is still under review and it reflected in my call up letter. Should I still report in camp with it? Hope I wouldn't encounter any difficulty during camp registration because of it?
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melodyj:
Rivers State, and you?

MicKaro:
Sure bout this?

GlowDee:
please someone should reply me.

melodyj:
Anyone posted to Osun state, please indicate

doctokwus:
Kpangolo activist,always shifting like the sand.
Blaming common Nigerians for vices caused by the same man he praised.
If youths in the western world,more specifically white youths are passing through the same level of unemployment,poverty and general loss of hope that youths in Nigeria are passing through,they would also get involved in vices like prostitution,scams and other serious vices.
A society that has created a few stupendously rich people with millions of poor people, especially youths of both sexes,is always a good recipee for debauchery.
The leadership in Nigeria,over several years,but especially these past 8 years has been one of the root causes of the sorry state of youth vices and criminality in Nigeria.
When a God fearing girl,that attends church or mosque is faced with extreme poverty,not knowing where the next meal or even the money for her next menstrual pad will come from,sees a man or someone that guarantees her her basic needs for sexual or other immoral favors,it takes more than fear of what society will say,to keep her morality.
When your friend that is into "runs" gets the best things,meets someone that meets her needs,looks good and is attracting the well to do men,it takes more than fear of God,for you to be moral in an immoral society.

ukaface:
Nigerian mentality.
The ' I don't care attitude,I'm only looking out for myself' one reason all Nigerians are the cause of their predicament.

wealthpreach:
After destroying a team that was solid. They reached two ucl final in 5 years before he joined them. After he left, dd they get past quarter finals? Mind you, they have taken two great boys from fiorentina. They have gradually come back to winning ways with a solid Dušan Vlahović. Check how many free-kicks he(Ronaldo) took, check how many he scored. He took the duty from pjanic and dybala; still, nothing!

osazsky:
if Buhari leaves as president the economy is not going back to where gej left it in the next 50 years if u like bring queen of England.. and boris Johnson then Obama as our Senate president...the 50 years must complete

osazsky:
dey where declining by winning the seria a 8 times consecutively before the idiot came and gave us bad luck..as a juve fan ..the was day of my life was when we got him from real Madrid.. I hope we get over this mess in 10 years time..juve for life

Omonigho1976:
From the few comments on this topic I'm now fully convinced that the bulk of those that comment on Nairaland are kids and cerebrally challenged people. Not a single intelligent contribution to the topic but if say na Ashawo matter or other very irrelevant issues the thread for don reach 10 pages

Hisbah21:
hhh funny first. the police must be dumb. so he collected ur money and help you get another Bus. abeg sell the phone

Newton85:
Yeah, go tell Messi and Ronaldo about so-called "EDUCATION".

uncleck:
Opened this thread partly to respond to a thread I read on front page https://www.nairaland.com/6929052/how-started-tricycle-keke-business and partly to educate those who run into a business based on hearsay.

Before I go into the main thing, let me ease your mental stress a bit. According to the guy on that thread and the analysis of many people I have read on this platform, you can save just 5000 daily, that should give you about 150k/month and 1.8 million annually. But come to think of it, how many keke operators do you see living in a good apartment? With annual net income of about 1.8 million, one should be able to afford a semi decent home; fairly nice dresses and send his children to fairly good schools. After all you can hardly see a civil servant that saves up to 150k monthly yet they live more decent life than keke riders. Why? Before I answe this question, let me say that, although I'm not sure, the OP of that thread is still new in that business; he hasn't stayed up to a year. So at the right time he will come and edit that thread.

The truth about keke business
1st scenerio: fairly used keke...
There are two major reasons why people sell their used keke.
1. The keke is faulty. Most riders have very bad maintenance culture especially those who started their keke with brand new one. They feel the machine will remain sound inspite of their abuse until it down on them that great damage has been done on the machine, they put it up for sell. If you're the unlucky buyer that would be moved by the deceptive statement "five months old", sorry will become your name.

2. The owner is having issues with the operator. The owner might just decide to sell off so as not to loose out completely. In this case, the maintenance history of the machine cannot be guaranteed because in most cases, the operator see it coming and is more concerned about how much he can make before the owner seizes it.

Whichever is the case with the keke you're buying as second hand, you're 85% probably going to suffer in the hands of mechanics just few months after purchase. You will spend the little you have saved fixing the keke and will likely spend a lot of time in mechanic workshop making it hard for you to be able to save more. After one year, instead of the 1.8 million you're have calculated initially, you might just be VERY LUCKY to see 300k. In fact this is one of the realities why keke operators can't afford fairly decent life for their family.

2nd scenerio: new keke...
If you want to get a new keke now, just budget 1 million naira. At the start you'll be making a lot of money because passengers prefer to board clean keke. Because of how much you're making, as a real niggar, you will want to love-vendor your ride so that it will become more appealing and exquisite; the satisfaction you feel while blasting jams filter into the air from your keke... you can work from morning till night without getting tired because your ride is soft... you start paying all your bills without any issue... Hardly will you realize how quickly the machine is detoriating.

The reality will set in when your engine start shorting oil. After sometime you're asked to change your piston and ring. That is the genesis of a downward spiral in your financial life.

There are two very important things everyone should know. First, the lifespan tricycle is short. Remember that keke doesn't have radiator yet many of them are three cylinder. If you're serious minded, just give your keke 6 months, maximum one year, before you replace it. Secondly, every other business appreciates while keke depreciate. From the day you bought it, it starts depreciating till you need another 1milion to buy another one. But the shocking reality is that most people can't raise that money when they need to replace it. The reason is that, the death of their machine normally comes at a time they don't expect it, and they try to maintain the old one with their savings thinking that they can use it to raise more money.

If you spent 1 million naira opening, let's say, a provision store, after one year you would be surprised how big it has grown because it grows daily. But the pain of coughing out the equivalent of your initial capital once a while just to remain in business is not easy.

Conclusion.
If you want to start a keke business just to keep yourself busy for the meantime, go ahead. But please instead of buying new keke, invest the money in a business that has growth prospect. I've not talked about how often you will scratch somebody's car and you're asked to repay it; how many times the authorities will impound your machine; God forbid you involve in accident... Everything I wrote is based on experience.

Lee99:
Hey Nlanders, I'll be as brief as possible. So I met my current gf mid October 2021, she's sweet and loving though very stubborn and has an I don't care attitude. I'm trying to change her and she's a work in progress.

But lately, all she talks about is having a baby, she wants to be pregnant so bad, and I'm not ready for fatherhood or the challenges with it. I like her a lot but mehn I don't understand her again, she's hellbent on this pregnancy stuff.

According to her, anything that makes her take in she's gonna keep the baby whether I like it or not, when she saw her period last time it was a huge sigh of relief from my part, now I've nutted more times in her than I care to count and I hope they were blanks because I honestly don't want to deal with it, tho if it happens that way I'll have to man up and take charge of things, I only hope she gets her period soon then I can start using protection whenever we have sex, whether she likes it or not.

Bashing is allowed but try to make small sense please.

BlackHummer:
Ronaldo don see free puff puff chop.

Later they will say “first player to reach 900 goals”. Meanwhile his goals consist of penalties and tap ins

Nyascobar1414:
And ladies should stop looking for rich guys... Go and marry broke guys also... If not, our mothers would have not been married, cos most of our dads were broke during the initial years of courtship....
How you gonn' see that?

Despite all these, I cant marry a non virgin.. If only if I wont pay a bride price..

Cos its makes no sense going to marry a gabbage that was digged by a nigga in exchange of 2k,5k, indomie and egg... And I will now pay upto 2million naira... As in there is no sense in it now...
If only the parent of the so called bride will not collect a bride price..
Then some guys wont mind the virginity aspect...

Though people are different, they can overlook her sexual past...
But, for me, its a no no deal...
Y'all are gonn' be surprise those niggs that dig em will want a virgin to settle down with...

A used girl is meant for flirting..
Virgins are meant to be settled down with...

Non virgins and frustrated hoes... Make una no carry una frustration follow me oo .. Mbok, abeg

peace!

Favfables:
Who else have observed that no one is talking about the misdeeds of the male...it's only the female the society is berating??

When it comes to promiscuity, the female always takes the most hit, they suffer the most consequence as compared to the males...and yet they still refuse to listen...

None of those guys who was part of the act will make a video apologizing, NEVER!!Why?? Because there's almost no societal punishment for the males as compared to the females!!!

If Everytime a person steals and he's applauded and another steals and is punished, who should quit stealing??

Ladies be wise!!!!!

GOFRONT:
Hmmm.....@King

Truely, Religion is the opium of the people of africa..

Btw, what's with male folks wearing earrings even on both ears and then proceed to dreadlock their hair Hanty Anita??

Some even patronize wools and Lush just to keep the dreadlocks. ...

Well, I hope these guys wont run away when God would want to create Menstruation period as a part of their body system since they all want to act like Woman these days..

Delphi:
Very correct!. In Europe, one can stay for 6 months without hearing the bleep of a vehicle's horn. The only horn/noise one will hear is siren from ambulances on medical evacuation.

Annabelle122:
Pls I need a site where I can get journals and textbooks for my seminar research.�

TheGidRedpiller:
As strong as this sounds, i'm actually taking the advice, i admit i went a little overboard. Thanks man.