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At the mention of Ex, many people run for cover.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being friends with your Ex after getting married.

Some people became Ex because we misjudged the part they were supposed to play in our lives. We thought that being romantically involved with them will make a great deal.

Sometimes, we took the wrong steps by being intimate with people who naturally were meant to be our guardian angels or friends for life.

Before I got hitched. I have had not less than 20 boyfriends.

I still keep in touch with most of them because we are good friends first before romance. And note..... 99.9% of my boyfriends were sex free.

No matter how love carry me, sex was a No no for me. (probably because of my background and experience).
The very boyfriend I attempted having sex with, I ended up hating him. Though we are cool today.

But in a case whereby you know that the man you are married to is not your choice.

You married him to fulfill all righteousness like many of my Sisters. Please run away from having anything to do with your Ex, especially the one you have had sexual relationship with. Or the one you are still strongly emotionally attached to.
That is were the saying (old firewood dey quick catch fire) was gotten.

But generally, you don't have to loose a good man or a good woman because your romantic relationship with them did not survive.

One can be a terrible lover but the best friend you may need forever to be great.

Some of you men that deletes your wives friends contact or even change their contact number after marriage, you may have blocked a road your family needed to climb to the next faze of greatness.

If you don't trust the woman you married, why marry her in the first place?

A cheat is a cheat. If you like hide her under your bed, she will still cheat with roaches and rats. So to what end nah?

I can wake up one morning and go see my Ex comfortably. Chiedozie knows that nothing would make me cheat on him.

Same with him. We built and are building our home out of Respect, trust and understanding.

I encourage you all to do same. And if you got it wrong in the first shot, don't be shy admitting your mistake. End it, go for the one you will be happier with.

For now, you are not guaranteed two lives on earth. Since you have one, maximize it. Live unapologetically.

You owe nobody your life. Stop listening to the rules and regulations made by the society to limit your access to joy and fulfillment.

And to those women that will come and cry in the comment section, please, it is not my fault you got married by evil tyrants, it is either you ditch their power hungry ass or endure your cross while I enjoy mine. Allow me be biko.

Ndewenu

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You will be fine las las

IamD18:
What an epistle for diick coming from a pained lady giving herself hope that she'll cheat and fvck around if a man cheats

From a m'dafvqa who got battered by her fellow women because of preeq

Like, who gives a flying fvck on what you do with your pussay, will it stop the fact that men will always go for tight pussay when they want to get married

For fvck sake, ladies sleeps around, they suck different diicks like their lives depends on it , coming to social media to tell and advice ladies to fvck around to cheat back shows how pained and disturbed you are because of the preeq you lost

They'll come to social media to claim not needing a man, while in reality, they can even kill for 2inch preeq

These girls wee not kee me

Yes it's dual

This phone is still sealed. But I want to sell it. I got a bigger gift. No need using two big phones when I can sell one and invest in my business.
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Do you know Why?
Find why below


Why No 1

African parents find it difficult to pass the message of Sex education properly. Hence we grow up to see Sex as a dirty stuff. Even if we must do it... We have to steal it. And most times when you are stealing it... Protection is out of the question. (Emeka do fast before my mama starts looking for me)


Why No 2

Since there was no proper sex Education and the girl is stealing Sex illegally just to prove to Emeka that she loves him.... She will not remember condom though she might have heard about it. Aside pregnancy, she heard that condom prevents STI and AIDS
But Emeka swore to her that she is the only girl he bleeps skin to skin because he trusts her ( dah blackmail remember)
So, in order to remain a good gae before Emy nwamama, the Sex goes with no condom.... Hence pregnancy can occur. Don't forget Emeka edosaghi shishi

Why No 3
Single mothers are treated with disdain in Africa.....
Who want to be called second hand or after one as my Igbo Brother calls it...
You see, abortions prevents stigma that goes with being a single mother.... After all Emeke never ready to marry mbok

Why No 4
Religion
Don't forget to Bleep as a single gae is a sin
So this prevents or hinders us from knowing the basic information about our body including our Ovulation Count.
Don't forget you are a good gae that bleeps Emeka secretly. And Emeka can be Hot any time... It's not of him to count whether you are in your safe period or not.
That blame will come later after you've told him you missed your period.

You will hear something like.... "A big gae like you don't even Know her safe period"
Fix it.

Abortion is the Remedy sis. Whether legitimate or by quack.

Why No 5

You cannot claim Virginity again after giving birth.

An average African woman will claim virgin immediately the word marriage is mentioned.... I wonder why Sha

And even if they don't claim virgins to their spouses... They claim virgin to the single folks. Or their kids
This claims will be invalid if they allow that unwanted seed of Emeka to ruin their reputation....

Because here in Africa, we pretend alot


Add your why too

I wanted to write this as a poem but couldn’t get my head around the lines. So I write it the way I feel and right now all I really need is a priest to confess to, but unfortunately am no catholic and I was brought up believing that only God can forgive sins, but it so scary that he is so big and far off that the idea of an anonymous person seems so real and better, so let me do it the proper way. “Father I have sinned” Then I can get to tell him all I had done. And he tells me to do penance for my sins and literarily my burdens are lifted from my shoulders and I am free. After am gone, the priest sits down and recounts my story he is bound by confidentiality not to tell. But how can he keep such story in his head and not go insane? This story is dripped with sincerity and truth. And to avoid losing his mind over this he wrote my story in his journal. Later that year by mistake that journal got into the hands of someone who told someone who later told another someone the things I did that night and since it has become public knowledge I want to sue the church and the priest for breach of confidentiality. Now I stand in the witness box in court, having just been examined in chief by my counsel, now I was being cross-examined by their lawyer and he asked me one question “what happened before the confession” and my counsel shouted “objection my Lord” “on what ground” asked the judge, “this is not in issue my lord” and their counsel said, “my lord but it is relevant” “Objection overruled, witness you have to answer that question” Then and there I Knew my life would never remain the same.

“Let me start from the very Beginning” I said. Monday 24th, January 2008 On this day I was still married and I can still tell that, I was still happy with my marriage, but the problem is that I got married to a “stiff board”, nothing I did on our matrimonial bed ignited any fire within her it was like making love to the bed and even the bed would have groaned, not my wife, in this age of sexual orientation and experimentation, all we do is the archaic and forgotten missionary style. That is what you get for marrying a virgin, but since I get satisfied, I didn’t think of it, moreover, she was the money bag in the house, she gets the big pay and to her credit she is a very good and loving wife. My life changed, when on this day I got to work and I found out that the management had deemed it fit to help me change my secretary who was over 50 years and who reminds me constantly of my wife with someone named Susan who I believed would be as inefficient as the common name she bears. The first sight I had of her was my doom because she was bent over on my desk with her behind facing the door, and she was wearing the most flesh hugging skirt I had ever seen, with a dangerous slit going up to her thighs and that was the longest, freshest piece of leg I had seen and all I could think of was taking her there and then. Maybe I had groaned or made a noise because she turned around and I was assaulted with the sight of heaven and literarily my heart stopped beating in my chest. “I am Susan” she said, "Can I get your suit or would you prefer coffee first?" And since then I had to walk around the office with a bag in front of me to cover my constant disturbance. She psychologically assaulted me in every way you can imagine until all I could think of was having sex with her. All that was keeping me was the opportunity; either fate wanted to take a shit on me or just wanted to screw me, it presented me with a bizarre opportunity. 3rd of May, 2008. We had to work late into the night, we were the last in the office building, by then she was just like the girl of your fantasy you would not meet. We were in the elevator about to leave when we conveniently lost power, the last thing I rationally remembered was that she held my hands in fear of the dark and I held her close to soothe her fears. The things she did to me that night are things I can’t say in public because it would offend public morality. But after that day nothing mattered anymore, we did it anywhere and everywhere it didn’t matter as long as the opportunity presented itself, at times I had to take official matters out of the state and I would make sure she goes along and then she gets to please me in ways I had never imagined, it was like put of those adult movie scenes and she was both the director and actor, and I couldn’t get enough of her. Sometimes she calls me in the middle of the night and asks me to come over to her house, it was dangerous and risky but it excited me like crazy. At times she would call my phone when she knows my wife would be in earshot and tell me dirty things she was doing to herself, it was like introduction to heroine and I just got hooked on it. She was all that mattered and I was ready to give up all for her sake. I changed my will and most of my personal things were put in her name. I was not in love people, I was way past love. I worshipped the ground she walked on. Things were fine until she got pregnant and wanted to move into my matrimonial home with me. All these while my wife and I had been co-habitating under the same roof with no intimate moments between us but I knew bringing in Susan into the house would not be wise I tried talking her out of it but she would not hear. Then I thought and weighed it. Sex VS a good life with my wife. Even though the former was more tempting I picked the latter and broke everything with Susan and I went back to my boring prude of a wife. 24th of December, 2008. I was with my wife having dinner when the door bell rang, I went to get the door, I asked who it was and the person mumbled something I was not concentrating so I opened the door, the next thing I knew was that I was shoved into my room and I was starring into the dull empty eyes of a double barreled gun. The holder was one tall brutish looking man, three other men strode in and lastly came in my worst nightmare Susan. To cut the long story short, my wife was raped brutally in front of me and died in the process. I was begging for my life and Susan said, "you left me for your wife, now that she is dead, would you marry me?" “Father I have sinned” I married the woman who killed my wife.

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When a girl loves you so much, check well, two things are involved.
It's either you are so good in bed and Bleep her crazy or you are so fucking rich and spoil her with money and expensive things. Now, if you have both, then she will die for you, with reckless abandon.

It's really very hard to see a girl that will genuinely love you, without those things. Forget their holier than thou attitude on social media.

I hear many of the sentiments I experienced at a young age from so many women: that fear of being the only one. The only one to experience shame, to have unfulfilled desire, to have deeply ingrained fears of being “broken”, of never having experienced orgasm, or of being the only one who needs “this” particular form of healing (whatever “this” might be).

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You are whole and capable of healing the things that you are not at peace with.

FROM MY INBOX
Ada pls what should I do?
My dad is late and my uncle is responsible for my academic burden
Problem is he sleeps with me!

I told my mum earlier when he started the advances, she shunned me never to mention it outside. That shud not ruin my chance of getting educated.
Honestly I feel dirty each time we had sex.
My mum is a petty trader who cannot pay my school fees... I am in my 3rd year studying pharmacy.... I am really helpless... and to crown it all
He gave me stern warning never to keep as boyfriend because if I do he will know
I defiled him and got one who slept with me
He was able to find out after he slept with me... I asked him how, he said because he deflowered me so any strange entrance will be noticed. He nearly killed me for defiling his order.
His wife of 6 yrs is yet to get pregnant and I think he does not even sleep with her from how she complains each time I visit the house. She even begged me as her husband's favorite Cousin to beg her husband for her.
I am really ashamed. But the worst that happened is that for 3months now I missed my period.... I confirmed yesterday that I am pregnant for him.
I feel like killing myself now.
What should I do? Tell him? Tell my mum? Or kill the baby?
Share it but hide my name..
(Me after this chat I have been down)
Honestly I don't know what to tell her.
Any idea pals? She will read through your comments.. just give her a word

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UPDATE ON THIS

HE GIRL PREGNANT FOR THE UNCLE UPDATE
MY sincere thanks to all who contributed meaningfully and whose advises were sincere enough
BELOW IS THE UPDATE ON THE CASE
Auntie Ada, I am overwhelmed by your effort so far on this issue. I read through comments and peoples advises; I'm grateful. I told my mum about the case. She almost developed heart attack....she kept saying that it impossible. She thinks maybe I was mistaken. she asked me when i slept with the boy I told you about, I told him 11 months ago. she asks if I can make the boy take responsibility for the baby because she is against abortion... I told her I cannot do that and she threatens to kill herself if I reveal this truth.
Ada, something tells me there is a HUGE secret my mum is hiding about my uncle and why she is protecting him so bad after all my uncle has done to my family still remains a big one for me!
My next plan is to tell my Uncle's wife and see what she advises I do but I think alot is going on that I dont know. Honestly i feel so all alone. No real friend, no father and now my mum? My mum told me that if I love my life I should not ever...http:///n2cuiZ

The Bayelsa State Police Command has arrested a 20-year-old man for allegedly raping a five-year-old girl to death in Akedei Community, a riverine suburb in Sagbama Local Government Area.

The spokesman of the command, Mr Asinim Butswat, told newsmen on Friday in Yenagoa that the man was arrested on August 9.
According to him, the accused was arrested for sexually assaulting the girl to death in the area.
“The suspect was.....READ MORE http:///dlXahj

The Bayelsa State Police Command has arrested a 20-year-old man for allegedly raping a five-year-old girl to death in Akedei Community, a riverine suburb in Sagbama Local Government Area.

The spokesman of the command, Mr Asinim Butswat, told newsmen on Friday in Yenagoa that the man was arrested on August 9.
According to him, the accused was arrested for sexually assaulting the girl to death in the area.
“The suspect was.....READ MORE http:///dlXahj

SAY NO TO ABUSE OF POWER

EMMANUEL DANIEL NOAH, a DPA member was on his way from Lagos to Calabar, when he was arrested and whisked away along Ijebu Ode/ Benin Road yesterday after his tyres where shot by police elements of the SARS at Ogun State and taken to Ita-Oro police station,Ogun state.

Police claim he bought a vehicle purportedly reported stolen. Despite his evidence of receipts of purchase from Berger Lagos, SARS police are demanding for 500k or he will be executed by 2pm today.
DPA tried to intervene and press for his release or arraignment in court. But citizen Emmanuel Daniel Noah appears to have been summarily tried and sentenced to death by SARS Ogun state without a court trial.

LATEST DEVELOPMENT

The SARS holding Emmanuel just called the wife and asked that she pays the ransome to Mr Emmanuels account.
SARS elements have collected his ATM card with the intent to use his ATM to withdraw the bribe money. They told the wife whatever DPA is doing will not work and that they...http://www.controversialada.com/2016/08/breakingsars-to-kill-man-over-inability.html

Report Gathered this morning confirms that the protest is still ongoing as workers complain of not being paid for some months.
Last 3week, they had a sit in Strike which prompted the Chief Medical Director to Pay some staffs a meager amount of N3,000 which could not even go round.
Heavy security presence at the Hospital's gate trying to...http:///6jrkaW

It was learnt that Ibikunle, a bricklayer, had held his victim, Eniola, by the neck and was about to strangle her in an uncompleted building when he was caught by passersby.

The suspect, who confessed to have stolen a three-year-old boy and sold him for N1,500, was later handed over to operatives of the Special Anti-Robbery Squad of the Agbado Police Division.

PUNCH Metro gathered that Eniola and her 11-year-old sister, Opeyemi, were following their father, Segun Quadri, to a church in Ijoko around 2pm on Tuesday.
The father was said to have gone some distance ahead when the suspect ambushed the children and abducted Eniola.
The victim’s sister, Opeyemi, reportedly raised the alarm which caught the attention of some passersby.

The suspect was reportedly met in an uncompleted building while trying to strangle the girl.
An angry mob had beaten him up before the police arrived on the scene.
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HungerBAD:
Wike did it.

End of Story.

Bros make dem no hear you oooo

Rivers State Governor, Nyesom Wike, and the All Progressives Congress (APC), have traded accusations over the persons behind the burning of the office of the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) in Bori, headquar­ters of Khana Local Government Area of the state, which occurred early morning of Friday.

Governor Wike stated that the perpe­trators were the same politicians, who wrote to INEC seeking postponement of the rerun elections on the ground of insecurity.

The governor, who addressed journal­ists after inspecting the burnt section of the INEC office, said that arson should not serve as an excuse for the postpone­ment of the rerun elections in the state.

The governor regretted that politicians, who were afraid of the rerun elections, would go to the extent of burning down public facility to convince INEC that the rerun elections should be shifted.
He noted that no election materials had been deposited at the office, pointing out that the burnt section only served as a hall for collation.

He said: “Those who burnt this office were not ready for the elections. They don’t want INEC to conduct the elections because they know that they don’t have the chances of winning.
“They want to use the issue of insecuri­ty to justify the request for postponement. If not, INEC has not brought election materials to this office. What they have done is to scare INEC. For us, we are not surprised. We know this is what they have planned to do.”

He advised INEC not to be deterred by the arson, noting that the commission should go ahead with the elections as scheduled.

The governor directed secu­rity agencies to fish out the perpetrators of the crime and advised politicians not to see elections as a do or die affair, advising that they must submit themselves to the will of the people.

He said that the state government will provide an alternative office for INEC to conduct the July 30 elections in the area.

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SAY NO TO GENOCIDE! SAY YES TO JUSTICE AND PEACE

Within in a 2-year period 1.5 million Armenians living in the Ottoman Empire were massacred by the Turkish. To this day it is illegal to talk about the Armenian Genocide in Turkey.

On April 25, 1915 through a series of brutal events, the Turkish government began their execution of the Armenians. The Turks burned, drowned, starved, crucified and slaughtered in the pursuit to eliminate christian Armenians.
There had always been trouble between the Christian Armenians and the Turks in the Ottoman Empire. The Armenians were taxed more for being Christian, and often not treated fairly. They turned to Russia for freedom and independence. It was during World War I, that the Armenians sided with Russia against Turkey, in response came the Genocide.

Today, April 24th marks the 100th anniversary of the Armenian Genocide. Still a century later people refuse to acknowledge the massacres as a genocide including the Turks. Many spoke out, showing their support as the anniversary approached including Germany, the European Parliament, Pope Francis, François Hollande the French president and Vladimir Putin.

Armenian President Serzh Sarksyan spoke in Yerevan this morning and shared the following statement: “Recognition of the genocide is a triumph of human conscience and justice over....http:///fiPMyk

How many tongues does Nigerian Navy have? Today they have arrested NDA suspects, Tomorrow they will give Media Conference that they do not have what it takes to confront NDA? Which do we believe? Mtcheeew!

Operatives of the Nigerian Navy Ship (NNS Delta), Warri, Delta State have arrested and paraded suspected members of the Niger Delta Avengers.

The Commander, NNS DELTA, Commodore Joseph Dzunve, while parading the suspects, gave their names as Felix Ibiador and Prince David.

They were arrested on July 10th with new 11 motor batteries and electric cables allegedly used for bombing oil and gas pipelines in the state.

“They are suspected members of the Niger Delta Avengers. Ibiador was the supplier of the equipment used for the bombing of oil pipelines.

David was the mechanic who repairs their boats which they use in conveying these materials whenever they run into problems.

Further investigations would be handled by the appropriate quarters who will review the extent to which they partook in criminal activities in the region” Commodore Dzunve said.

During interrogated, both men denied claims they were members of the militant group. When asked why they were in possession of bomb making materials, they could not give any reasonable answer. Also paraded were four men who operated illegal refinery in the region.

All the suspects have been handed over to the NSCDC for further investigation.
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In a bizarre, meandering departure from his prepared remarks, Dr. Ben Carson suggested that electing Hillary Clinton would be the same as endorsing the devil himself.


Speaking near the end of Day Two at the Republican National Convention, former rival of nominee Donald Trump, Carson brought up Saul Alinsky, the community organizer whose work Hillary Clinton wrote about while at college in Wellesley.
“Her senior thesis was about Saul Alinsky,” said Carson.

“This was someone that she greatly admired and that affected all of her philosophies subsequently. Now interestingly enough, let me tell you something about Saul Alinsky: He wrote a book called “Rules for Radicals.” On the dedication page, it acknowledges Lucifer, ‘the original radical who gained his own kingdom.’”
“This is a nation where our founding document, the Declaration of Independence, talks about certain inalienable rights that come from our creator,” Carson continued. “This is a nation where our pledge of allegiance says we are one nation under God. This is a nation where every coin in our pocket and every bill in our wallet says, ‘In God We Trust.’ So are we willing to elect someone as president who has as their role model somebody who acknowledges Lucifer?
Think about that.”
Carson’s riff on Lucifer was not part of his prepared remarks distributed to reporters earlier Tuesday night, nor did it appear on the teleprompter in the arena. But it was not the first time he has mused on a Clinton-to-Alinsky-to-Satan connection. Just last month, Carson launched into a similar digression at a New York City gathering where conservative evangelicals met with Donald Trump.
When asked by a reporter earlier Tuesday what he planned to talk about in his speech, Carson replied, “Only God knows the answer to that.”
A majority of the speakers during the first two nights of the Republican National Convention have taken time to attack the Democratic nominee.
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PARIS, JULY 20, 2016: (DGW) Nigeria's Chief of Naval Staff, Ibot-Ete Ibas finally admitted that the rampaging militants in the troubled oil-rich Niger Delta are no pushovers because they possess more sophisticated weapons than the regular Nigerian Navy which he said has adversely hampered its efforts to combat militancy in the region.

Also hampering its efforts to secure Nigeria's maritime domain from activities of the militants which he described as economic saboteurs is the shortage of combat ships and inadequate funding.
He made this disclosure on Tuesday before the members of the Senate Committee on Nigerian Navy whom he received at the Naval Headquarters, Abuja.


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Authorities say a Florida police officer shot and wounded an autistic man's caretaker following reports of a man threatening to shoot himself.

In a detailed news given by Yahoo; Authorities say a Florida police officer shot and wounded an autistic man's caretaker following reports of a man threatening to shoot himself.

North Miami Assistant Police Chief Neal Cuevas told The Miami Herald (http:///rhHVyt ) that officers responded to the scene Monday to find 47-year-old Charles Kinsey, a therapist who works with people with disabilities, according to WSVN-TV (http:///2ac7zm1), trying to get his 27-year-old patient back to a facility from where he wandered.

Cuevas says police ordered Kinsey and the patient, who was sitting in the street playing with a toy truck, to lie on the ground. Kinsey lies down and puts his hands up while trying to get his patient to comply. An officer then fired three times, striking Kinsey in the leg, Cuevas said. No weapon was found.

Kinsey's attorney, Hilton Napoleon, provided a cellphone video to the Herald on Wednesday taken moments before the shooting. It shows Kinsey lying in the middle of the street with his hands up, asking the officers not to shoot him, while the autistic man sits next to him, yelling at him to "shut up."

"Sir, there's no need for firearms," Kinsey said he told police before he was shot, according to the station. "It was so surprising. It was like a mosquito bite."
Kinsey is black. Police haven't released the name or race of the officer who shot him.
http://www.controversialada.com/2016/07/police-shoot-autistic-mans-caretaker-as.html