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Xbursta:
you are not tired u dont just fancy the honey pot

i and my room mate were yucking at least 5times a day 2times morning and night and we yuck when we back from school to an extent d anuty in charge of the pharmacy store i use to get condom followed suit even after graduating she pays me well 2 come and yuck..

Get a good honey pot and make sure you eat well..
Go and give dat honey pot a legacy

You were fuccking 5 times a day? And ejaculate those 5 times.?

You can lie for africa. Except if you dey kill urself with drugs. Abi na 2 mins each?

Or aren't busy in school at all!

mrphysics:
I don't know who you think you are talking to, a jobless person or what. I have gone through the thread again and you are yet to make any meaningful contribution to what the Op posted. Here you are attacking everyone yet you think you are better than any body here. To even think that some people have no right to make a comment here says alot about you. I don't want to indulge you in any argument as there is no need for it, I only know that you need urgent help.

The op has been sending 800k every month. When he comes back to the country, he must maintain the status of someone sending 800k. He saved 10m in 5 months, this is low for someone who stays outside and who sends 800k every month. 800k * 12 = 9.6m. This means that he sent almost his entire savings home in a year.

You should be telling the op what to do and how to invest his money. Stop attacking me, I am not the cause of your frustration. How you knew I haven't been to MMIA is what I don't know. When a fool refers to you as a fool, it's a compliment.

Bros go get a life.

This must have struck a cord in your amygdala.

Listen when men are discussing.
Don't jump to type tripe. You were dishing out bunkum advice with sn air of finality. That was unreasonably cocky.

Yes, you haven't been to MMIA. Take that to the bank.

Stay and learn. Men are discussing.

justwise:
Hmmm..5yrs without seeing your kids or wife? Bro you get mind oo

I like the dude.
He sounds so informed.

He gives them 800k monthly. Like he gives all his earnings.

That's huge sacrifice. I wonder why you have to be doing that given that you aren't aristo, an athlete or artiste.

And it's as if no investment was factored in the 800k. If yes, then I am afraid, you acted badly.

Doesn't she earn at all?

How could they be spending 800k monthly while you toil in the cold. That's extravagance and profligacy.


Some salary earners in naija dont earn upto 800k in 2 years.


I hope the wife has good sense and hasn't squandered all on frivolities, personal properties in her name or even men sef. She may feel you pick the cash on the streets.

Fear women!

xplode2016:
still on

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mrphysics:
No Sir. You that have been to MMIA have you bought a plane?

Oga dey one side.
Men dey talk for here.

Sup

mrphysics:
Consider the fact that anything you do outside Nigeria won't last long. Trust me, they are young artisans in Nigeria that have more than 10m in their account yet tell you that things are very difficult here. They probably made that 10m in less than 3 years.

Since you want to do your masters, you have to remember that for the time you will be doing your masters in Germany, there will be no incoming funds yet, you will be depleting the 10m sending money home. What you need is to establish a constant source of income at home while you move to germany.

The fastest way to do this is uber/taxify. Even your wife at home can manage the business. Since you are in UK, buy a good car, ship it to lagos, get an agent to clear it. In a week, you must have registered the vehicle, put security and the rest, then get an uber driver (you must be careful here because same people that complain the country is difficult are most dishonest) and your business is live. You will be sure of 30k weekly and 120k monthly. With this, your wife will be managing while you continue your masters.


On a personal recommendation, I will advise you come home and hustle like others. You have the capital, so if you have the brain, you can get something working.

Oga, you have little or no life experience to give advice here.

This is not romance section.

Have you been to MMIA sef?

MODIFIED:



I like this dude.
He sounds so informed.

He gives them 800k monthly. Like he gives all his earnings.

That's huge sacrifice. I wonder why you have to be doing that given that you aren't aristo, an athlete or artiste.

And it's as if no investment was factored in the 800k. If yes, then I am afraid, you acted badly.

Doesn't she earn at all?

How could they be spending 800k monthly while you toil in the cold. That's extravagance and profligacy.


Some salary earners in naija dont earn upto 800k in 2 years.


I hope the wife has good sense and hasn't squandered all on frivolities, personal properties in her name or even men sef. She may feel you pick the cash on the streets.

Fear women!

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That ash colour hp in last pic, wats configuration?

dreamwords:
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It can but you need to put the right panels size for your battery size, to avoid damage to the battery,

Thanks

True?

dreamwords:
Solar panel can be too much for a battery , and there is panel limit for every battery bank and type, don't fry your battery
Don't charge your deep cycle battery too fast or you will destroy the cells, means you will be replacing your battery so sooner than required,
Charge rate is 10% of rated battery capacity
Unless Trojan battery that can take up to 15%of rated capacity
,you need to make more research to avoid damaging you expensive battery bank

Won't the charge controller manage it well?

Acorntree

Fear women

StateOfMind:
The highlighted explains Op's problem. Dude is just insecure and trying to frustrate his wife, and he ends up being the frustrated one.

Until men like OP learn to free their minds and stop feeling unnecesarily insecure the moment their wives start earning more than they do, this whining will not stop.

Btw, hug your wife for me Op, tell her I said her head dey there. I like women who know how to handle irresponsible cheats like you, who wouldn't allow you walk over them..

Go and work on yourself.

A woman had the audacity to lock the husband outside because the husband was insecure?

She took tv cord too because the husband was insecure?


She complains about contributing to buy things because husband was insecure?


Oponu radarada.

jpphilips:
@OP

it is sickening when grown men choose to ignore the reality the way it is, i will be as blunt as possible.
first, there is no social agreement where it is written that a woman is under a man, i am aware, that the bible spoke of women being submissive to their husbands but that is for Christians, and it doesn't go across board.
just like every biblical directive, followers have a choice to comply or not, little wonder our reality doesn't make room for that.

if you knew that much, then we proceed to the family setting being the union of a man and a woman and prolly with children, it is imperative that a leadership position is assigned, because a boat cannot sail in two directions at the same time.By default, men seem to be the ones assuming that leadership position but it doesn't mean that the woman cannot, so what actually determines who leads a home? 'leverage" or "bargaining chip", who ever has it leads the home. This leverage is a combination of "finance" and "wisdom".

what i see from your post is that at some point in the union you lost your "leverage'' but fail to accept the harsh reality that you are no longer the "leader" or "head" of that union, that position is dangerous as such you need to take a deep breath. i have no doubt that a lot of people misconstrued the terminology you used to qualify "leadership" where you erroneously used "control" little wonder you were berated in previous posts.

Bros, i will urge you for the sake of peace to embrace the reality as fast as possible, your position may be justified if you were once financially better than her and things turn around for worse, in that case, it can be viewed through the glass of oppression and ingratitude which of course by all means, i will implore you to garner all the weapons in your arsenal to put her back in her place, conversely, if it is a case where she has always been richer than you from abinitio, then shut the fvck up and get to work.

i see a lot of men like you who cringe on these advanced girls for financial emancipation with out weighing the cardinal points of what the reality brings. the reality is that in that union, you are just a ceremonial "head" but that position will never be yours except when you get back your "leverage".

in your case, you descended to ask her to contribute for a mere TV set, that is bereft of wisdom, even if you are a broke ar.s.e., there are CRT TV's 21" of 20 to 25k, i believe you can afford, at the same time holding on to your leverage but in your case, you may have coerced her into paying for an LED and you expect her not to call the shots?
you truly under estimate Nigerian women. like i have said before, the moment a Nigerian woman starts feeding you, believe me, you are finished.

My advise to you;

never you take the reality of life for granted however unpleasant.

The leverage of leadership lies with your wife as it is in your home today as such, you should accord her due respect, regard and seek for direction when in doubt until your situation improves.

You do not have the luxury of clubbing, smoking, drinking and receiving lap dance from club hussies except with the consent of your wife.

on no account should you question the authority of your wife or report her to any third party, reason is; it will not change the fact that you are emasculated neither will it change the fact that she paid the rent as such has every right to lock you out, also, the third party invitation can as well be viewed as provocative, believe me, you don't want to incur the wrath of 'Madam', it may have consequences.

If she grants you the privilege of sex, be thankful and do your best to satisfy her beyond measure, never you think you are doing her a favor with your "man of the house" delusion, it may have consequences. if she asks you to help with laundry of whichever kind, by all means serve with honor till your situation improves.

Don't you ever think of cheating on her because if she finds out, i can assure you that you have signed out from her honey pot forever and just registered her boss or someone with a higher social power to take her to the next financial height which may impede your chances of recovery in the face of more bitter experience.

lastly, don't ever contemplate suicide because if you do, exactly one year past your memorial service (if she manages to give you one), a younger and fresher man like you will be occupying the same position you occupied in her bed, and you cant imagine how quick the kids will switch the "daddy" position to the new man, especially when he pays the bill, "in full" this time.

There is no problem marrying a wealthier woman, the problem is not accepting the fact that the onus of leadership lies with her, that is the mistake a lot of young men make these days and the girls have not failed to instill the harsh reality into them.

do you wonder where the husbands of ladies like rakyya, abike, iweala, and akunyili are? why don't we see them together in public functions?


i wish you luck in your quest for financial liberation.

Having seex with the wife is now a privilege? Merely because the useless thing earns more than the husband?

Amhappy:
@ OP it looks like ur papa no tell you this, In African culture,it is the responsibility of the man to provide for his family. Stop asking your wife for her money if you want your respect. When was the last time you gave her money for her braids or are you the afterall she makes money type. Give her money for food,stop letting her pay for it. Let her contribute willingly if she wants but dont force her. If you continue like this you will also lose your children respect.

Idiotic feminists.
Claiming equality with men in everything but bills.

I overhead ashna discussing.

She said countless of her customers release while she is about putting condom on them or before they even penetrate.

Is this true.?

calamus:
The specs you stated are incomplete.
... and can lead to issues during transaction.

I can get you a 4GB, 500GB laptop for as low as N50,000! How?

Well, you asked for a 4GB RAM, 500GB HDD laptop. I might as well give you an HP 8440p

Whats the 8440p for?

.50k new one?

More offer

More offer

Originalsly:
Again?....but he is right.

temmy59:
He is very right

Not really.
This is Africa.
Here, the government doesn't care. We care for each other.

It's satanic to assert that my parents merely did what they ought to do by raising me. Yes they did but again, they went, at times, beyond the call of duty.

Maybe you had bitter experiences.

Mum sacrificed a lot for us.
Of what value is your money if your loved ones don't benefit from it?

It gives me joy to see my siblings, loved ones or people close smile.

Life is a risk. The fact that few siblings turned to be never do wells doesn't mean it's so in all cases.


The youngest of my uncles had his shop burnt in onitsha main market in the 90's.
The elderly ones contributed and helped.

Today he is the richest among the kindred with houses in Lagos and Onitsha.


He single handed foots most family or village bills now without consulting anyone.

Helping people here is like insurance. The wise ones remember and repay directly or indirectly. The ingrates forget.

It also lifts the burden off you at times. For instance, you could sponsor a nephew in school, he will in turn take care of others, if things turn out well.


Ultimately, virtue lies in the middle. Always give what you can afford.

And hope to make more money for most of these stem from lack.

UyaiIncomparabl:
She had better accept the scholarship. That man will leave her if he were offered the same opportunity. Selfish men who wouldn't place their wives before anything.

I'll take the scholarship and leave immediately, in the end, I'll marry a white man.
White men are sweet, plus you'll get enough dollars.
Nigerian men are over used materials and should be castrated.

Chequered upringing has damaged your psyche.
In saner climes, if it were, you would be confined to an asylum for rehabilitation.

It's doleful.

Ok

Ok

New one needed

Ok

chidiogo123:
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What about bag, flash etc?


Again, what's last price?

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