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beeevan:
I really wish I can vehemently deny it, you swept both feet off the ground . As it stands now, my mouth dey shake jigigigi .

kr0ne:
Yeah, she can brag now, same way Fyh Is bragging, but God know say I don try for dem

chaircover:
1% ke are you having a laugh
Free me . .you and I both know that its much higher than that
Many of them drink too much . .the day I found myself in central London during rush hour, the number of people drinking outside packed pubs was a shocker.

Anyway you are forgetting one very important thing and you are underestimating the consequences of this cheating
Go and ask men your dads and grandfathers age. Many now live a life of regret
Many have been abandoned by their own children; while the mummys that they cheated on are travelling round the world doing Omugwo (Hope I spelt that right)

Some of these men are just tolerated
And unless you are loaded, no young girl is going to look your way anything past 45 and above anyway
You are only looking short term . . you are forgetting long term

The same "fat" wife you treated like shit will have the last laugh in the end.
You are better off at age 30 putting on your trainers and saying come on honey lets go to the gym together.
You will reap what you sow.

kr0ne:
Lmao! most Phoenix members picked up on their own, or say by observing others. Like that Gladyys girl that just dropped a free on FFR. I remember how sloppy she used to be then. PaulThor is usually the one doing the coaching. Me I no dey get chance at all
The only two people I can boast I coached are Fyh and Teddybiyasi
There's one other guy, Pein, the one fund of u. If that boy join NL he go wound many people here. I'll post one of his recent brawls on FFR

Mondisweets:
Biko which abs? I have seen your pic, you are quite a slender guy.

its got nothing to do with feminism. If you misplace the your priorities when it comes to marriage, don't expect your spouse to maintain hers.

i don't know which gyms you are talking about, because i have always seen more black women in gym killing themselves with aerobics in the gym.

cheating is a matter of choice, i dont ever remember of hearing about anyone cheating under duress.

men have talked but yet no avail, but you have more men dying of obesity, heart disease, high blood pressure and diabetes than women, because the same man have failed to take their own advice right?

itstpia1:
you are too violent, bye.

stop posting on the thread plz, if you have nothing worthwhile to add.

you can slap your mama who didnt train you.

chaircover:
I am sure you know what I am saying.
There is really no reason to cheat. You made a vow and if you are not happy with the situation at hand, then you say or do something about it
Cheating is not the answer.

So if a mans wife is overweight; will the man keep on having affairs till he is 90?
Do you know how much that will cost him in money and emotions in the long run
He is only cheating himself

Yes we can all look for reasons to justify bad behaviour but we are only fooling ourselves . .cos the truth is that there are no good enough reasons.

You are obsessed with caucasians jogging . . .the same ones that drink gallons every evening after work and jump off lamposts and have one night stands with strangers in alleyways. How healthy is that if I may ask?

Stop being so close minded joor and learn to love your own women. God made you a Nigerian for a reason . . . . or you would have been Clive on Poundland

Mondisweets:
Well i guess you should never blame the woman you marry if she cheats on you with a healthier, muscular looking guy or a richer guy.

After all if sex appeal is all there is to marriage for men, don't complain when women make marriage all about the money.

People are clearly moving away from whats really important and focusing on the most trivial things.

Even if a woman gains 20kgs she can still lose it, with a loving and supporting husband who will encourage her and make the process less frustrating. Even if a man loses all he has, with a loving and supporting wife who will help him get back on his feet.

Its sad we have too many immature people getting married these days. They never willing to put in effort to do whatever it takes to make it work. They would rather throw everything away over something trivial, instead of putting in effort to fix the problem.

itstpia1:
projection

chaircover:
You and this your weight argument as being the main reason why men have affiairs
Stop skating round Dami . .She made a very good point.
What about men who have size 8 wives but cheat with size 14's?

You are making it sound as if its weight or the lackl of it that keeps the hubby faithful

Some men just cheat for the sake of it and have no real excuse; but look for something to blame anyway.

Everyone has a reason to cheat . .FACT!! cos no one is married to Mr/Mrs perfect and there is always someone better looking, richer, more interesting, more successful, dresses better than your wife/hubby .. but they choose NOT to.

itstpia1:
just saying, dont start jumping ahead of yourself over casual comments.

kr0ne:
Yeah, that's right. If actually I was doing a complete verse I'd avoid that. Just wanted to show him how a bar should be

kr0ne:
Ochon

Your bars ain't REALLY THAT NICE/ coz I've seen SIMILAR LINES/ from whack rappers with SIMILAR MINDS/
I'm SPILLING YA SPINES/ cuz you'd have to spit with throat cancer for ya shiit to sound ILLER THAN MINE!

^ ^ ^ That was a bar made of 5 lines with 4-syllabic rhyme scheme (the ones in caps). Always note that ur punch must come last, while the rest are referred to as build-ups. Unless wanna make it complex like Coogar and the rest. . so u can start with a punch and u MUST end it with a punch.
See what I mean by 4 syllables. .taking the last line: ill-er-than-mine.

itstpia1:
a simple statement got you adding 2+2 to make 3 million?

how did no therapy in nigeria translate to me and you should do blah blah?

i just made an observation dear, nothing more.

Guykhena:
Then try going 'horrocore' with yeyenatu,,, .

yeyenatu: I bleep myself both ways and still make u lick up my cum... tongue thunder fire ur palm-wine reeking mouth!!!!

Guykhena:
I bet your heart jumped up your neck when you saw the link...
Teddy's on a killing spree...

EroticAngelina:
no! some men are heartless and cheating monkeys who do not consider girls they blame everything on the girls leaving their own faults!

Guykhena:
There's an adage that the student must face the teacher(made it up now) so...

https://www.nairaland.com/1983654/warlocks-iv-coogar-vs-teddybiyasi#2658423

Lol.

bukatyne:
You are not in Nigeria and by magic, you know that all Nigerian wives are not fit?

My point is that the forefathers did not need to use fat as boju boju; they cheated when they wanted and married extra wives and besides, fat or plump was the in thing then

I apologize engaging you without knowing your beliefs; since you do not know the correlation between spirit of God and putting work in marriage

It is well

Guykhena:
Thread popping up in 3-2-.... .

itstpia1:
Nothing like therapy in nigeria

itstpia1:
What's funny?


MAJORITY are from dysfunctional backgrounds- fact.

zboyd:
Unfortunately, as a married woman, divorce, domestic violence, infidelity & other marital vices IS all around me. Long-standing marriages like mine are the exception, here in the States, not the rule. The breakdown of marriages in the Nigerian Diaspora has been pointed out time and time again, here on NL, other websites and offline as well and it's no joke. Truth is truth, bitter as it may be.

The marital issues I post about are very real in the Nigerian/African/Immigrant communities over here. These are issues which are usually swept under the rug - time and time again. It's all hush-hush. Not many want to talk about them, let alone acknowledge them. Why do you think more and more Nigerian marriage and family counselors are addressing these issues, in the Nigerian Diaspora? They don't want Nigerian marriages to go the way of Western marriages.

The positives of marriage are well-displayed in their level of happiness, longevity and the emotional health of the overall family. You can't fake that. It's the negatives of marriage that are causing unhappiness, separations and divorces and many immigrant couples need help navigating those rough waters. It's no easy thing trying to maintain a marriage in a foreign country. You know it's serious when churches and other organizations get involved.

Feel good topics are just that, to make you feel good, but sometimes they only mask serious issues.
The more you know - the more you know.
Knowledge is power!

tpiah2:
I noticed all the topics in family section have to do with dysfunctional family relationships.

Anyone with ideas on what happens within a normal family setting as opposed to an abnormal one which seems to be the experience of majority of us here?

Nihilist:
Nitlad will probably tell you how I believe Terry is a waste of space....

Anyway, this is not about us...it's about the united rapiists

teddybiyasi:
who offended this old man

Nihilist:
Rooney isn't interested in Nani's girlfriend, it's Nani's grandma he wants to give it to.

Giggs was giving his own blood brother's wife the silent Django, you think he won't or hasn't given it to Van Gaal's wife?

And Valencia is always thinking about sex when he plays his terrible football, so that he can get subbed early to nack

Abeg make i no mess with laugh bo...

Tiyazman:
Ok, I'm sorry sir. Are you happy now?

teddybiyasi:
liar,... last time I saw your pic your grey heir left no space for black ones

so how will a 60yrs lady give birth to a child twice her age

beeevan:
Hypnosis was at play, to get grown women to make a caricature of themselves can't be ordinary .

Nihilist:
Giggs, Rooney, Valencia

Call the cops when you see these guys,

Hide your girl(or your mum in Rooney's case) when you see these guys

Maybe that's why ferguson had to retire, after these niggas ran several trains on his wife...

XPECIAL007:
How about xpecial vs coogar? .
......coogar u INN? For it.?

beeevan:
..like bukatyne said, men like you organized these programs, they always assume they know what women want.


Are those banners for real?

bukatyne:
You dey mind coogar?
I am sure he pastors one of those churches
Happy sunday