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deols: Lol. In my world, girls only date people they can marry and usually, they marry the first, second and very rarely, the third one they dated.

things have changed.....these days, they usually marry the 17th, 19th or the 24th. 1st, 2nd & 3rd? that's probably in secondary schools.

It takes a man to take risks. Just like every venture, profit and loss is part and parcel. sounds like lesson 101. He'd get over it. But I hope you don't mean material things.

i meant emotional & material stuff. there are other intangibles too like quality time spent on the chic. who is going to bear this brunt?

Seriously? with the way people can pretend??

how long can people pretend for? i'm too smart for such acts to fool me.

I really dont give it too much thought but I doubt that I'll fall into the category of your ideal. and still, I am soft spoken and I sit right . These things are not enough to base your assessment on.

they are more than enough.....a predator knows the strength & the weakness of his prey. within a week, i will suss out any chic regardless of her pretence.

But the gaze sha..I can look anybody in the face especially if I didnt know them from Adam..and I won't take BS from no one..hahahaa

easier said than done.....looking into his face is the easier part. how long you hold the gaze for is the crux.

There are girls who look very quiet and cool until the day dem go burst. Na those ones i fear pass o. People like me are open books, easily read and expressive. We say our thoughts and get angry when necesaary but at least, our thoughts are known. We are better people than your submissive lot who are waiting for a chance to be pushed to the wall to show you they can also bite

i prefer the very quiet ones till the day they go pop! open book ones are expressive but they tend to physically/verbally damage a lot of things when angry.

even if they are apologetic afterwards, it's often not enough to compensate the damage they have caused. you cannot uncrack an egg....

the quiet ones are easily manageable - she gets crazy probably once in a decade. i can handle that.

superstar1: So ericksen, strongman, ozil, etc were not available before we started running after unrealistic targets like Fab4 or before we finally signed the liability called fellaini. That 27mm wasted.

özil's agent offered him to us before he called wenger. moyes simply told him he's not interested cos he's got the white pele.

dademola: Fergie shulda left d team in d hands of either phelan or rene, with giggs/ Ole in d coaching crew (grooming for a potential take-over). Atleast, the so- called "transition" wlda been smoother..

but that was fergie's advice....
he told moyes point blank not to change everything too soon. he advised moyes to keep everyone in the backroom staff but moyes asked them to leave.

deols: When I mentioned thatvshe cant possibly submit to every man she meets, I didnt men that she has relatiomship with. I mean every man gutted enough to speak to her. part of her deciding to be with a man, any man in a relationship is her ability to respect them. Not even submit per se.

ok then....

Well, people do that. It is more than 0.5%. The world is large enough to contain our many differences.

you sure??

hahha.You want to paint the other women black. No. It is not agbero mentality at all. I hate the idea of some men that women are weaklings, etc. I cant let them shove me into that dependant creature side. I cant submit just because I am female. The man would have to earn it first.

how will he earn it without investing something(no matter how small) into the relationship? and if you decide he's not worth it, what happens to his (small) investment?

so how do you tell a submissive lady before you take the step? ..abi u can sniff it?

it's so easy to detect. her speech, the way she walks, the way she sits, her gaze, etc.

chamotex: If we don't make the top 4, that might just be the worst thing to ever happened to United.
We won't be able to attract the top players and on the other side, mass exodus of our top players, the few we have left.
Or do you think Rooney, VP and co will stay if we don't make the CL?

footballers are mercenaries. if we had missed champions league under fergie, players would have stayed - matter of fact, we might have even attracted world-class players like cristiano cos players know fergie is gold.

with moyes? forget it. even de gea will go back to spain.

chamotex: The 4-4 draw is better than what they are playing now? You probably watch your football from an angle.
Smh. It's a pity.
Everton might collapse bla bla bla, it's not about the result. We are talking about the brand of football here.
At this point, I'd rather pay to watch Everton play than go to Old Trafford.

leave them, let them be hyping shyte in the name of keeping faith. moyes is a cretin & according to close sources, next season will even be worse if we don't get rid. this is a manager that went a whole 2 months without a league win @ everton in 03/04.

no league win from the new year till feb 28.

elampiro: Ok.
But he has finished above some of them before.

Beating City in recent years is tantamount to any of the above, if no greater.

it is not. how can you go 11 seasons without a league win @ old trafford, highbury/emirates, stamford bridge & anfield??

that's about 45 league games without a win.

[img]http://s2.thejournal.ie/media/2013/05/moyes-away-record-2.png[/img]

deols: But he would have shown himself worthy by those acts.

exactly!
so if she has been in 3 relationships & the men showed themselves worthy by those acts then she has to submit to each & everyone of them.

Well, the ideal relationship to me is the marriage, outside of it, nothing. No responsibility, no demand.

how feasible is this? that the only relationship one gets into is the one that would lead to marriage. the probability is 0.5%

and since you only marry someone you love, With love comes submission. Not the other way.

hmmm.....
submission before love - that's my mantra. i will only go after a woman that shows submissive qualities not the agbero-looking chics that walk around with a broken bottle.

elampiro: Are you sure he has never won in a top 4 venue before? All those times he was beating City left and right, no one fell into that category?

the traditional top 4 are arsenal, man utd, liverpool & chelsea. moyes has not won a league game in those grounds till date.

Oghos1: Lol.
I wanted rooney out too tbh.
N d moyes worshipping pissed me off at some point.
That doesn't take anything away from what he has contributed this season.

the only thing moyes has contributed all season is the heartache for all united fans. another kenyan committed suicide last night - he was probably going to be an astronaut - the first black man to walk on the moon but moyes has dashed his dreams now.

deols: Well, the answer is No.

Our idea of what relationship to get into maybe different. But it does take a loving relationship to give submission.

relationship is relationship. like you have in naija where the guy(regardless of the depth of his pocket) is expected to man up - pay for expensive dates, buy her xpensive gifts & treat his woman like a queen.

when he fails to meet up - he's quickly condemned that he doesn't love enough or stinginess must be in his genetic code. it's not like women demand these niceties directly but it's what they expect.

and she wouldn't need to go on the street when she is ready to settle down. Don't make it sound like a bad thing.

it's a bad thing o.....

Oghos1: Coogar seems to only argue well when he is not being driven by sheer hate.

Casestudy
Rooney
Jones
Valencia
And now moyes.

Remove hate from d equation and he would make a very fine and extremely interesting pundit.

you forgot to add giggs to the list...

all summer, i wanted rooney & giggs out. their replacement could have been ozil & herrera but we retained the quacks & now we are light in the middle of the pitch.

i don't hate anyone - i just want to get rid of the virus in the club. i keep saying we have a very good squad, better than arsenal sef.

however, with a clueless manager......man utd is now the same as barnsley. his subs are pure wäckness & his team selection is bereft of common sense.

elampiro: Did you watch the match Baines got injured? As soon as Baines went out against Liverpool, Everton created zillion of chances. They were just unlucky, else it could have easily been 7-3 win over Liverpool.

what has this gotta do with the fact that baines has the deadliest delivery in england? the moment baines went out has nothing to do with everton creating zillions of chances too........there are millions of factors that could have led to that -

maybe liverpool got tired, maybe brendan rodgers made the wrong subs, maybe martinez's tactical approached changed, maybe martinez brought in more attack-minded players to rescue the game, maybe the game stretched or maybe liverpool panicked.

linking baines' absence to what happened in that merseyside derby is at best elementary & simplistic. football is a team game, not an individual sports. who does not know about baines' setpieces - freekicks, corners & crosses?

leggo: www.goal.com/en/news/11/transfer-zone/2013/12/08/4463880/the-sweeper-anderson-asks-villas-boas-for-tottenham-transfer

goal.com article is what you are taking as the gospel truth? goal.com is a piece of fecal matter. no direct quotes, no source, no reference - just the figment of a drunk journalist's imagination. even if anderson wanted a move, it's at a league game at white hart lane he would approach villas-boas?

chamotex: I was trying to comprehend why he had to put those lyrics.
He should have just left it after his first paragraph.

maybe he's related to nas.

mayo47: Now u coming up with the African mentality, Look u don't need go to university before u can be successful and lest i forget CFA aiint no bullshit certification it's equivalent to masters degree. No one is given any exemption even those that went to Russell group unis.

how ironic?
i am the one with the african mentality not the mediocre that said i wanted to send my CV to his success-starved director to make headway?

at least - when you want to judge a case, do so with objectivity. i have no dog in this fight - i was just telling adaobi to weigh her options before going to a substandard school.

735 i:
You are a baby!!!

....that i do not doubt but it still does not erase the fact that you went to a shyte school. on equal footing, a russell-group graduate will go higher on the career ladder than you.

chamotex: Why accept the offer if you know you are not capable of doing the job.
He is clearly out of his depth...you can see it from his interviews and post match conferences...he looks defeated.

read this article -

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/sport/football/teams/manchester-united/10344035/Manchester-United-manager-David-Moyes-ignored-Sir-Alex-Fergusons-advice-over-restructure-of-coaching-staff.html

it's not hard to see why we are 9th on the table. compare the advice fergie have moyes to what moyes went on to do.....

^^^
even fergie advised moyes to retain the backroom staff but moyes wanted the glory for himself. he probably thought if he retained fergie's backroom staff & win the league, the media will share the glory so he sacked them & brought some of the most inexperienced, success-starved staff from everton.

the result is there for all to see....

chamotex: Does Moyes have a style besides his 'go and play' philosophy

he does - hoof it to the big man & rooney must play in the hole at all times even when we have a better player suited for the hole.

chamotex: How does this buttress your point about the topic?

he's trying to delude himself that nas is a better lyricist than eminem. even from his own example, eminem's lyrics easily subdued that of nas in terms of vocab, rhyming & metaphors.

adebayo201: Huh! u r correct! but we still have to be patient with him! just for this season ni o

keep being patient - when we miss the champions league & we can only attract substandard players then your patience will reap rewards. by then, half of our squad would seek greener pastures. you think those players would stay if we are not involved in those champions league games?

chamotex: The only player Martinez spent money on tahrs currently playing in the team is McCarthy...the rest are loanees.
Just look at the transformation.
Moyes has turned a championship winning side to Ofada rice.

gollum's brain cells have been replaced with ofada rice. no guts, no balls. he wouldn't have done what everton did today. after 1st half time, everton had more possession than arsenal @ the emirates. yet, martinez got there after moyes joined man utd.

why is it taking moyes time to know the team & martinez is thriving. martinez has been able to impose his style on everton. moyes has not been able to do jack at old trafford - he's been losing games & has blunted our attack.

735 i: Durham na shyte Uni?
You are a learner!!!
Make i give you the name of my Director make you check am for where? Ole Ni e!!
Instead make you talk say you wan send am your CV

i make more money a month than your director can ever make. what's the proof that your director even has a university degree? all those quack ACCA-buffs who got into position by the virtue of certification exams won't know shyte about russell-group.

Keep making noise with your Manchester Kpali... just don't make noise in "my space"
Don't even need to educate you on CFA....if after graduating from Manchester (as you claim) you don't know what CFA means; then i'm sure you studied Food and Nutrition....You come dey make noise for here...

what's CFA? if you have to study to get chartered in your field then you are prolly in the wrong field or you studied in a shyte school like i predicted. i am a chartered engineer & i didn't need to study any exam to get to that position. going into a good school & choosing a bright field should be your mantra - one can easily tell you did physical education in a polytechnic, this is why CFA is a biggie to you.

Shift abeg!!!
FTSE kor FCMB ni!!! You just dey look up rubbish wey you nor sabi wetin dem mean take am dey deceive yourself....
With your Manchester Kpali wey you get.........HOW FAR? Which board you dey sit on?
Shioor!!!

how would you explain to an illiterate what FTSE means? it's like teaching a baboon how to tackle integral calculus. with my manchester kpali, i just needed 8 years in the field to get chartered. no special exams, no kissing arsës & no hoops to jump.

you see why it's good going into a good school? you better start again otherwise you have probably reached your glass ceiling. adaobi will soon be your director while you are stuck chasing CFA all over the place.

mumu!!!

PhysicsQED: Coogar, I originally referred to the Buckwild remix of Kool G. Rap's "Fast Life" in my post above, but that was a mistake. I meant to write the 1996 "Norfside remix" of Kool G. Rap's Fast Life by Salaam Remi. That's the best version & I honestly think it's one of the best remixes (production-wise) ever in rap. Here's a link:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTiwlYvbXkk

i know this track - i perused the KGR's lyrics & while it's a dopë track with nice delivery & stuff, it lacked the technical brilliance we have been discussing about eminem's lyricism. the multis if any were really limited to 2-syllables.

where's the pen game & the thoughts only hours of ceiling-staring while chain-smoking can produce? i couldn't find any & this is why i said the difference between eminem's lyrics & KGR is akin to an i-phone 5 & a nokia 3210.

chamotex: Damn! Watching Everton play actually confirms that DM actually held Everton back for 11 years.

moyes is limited - whoever believes he will turn things around at old trafford must also believe i own murtala airport. he's the most negative manager on the planet.

they are getting these good results despite the absence of their chief creator(leighton baines). i know they would have won today if baines was on the pitch. his setpiece delivery would have wounded the gunners.

adaobi123: University of East London. Haba

it's true na.
don't let anyone confuse you - russell group schools are your best bet. take loans if you cannot afford to get into one, the rewards in the end is limitless....

now this is the last report from equal approach in october.....

Research has revealed that top industry positions in FTSE 100 companies are dominated by Russell Group graduates, especially from Oxford and Cambridge.

A study has been released by Equal Approach, a pressure group concentrating on addressing diversity in the work place. The report made discoveries about the progression Russell Group students have made in the working world.

The report called Class Ceiling found that over half of board rooms in FTSE 100 companies had Russell Group graduates. 52.6% of graduates from the prestigious 24 were part of the boardrooms in these top UK companies.

that's the reality.......

735 i: LOL!!!! You sound pained ....But don't take it personal....
My directors cannot be economical with truth...One of them studied Corporate Finance at Durham so he has every reason to hype the Russell group schools but he didn't.

how can i be pained that you went to a shyte school & i went to a top school? i am just laughing at your cheap excuse. this is what passengers who travel economy use to console themselves. "economy = first class, they will all get to their destination at the same time"

If someone who sits on the board and interviews associates and AVP's tells me to ignore the hype with Russell group.... then i'm sorry; your opinion don't mean shyte to me!

he probably went to a shyte school too - they all have the same mentality. what's his name? lemme look at his profile on director's list. my £1 says he went to a 2nd tier school but this is the internet where anyone can make up nonsense.

Manchester grad don't need CFA? or know how to use Bloomberg? LOL....like seriously; LOL!!! I'm sure you know nothing about both CFA and have not even heard of Bloomberg before now.
I don't mind being behind "your curve", afterall.... "your curve" ain't worth 2 pennies

why should a manchester grad need CFA To get into investment bank? he doesn't - his reputation alone will get him there. once he gets there & he decides to upgrade himself then it can be a requirement.

however, for UEL grads like yourself, you need all sorts to polish your UEL certificate otherwise, your CV would be used to wipe spilled ketchup on the table. check the statistics, check the who is who in FTSE companies, majority of them are from the russell-group schools.


so i reiterate, you are behind the curve.

arsene wenger who doesn't need a win makes 3 changes in the 67th minute. #ambition.

moyes would wait till the 83rd minute to make changes after going a goal down. #foolish

lynk106: career man - a man who is a careerist
career woman - a woman who is a careerist
careerist - a professional who is intent on furthering his or her career by any possible means and often at the expense of their own integrity
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/career+man
^

even the weak definition of a career woman you were able to get does a woman no justice. a woman that is intent on furthering her career by any possible means & often at the expense of her own integrity

why would any family oriented man settle down for a woman who is ready to lose her integrity for a career? it means she would slëep around to go further on a career ladder.

this is depressing.....

by this definition, women should avoid career-men as well. I guess we are even. goodnite

good luck on that.....
find a jobless lout to marry. domesticate him & make him sit down at home to care for your kids while you sacrifice your own integrity to get promoted in your FTSE company. surely, he will be happy that he's freeloading on a trojan horse woman like yourself.

deols: It is only logical that love comes before submission.

Should a woman submit to every man she meets?

She only gets to submit to one. The one who loves her. He has got to prove that love before he can be deserving of it.

should a woman expect love, care, treatment to the nicest things in life in every relationship she gets? if the answer is yes then submitting to those men is compulsory.

women should not expect to get & not give back in return. if she cannot submit to every man she meets, she shouldn't even think of dating at all. when she's ready to settle down, she should go on the street & find a suitable man to date. love him, marry him & submit to him.

735 i: What's with the hype about this Russell group hype biko?

I worked in a Financial Institution before i left Nigeria to study in the UK study and i was fortunate enough to sample opinions from 2 of my directors (who happened to school in the UK) on my choice of Uni here in the UK.

I got offers from Surrey, Essex, Leeds, Kent and Aberdeen.... when i brought up the Russell group argument; Both of them waved it away immediately.... "Who cares if you have a degree from an Elite school if it's not reflecting on your performance" was their curt response.

If you got a certificate from Durham and you can't prove your mettle at the interviews; sorry is your name oh!! a Sunderland degree holder will clinch the job if he does better than you.
I ended up choosing a Uni thats not in the Russell group and is yet ranked higher that 70% of the so called Russell group....

I don't regret it one bit now... With bi-monthly CFA classes and Bloomberg tutorials....i'm waiting to see how a Uni Manchester grad will outshine me... i'm just waiting to see really!!!

your directors were being economical with the truth with you & like a black man that you are, you swallowed their words. "who cares if you have a degree from an elite school if it's not reflecting in your performance"

what if his degree reflects in his performance, do you stand a chance? no, you don't. your directors are basically saying the only way you have a chance against a degree holder from an elite school is if he's a complete dullard. if he's equally brilliant as you, you don't stand a chance.

read between the lines & stop feeding on dud comparisons. a uni manchester grad does not even need CFA classes or bloomberg tutorials to get into investment banks or other leading financial institutions in the city. their first degree is enough to get them through.

735i, you are behind the curve!!!

decepticos: freestyle probably, but i am not talking nonesense bro/sis, em's tight no doubt but with refrence to what u and physics argued abt he was and is so right. I acknowledge ems prowess but saying stuff like he perfected it or started it is just so wrong, when OK, Celph tittled, RA aka the crustified dibbs, Company flow, Black thought and a lot more which could include Buckshot.

what KGR & RA, rakim did in the past was inventing standard definition TV. eminem pushed it to high definition TV between 99 @ 2004 and then went on hiatus. he came back in 2009 & pushed his pen game further to 3D.

Just saying men the rap god for me is very stale but better than beserk though didnt and still dont enjoy either.

if you appreciate lyricism, delivery, multis, punchlines, metaphors & wordplay then rap god should be a template for any aspiring rapper/writer out there to use as a launchpad.

I also though the slim shady lp was his1st mainstream album, loved it and still do, but after the eminem show dat was it for my m&m listening days not until Hell the sequel.

i like relapse more than SSLP & TES. only MMLP is better than relapse. relapse is an album for the hardcore rap fans not the average hiphop fan. some of the schemes & rhyme patterns eminem spewed in that album has never been done in the history of hip-hop.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U3cKgg0fiRI

thunder might strike if anyone here says nas, jay-z, 2pac or any of the old school rappers can touch what eminem did in this shady 2.0 cypher. just watch from 6.48 and see lyrical skills & he's freestyling!!!

decepticos: i am fully behind d physics guy, coogar i am really sorry the fact that he mentioned Organized Konfusion, and Eminem proclaimed pharohe monch's line on OK's "Bring it on" to be legendary makes me give it to d pshycQED guy. He floored you. For me Em aint a rap god MMLP is far better than it's sequel just as illmatic is way better than st-illmatic.

you are talking nonsense as usual - if you cannot understand the technicality of lyricism we are discussing here then you have no rights to even contribute. i have seen all the lyrics physicsQED asked me to see & norm of them even compares to what eminem does when freestyling, never mind his pen game.

dademola: i missed d match!(thank God anyways). pls guys, what was nani's performanne like?

8/10.
enough tasty crosses begging to be tapped in.

RuuDie: I haff hear... that is your own mantra - as I do not expect you to buy mine, so also you don't shove yours down my throat!

hahahaha - no one is shoving anything down your throat. by tomorrow evening, arsenal would be 15 points ahead & we are not halfway the season yet. how do you think we would win the league?

we should get rid now - solskjaer is not doing anything at the moment. he just won the norwegian league. everyone loves solskjaer - he will command the respect of the players & take us to 3rd/4th.