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uchechuwku: This is bad. Really really bad
The next time I'm at hearthrow airport with my green passport they'll be looking at me like I killed somebody.
The situation was bad before, now it is worse.

Quick question, the hostess sentenced, will she be able to apply for her permanent residence status after the 5 years??

SailorXY: no time to check time

dayokanu: Jurgen Klopp : “Shinji Kagawa is one of the best players in the world and he now plays 20 minutes at Manchester United – on the left wing! My heart breaks. Really, I have tears in my eyes. Central midfield is Shinji’s best role. He’s an offensive midfielder with one of the best noses for goal I ever saw.But for most Japanese people it means more to play for Man United than Dortmund. We cried for 20 minutes, in each others’ arms, when he left."

MMotimo: Miredia

She's a pathetic mess already, I don't think I have anything to add.

I really just hope she seeks help

Uju,

I have been here for 4 years, as ftmom before I changed my ID, avoiding altercations and minding my biz, no fighting. No be my fault

Gaggi: I doubt. I have successful single friends and girls dnt flock them as d less successful married dudes.

Pataki: OK, can you ladies please stop all these back and forth with each other?

This thread is NOT about you ladies.

lertee: It's quite unfortunate,if they had succeeded...cool money be that o

Aqva: I'm surprised no one notices. D stuff is real. Since I marry na so women dey wahala me even when I don't wear a ring. Sometimes it feels like a supernatural aura.

MMotimo: What a joke, but that is your MO,so no surprises. Same way you called out two women you could never handle even on a sober day and what did you do what they when they showed up? You spent all night stammering as they pumelled you to nothing. Look at you begging Uju a couple of hours ago, you are nothing but a sucker for punishment and a shameless masochist. I know, you can't help placing yourself in these situations, I know intelligence is not your forte.

I have no doubt that your mysterious disappearance (you are afterall, a 24/7 Nlander) was to determine how you could wriggle out of this one. You are what Yorubas call an "eke", starting what you can't finish and pretending to be the victim. Bushito with tortoise sense.

You are nothing but a coward, a bully and a liar. People like you simply do not realize that everybody sees through your lies but are too polite to say anything (it's that thing called good breeding). So, you go on living in cuckooland and building castles in the air, re-writing the story of your life because you think that will somehow make you accepted. You have no self-esteem and certainly, no backbone. Since you work in mental health, albeit a lowly worker (let's drop the lofty talk about owning homes - it's all in your head), you know first hand what can happen to the human mind. From what I have seen, you are unravelling fast because the stresses you feel are beginning to consume you and if you don't seek help, your demons may destroy you. I had you figured out a long time ago but didn't realise the level of mischief and meanness you are capable of. Trust me, I do not associate with your ilk, too many of you with questionable, shady backgrounds in Oyinbo land.

Now listen good - I do not tolerate nonsense from anyone, least of all a poorly educated refugee claimant.I gave you a long rope, and was very patient with you. Part of my patience was because I could see you were dealing with a lot in your life. Yeah, some of us know! You fight and seek constant attention online because you do not have it in your life. From a troubled marriage to a menial job you hate, it's all known.

You see, what you call age, is that good breeding I mentioned which you have no idea of. I can act mature because my parents raised me together and gave me all the attention and love I needed to grow into a well developed woman.I do not come from a line of abused women like you obviously do. So what if your mother abandoned you and your Dad kicked her to the curb? Drop the victim mentality, the world owes you nothing.

Who are you fooling There is no doubt in my mind that I am not much older than you are but to an under achiever, it looks like everyone else is on the fast track. You did not marry early and your first child is what - 9, 10? You are older than you pretend to be, too bad you cannot act that age and stop disgracing yourself. It's obvious you were raised on the streets, typical street gal turning tricks since secondary school. Which Polytechnic did you go to because I am certain you did not go to a university and I am also certain you are academically-challenged. The first thing you should have done when you reached Oyinbo land was go back to school once you managed to obtain your papers (British passpport ko, Japanese visa ni) instead of settling for a low paying job that leaves you frustrated and too tired to have any meaningful family life. No wonder it's so hard for you to live with the fact that some of us do not have immigration frauds in our social circle. Maybe because we are careful whom we choose to socialize with and not live the airhead owambe lifestyle you spend your meagre earnings on.

Some of us achieved on our own steam, from common entrance to JAMB to Uni in 1992 (start calculating, if your brain cells can do the maths) without bribing anybody or having to sleep with anybody, smooth sailing all through. Good job straight off NYSC and the perfect husband afterwards. I know you've had a hard life, let me tell you something - It will only get harder until you remove the bitterness in your heart and learn to be happy for others. That is the key to the breakthrough. I know what you do, I guess it took you this long to respond because you were pondering how I got to know so much about you.

Ta lo ko e? You are the epitome of zero breeding combined with bushito, the worst kind. It took me time to realize that zero-bred have to be handled differently, at least the poorly bred can understand and get the message when they are being ignored. Your mother abandoned you with a step mother that had nothing good for you. Go and settle your issues with your family members and stop deceiving yourself that all is well. The pain of your experience is what you carry all around, trying to attach yourself to random strangers on the internet so that you can have a sense of belonging. As you can see, it ain't working, girlfriend! If your insurance won't pay for professional care, ask and you just may receive!

That I support stay home Moms is such a headache for you. That it's possible in my own household, is a migraine. That I can work and stay home as I like, has become a thorn in your flesh! Come, what is your problem? Not everyone was a runs gal before they met and married. There are still men out there that provide for their family and trust their wives to run their finances. Granted, the concept is alien to you but you should realize that social strata differ. You too, can get there but not with bitterness, jealousy and strife blinding you.

I have got you in my sights now, ta si mi anyhow and I will deal with you in a resounding manner. You alata gals don't know when to stop, it will be a pleasure teaching you some sense.

miredia: can u give me a link to any. I'm kinda curious

miredia: is that photo for real??

armyofone: divided attention

horny4u: A married man has been looked after ( advised, prayed for, cared for, fed etc) Most times he is clean with a keen sense of direction. Women love that however that same man was all over the place when he was single ....no real sense of responsibility per se.


Dating a married man is a gross waste of time though not judging anyone but ....

Ujujoan: Him and his friends should stop hurting my sensibilities . . . datz all!
Words fail me . . . . fantasizing at it's peak.
#dreaming thingz
SMH!

Pataki: I have never seen such lustful desire from a lady as Ujujoan. Leave her, she will soon be in denial.

debosky: I was not behind anyone - I asked for what I would consider fair treatment for all parties. I didn't encourage anything other than communication between both parties for securing a refund.

Only shopclue is responsible for her failure/success in refunding aigbe.

texaco1: so now he is a toad?very good i am enjoying this thread thank God i came here today.
haba !!!!
seee trouble ,the money no be ur own,the car no be ur own ,the people sef u no know dem,dem no know u .yet u wan see the matter to an end.wettin be ur own sef for dis matter?the people no wan talk again u say by fire by force they must talk .ok ooooo i am enjoying it all

Gaggi: When i was a bachelor i was told that when i get married chicks will start flocking round me. Funny enough, it seems to be true. As a bachelor one can end up toasting a girl for months without headway but these days ladies seem to be very friendly with me, I haven't asked a girl out though because i don't believe in cheating but for my married friends the way they control chicks baffles me, unlike the single guys. I'm not sure if it's mere coincidence. Please married guys let's hear frm u.

Ujujoan: Mtcheeeeeeeew . . . yeye!

debosky: Now you're just being silly - all I did was to ensure that the focus remained on achieving a refund and nothing more.

Idowuogbo: lmao! o ti sign!

dademola: hmmmn. Ando-cleverly? Pls where wld u put our players player of d yr??

debosky: Aren't you overstating things a bit? What power did I have to force her to comply with a given date? I simply did my bit to keep lines of communication open for aigbe's sake and nothing more.

I don't know - for all I know terms for payment may have included no more posts on this thread, or aigbe is simply not interested in posting here any more.

andromida: Ok i guess her first marriage was on open one.

debosky: How did I allow her get away? Was she previously incarcerated?

Without aigbe commenting, it's difficult to know whether payment has been made or not.

dademola: lololol. Wich pair started d oda big matches?? Wich pair started virtually all UCL matches dt yr?? Which pair started d UCL final?? Wich pair started most games dt season, wen evryone was fit??u talked about bakup, rememba?? Does it mean our present 1st choice CMF pairing is ok to u?? I ask again.. Assuming we buy fabregas, wld u prefer that he plays 2nd fiddle to ando and cleverly??

jennykadry: I strongly believe so.....

AjanleKoko: LOL.
At all.
We are all Nigerians. All this foreign-trained, local-trained, worreva. We share a common destiny in my view.

Hopefully maybe this perspective will help people look at developing their soft skills. I do feel we have a serious problem with that. The way we communicate for one. There are actually courses that help people with business writing, speaking, and whatnot. That might well be better investment than all these PMP, CFA, worreva that everybody prefers to accumulate.

jennykadry: Do you people really believe this story......

mediainspired: A HARSH TAKE ON FOREIGN-TRAINED NIGERIANS (my general observations).

1. Most of them are over-rated and not half as good, technical or rugged as the Nigerian-trained graduates.

2. Most of them bamboozle would-be employers with fake UK accents and those employes suffering from inferiority-complex are usually deceived and hire them with a smiling face.

3. Most of them are lazy and think top administrative work or supervisory roles over their Nigerian counterparts is their birthright.

4. They usually don't understand the business terrain in Nigerian and can run down a company quickly when handed the keys than a locally-trained Nigerian who knows his onions would.

5. Most of the training is just a waste. The real training they have is the first degree they got in Nigeria before leaving for overseas.

6. Most of them are hired as square pegs in round holes in Nigeria. No real job experience overseas, but they're quickly hired here becos of the foreign certificates (by would-be employers suffering from inferiority complex).

7. After my close relationship with some of them, one thing is clear to me: NO ONE CAN DAZZLE ME WITH A FOREIGN CERTIFICATE. U WILL NEED TO PROVE UR WORTH LIKE EVERYONE ONE ELSE!