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bettymafy: Coogar with his back and forth ramblings! I can only imagine how much u will nag in real life. . . Smh. .

biolabee: You believe in a clean break .. Fair enough but life has a way of throwing curve balls so don't be too sure

The natural thing is to send her away but is that the best decision all the time. - I don't think so

However where we disagree is that the mother is automatically unfit to raise the child.

I don't agree

biolabee: I never said he should forgive or not forgive that's his choice

My own is the child

biolabee: Fornication is also the decision of the man who betrayed his friend and wife
Not only the woman is to blame

In this one the two are both devils

biolabee: Yes you are right not all strippers are whores
It was an example to show that not all things are conclusive. I still believe she is best with the child at the moment

Real life prostitutes raise kids too and it does not mean they are in the same profession and as someone said children of pastors can be wayward at times

You are being sentimental
This is a career woman

She made a series of errors in judgement
Maybe the relationship pre dates the marriage

SailorXY: Do we have a confirmed manager yet or is this Moyes story speculation?

biolabee: Coogar strictly speaking they are not the same
Strippers raise upright babies

How can you compare a cheater to a drug-addict

Smh. I still say that if the wife has been treating or neglecting the baby then he has valid reasons to separate mother and child, if not then there is no reason to do that to the child at least at such a young age.

biolabee: Yep really looks bad...
The man should seperate himself for a bit of time to gather his thoughts

It is really bad though

biolabee: LMAO!! Don coogar king
This joey gif haba!!
Are you trying to stir it up some more

It looks bad though especially the unprotected s.ex after having a baby

There's another story I heard like that but they reconciled
I may not do the same but it is not impossible

PROMOTER COOGAR

WhyMe222: I don't even know where to start. Sorrow, depression, dejection, resignation etc, all now knows me by name. The love is dead, I loath her for the betrayal, sex is dead, joy gone. It's been 8 months since I made the startling discovery, I have tried to live like It didn't happen but that didn't work. I have tried to brace it like a man and move past it, that too didn't work. We have had several talks about it hoping it will heal my wound but it ain't working too. I have lost my strength to move on, my drive for success and happiness is dead. I roam aimlessly now most times not having a clear vision cos my mind is messed up. Several times I narrowly escaped ramming into a car ahead of me. I look at women now with disdain (my apologies) and infidelity boldly carved on their foreheads.

What got me all messed up like this? I found out my wife was having an affair with her senior colleague in the office who also doubles as a family friend. How did I get to know, I stumbled into an amorous email exchange between them when I wanted to help her apply for a job which has a better prospect than where she was then. It was the subject of the mail that aroused my curiosity. The subject says "Ifemi" which in Yoruba means "My Love". What is more disturbing is that they were having unprotected sex while my baby was still breast feeding (no wonder my smart girl stopped suckling at 5 months). Our marriage will be 4 years in a couple of months time and is blessed with an adorable daughter. They both claimed it was a mistake. While I am battling to believe them, it will be of interest to note that, they didn't go to bed just once which nullifies the claim of it being a mistake. And it will be foolhardy for anyone to believe that. One cannot make a mistake twice. The second time usually is a choice that is dully premeditated.

I am barely sticking what is left of the marriage just because of my little girl. She will be 2 in no distant time. Separation and divorce is my only option now since every other option has left me worse off. I have lost so much weight in these few months. I also want to state here that I have never cheated on my wife before. I keep asking myself what will push me to cheat because sincerely, my wife has it all; beauty and brains. Like the few people both male and female will say when they see her picture either on my phone or ipad "Guy, you carry eye enter wife market".

One question I want answers to now is: our court marriage did not happen here in Lagos, can I file for dissolution of the union here in Lagos?

StarBoard: That's not to say he would fail from the onset.
Everybody needs to step up at some point in his or her life, career inclusive.
Jose Mourinho got his Eurpean experience at Porto. Not many gave him a chance when he "graduated" from van Gaal's Assistant to head Benfica.
Besides, this low pressure thing is becoming worn.
If he cant spend 5 million on a player and is forced to groom youthful talents from the academy/youth side, how do you expect him to win or constantly challenge for titles?
I think the view for Moyes is long-term stability, even if he might not have the requisite experience.

StarBoard: I'm not going to bash Moyes yet.
He has done well on a shoe-string budget.
I say we give him the benefit of the doubt.

RuuDie: I am not discounting the Mourinho angle and what he'd add to the club. . .but from the way things are, if the gaffer has a huge hand to play, he will surely favor someone who is cut straight off his own cloth and Moyes is it.

Yes we need trophies (not necessarily the UCL) to keep the money coming in and Moyes can give us some measure of success domestically (heck even fat Phelan can do it). Nobody will expect Moyes to win the UCL in the first or even second time of asking - he can be garnering the much cherished "Euro experience" while bringing in domestic silverware early on. So in theory, Moyes looks closer to the job than Jose.

Its a big gamble no doubt but given what he has done with Everton, I reckon SAF/the board might fancy his chances that he could do better with more resources at his disposal. My humble take on things anyway!

elampiro: Moyes is sure to win local trophies. His style of play is a force to reckon with in the domestic league. But I don't know how long it will take him to be a force in Europe, he may also find the FA and Cap1 cups a big task at the early stage.

RuuDie: Well, he'll get the "European experience" at UTD.

Or did Mourinho come out of his mother's womb with "European experience"!?

Fussbot: oh!so u tink??I blv goal.com dan skyesports....lol..it's moyes rili..

Fussbot: Fortunately or unfortunately goal.com just stated it's DAVID MOYES!

I tink he is not dat bad is he??

nateevs: Jose Mourinho reportedly has a £16m release clause in his contract. Will United be willing to pay that?

StarBoard: I'm not sure.
He's proven restless by nature and cannot sit still for more than 3 years at any location.
That's what I'm worried about.

debosky: I hope Fergie takes Giggs with him.

nateevs: This is hard for me to accept. Jose will not work under Fergie.
Unless Fergie walks away entirely.

Hugoboi: How come no one is even looking the direction of Jurgen Klopp? That dude has been phenomenal if you ask me

chamotex: Please, no one should mention David Moyes here.

StarBoard: Not sure about Jose.
Credibility wise, he can deliver, but what about the long-term stability of the club?
Chelsea and Inter haven't been the same since he left.
Plus what happens after about three years when he gets bored and is looking for another challenge?

nateevs: United faced with the most important decision in 20 years. Get this wrong and . . . .

RuuDie: If Jose Mourinho is appointed UTD manager...thats me gone! I'll be better off not ever watching club football again!!