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fellis: Is my aboki maiguard more intelligent than your mother? Because my aboki maiguard is a man and your mother is a woman. No offense meant, I am just curious.

@bold,
Yes. BACK IN THE STONE AGES and before we got to the point we are today. Times have changed. Why do you want to keep following the way of life of the civilizations past?

Strength no longer determines superiority coogar, intelligence does. The US of A is not a world power today because they have the most physically strongest people in the world.

fellis: So strength is what makes men superior to women? It's not maybe intelligence or hardworking nature or people skills? Is John Cena (the wrestler) superior to you? Because he is stronger than you. . . .

fellis: Please explain this statement.

Apart from religions what other reasons do you have for believing that women are below men?

fellis: Being 'the man' implies subjecting the 'not-the-man' to your will. (since you said you're the authority)
Nobody likes being controlled coogar. People get hurt when you force them to do what you want and not what they want.

fellis: You want to be 'the man' even when being 'the man' implies carrying out actions that hurt other people? I.e controlling them and subjecting them to your will?

fellis: First you say this; (which implies that you don't like to be controlled)

then you come here to say that you will control whoever you are in a relationship with

So why do you want to subject another human being to something you wouldn't want for yourself

biolabee: if she sees you as last chance salon before she becomes a lonely cat lady
e no go easy to escape oo

biolabee: yes o.. i love my liverless life
if the woman come gbadusky you nko and she doesnt let go
sabotaging your afesona/fiance/wife because she has the means or is empowered

atuu.... i no wan wahala for my small head o...

Tgirl4real: Lol

But there is no rule that says playing hard to get will make him love or respect u more. The case u mentioned could have gone otherwise.

Like Coogar said, I know a guy I 'can' date in mins and I know the one I will date (all things being equal) within a few hours to a few days of interracting with him.

If I stress u, it means sum'n isn't just right somewhere, maybe I couldn't just figure it out early enough (I know better now sha ), but if we ended up dating, I'll surely break it off later on.

So, it's better I don't start it at all.

Like the popular Yoruba adage, what u won't eat, u don't mess around with it.

biolabee: damn i feel this gif!
i never had the opportunity to date up.

But I guess older women are like seasoned wine,mature and experienced

1forall: U sha gast abuse 1st typical naija style before you make your point eh? Bi-weekly? So wetin make the people wey dey follow am yarn everyday do?

horny4u: Well I am not interested in a dozen men...just that one.
Its a recruitment process he either passes the test and qualifies for the job or someone else will. If I must submit then he will hve to love me as the Lord loved the church and forgive 7 x 77

Its that simple!
That is the man I will spend the rest of my life with and bore kids with....then I better recruit well and this is my recruitment phases. The emotional selfishness is not forever but its an exam to test his " gogetterism", "nogivinguoness" and also his love for me amongst other things.

Tgirl4real: Well, I know 2 couples like that.

D first is just 3years gap between them. U can never know if they don't tell you. They have been married for more than 15 years now and growing strong.

The second should have like 5 years between them and it's obvious the wife is older. She is also more matured. The guy tries to cover up for his immaturity/insecurity by shutting her down. They have been married for around 4 years now. I would say they are doing ok sha.
It's in this light I would like us to discuss.

Is the man always the man in such a relationship?

Does the guy go an extra mile to affirm his authority?

Are the women always at a disadvantage?
And so on...

sholay2011: Op, you are high. Is this your New York?

Tgirl4real: That last line shouldn't be an issue really. It's not like u gonna go announce to the whole world that you are way younger than her.

teeo: the thing would have expanded beyond its elastic limits .

But to honest most of these ladies that change guys everytime end up with noone serious at the end of the day. They now turn to churches looking for fresh lads ti poach...

teeo: Not when ur mum has been the only one there for u in the past 16years.

Anyway it also wouldn't make sense when your older after years in marriage and ur wife begins too look like your mother. Guess u know women age faster.

Tgirl4real: Well...True!
I was about asking about d advantages but u already answered.

What exactly is the problem u have with the ex-boyfriends?

Most young gals now change BFs like they change weave o. Lol

Moreover, d older d guy gets, these things might not matter as long as the lady in question is still very ok medically.

teeo: The fact that petty nonsense don't make them crazy is a Good point but older women get their own issues ooo.

teeo: I would have loved to marry someone older too but I trust my mum she wouldn't agree. I love my mum soo mucch so I won't want to hurt her.

Tgirl4real: This can also be d case with a younger lady, just that the chances are slimmer. And we also have older women that haven't been married b4.

U are right sha.

Tgirl4real: Are you married to an older lady or a younger guy?

Please share your experience, challenges and thoughts on the issue...

chic2pimp: Looool @chiellini second rate.
Reminds me of the build up to the 2006 world cup when some members of the press rated the Rio-Terry partnership over that of Canna-Sandro

Hugoboi: who let this ape out of the zoo?

Jade William: What does it matter if u aren't the biological father of a child? Afta al ppl adopt&raise kids. Al that matters is that the child grows up 2knw u as his father.

Men cheat morethan women because of this lame ideology of 'men are polygamous in nature'.Pls men;b4 u start cursing women;tellin us how Eve brought curse 2 d world;some men are also guilty;impregnating girls outside their marriages&getting involved in abortions&some men are secreting raising kids born out of wedlock while been married.My cousin's husbnd just impregnated a girl&had d nerve 2rent house 4her&even told my cousin abt it&my cousin has 3handsom boys 4him.He now rarely takes care of his own family.
Let he who is without sin b d ist 2cast stones.
Everybody's so quick 2throw women in2 d lake 4infidelity

SailorXY: You still point out the fact that we need two defensive midfielders like Hargreaves & Fletcher...exactly my point you disputed in the previous page. Well, nice point you made tho. I agree with the most of 'em

Pataki: 2006 - the same year Obasanjo became the first president of Nigeria. 2006 - the same year Arsenal won the Champions League.

armyofone: Jisos onye ebere
all the above dorty talk talk on a sunday

SailorXY: fvck him & his war chest if he doesn't address the midfield + actually PLAYING them ALWAYS *spits*

Pataki: Pataki does not keep hairy things whether upstairs or downstairs.

I am suspecting she must have been scratching you down. Coogar the destroyer!

kulyie: well i have kim k's body from her stomach to her ass but my breast is twice hers and my tummy is flat because i stay away from fried foods,alchol,carbonated drinks and high cholestrol foods like meat,suya,cake etc,i maintain my tummy with sit ups because i just cant afford to loose my shape and body so i dont expect my man to be indisciplined food wise.a sign of indiscipline in men is their tummy.work out,lift weight etc.shun peper soup with too much alchol intake and you are good to go eating anything after 7pm too is a no no,drink water and loads of fruits and vegetables.infact the only thing that disqualified me from being a model was my height

Pataki: Lol.......some girls just want attention right here.

aniiii:
i love scratching hairy things

dademola: fergie aint making any big-money signing dis summer!! #roger that#

nwando: God has buttered your bread finally finally
You will now start singing the praises of Fayemi from thread to thread like Eko ile and his talking drums
Remember your aunty Nwando