₦airaland Forum

stillwater: At the end you don't need testosterone to cheat, yes or no? Nothwithstanding, men also have their excuses to cheat likey wifey disrespecting him, wifey's not sexy any more, wifey's not cut out for acrobatics in bed, wifey works too much etc.

berem: the dude won't go for a paternity test! He claims to be the father of the child, but, the other child dat died,he said it bluntly that he isn't the father and dat he knows the biological father.but we in the neighbourhood actually knows the biological father of the light skinned child because the child is an exact replica of him.there is no difference between the child and his real dad! If I advice him to go for a paternity test,it would be as if am intruding! But definitely I know the truth will come out one day.

slimyem: i'm going to try swing this around some other likelihood....
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If women are bringing bastards home to their husbands,isn't it also possible that the men themselves have sired children whose paternities have been transferred to other husbands...especially since the men these women are cheating with are not imported men?

berem: Hmmm! What a topic. My neighbour comes to mind.2 of her 4 kids are from other men.its very obvious that the kids don't belong to her husband.though one of them is late now.is it possible for a very dark woman and a dark man give birth to a child as fair as Monalisa chinda? Naaa! Something's fishy!

slimyem: who are the men sleeping and cheating with them?
Congolese men?

stillwater: This explains the first report only. Now to the second report, 62% of Nigerian women sure can't be cheating out of looking for the fruit of the womb only. Let's introduce other factors like money, aristo chics, poverty, sleeping with some MD to get a job, or just plain sexual frustration to the equation. Which means that your argument of testosterone as the leading factor of cheating is faulty. I remember you challenging someone here about having a d.ick just for one day and see how it feels. My point is you don't need a di.ck to cheat!

slimyem: is this a conclusion or your own postulation and is it just based on these two reports?

stillwater: Buhahaha!!! Is it also higher in comparison to Naija men too?

stillwater: The issue here is cheating, isn't it? And you say men are likely to cheat because of testosterone, right? Meaning if women had testosterone they would cheat too, right? Counter arguments arose and said that this is a matter of irresponsibility at the end of the day. So I want to ask, why do Nigerian women cheat more than their men and the whole world ? I was thinking Men would assume this gallant position going by your postulations .

stillwater: ^^^So Mr Coogar, can't you see how the statistics have destroyed the 'testosterone'argument you use to vilify cheating in men?

A survey conducted by condom manufacturer, Durex, in which 29,000 people in 36 countries were interviewed has ranked Nigerian women as the most unfaithful in the world.

According to the survey, Thailand men are the most unfaithful in the world, with 54 percent of them admitting to cheating on their spouses.

South Korea came in second with 34 percent, while Malaysia ranked number three with 33 percent.

The survey revealed that the top two countries with cheating women are Nigeria, with 62 percent, and Thailand, 59 percent.

39 percent of Malaysian women also confessed to having betrayed their partners. Russian women came fourth at 33 percent while Singaporeans are fifth at 19 percent.

http://dailytimes.com.ng/article/nigerian-women-are-most-unfaithful-durex

Ayhor2unde: And just so you know, 4 years ago when Android started becoming popular Apple owned over 60% of the smartphone market share. Wanna know how much Apple owns now? Around 23%, while Android has reached 59% in just 4 years and is continuing to gain more market share every day because more and more people are switching to Android after realizing what a scam overpriced CrApple products truly are.

chelseabmw: Im not sure what he said but a 4 match ban aint shit compared to suarez... and i dont think we should compare JT to a racist like suarez

stagger: That word has its origins on the slave farms of the US, where African slaves were referred to as "niggers" by the slave masters and overseers.

So that is why it is seen as an obscene word because of its origins. That is why any white man who uses the word "nigger" on a black man, will be lucky to make it out alive if he uses it in certain places, especially the ghettos or rough streets. Not cool at all to be called nigger.

SalemLord: king solomon how many did he see was he still satisfied or was he a villager?

berem: so you quickly ran to view my profile? You are a real nigga with a gold chain. Lol!

MRbrownJAY: bro, nîpple is way too much......... just breast squeezed in a wonderbra would do the magic for the majority.

MRbrownJAY: i am sorry to say that self control has all to do with YOUR ACTIONS, but nothing to do with the natural reaction of the male body. [b] any normal man would have a hardon naturally in this situation, unless the guy was impotent[/b[..... the catch is that only the irresponsible one would try to cheat.
so let make this clear: IT IS NOT IRRESPONSIBLE TO HAVE A HARD ON (because a man sees some bouncing juggs squeezed in bras etc)

lalaboi: I feel Terry was just made a scape goat. Had he not have been found guilty, the FA risked being criticised hugely by the press, accusations of bias with comparison to suarez etc etc . there was only gonna be one outcome since the Fa charged him. .

I say accept the fine and serve the ban. theres no winning with these guyz

StarBoard: @coogar,
I think it's still too premature to sing the praises of the Ando-Cleverley axis.
A stern test could be this Saturday vs Spurs.
Let's see how they do, irrespective of the result.
Agreed both played very well last night, but you haven't addressed the defensive side of that combination.

ronkebp: It is also an irresponsible man that will get a hard-on at every nippppllle or clapping bakaasi, it is a half-baked who is less of the man 'the Bible calls them' that will drool just because he is seeing a lady in a clinging dress. So they cannot look away, abi?

and plead the Blood of Jesus, or do you think money does not entice women too? Any woman that comes here to lie that money does not entice them is a LIAR!!!!!!!

don't be decieved. But we all have been brought up in different ways and have learnt self control in so many ways, and i think men should also learn self control and stop having 'talking pants' and giving unnecessary excuse that men cheat...what do you wnat to teach your male-children?

nateevs: JT's been banned for 5 games. £200k fine.
Found guilty.

stepo707: how do one upload a .gif image?
Coogar you wanna help?

ifyalways: @Afam, I'll try to break it down.
Some men, I'm sorry to say are stoopid when they are in love. They downgrade themselves, take all and every poo a girl throws at them just because they (think) they are in love. They hurt but because the seex is good or the girl is pretty hang on to relationships that are not healthy.

2 years down the line, they are married to the same girl and you expect the girl to change?no one should be blinded or foolish just Cos s/he is in love. Once you smell abuse, firmly put your feet down and nip it in the bud. No glossing over or overlooking.

I daresay it goes for both sexe, don't tolerate or give anyone room/power to abuse you.
its neither fear nor cowardice but I know that there are certain lines I dare not cross with my husband. He gets my 100% respect because he deserves it and its mutual.

Afam, if as a man, you don't know how to be firm and lead a woman in love, you have no business getting married. You don't have to be a commando, "rule" over your house or turn your home to a barracks either. Just be a Man. . . to the letter.

chaircover: No one is asking you to do fashion police for your husband. It is also naive to think that all men will remain strong in the face of temptation..

can you provide reliable stats of your own that prove otherwise?
it is pretty common knowledge that testesterone levels peaks during puberty and quickly declines from there (it stays high for men who keep very physically fit as stated before but nature cannot be cheated too long)

I wouldn't like you to embarass yourself in public making "40 is the magic number" arguments about testosterone levels

That's the whole point. Older adults are supposed to have more control not to cheat! that combined with a lowered testesterone level. there should be no excuse.

adebayo201: coogar must be the happiest fan this mawn'n

chamotex: Coogar must have jizzed himself with his 'Ando/Cleverley' axis tonight.

lucabraski: I bought a brand new laptop and brought it home. I came back from work and found most of the letters on the keyboard on top the table.

I couldn't understand what or how it happened. On questioning my 7yrs old daughter, she said the househelp used knife to uproot the letters on the keyboard, as according to her, the letters were not arranged alphabetically. In the process of her uprooting the keys, many of the sitting were broken.

The laptop cost me 160k, which I am yet to payoff.

I had to leave the house for some hours to calm my temper down before I know what to do.

I am yet to come up with a befitting punishment.

Johndoe100: Why can't men handle their business nowadays ? Discipline your women. Keep them in their place. Don't you just love the way their nostrils flare and their eyes widen in fear when you are annoyed? Don't you enjoy watching them cringe before you? Men be men.

If you have a problem with a woman and you are in doubt as to what to do, slap her once or even twice. Honestly it will give you time to think of what to do next. Whatever the case it will help the situation. Ideally you should institute a regular system whereby you find fault in something she does, this will give you practice in scolding her and establishing the fact that she can do nothing really correctly, it will also establish a routine. This works even if she is still a girlfriend, but don't waste your energy on a girl you are not really serious about. Now once the routine is established, you will get better at spotting these poorly performed tasks, up to and including how she greets you when you come in the door. Now when there is a problem from her end (doesn't really matter what) you have additional "sins" you can easily accuse her of. With practice you will learn how to work yourself up into a fury at these infractions. Believe me they quickly learn the signs of your anger and this shuts them up. As I said earlier, look for the physical signs, the flared nostrils, the deer in the headlight eyes. If you still need to, a slap at this point could serve to drive home the point.

Every young man, about to marry or recently married should learn this and PRACTICE it. Your home will be peaceful and your woman or women will LOVE AND OBEY you the way it was meant to be. For men of my age we didn't know these things, I wish I had someone to teach me all this when I was first starting out.

adebayo201: It cn get worst playin tonight and against other clubs. Better to go for it now than ruling him out for the rest of the season!