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afrodoc:
but d club also kept faith with gibson, dont think he is in d same class as morrison.
gibson lacked consistency nd had fitness issues,take away his shooting and he is pretty average.
he has good passing range but he tends to b very careless with d ball(plays as if he couldnt b bothered to focus n confirm dt d person he is passing to is indeed his teammate).dts y u see him messing up a 5yard pass just afta switching play with a 40yarder.
morrison on d other hand has shooting,pace(wit or witout d ball),dribbling and footie intelligence in his looker.
to your other comment,i rily dont know y fergie hasnt used him in d first team.he is better prepared than pogba IMO for 1st team action

and that's exactly my point.

morrison must know he's better than some of the players fergie has used in the midfield recently.
no one can convince me rooney is better in the midfield than morrison. or js park? gibson? rafael?

yet, fergie used those players in the midfield when a budding talent is wasting away on the bench.
if his talent is not appreciated at old trafford, by all means let him get the appreciation elsewhere.

our handling of the youths this season has been appalling, idiotic and doesn't show the character of manchester united.
it's a disgrace morrison's case has degenerated to this.

afrodoc:
at end of d day d club is bigger than any player.its one thing for rooney to hold d club ransom,anoda thing for d club to b held ransom by an 18yr old unproven though talented boy who also happens to be a mob enforcer.
agents r rily destroying d game in certain respects cos all they r afta is a bigger slice of d football pie! mikel obi n anelka r prime examples of agent assisted career
wreckage.
just hope fergie finds a way to get to d boy cos with d right tutelage n application d guy is anoda wayne rooney

but we should ask the simple question - why has it taken ferguson to bed this guy into the first team.
it's been clear to all and sundry morrison has been ready for 2 years now and yet fergie relies on giggs and scholes in the midfield when he should be looking inwards and develop the young talents in the academy.

if you were morrison, what would you do? darron gibson kept faith with the club, we can all see how it panned out for him in the end.
i hate this perception fergie gives out that scholes/giggs are the best solution when it's clear they are past their expiration date.
@ 19, i believe morrison should be getting first team action. if he's not going to get it @ old trafford, then he should get it else where.

--tie him down with pregnancy
--tie him down via spiritual means.
--look the other way and hope for the best.

good luck!

[quote author=seriouls_y link=topic=844173.msg9957818#msg9957818 date=1326476983]Since my bride have to be decided to play this out in the public domain, let me just say a couple of things to make this more entertaining,

The email she read was to put off an ex that’s threatening to do everything to disrupt the wedding. I don’t want to hurt this girl but I’m trying to let her know that I’m stuck with a girl that wont get rid of the baby she’s pregnant with. She’s an ex for a reason but some girls can be so attached to you sometimes that they are not easy to get rid. No offence to anyone.(I know she might be reading this too). My bride to be is not supposed to see that email, we all have a past and all I’m trying to do is not to let the past destroy the future.

The moment I saw her playing with my iPad and started asking some lame questions, I knew something is up and I was expecting her to come out and talk to me. That was on Sunday night. It’s not a mistake that she read it, I would have used another email account without her knowledge but what’s the point of hiding anything for a woman you are gonna marry in a couple of weeks? She’s just confessed to reading my facebook messages to my family confessing how I cant wait to marry her, what other reassurance would a woman want? And by the way, she wasn’t supposed to be reading my facebook messages too, I know when you are married, you throw away all sense of privacy, right?

Fair enough, I take the share of every blame you guys can throw at me but all I was doing was to protect my supposed family while I don’t want to hurt someone else, or at least to minimise the hurt I will cause to the other girl. Maybe a bit of devil’s advocate really but I have the interest of op and the baby at heart.

Now, to all the sensible people reading this, if I'm your brother, will you still go ahead and marry a girl that choose nairaland to deal with this kind of problem? The strange thing is that, the exact time she was on Nairaland posting this, I sent her an email about how I’m the luckiest man in the world for getting marry to her. Not anymore, we all know it takes more than love for a marriage to work and in a relationship where communication is broken down, I cant see a future in it. And I'm not love starved, And for a woman that’s so paranoid about Naija men, she cant trust anyone and still she couldn’t say no and throw the engagement ring back at my face when I proposed, something must be wrong somewhere… and I think this is my chance to re assess my position.

Just another point that I think I should point out, she wanted that baby more than I do. She had a miscarriage, which was very unfortunate. Every woman that ever experienced that will know what that means. I felt really sorry for her and I stood by her, continue to let her know that everything will be fine and I re assured her that I’m not with her just for baby reason and I even let her know that she ticked all the boxes for me and that’s what matters. She bought a whole lot of pills so that she can get pregnant again (pregnacare) or whatever the pill is called, she even bought the men’s version too which I took with smile one my face even though I know I don’t need one but then you have to keep the lady happy.


This is not what I would normally do but under this circumstances, as she’s relying on public opinion to put her home in order and for her to learn some lessons, that’s why I’m writing all these.  I’m not a saint, I’m not perfect and I’m not trying to be one. I’m not a big fan of public opinion, I do what I think it’s right from my conscience and take responsibility rather relying on what people would say.

I’ve not seen this other girl for over 6 months, she just came back from the States and found out about the wedding. Is what I did really wrong? I’m not expecting an answer to that on Nairaland though, I will let my conscience play it out. I was on the phone trying to negotiate our honeymoon holiday to Hawaii before I stumbled on this on Nairaland. We are both at work and it’s only on whatsapp we can do the talking, even though I would have preferred face to face chat about it.

Yeah, maybe this was never meant to be and for the record, I’ll try and refund every penny she’s put down for the wedding and I wont be running away from taking responsibility for the baby either whatever her decision about the baby is, I’m cool with it but as for the wedding, I think I know where my priority lies for now……

I’m not going to be going back and forth replying everyone. You can make up your mind about me but I’m just as normal as everyone of you and to the people that said she should make sure she’s not alone when she’s telling me so that I wont hang her, that’s a barbaric way of thinking and not all guys are animal. Thanks for everyone’s contribution, I’m over and out….[/quote]you guys should kiss and make up.
washing dirty laundry in public is a turn-off.

i was told you lashed out she should forget about the wedding, are you fecking serious?
are you so idiotic? you were the one that wronged her - apologize to her now before i unleash the 4 horsemen of apocalypse on your household.

Cuddlemii:
First of all, why is he not doing a face to face dialogue with you? Why is he communicating with you on what's app messaging. At least he owes you that respect of seeing his fiance and baby mama to trash out this issue. If things are these shady and shaky then something is wrong with the foundation & the building. How did he find out about your post on nairaland? I mean it can be anyone's story, you didn't mention names so how did he figure it out? Or did he hack into your nland account too?

He is at fault here so why does he have the veto power to dismiss u over a messaging app. Mehn I am speechless cos your story is not making any sense but I guess I can only wish you the best. But if its true, I won't let him get away with it, he should at least take responsibility of the child and make sure you and the baby are comfortable. I really feel for you but being a single baby mama is really tough, trust me.

what's tough about it?
there are men like me who love babymommas.

Goldieluks:


And the pregnancy? So you mean he knows about NL?  Wow!

This story is beginning to sound fishy to me.

sound fishy?
biko, how does a fish sound?

[quote author=im_a lady link=topic=844173.msg9956901#msg9956901 date=1326468925]I wish it was a script but unfortunately this is my life here, I am terribly upset and worst still I have been ill all through this pregnancy but what can I do ? He read the posting which I wanted him to do so he knew that I knew  and sent me a what's app message saying the marriage is definately over and he couldn't believe he was reading about his life on nairaland ! What am I supposed to do? Beg? As for the baby issue I haven't 100% decided what to do just yet,but God will show me the wAy forward[/quote]what other options have you got?

[quote author=im_a lady link=topic=844173.msg9956854#msg9956854 date=1326468346]Fellow nairalanders he has read this posting and texted me that the wedding is off anyways so issue is sorted. Thanks for all your inputs.i will try and rebuild the pieces of my life[/quote]what about your baby?

ferguson would be idiotic to let morrison go.

i blame him for everything that has happened to pogba/morrison.
why has he taken him so long to bed these 2 players in the first team. they are fantastic talents and yet fergie kept playing duds like giggs, scholes, gibson, etc
morrison would be 19 in february. if he was in another team apart from united, he would be starting games on the regular.

at 19, anderson was starting tough games @ anfield, emirates, etc.
at 19, phil jones established himself at man utd in a defence containing rio, vidic, smalling, evans, etc.
why did fergie wait so long to unleash ravel morrison?

if i were his agent, i would look for another club for him.
it seems someone mixed rat poison in fergie's intravenous fluid these days with some of the idiotic decisions he comes up with.
we are so light in the defence and he sold gibson to everton.

in one fell swoop, we have lost fletcher, cleverley and now gibson.
we would have to rely on carrick, anderson, giggs n scholes till the end of the season and yet, he wouldn't play the youngsters.
this man used to be one of the best youth developer in the land but it seems he's losing it.

Princek12:
If you don't know how to kiss, please go and register for a kissing course at the nearest kissing center, for the inability to kiss can ruin a relationship. Kissing is usually a precursor to sex, and a way for couples to passionately bond together. I know many people don't think kissing is important, but, as for me, if she can't kiss and is unwilling to learn, she has to go. Share your thoughts.

sex is more important!
if you kiss better than james bond and you lack the innate ability to make your partner speak in tongues during sex, your partner would sleep with your houseboy/driver/best man/ german shepherd!

booqee:
A mild argument occured btw dis guy and his wife. In tryin to settle it, a scuffle ensued, and probably because his wife's mother was taking her daughters side she gave d guy a hot slap
if u were d one dat was slapped by your spouse's mother, what will u do to her.

turn the other cheek.

lalaboi:
Enemiessssss!

ritchboy:
You support Sharon's team?

i just can't stand noisemakers.
i support gamers who perform their tasks without bragging or blowing their trumpets.
agaba is a silent killer - same as t-boogie, galacticos, etc.

ritchboy, ikpulu marines, wolfgang kaiser and lalaboi are charlatans.
they don't match their talks with their actions(on the pitch).

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=841857.msg9951357#msg9951357 date=1326394956]not sure what people are finding difficult to believe there.

98% of the post is correct.[/quote]then i put it to you that you need brain tonic as well.

pretty girls getting assaulted, hated, and treh treh treh. . . .
more often than not, pretty girls actually get favours that their less-attractive counterparts can't get.
the op is on a wind-up.

chelseabmw:
Congrats to us all. I have the pleasure to inform you with all sense of responsibility that GEJ has assured the Senate in a meeting that just ended some mins ago that he will reverse the fuel price back to 65naira per litre. Please quote me. This has also been confirmed by Senate Minority Whip, Sen. Ganiyu Solomon.Let's all wait for the official pronouncement before jubiliating.

is this true or just another rumour?
the nigerian federal government can be stubborn especially with oil prices.

haha

lalaboi dethroned!

[quote author=im_a lady link=topic=844173.msg9951022#msg9951022 date=1326391361]His Ex wife was a white English woman , do by law it's illegal and I have seen the divorce papers, but while all this was happening, I am uncertain on if he has another wife in Nigeria.[/quote]just do your thing.
i don't begrudge you getting pregnant. it's a safer option than going for an abortion.
you have found out his ploy. think - soak your head in a bathtub full of ice cubes and think of how you can make that work to your advantage.
maybe you should actually compose another mail like he's done and write to your own advantage as well.

good luck!

onila:
African men are known to be the most polygamous men on earth. no discipline when it comes to women. Akon has shown the world how the true African men are . A civilised African man like Akon is still polygamous tha says something 2 foreigners

this pest called onila needs to be exterminated.
someone please call pest control.

onila:
well, random guys could probably rap-e you--you are prone 2 violation.        

girls will be jealous of you and try to bring you down.

people might give so much pressure on you.

attract wrong types of guys 

guys just wanna use for you for yr body

women feel uncomfortable around you so they ditch you by not inviting you out in case you get all the attention

beautiful women have less female friends because of jealousy.

yr always accused of "stealing" pples  boyfriends.

You are seen as a slut.

Sometimes more is expected of you - professionally, personally.

You are expected to be outgoing and sociable.

onila, you need a brain tonic.

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oh dear!

i miss nigeria!

Basics007:
3points behind Man City.
0points behind Man U. 8! points ahead Chelsea.
9 points ahead the silly ones.
11points ahead Liverpool.
Happy days men. Happy days.

take it easy, tiger!
we all know chelsea have the ability to put a winning streak together. last season's results would tell you so.
i only pity arsenal and liverpool. chelsea should be safe.

debosky:
Not really. . . just recognising the good form of the North London rivals.

you gotta admit harry redknapp is a legend!

it has taken him some time to get there but some credits must go to him for his astute signings.
scott parker was a big gamble - see what he's become for them. van der vaart was the signing of the century.

then he's added a good balance to the team.
tottenham is easily my 2nd team in the league. followed closely by stoke.

[quote author=im_a lady link=topic=844173.msg9946324#msg9946324 date=1326329045]@ coogar Thanks!, thats exactly how i thought to handle it, see what he is playing at quietly because at the end of the day, am the one with lots to loose here[/quote]play along.
copy the emails into many places as possible. he doesn't know you know - there's gotta be one advantage in that.

watch every move, plug up all the loopholes and he becomes your puppet.
be one step ahead of him and within weeks, you would know what he's up to.

debosky:
Well done spuds. . . .y'all deserved it.

haha - debosky is shitting kittens already.

[quote author=im_a lady link=topic=844173.msg9945830#msg9945830 date=1326322974]hi nairalanders, i am new to this website as a member, but i love some of the advise given on here hence reason for asking for external help regarding my dilemma,

I am due to get married to this lovely kind hearted gentleman in less than a month; but i have just found out while using my partners Ipad an email that has got me worried, i had a miscarriage in April of last year, at this point we were already engaged, we agreed to try again soon.I told him i was not 100 % ready and he said he understood, about September of last year, he intentional started having unprotected sex with me and i fell pregnant again within that month, all is well with the baby and i am now over 4 months pregnant and he seems over the moon and ecstatic about the upcoming birth of our child,he even went with me for the scan and treats me like a princess(i used to feel like the luckiest girl in the world), we informed my family together and has even suggested we go to the states for baby shopping after the wedding, like i was saying earlier what i found in his email (inbox) really shocked me! he had set up an email address in my name , impersonated me and composed a letter addressed to himself with me saying i was aware he didnt want want the baby and also suggesting i was breaking up with him, and that we had both gone to an abortion clinic together and that i had decided to have the child on my own and i wont be needing his help or support with the child since i knew he didnt want the baby and i had a good job and would be able to support the child all by myself and i wanted nothing from him.

i am really upset and would like to confront him about the email, but i am uncertain of where it would lead considering the wedding is in only a couple of weeks time and friends and family have all been invited, MY FELLOW NAIRALANDERS PLEASE HELP[/quote]why must you confront him?
you know what he doesn't know you know.

if i were you, i would use that to my advantage.

kingoflag:
Ehn, na true. Flu indeed. Ordinary mumu GEJ schemed him out of PDP you dey here dey talk sneeze and flu.

schemed who out of pdp? who is the founding father of pdp?
who went to ota to coax obasanjo back to politics in 1999? who sponsored obasanjo during the primaries?
you are clueless.

Abeg,  and how dare you compare IBB to Ghadaffi? Chill, biko. Be Easy. Ghadaffi took on the Western Powers, always remember that.

any tool can take on the western powers!
mugabe did that and he's a nobody. so fighting western powers is now the criterion of a strong leader?
in that case, idi amin is a world champion. not!!!

Idowuogbo:
U are just evil lmaooooo

evil?
how?
what have i done?

i only asked a question.
badosky, don't fan-flame.
it's a new year - you need to change.

Amyr:
I read somewhere that virginity is no longer popular, and elsewhere that some regret for loosing it. It intriuged me with this curious question-what will life be like for those people who lost it,does the pleasure of sex justify the regrets of the loss? Is promiscuity a sadistic reaction to the regrets, as some say?

regrets of the loss? what loss?
a piece of flesh that some people weren't even born with is now a loss?

amyr, have you had your medications lately?

989900:
Even poor Gadaffi knows better now.

irrelevant!

@1.8million barrels/day ruling for 40 years in a country of just 6million vs 1.9million barrels/day ruling for 8 years in a population of 150 million you don't have to be a genius to figure.

one was being hounded and the other is free to roam the streets and he is even a king-maker.
ibb is the most powerful individual in africa. while other dictators have been locked up in prison or shot dead, ibb is alive and kicking and not wanted by interpol or some international court of justice.

This is 2012, power has shifted quarters many times too many already, he was very powerful yes, but stop overestimating the old General he is @ his weakest ever. He doesn't even control the military anymore unlike Gadaffi who was C in C, and who was feared like a god by his people.

that is what the politicians want you to think but ask yourself these questions.

-why hasn't anyone arrested ibb since he left power in 93?
-why did he refuse to go to oputa panel that obasanjo(the c-in-c in nigeria back then) couldn't avoid?
-why is ibb not wanted by efcc or interpol or icj for crimes committed against humanity?
-why is this man roaming the streets free and he can travel anywhere in the world as he pleases?

my friend, power is not surrounding yourself with gendarmes or para-military.
power is being able to do what one wants at any time unharmed and undiscovered.
ibb is power! gadaffi wasn't powerful - he was a coward!

LeoMax:
SOMEONE HELP:

HOW CAN I PAY MY DSTV BILL, ITS EXPIRING TODAY

pay online!

mukina2:
Inec Office
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mukina2, where are you getting these pictures?
do you work for nta abuja now?