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RomanceRe: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by COOLDK(op): 8:01pm On Jun 12, 2018
kunleweb:
cheesy kiss kiss
You will pay for this gesture on my thread wink
RomanceRe: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by COOLDK(op): 2:21pm On Jun 12, 2018
MissWrite:
I don't know why people were blowing a fuse over that comment. Everyone who gets proposed to likes to think of themselves as Rapunzel in a tower getting "rescued" by her knight in shinning armor. It is a romantic notion. They also like to think that they're turning a frog into a prince. So, rescue missions abound; it doesn't matter how old you are, or if you're a man or woman.

Guys on social media are working tirelessly to lower a woman's self-esteem. Well done;but, you're going to need powerhorse for the extra shifts you need to pick up.

A woman in her thirties has likely got self-esteem (and maybe money, and a direction); it is the girls in their twenties that are the real target here: before they let themselves become 'evening newspapers', some of them may have the desperation to consider some of you. A woman in her thirties has probably learnt to rely on feature stories to sell the paper. They are fresh in the evening and the day after. They won't be appreciated by everyone as it takes a person with specific interests to be swayed by a feature story, but it'll increase the chances of real compatibility.
Thumbs up.
RomanceRe: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by COOLDK(op): 10:51pm On Jun 11, 2018
luke55720:
Marrying a lady in her 30s is not a rescue mission, some men just like leftovers, just like some restaurants like using Awarawa tomatoes.
I hope you are married
RomanceRe: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by COOLDK(op): 10:51pm On Jun 11, 2018
gonkin:
Depends on happiness and love.
If a lady in her 30s has the qualities of a good wife why would i look away cuz of her age.
It takes a reasonable mind to reason this way.
RomanceRe: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by COOLDK(op): 7:29pm On Jun 11, 2018
Mindfulness:
That's because you have little boys forming men here on NL.
Exactly
RomanceRe: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by COOLDK(op): 6:19pm On Jun 11, 2018
IamD18:
Rescue-mission and evening-newspaper set of ladies should be a no go area for any man who wants to enjoy any woman and live a long life.

The younger, the better. Any lady yet to have a husband in her 30s must be suffering from hidden problems.

Career isn't an excuse for them because we have smart, young and hardworking married ladies building their career.

Stop sugarcoating the truth.
Truth is not been sugar quoted sir.
RomanceRe: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by COOLDK(op): 5:53pm On Jun 11, 2018
IamD18:
Rescue-mission and evening-newspaper set of ladies should be a no go area for a man who wants to enjoy a woman and live a long life.


The younger, the better.
Smiles. No Ridicule intended.

You still need to know about life.
RomanceRe: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by COOLDK(op): 5:52pm On Jun 11, 2018
jessca048:
nice writeup
Thanks
RomanceRe: Engaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by COOLDK(op): 5:39pm On Jun 11, 2018
pocohantas:
It is not that serious.
It is only here I see all this talk.
Outside NL, ladies in their 30s are getting married.
The only thing that I noticed is, they are all financially stable.

So, while waiting for Mr. Right, work on yourself.
This is cos many of them are women of substances and have define a pathway to their lives.
RomanceEngaging A Lady In Her 30s, Not A Rescue Mission (what Goes Around Comes Around) by COOLDK(op): 5:27pm On Jun 11, 2018
This was inspired by the other thread.

So many times guys blame ladies of body counts and been miserable, forgetting the fact that without them (guys) in the picture, there will be nothing like the said body count (It takes 2 to tangle)

I am not trying to justify ladies, but a larger percentages of them are highly emotional when it comes to love and romance. So many times they thought they have found the true one, but this true one is just after the body and when achieved, we all knew the rest of the story.(Many are guilty of this).
This cycle goes on for the unlucky ladies as they decided to move on with their lives, but the lucky ones got inspiration and wisen up from their initial flaws and look before leaping with the next guy. Even this next guy is not guaranteed (as we always outsmart them, except the extremely gifted and talented among them).

Guys! Take a look at it this way, How many girls have you slept with? (I knew many are doing the maths right now). How many of them do you broke up with using flimsy excuses or no valid reason(s)? . Deep inside and right from the onset, many guys knew he will never end up with the lady but still take due advantages of her (even when this lady possesses wife qualities and show genuine emotion and care). This is because women a created to be weaker/soft minded compared to men folks.


Now I put it to you guy, WHAT IS YOUR OWN BODY COUNT? Average of 10-15 right? So What is your justification?

You cant be wayward all your life and expect to end up with an untouched virgin! It doesn't work that way.
There is always a pay back for all the atrocities we all once committed in one way or the other (either male or female). Asked the various married men around if they will tell you the factual truth. (They all have what they battled with in their women)
The more you dig around, the more loop holes you are creating for yourself to regret at a latter date. And the fact is, so many times we all look back and wished we never did some certain things we've done!

Even if you married ladies age 20s, a happy life is not guaranteed. Likewise child bearing, perfect home, good romance or fruitful union can never be boast of. (except by His divine mercy).

Marrying a lady in her 30s might be a blessing to many if well connected emotionally and have many passions of live in common (perhaps, I've seen some 30s looking 20s. If not told, you will never believed). Chances of arguments, fights, lack of understanding are slim because you both have a broader view of life and can manage situations more maturely and perfectly.

Marrying her in 20s is considered best though, but what happen if the said lady turn out to be a torn to your esophagus and not only your back? What happen if she lacks composure? What happen if her level of maturity is nothing to write home about and kiss and tell everything to her mother or family? What happen if she keeps getting fatter and fatter and look 35 while she is 20something after birth?
Will you also concluded you have made the wrong choice and started sleeping around with younger and sweeter looking girls?

The fact remain that, as guilty as the ladies are so the men . Though there are exceptional cases (but few) where the guy/lady is not wayward but end up with a wayward fellow.

MAY WE NEVER GO ASTRAY
AND IF WE ARE ASTRAY ALREADY, MAY WE PICK OURSELVES AND FIND THE COURAGE TO MOVE ON.
CelebritiesRe: Yinka Quadri, Salawa Abeni, Oga Bello Reunite For Ramadan Lecture [photos] by COOLDK(m): 6:14am On Jun 08, 2018
post=68282484:
May God answer my Muslim friends prayers in this Ramadan period.
Ameeen.
And yours too
CrimeRe: Man Runs Mad In Lekki Lagos, Comes Out Of A Moving Car Unclad by COOLDK(m): 10:37pm On May 05, 2018
COOLDK:
Won ti bawi (Dey don play with am)
CrimeRe: Man Runs Mad In Lekki Lagos, Comes Out Of A Moving Car Unclad by COOLDK(m): 10:36pm On May 05, 2018
Won ti bawi (Dey don play with am)
Foreign AffairsRe: Shocking Photos Of North Korea That Kim JongUn wouldn't want the world to see by COOLDK(m): 12:56pm On Mar 12, 2018
First thing I sensed when I read this is nothing but PROPAGANDA!

America will do anything to ensure no other country get closer to having her type of power and dominance in the world.

Libya, Egypt, Iran, Iraq, Syria etc came to mind
CrimeRe: Buharin Daji Killed Along With His Commanders By His Deputy. Graphic. Photos by COOLDK(m): 12:44pm On Mar 11, 2018
Murder case in the sight of law
CrimeRe: Her Boyfriend Did This To Her Due To Sex Refusal by COOLDK(m): 10:26pm On Feb 28, 2018
handsomeyitayo:
Why men are so bad.... because she refuse sex ...too bad.. so to the extent of using blade to cut her ..... ladies will you marry this type of boyfriend?
Oga You can lie oooooooo.

We have seeing this picture on NL before
RomanceRe: If She Dumped You 6months Or Less! Guys Check Yourself (counter Thread) by COOLDK(m): 10:22pm On Feb 28, 2018
Reading interesting comments
CelebritiesRe: Amarachi Uyanne: 6 Years After Winning Airtel-Sponsored Nigeria's Got Talent by COOLDK(m): 10:18pm On Feb 28, 2018
TITOBIGZ:
cork loaded hoping to deploy. grin

NA JOKE OOOO00.
Gun Cork loaded waiting to be fired!
HealthRe: Is There Any Venereal Disease That Can Paralyze A Penis Just After Intercourse? by COOLDK(m): 7:48pm On Feb 18, 2018
I don't think you have a problem.
It all boils down to your mindset. Atimes, you don't just get erected with some ladies even if they get unclad (reasons is simply your sexual drive and affinity towards them) if her sexual orientation doesn't match yours, problem occurs.

And atimes, just a thought or call from a lady get you automatically erect without even seen her (seems you can get the logic here, this is sexual compatibility)
TV/MoviesRe: Alex Caught On Camera Pulling Her Pant by COOLDK(m): 7:30am On Feb 03, 2018
Yeah Walcot might score, he now plays in the role he was denied at Arsenal as a striker. (Remember he netted 2 goals last game)

But Arsenal will surely win sa. I hope AUBUMEYANG plays.
TV/MoviesRe: #bbnaija: Princess Tries To Kiss Rico, He Refuses (video, Pics) by COOLDK(m): 7:27am On Feb 03, 2018
grin angry angry grin angry grin grin grin grin angry grin grin grin

Ayaff die of laughter. God bless all football fans


cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin grin grin grin
TV/MoviesRe: #bbnaija: Curve? See How K-brule Turned Khloe's Kiss To Platonic Peck by COOLDK(m): 7:20am On Feb 03, 2018
Arsenal will be great again with

LACAZZETTE
MIKHI
AUBUMEYANG
OZIL


LMAO grin grin grin grin grin

God punish #BBN

Sebi u people say u no hear, we self we no go gree.

#Derailing mode activated till the yeye show comot
BusinessRe: Construction Works Begin At Lekki Deep Sea Port by COOLDK(m): 9:17am On Jan 30, 2018
CASTOSVILLA:
He said Igbo land and those places you mentioned aint Igbo. Your illiteracy stinks5to high heavens
By their utterances, you shall know them.

What region is Igbo land? And what region are those places I mentioned are?

You just turned out to be the Most successful Aridin with your comment up there.
BusinessRe: Construction Works Begin At Lekki Deep Sea Port by COOLDK(m): 8:01am On Jan 30, 2018
austin2all:
yet not even a single sea port in the entire igbo land. one nigeria my left nyash.
What about Ports in Crossriver, Delta and Onne?

Are those ones not ports?

May almighty God savage today's youth from illiteracy and never finding out facts before conclusion.

Anyway, let me help you out. Follow this link to know more:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nigerian_Ports_Authority
Car TalkRe: Another Tesla Model S On Autopilot Crashes Into A Parked Fire Truck At 65 Mph by COOLDK(m): 7:57am On Jan 30, 2018
donsimo:
Oh yee of little faith, history is littered with the bones of your kind.

You said the alpps could not be crossed. Well Hannibal did.
You said the Atlantic could not be crossed well someone did.

Man will never fly you say. Well we went to the moon.

Ai is the easier thing to create, the government of the world and private individuals are delaying it for a reason, scientists are not given grants for good research.

Compare the salary of the top scientist in the world and the salary of ronaldo,
See misplaced priorities. The most useless things cost more.

I hope you are alive to see the day ai replaces you at your work place, like apps have replaced many people at theirs and computers have replaced many more.

Ai will get there ,just you wait.
Guy hold on.

"Computers ain't smart, whatever built by man can be taken apart"....... Nas in New World.


Phantom that
CelebritiesRe: Omawumi's ''Washing The Leg'' Marriage Rite (Photos) by COOLDK(m): 5:54pm On Jan 21, 2018
sthecy:
congrats...am next in line
Can I apply? Who knows kiss
CelebritiesRe: Omawumi's ''Washing The Leg'' Marriage Rite (Photos) by COOLDK(m): 5:53pm On Jan 21, 2018
We have lost our highly rich cultures to the western world cry cry huh
LiteratureRe: The 48 Laws Of Power- Which Of The Laws Is Your Favourite? by COOLDK(m):
"KILL YOUR ENEMY TOTALLLY"

Thats my Fav kiss
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SportsRe: Which Footballer Made A Shirt Number Unique To You? by COOLDK(m): 6:03pm On Dec 09, 2017
J.J Okocha, Ronaldinho, Messi, 10

Olishe, Ox Chamberlain, 15
SportsRe: FIFA World Cup 2018 Draw On December 1st by COOLDK(m): 5:20pm On Dec 01, 2017
danduj:
Beat Croatia?? grin na luka modric go finish una grin
Erikson nko?

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