Ladylite:
Is virginity an award?

Many are virgins but talk like they are experienced due to peer pressure.

Virginity is not good character. So why are you focusing on the wrong thing.

U right, but if we count self service then no guy is a virgin.

Like why the Bleep is she crying?

Recently joined tinder to find someone special, but e be like nothing special anywhere with the rate of Hook ups I just keep matching with. Any good testimony from Tinder to keep the ginger going?

Boob guys pls come and judge. Ass guy like me don't knw if this is true.

This kind of question is what leads to all those broken marriage thread on fp. Whatever happened to marriage between two persons who are just in love with one another. Too many compromise now a days. Pple just tend to marry whomever they are dating at the time they feel obligated to settle down.

With Nigerian ladies u never can tell. Some times I hate you really means I hate you.

Sexism, fanaticism, tribalism and the rest of the other "isms".

Some girls just lack self control. That is how some of them cannot even wait for one dick to be removed before they insert another. You self you lack sense, just pray she has not infected you with something light.

With the amount of time you guys spend on nairaland talking about this red pill shit makes one to wonder if you guyz actually find the time to apply it. Everyone wanting to be alpha in a world of betas.

Bro that babe no be your own o. Na person like you dem dey call "side dick".

Age is just a number. Some guys are way mature than their age.

Sis, you have just been everywhere. Hope all is fine?

Bro them don use correct Nollywood acting confuse you. From your write up it shows you have been "punked". Just take a minute and replay the whole scene, you would see through the whole charade.

GreenMist21:
Ill pay for the dinner. I just need a friend

Then rephrase the topic to "Who would like to go out with me for xmas".

N what does the other person get in return. N please don't say sex.

I'm guessing there's nothing else she could be proud about herself. At least she's found her selling point.

Very corny

I see no reason why you are advertising, just use your product more and sales would just sky rocket on it own.

Ballary:

maybe l'm been unlucky with the girls I come in contact with.

My brother "What's luck gat to do with it". Just focus on her emotions. Once she develops strong feelings for you, you will be fine. Just hang in there.

sonofanarchy:
lol my serial cheating girlfriend compared me with a brick layer

You shouldn't feel bad now. The guy has had lots of experience laying preek xory I mean brick.

Ballary:
even if that's my intention,I don't act needy.
I always try to build this attraction before inviting them over.

Based on your story it's obvious the attraction has not taken hold before invite. Like I said, once she is smitten, na she go waka come herself.

lilzeel:
is not a spiritual problem sir, why not try and ask them out on a date, like going to an eatery to talk more about yourselves. this will make them feel more comfortable with you. inviting them to your house rings bell like you wanna have sleep with them. so take your time to groom friendship, meet in public places couple of times and ensure you are your self before asking for a visit at your place...

Ballary, just follow this advice. We all know, even you know yourself the reason you are so eager to invite them over is to shift their pant. Why not calm down and build attraction first and I bet you they'll be the ones inviting themselves over.

Too many pessimistic guys on nairaland. Ladies you guys have hurt too many guys that there's no one ready to sponsor a girl through school anymore. Smh

MrCork:


..U can hold your womans hand in public?.. U kidding me.. 4real?

Sure, I do, when I feel like it. I kid you not

Impressive work.

MrCork:


..bro there is a code. We never break

Your code, don't break it. Gat my own rules I live by.

MrCork:


bro..real men don't do that $hit

You think? Btw I don't live by codes I think some other guys laid.

Never go into a relationship with the mindset that you don't want to lose the other person. That adds too many tension and stress on you not to make the wrong move. One way or another we tend to lose even the ones we love so don't fuss.

Sirmuel1:
Two different Guys small sef

My guy u took the word out of my mouth. They can love a million guys, all for different reasons.

bigpriik:

fake it till you make it.

That doesn't really come to play here. Just be yourself.