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2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

Bros
I once experienced something similar to yours but in my case we resolved the issue amicably;
Approach her politely let her understand that u love sex very much, and there are various ways of sex not necessarily penetrative, If she is not in the mood for penetrative sex ask her for Mouth Action, dry-hump or even couple masturbation.
If she fail to oblige tell her that u will get sex tou if she wouldn't mine.

#Stop masturbation at all cost#

They should start doing the same to Fulani Kidnappers in Sokoto/Zamfara: their atrocities is getting out of hands, must disheartening thing is people over there dont want to reveal whats going on for fear of some elites.
Allah Ya isar muna!

Smart Gold digger!
U dont love him but u love it when he spent his hard earned money on you right?
How i wish i knew this Maga, i could have teach him how to handle broke ass Girl like u.
Karma is coming for you.

idom101:
Hello everyone,
it's really my first time to ask for help here.

I will be 35 20 days from today and I intend to get married very soon, but after a bitter break up more than 1 year ago, I finally make up my mind to love again but I am caught up in between two lovely women.

Note: I am not dating any of this girls but they are my friends and wonderful people character wise.

I have known the first one since childhood, she has turn out to be an amazing young girl always supportive when I need her, living with her I know I will definitely be very happy in my marriage but she is less of a goal oriented person, which means I will have to work more, she is more of an extrovert also very loyal.

The second girl is very okay character wise, very submissive and is great goal getter, marrying her means I will do less for us to achieve our goals but she is more of an introvert, she is this kind of girl that can keep to her self, and she very loyal too

both of them outwardly does not carry the body I would like but inwardly they are amazing people. both of them support my vision in life so well.

Please marriage expert in the house help me, as I don't want to make mistake in my marriage. I am still praying but I feel I need to also find a way out.

which of this girls would you chose to marry and why?

matured advice are welcome.

thanks

I was once in your shoes when i was 28yrs but i end of marrying 2nd Gal, we are blessed with 2 little guys now after 6 years of 90% happy marriage.

NB: in Islam there is ISTIHARA (seeking Allah's choice/guidance over any matter).
In my case i opted to be praying for God guidance over the matter.

NwaAmaikpe:



Pretty sad to not only be at the verge of losing your only brother but also be at the verge of losing a family land.

I'd advice you do everything in your power to ensure that your father's land is not lost.
That land alone can transform your lineage.
People back away from land tussles because they are ignorant of the bigger picture.

Besides, the enemy MUST not have a last laugh over a complete victory.

For your brother,
In your best interest and for safety sake.
If he has gone mad, take him to Oye Emene or Ogbete main market and leave him there.

There are so many other mad people there.

Tough decision for someone you love but once a mad person is always a mad person; before he wakes up one night and sends all of you to purgatory before your time.
We've seen several of such cases.

Shalom.

Take him to Federal Psychiatric Hospital Kware, Sokoto State. He will be cure almost free of charge.

alBHAGDADI:
This is a pure rubbish teaching coming from a Catholic Bishop of gay kingdom.

Where did God order that we should do what this preacher said with our tithe? Nowhere. What God said in Malachai 3:10 is that we should bring the tithe to his house. He didn't say we should branch somewhere else with it.

Yes, the pastor's idea seems like a reasonably brilliant and kind one, but that doesn't make it right in God's eyes. Remember that the way man thinks is different from the way God thinks.

Man thinks it is a good thing to give the tithe to someone in need of it. But where did God say such about tithe? Nowhere. He only said to bring it to his house and from there it is distributed to the needy.

Think of it this way: You are on your way to the hospital with 100k to pay for your child's medical bills. Suddenly you found a needy man. Be honest with yourself, will you give the money to the needy man to the detriment of your child in the hospital?

I can bet you won't. So why do you now think it is right to give your tithe to the needy man? Remember, it is God's money and you have no right to decide how to help God spend it, especially when he gave you no such order.

Look, don't let people bamboozle you weird scenarios like the one given by the preacher. Always stand by God's command. The tithe is his, and the only thing you can do with it is to take it to his house, nowhere else.

They may even use your child as an example, saying what if your child is sick and the money needed for treatment is equivalent to the tithe money you have, which is your last dime.

What will I say in this case? Give that money to God because it is his. At this point many will be kicking against me. Little do they know that they are kicking against Jesus who said...


Mathew 10:37
He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

Why do you think Abraham is referred to as a friend of God today? Because he obeyed God by proceeding to sacrifice his son Isaac as commanded by God. He didn't think twice. But people who are not worthy of Jesus are the ones who will disobey him by doing the thoughts of their heart instead of his word.

Proverbs 3:5-6 (KJV)
5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

Agent of 5% collector's!
Only gullible Christians can believe your argument.
Say no to enriching private jets owners!

NwaAmaikpe:




See how they rubbished a whole pastor.
Nobody can rubbish a real native doctor like this so it goes to show that this pastor is a fake pastor.

He should just get a charm for future protection.

Charm?
How about his God?

simonlee:
6month old baby?
I don't believe this!

Better believe it cos I had a phone call with the family last month. The said Woman was breastfeeding so there is no way she can leave hee child at home, she had no option but to stay with the baby at DSS detention cell

Aonkuuse:
And it will be in their favour no need to be nervous. Tribunal is mostly manipulated at the state level.

You may be right,
I will be in a court tomorrow, Will quote u

Welcome development

They should have brutalize you for wiring terrorists tshirt

This is murdered..
Look at the position of Jerry can carefully and the position of the alleged thief; can he tiptoed and put his head there without upsetting the jerry can? Impossible!
Wise up

johnmattew:
clear case of murder...using gate as decoy

I concurred.
Must annoying among the commentators are those saying its because of the church sticker that thief was trapped

Sketchy news...
Can an unconscious Man have erection that can lead ejaculation?
Pls educate a curious mind

victorsmile:
Hi, Please can someone help with this code, I scanned my car and I got these codes. Honda Accord 2006, 2.4L 5 plugs. The fuel consumption is very very high.
Please help,
P0453 Evaporative Emission control system pressure sensor High input
P2422 Evaporative Emission System Vent Valve Stuck closed
P0420 Catalyst System Efficiency below Threshold (Bank1)
P0499 powertrain

I bought full tank yesterday and today it is half tank already

Help me oo

Prof. GAZZUZZ save him abeg

Point of correction...
He is not Nigerian, He is Biafran.
Dont blame Pakistan Govt, blame your Brothers

Opexzy:
Good day fellow nairalanders, i will try to keep this as short as possible.

I have a sixteen years old brother that is still bed-wetting. Dad and Mom has done everything humanly possible, but all their efforts ends in futility.... So many methods have been devised to just help him but non worked.

Initially we thought it was because of late dinner, he was stopped from eating when it is after 7pm

There was a time that dad use to whip him, but he stopped when he realized he's not getting any better.

We have bought some medicines, but it is still the same story.

Currently everyone is tired and no one is talking about it anymore... my parents believes that when he gets to uni he will change after a single inglorious display of this act.. He is currently in ss3.

what baffles me is that, my bro doesn't show any sign of remorse. He is always unapologetic and doesn't really give a damn...

Please nairalanders, is there anything else we aren't doing...?

I experienced similar issue but i overcame it when i was sent to boarding school (SS1), He will stop it with time probably before he turn 18 years old.

jerry447:
As long as Islam supports child marriage, this kinda thing will not stop...

I rather support Child marriage than Child Prostitution and Baby Factory.

jidemoh:
I'll advice you to get a new double cell radiator as a matter of urgency.

Your car was not designed for tropical weather which is why the fans sometimes don't roll immediately even when the aircon is on. A broken radiator will only cause engine overheat which isn't good for engine lifespan.

My 2005 Honda dealt with me cos i was managing a radiator until i bought a new one.

Oga some States in USA can even compete with Sokoto and Borno weather during summer.

lanre2009:
good morning guys. pls i have an issue with my 2006 honda accord. the radiator is a single cell. It got cracked due to someones carelessness. I am being adviced to install a double cell type and direct the fan to always be on anytime i switch on the ignition. Is this advisable? Or should i just install a signal cell type and leave the fan the way it is.?

I also noticed that fuel consumption has increased on the car, pls what could be responsible for this?

I have been driving different model of Honda for the past 11 years, my advise...
1. Change the radiator with the only exact type you bought the car with.

2. Dont connect the fans to direct except if u want your fuel consumption to increase.

3. Dont remove thermostat.

jerry447:
Islam bad

You must be very stupid just because of action of 1 among about 2 billions Muslims across the globe u are insulting the whole Islam.

Agneseze:
I can’t sleep , i am so depressed right now . I am writing this with tears in my eyes

I have been married for 13 years , and my husband and I have 4 children together. Everything was going well in my family until my niece came to live with us. She is 19 years old

She became close to my husband, but I never thought they were having an affair. I didn’t see anything going on between them to make suspect them. She was respectful to him.then I observed that she was not looking right and complaining that she was ill. I asked her what the problem was, she said nothing. Then a few days later after she was not feeling well, I told her i should take her to the doctor but my husband offered to take her. I still didn’t take that to mean anything.

My husband took her to the doctor. When she came back , she told me that the doctor said nothing was wrong with her. Then a few days after when I was at work , she packed her bags and went back to her mother. She told her mother that the doctor said she is pregnant. It was my husband who got her pregnant and he wanted her to do an abortion, but she was afraid. Her mother said when she came to live with us she was a virgin, but my husband took her virginity.

My husband calls her a liar. He said that he never had sex with her. I can't look at him, I have nothing to say to him and all he wants to do is hold my hand and kiss me, and try to manipulate me into bed. But I am worried , because my husband is respectable man and is well known. I don’t know what to believe. What should I do please

Considering the fact that there are 4 Kids, i think you should solve this issue amicably to save your marriage for the sake of those innocent Kids, cos the deed has already been done.

Karma is a bitch...
Throws litter everywhere in your own country, then sweep other people city in another country, u received no thank you but a fine

The rate of atrocities committed by Fulani is very alarming, and We Northerners kept mute about it for the sake of so called brotherhood .
An average Fulani Man valued Cow more than human, worst part of it is majority of them are illiterate (they dont even pray).
Allah Ya isar muna.

One chance Pastor abi Posthief

Welcome development

May Allah punish whoever issued this statement.

40 millions + 2 new cars annually just because of less than 30mins pleasure.

MYDEBBY:
Dear Nairalanders, I greet you all.

Pls I need candid advice, I have dated my wife for over six years without an issue and now that we have done traditional rites and about to climax with white wedding she is giving flimsy excuses that she is no longer interested in me.

She is currently in final year and has drastically changed in her dressing and attitude towards due to influence of friends in school.

Often I do report incidences of her recent poor dressing to her parents after cautioning her she will channel the grievances to me.

The recent one made her so angry that she started recanting all my past mistakes which she and her family are aware of and have resolved since now using it as an excuse against me that she is no longer interested.

She kept mute for over two weeks due to anger yet I still transferred money twice to her but up till now she did not acknowledged it, only for her to send text that she need money for our daughters school fees. I then decide to visit them off campus where they stay yesterday with lots of provision yet she could not say a common thank you.

While I was still making peace with her asking her to forgive me for whatever wrong I have done to her by reporting her to her PARENTS, promising not to do so again, a guy knocked the door and she went out after the guy I asked a relation who was there who was the guy and he said he is my wife's friend, I quickly followed them on citing me the guy diverted after their discussion about me.

When we then entered the house I asked her who was the guy and she said that's not my business. I kept quiet.

After a while I called her parents to tell them the situation of things that their daughter said she is no longer interested they now asked us to come down to the village to see them this coming weekend.

I know things are not alright somewhere and as such I need straight forward advice on what to do.

Pls no insult just help out.

Thanks

My candid advice is... leave her alone and move ahead, dont try to win her heart cos from the looks of things she has planned her adulterous life.
NB: A Man can flirt outside the marriage and still love his Wife wholeheartedly but reverse is the case for Women (they can even go as far as killing their spouse just to be with their lover)

Fulani Kidnappers are illiterate heartless and stupid,.almost pray never to encounter them.