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Emefiele?

Men of Goat

KingAzubuike:
Temper justice with mercy. Give this young man another chance at life.

Will you write this shit if he killed your mother?

Pastor abi Entrepreneur i dont blame u but your gullible followers

Borno too

Today u cant even be a Governor between 31 to 41yrs, some are even trying to become ward councillors

What is Gonort Rohr?

Wasted effort cos they cant use it judiciously.
There is air force based, Police Headquarters, DSS, SARS, NCSDC, 2 army facilities in my state but Fulani kidnappers are terrorizing the entire state.

maynation:
As far as PDP wins.
Ba wahala

Nagode!

Na them vote for change!
Bubu abeg keep the boarders close till 2023!
Infact add more tax to anything imported via ports.

My thoughts...
Those mines resistants vehicle were smuggled by the white men to support boko boys but fortunately out securities intercepts them, the came up with the lies that those vehicle were meant to be taken to Niger Republic.
Wait a minute why not ship those things to Niger directly?
How those vehicle arrived in Nigeria in the first place?

kweenkong:
What sort of marital life are you promoting , its very disheartening considering that marriage is to unite two families ,
1) So a mother bringing food to the childrens house is wrong , waow , you guys need to check your ego and focus on the right thing bring garri, yam, palm oil etc for you daughter and her family is wrong .
3) Giving attention to your husband is wrong , i dont know how to deal with that .

1. Her husband took offensive for that singular act, she is not inder any obligation to bring food stuffs to her Inlaw besidesince the guy is agaisnt it why must she brings it.

2. I said too much attention not attention.
U should understand that there is individual differences.

NB: am married since 2014 without any serious issue, so I knw what am saying

ginaolo:
Hi

I’ve been with a lady for some time now but I’m starting to have doubts about this girl.

My main concern is that she is too reserved and she doesn’t like to do anything that involves people. I come from a big family unit and she’s always avoiding family get togethers, outings, even to meet my friends and socialise with them is a huge problem. We’ve gone out very few times, she’s met my mum and a few friends, but she avoids meeting them most time. I addressed it to her and she claims she has social anxiety but for how long can I continue like this? All she wants to do is be at home. My family are already starting to get the wrong impression of her and they believe she is proud. I know my older sister is not too fond of her because of her quiet nature and I think this will take a toll on us in the future if we get married. I don’t want a wife that cannot do basic things like go out with me to events or represent me well. I don’t want a wife that will be hiding in the house 24/7.

Another thing is that she has some stubborn traits in her. She’s a lovely woman, she’s very kind, compassionate and she motivates me a lot. When she’s around me alone she’s very cool, but when it comes to going out and doing things, she starts acting up. I cannot deal with her shy nature as it’s too much and it’s becoming embarrassing. She’s 24. What do I do please?

Abeg if u dont love her they way she is then give me her number. Thats the type of Woman I need.

If she is too social you will come here and accuse her for being wayward

Zhuhilat:
How Do I Deal With This Level Of Disrespect From My Husband

Dear all

I and my husband are just 2years in marriage.

Every time we have issues concerning anything, he is always telling me to pack my things and leave his house or he will say things like you are off no importance to me and you bring me no value and stuff and stuff. But after a while he will apologize and say he doesn’t mean it.

Last month, what caused our fight was because my mum sent some food stuffs to us because she traveled and got them cheaply. He was angry because he felt that was disrespectful. And the argument degenerated to him telling me to leave his house,

i got tired, called his bluff and left the house but everyone advised me to go back and make it work., well except my dad. Mind you, this was the 5th time.

On my return, we talked about it(like we always do) and i thought it was genuine, and i said i was going to give it one more try.

Today, we had an argument because of baby food. I told hime to buy on his way back. I couldn’t go out because the whole road was terribly flooded .

But he didn't buy it, and that lead to an argument. And the next thing he told me was to fuc.k off and leave. Or he is leaving. As a matter of fact, he just left the house now 12:00am.

I am actually tired of it all. and right now, i don't think i have any love left for him or this marriage.
I think he is cheating on me and for some reason i am beginning to look outside and crave attention, love and respect from someone else.

I don't want my child to grow up seeing me treated like this but most importantly , i don't want her to think it is okay to accept being disrespected and under valued like this.

Married people is this one of the challenges in marriage or what?

Why cant we have an argument that doesn’t lead to leave my house, i dont need you, you bring me no value and all

Also we are very very comfortable, i work and he works too.

Emotionally, i am done.

1. Your Mother should on no circumstance voluntarily give anything which your husbands is capable of buying i.e foods stuffs.
2. Keep yourself busy: work or go back to school.
3. Stop giving too much attention to your husband (personally i dont like too much attention)
4. Review your marital relationship weekly then monthly so that u can find flaws in it.

Now if the Federal university Gusau start lecture and meeting on Sunday 8 to 4pm they will start wailing and shouting Islamisation!
There should be tolerance in our day to day lives

Fulani are the most wicked people in Nigeria, 90% of Northern Kidnappers are Fulani, but an average Northerner will not tell u this.
Mutanen banza!

Local 15k, foreign 17k

Congratulations!
This guy must be 40 to 47yrs

JubrinElSudan:
Which government agency regulates pay TV? Just like cbn-banks, nerc - discos, ncc-telecoms. Send them a mail/tweet copying the regulatory body and see them running "hecta seckta" to resolve it

Nigeria Broadcasting Commission NBC

I am still wondering how a sane human celebrate the death of his loved ones through lavish entertainment .
Anyway culture and religion differ.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Her body has not even healed properly and she's pregnant again!? That you married doesn't mean you can't use condom or practice withdrawal method.

My Sister leave withdrawal method alone, condom and implanor are better options.

Adebowhales:
My baby is just 4 months old and my wife is pregnant again. We tried the family planning methods but it failed.

Presently, we cannot afford to leave the pregnancy. What can we do to prevent further re occurrence and to terminate this one.

Thanks.

Medics in the house.

Bro,
If this pregnancy defied family planning then my advice is leave it alone just take very good care of your Wife and have your or her Sister assist her in running the house.
Next time consult a Doctor for proper family planning.

NB: Before u take my advise go to Hospital and seek their advise first.
If u a Muslim remember Islam legalise abortion only if the live of the future mother is in great danger.

95% of those Kidnappers in north west are Fulani

Kill them asap

They are: Okafor Samuel Obinna, Chigbo Pascal Chidi, Oha Chukwujekwu, Ahamefula Francis Izuchukwu, Ugonna Nelson Owete, Ikenna Henry and Chinyere Aniobi Jessica.

Always

Former Nairalander

cashcity:
It is no longer news that Nigerian government just passed the bill to increase minimum wage from N18, 000 to N30, 000.

I'm currently employed in one of our country's ministry agency 2yrs ago at level 8 on a salary of about N121, 000 per month.

My fellow nairalanders please help me to understand the modalities in the calculations and how the minimum wage increment is going to affect my current salary..

If Labour accept FG increment of 11% to level 7 to 14 your salary will be 134,300

Offpoint:
Only an aboki will wash a CAR with DISHWASHER

Tribal bigot, keep on using klin to wash your legs cis u sound broke

corperdonga:
Please recommend the best soap to use then.

LB car wash is very good, I have been using it since 2007