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Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

freedomchild:
we igbos do have our own cooperations especially in the banking industry. so the north can have theirs in cement industry but I don't see the future growth of their cement industry because northerners largely live in mud houses. Igbos won't patronize them as they already have ibeto cement whom they share there emotions with.

porshnuel:
Which one is northern cement .....this alamajiris nw own nigeria full time

oyinboboi69:
N5.2m is cheap?

hisexcellency34:
I agree with the man. All these Muslim ladies covering heads na dem bad pass. There is no style they don't know

rawpadgin:
Is there any first class king in Nigeria who doesn't have exotic cars?

Holywizard:
After bashing me u still typed 'Amin'
Bros y?

rummmy:
And she was freed because of buhari nepotism and body odour, only God knows who are her sponsors and how long they have been in this business.. Did I made FTC

Holywizard:
She's not even beautiful. May Allah punish her if really she's not innocent

powerkey:
MILITARY JIHAD IS A ONGOING...


CHRISTIANS, THEY ARE SECRETLY KILLING THOSE THAT WILL DEFEND YOU.

NIGERIAN CHRISTIANS SHOULD WAKE UP

Patrinus:
Nothing is what it seems. . . internet detectives had summarily concluded it must be Chris Attoh cos shooter has similar build and he recently deleted her pics on Instagram, irrespective of what circumstantial evidence looks like.. . . nothing is what it seems!

baslone:
N2.48BN IN 4 YEARS = N600M per year.

N600M for 49 people = N12M per person per year = N1M per person per month.

Not bad.

Philipmems:
It's just a $100, about #40,000.

Bizmagnet:
Our contesting political parties shouldn't be more than 5 or 3 at most. Of what benefit is having 100 political parties and 98 of them cannot garner 50000 votes out 180 million plus population? The recent election really exposed our political naivity and unseriousness to the world.

The way your business and ideas are dressed is the way she will be addressed. Submitting proposals with your website intact tells alot about your passion. Check my signature to contact me for your website/blog/software today

HeWrites:
The only Gumi I know is in South Korea!