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LagBlogger:
There are 3 ways I know;

1. Be born into a rich family or be connected to rich benefactors who can hook you up with a life changing job or contract.

2. Hustle hard, make small money, save like crazy then invest wisely. Maybe in 7 to 15 years time you'll become rich. Almost any legit biz can do it but it is not the easiest way. Good examples music, acting, business, trading crypto etc.

3. Become an evil money chaser i.e yahoo yahoo, selling drugs, scamming people for fake jobs, fake pastor, politician, runz girl or other evil runs

Modified: A poor igala woman that came to Abuja to fry Akara. She is the bread winner of her home. Has started building in her village and has bought the house she and her family live in.

It is possible to hustle and make it in Nigeria.

Very correct the only fault here is politicians doesn't belong to the 3rd category.
First perhaps

They should release him otherwise Buhari should be arrested too.

Weldone Senators

Nelson wike's cousin

adamma24:
There are many people using their father first name as their surname...e plenty for naija here....so no biggy..

You are right,
Muslims must use his father name as his/her surname

Tayorshd87:
From a friend though


Am the last born in my family and there are too many ups and downs and wahala in my family because it was a polygamous home and my father was one of the man I mistakenly ever met on earth and unlucky for me he is my father 😭😢
So how I wish I should start my life with my own fresh lineage from my wife and children. Like I don't want to be part of the father tree again.

I gave birth 3days ago and I don't want my son to bear my surname 🤔 I want my own name to be his surname so my father lineage will be cut off
☹️

Please is there any future implications in this decision?
Or rather something bad behind this decision??

Thanks 😌

If you are a Muslim it very simple just do it, as it's encourage.
otherwise contact a lawyer

JayDaily2:
You allowed your wife to use contraceptives, that may be the roots and the cause of most of her problems, women should avoid contraceptives, It's balances hormones and pollutes the mindset of a woman therein causing unnecessary behavioral switches.

The brain of a woman is naturally unstable, When she adds contraceptives to that, expect drama.

Not all the women o.
My wife was on them for about 4 years, i can comfortably rate her 95% out of 100 (characters, home management, neatness, etc.)

I suspect APC and its satanic leaders

Zulum:
If it's easy to run for my life, I would have done that since....i have a 3yrs old child with her, I love that boy....when we separate I know definitely I will miss him.....thats my fear

Sorry about your plight.

This is very unfortunate considering the fact that northern women are very submissive with the except of some arranged marriage.

Your first mistake is venturing in to arrange matriage with someone who doesn't love you wholeheartedly.

What I will suggest in this situation is...
1. Explain to your parents and inlaws what you been passing through and its adverse effect on your job and wellbeing, if they offered you a solution shikenan.

2. Divorce her! According to Islamic jurisprudence the moment she remarry; you can take the custody of your child.

RIP!
Is he still in benin Republic?

Their colleagues at university will be like...
Why are u wasting your precious time on Yoruba language?
Forgetting the fact that destiny can never be change

mancoconut:
My journey in Nigeria ends! I'll be leaving the country by August 9 to Canada guys. All the suffering and wahala don end for me o! My stint on Nairaland finally comes to an end.

All the best to you all

Be careful with whom you share this info with.
Congrat

MALIGNANTHost:
Good morning NLers, This is a new relationship less than six months and a long-distance one.

The guy confronted his girlfriend whether she's having a male bestie and the girl acknowledged.

The girl said that the bestie is even the one making her dreadlocks.

After the chat, the girlfriend made it clear to his boyfriend that she would rather break up the relationship than for her to leave the male bestie as her bestie has done for her what no guy including the current boyfriend can do.

What's the way forward please

I suggest he should leave the Gal alone otherwise he will regret later.
Even her EX use and dump her because of the said issue.

elloso:
Hello fam.
I will be traveling to the UK soon (Scotland precisely) and I intend to book a flight (Turkish Airline) that has a stopover at Istanbul and Dublin.
Do I need a transit visa to go through Dublin?

Please I really need your reply 🙏

I once stayed at Istanbul airport for about 6 hours without anyone asking for transit visa.

juman:
Tinubu is already building the country.
We are heading towards greatness.

With peanut of 8000 naira to less than 12% of Nigerians.
Keep deceiving yourself

Masha Allah

Shut up
They are all terrorists!

Let BAT increase it to 1k per litre

Mjshexy:
My mum and siblings, dad is late

Good Gal

Across Nigeria abi in the south west?

Asquare84:
I doubt if the cousin are from idoma speaking part of benue, if they are idoma's alekwu (gods ) will strike them automatically, immediately they sleep with themsely.

Where was the said God when herders were killing innocent women and children?

yarimo:
The guy want to marry his aunty

Amebo

Dear Nairaland Family,
A friend of mine is seeking for my advice which I decided to tap from your vast experiences:

PREAMBLE:
He is 38yrs, Living in his own house with a nuclear family (Full house wife with 3 kids, ages 7 below) He don't gamble neither smoke nor drink.

He recently start earning little over 3millions monthly, aside from his side hustling of mini car importation. though It's contract job for a period of 40 months.

Upon enquiry... his monthly expenditure is around 1m (large portion of it goes to the extended family and acquaintance)

Conclusion:
I am seeking for your priceless advice on which saving/investments should opt for.
















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ahnie:
Pls don't,with time every thing is Gon fall in the right places

I pray so

Jennyclay:
Most of you jobless men have pride

You don’t have another job and yet you’re resigning from the little job you’re managing . If I’m one of the management I would make sure you don’t get your salary!! Nonsense!!

How much is even your salary in your current job? If your salary isn’t up to #1 million a month, just kindly stay away from a relationship before you put someone’s daughter in abject poverty

Chai 1 million is too much now

I think Tinubu is trying to charge Nigerians for using whatsapp

HanisahZuwy:
Yes, I thought so too. Because, I'm always extra careful about what goes in there. I don't joke with that part of my body at all at all.

Masha Allah,
That's good!

Amin, thank you

HanisahZuwy:
I'm a female. She asked me to UnCloth, climb the bed, and open my legs. She inserted something long into me to collect the specimen. When she was done, she came back immediately to say that I should keep it up, with a thumbs up sign from her to me.

She observed that you are very tight and clean down there, that's why she urged you to keep it up

This thread will mak me swear for Bola

talented321:
Oga don't u saw those behaviors in the time dating or she just change m for u, abi u be the wedding before sex crew.
Though from my little experience many of those women who close their breast or avoid kissing are not too deep in the s*x business, did u s*uk her p*ssy? Or did she s*ck ur d*ck. U don scatter her brain with s*x? Be like u never knack that woman center of gravity.

As he stand i no dey bleep women who lie down like banboon, either cowgirl, d*ggy or vice versa.

Prof. Sir!

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