Idowu116: Hello Everyone,am new here and I see the way people share opinion about what they are going through in life so I decided to share mine too.
This is a little bit long please bear with me. Am a 22 year old undergraduate.I finished my secondary School in 2017 but couldn't further my education because my parents (father particularly) are financially down.
I didn't even attend my graduation party party because my dad refused to get me the clothes we chose to wear in my class.
So out of shame,I didn't attend the party and I haven't even collect my certificate and testimonial till today.
Later in November that year (finished school in September),I decided to start looking for a menial job so a friend helped me with work at a particular market in Lagos, where I wash shoe for shoe sellers.
I did this till 2020 in March before the Corona virus issue started.
So around December I resumed the work again till early April, this year.
A friend of my mom helped me get a job at a bank,to work as a cleaner.
All this while, my dad and mom had a serious fight and my dad stopped living with us.
My father is a stubborn and who fornicates and my mom is not happy with it.
So luckily,I got the job and I started working that same month, paid 25k. With this 25k, a take transport everyday #400 (200 go,200 come)and I feed from it too.i give my mum 5,000 from it too but am not happy and comfortable with it because before the month ends I end up having nothing, trekking to work and have not to eat talk less of saving to further my education.
Working as a cleaner, people use to take advantage of me a lot and a person,I have studied my nature well.I don't like people sending me on errands,I hate it but that is the nature of the job.
People take me for granted, some abuse me then I would cry and wish I never existed.
Sometimes I think of committing sucide but I later do keep my cool.I am an introvert but I have decided to start talking back at people and refusing to answer their message but am scared I might loose my job even though am not happy with the job.
Am also thinking of stopping the job myself but am scared of poverty.
I don't want to go back to the shoe washing job too because it is too stressful and I get sick when doing it
Please what should I do
I knew exactly what you are passing through cos i have passed through a very bumpy roads, but keep moving Success will be yours. Try as much as you can to collect your result/certificate. Look for any type of work aside cleaning, if possible save little amount to start personal business. Enroll into part time National Diploma.
chiefobdk2: Na so one girl say make i send my account number.. She press me 2k.walahi shame catch me... I been wan send am back but didn't want to be rude... Dis na person wey i don buy phone for 3 times
ba7man: The same Saudi Arabia?? I thought it was only those fraudulent agency vicims that got into danger there.
Dont mind him. Saudi Arabia is very safe. I can't count how many times I have seeing couples roaming the streets of Jeddah, Makka, Madina etc around 2am unaccompanied, infact night life is their preference.
DubaiLandLord: GEJ incompetence made Boko Haram became very powerful.
Under him, Boko Haram was controlling a territory as large as igbo land, but GMB government don change the tide in favour of the Nigerian people.
Boko Haram is weak and do not have the capability to hold on to territories and only attack soft targets and withdraw immediately.
IDPs camps are been closed and people returning back to their peaceful communities.
Stop depending this Godless government of Buhari. Bokoharam has been converted to Fulani bandits and ISWAP. They are now operating in almost every nook and cranny of 9ja.
Foreverdope: A video which is circulating on social media, shows a man creating a scene at a wedding ceremony after he found out to his shock that the bride is his own girlfriend.
It was gathered that man was invited to the wedding and he showed up to the venue just like other guests, but to his shock, the lady who was getting married that day was his girlfriend.
Destabilized by the turn of events, he started causing drama but before things could escalate, he was whisked away by security guards at the wedding.
The video was shared online alongside the caption; “He was invited to a wedding and he came to meet his girlfriend as the BRIDE.”
Dear Nairalanders. Please stop employing Nigeriens, Chadians Togolese etc large number of them are criminals who left their country of origin as a result of one crime or the other, must of them came to Nigeria in disguise. Funny thing is majority of those countries mentioned hates Nigerians.
Jakumo: Absolutely. A 12-gauge load of buckshot is very potent indeed. I have personally killed over 200 deer during my years as a hunter, and the damage those shells can wreak on flesh and bone can be shocking to behold.
The effective range of a shotgun is generally within 50 yards, but I once fired on a deer running full speed 100 yards away, aiming well over 20 yards in front of the speeding animal with only a slight hope of bringing it down, so I was stunned to see that the single pellet out of dozens that hit the quarry shattered its leg bone, thus giving me time to close in for a follow-up coup-de-gras.
I have a very healthy respect for shotguns, because they are devastating weapons even in the hands of a poor marksman, due to the sheer volume of pellets that spray the target from a single blast.
Wow 200 deers that's some record! Thanks for the info.
EndBuhariNow: 250k is not a salary in sane place... go and ask how much original road sweepers are earning in dubai.. Nigeria has gone to the gods... my friend told me, there's hunger in Nigeria that girls now Bleep anything under trousers because of food.. chai
In Nigeria it's very lucrative salary, you can't compare standard of living of an average State in 9ja with Dubai.
boldking: I came to nairaland to inform everyone that I offer Instagram YouTube Facebook Twitter and audiomac followers with views comments and likes at an affordable price and people turned up because it was service b4 payment that was how I built mine
Esseite: - Unknown source. - Unknown Governors. - Unknown youth leader. - Unknown monarch. - Unknown separatist group. - Governors lodge in Asokoro.. Which Governor does not have a home/lodge in maitama or asokoro?
You could have just shifted blame on PDP and rested, rather than propaganda speculations. This is just a future excuse to clamp down on any insecurity protest in the north while tagging it opposition.
You nailed it. Unfortunately 95% of commenters doesn't understand the motive behind this conspiracy theory