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SeunTheOwner:
As I dey so I have benefited from 3 party this season.

Humble432:
I dated one or two girls after secondary school and early years in the university but everything changed in my 3rd year when I was posted to IT(Industrial Training) in 2011. I met a married woman there whom I fall in love with. She is dark skinned and so beautiful with this smile on her face all the time. Each time I go into her office to submit a file, she always welcome me with a smile and ask how I am coping with the place. The feeling keeps growing but I was so patient till I passed out from IT, that was six months.

Few weeks after IT I went to see her in her office. We had a little discussion and I asked for her number before leaving and she gladly gave it to me. I called her few days after she responded well so one day I told her about my feelings. She had to think about it for few days before she said yes. The relationship started and I realized it was my first time of truly being in love. She was so nice to me and I love her back �. Honestly this is not about money or any material thing, I truly love her, she is perfect for me. The love between us became so strong that we talked many times in the day and chat even late hours. Then it was 2go & Facebook. We attended occasions together. I would ask why her husband is not going with her, she will say he is always busy.


All the while I didn't know her husband. One day she visited me where I lived(off camp) and one of my hostel mates/friend saw her. When she left, the guy told me that her husband is a lecturer in our school, he told me his position and office. By then I didn't know him because it's not the same campus. Later I asked her if her husband is a lecturer and also hold the post my friend mentioned, she said yes. She told me that is why she doesn't like to visit me in my hostel, or for us to go to a hotel in town because many people know her. I became scared, I wanted to end it but the love was too much.

One day the husband saw a message I sent to her. He asked but she denied it could be a mistake. Already the man have noticed the late night chat, usual smile while they are listening to news and also she was not much interested in bed with him. These are her confessions to me. She told me that Dr. saw my text the previous night that I should stop calling for the time being, she will be the one to call. The following morning, Dr.( The husband) called me to ask what affair I was having with his wife but I denied. He asked about the message, I said it was meant for someone else, my girl. He asked how I know his wife at the first place. I told him from my place of IT, I went ahead to tell him that she is like a mother to us(students) in her office so I can't try to send her a text like that. He was not convinced, he has seen many changes in the woman he married. He then invited me to his office. By then I have already written my finals and waiting for NYSC. I told the wife about the invitation but she said I shouldn't go. I insisted I will go to prove my innocence though I was guilty . With all these developments I had to work my posting to another region so I will be far away from her. I wanted it to stop because after meeting Dr. in his office, I felt so bad for my actions. He was so nice and humble. A day before I will leave for NYSC, she became so sick that she was admitted in the hospital, her phone was taken away from her. When I got to the camp, I pleaded with her to let go because of her marriage, it was so difficult for her. Dr. called me on the passing out day from camp, congratulated me, then stylishly reminded me about the law of Golden rules. After about one month he called again, told me that they are still having issues in their marriage since then. He has pleaded with the wife for them to reconcile but she keep on behaving strange. He told me to pray for forgiveness because he cried and said a lot of prayers against anyone that caused their marital problem. He doesn't really want me to incur the wrath of God. In all these, I never admitted I had something with the wife but he knows the truth, he is filled with wisdom and an elder as well. I tried my best to talk to the wife but she was heartbroken that I influenced my posting bro a far place against her advice because she wanted me to be posted in the nearby State wher she can visit. It took few months later and they reconciled. Dr. Called me about twice after my service to know how I was faring and also to know if I came back to their state, but I didn't go back. Sometimes my conscience disturb me and I feel the need to call Dr. to confess but then I remembered the problem it will bring for his wife. Even though he already knew that I dated his wife, but hearing it from me will cause more damage so I didn't confess.


I am someone that dream especially when something bad wants to happen to people I love/family. When my father, mother, uncle & sister in law died, I had similar dreams. Sometime in August, I saw Dr. and his wife in my dream. I was in their house in that dream, Dr. was so lean and looked sick. We had a little discussion then he told me I should go and see a SOOTHSAYER then I wake up. The dream didn't make sense to me until about four days later, the wife sent me a test that Dr. is dead. I asked her which day, it was the same day I had the dream.


About my life after NYSC. I have worked with few private companies without much achievements. Worked with a commercial Bank as a sales representative (marketing), with another firm as a customer care representative and later accountant before the company shut down completely. I borrowed some money from my elder brother, added to my little savings and bought a car for Uber. Unfortunately the car is faulty and keeps taking me to mechanic every week. I noticed that nothing really works for me the way I plan. Sometimes I will start a thing and loose interest along the way. I studied Accountancy Education and started ANAN last year when I was posted to finance department in my last job. I took the first stage of the exam PEA and cleared it but now I am loosing interest gradually. PEB classes have started since September but I haven't attended the tutorials for once. In my mid 30's I m still single and confused about life.

About meeting a soothsayer like Dr. told me in the dream, it's difficult because I wasn't trained that way. I came from a decent Christian family and all my life, none of my parents have taken me to spiritual house or something like that.
But I have a strong feeling that DREAM was not ordinary, like a message was passed to me. Again the days are evil, I might enter the wrong hands while seeking for solution.

Kindly advice please �
I welcome criticism for my past, I offended both God and man and I am TRULY SORRY.

Dalnadoni:
Are you sure our currency is not the problem? Tell me the problem pls

SeunTheOwner:
Remove your Political affiliation if you must advertise your business

EhisChelsea1:
Assuming I want to hire you now, or I recommend you to a company, and you are asked, why you think you should be hired or how you intend to do the job, your response will be, “just hire me first. I will do it. Don’t bother about how. Just trust me. I will do it?”

laluski:
Yes I was actually replying the young man that sent it...it's a shame he's not on nairaland..he for hear word

laluski:
The time you spent in written this piece and wailing woefully, would have been enough time for you to either pack out if he house ot pack her out..don't waste your time, the marriage is dead. Count your loss and move on... It's better you found out this early,if you venture going back to her..it's either she will kill you or you will kill her out of jealousy..why? Simple... The trust is gone..you can't trust her again, so why will you go on something that's dead.. God is not holding you responsible for anything for now..if you go ahead and you so much as make her unhappy to the extent of frustrating her life and destiny...Hell fire is sure for you.. again LET HER GO AND LEAVE HER FATE TO GOD, vengeance is Not yours my brother.. that girl is not your wife...your wife is still out there waiting patiently for you