₦airaland Forum

Whada:
Sorry ó, which Christian country is the greatest country in the universe? I hope you won't say America cos last time I checked, the US is not a Christian country. Help my ignorance Pls, which country are you referring to?

America . let's say the united state is a secular state.

Acekidc4:
Now that's what i call good Thinking.......... Movement wey make Sense............ Unlike one Idiot called Emefiele who use his Destiny do Rubbish all in the name of Punishing his Generations.

POLICE: Show me your ID Card, ah your ID Card is also your ATM Card, Oga Drop Something before you go.

ME: No ATM around here sir.

POLICE: no worry ah get Pos, Oya put am put am.

Emefiele was used by Buhari and his cabals,he had no choice.ATM expires every two years,so what happens to that card that doubles as your national identity card.

ModCaller:
The best things you can do for your marriage is to get a side chick

getting a side chicken sorry chick is like pouring fuel inside a fire🔥

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

A wise woman build her own household but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.proverbs 14 V1.

Sex is to marriage as sugar is to tea.Without sex, marriage is as good as dead expecially young couples.

Because there's no longer that affection for one another,it will now look like a wine without taste.

Was she denying you sex before you had the two kids,if yes,then she's not a wife material but if it started after having the kids,then,she is telling you something but you are not listening to her

Try to befriend her once again and find out what she's saying,women are like children.never joke with it, she's protesting.make her your friend once again.

Buy her things she love,pamper her,she will open up to you.

beyondPen:
Wise words my man

Thanks@beyondpen

CuriousMind2022:
Kobojunkie it is obvious you read but don't comprehend! I would have been perfectly fine if my wife is not much into sex but she makes up in other areas. Personally, I think I am quite an objective person. For example, if my wife shows little or no interest in sex, but she respects me, (she is mindful of how she treats and talks to me when she is upset), genuinely cares for me (whether we are in good terms or having a fight) and most especially supports me in prayers, I wouldn't complain. Having sex once in a week has been a problem for me (most men will consider this too little a time to have sexual intercourse with their wife), the major problem I have and I have always had is the lack of value and commitment she places on things that concern me and our marriage.

Didn't she show some of these signs when you were dating.

flexyrule:
Nigerians and prayers.

Pray...! Pray..!! Pray!!!

Pray to graduate.

Pray to get work.

Pray to receive salary.

Pray to spend the salary.

All religion have their own God,the Chinese religion have their God as well, innovation and technological breakthrough cuts across races and different religion.

The greatest country in the universe is a Christian county but they still network with countries that practice other religion.

Other religion pray too, infact Muslims pray more than Christians,so, there's nothing wrong with prayers. Under development in Africa is not caused by religion or prayers but lack of common sense,

A rolling stone gather no moss.Jumping from one job to another is akin to shooting oneself on the foot.

If you have a fairly modest job, stay put to ganer work experience and career growth while having your exit plan in focus.

When you stay in the dark for long, you will now begin to see light,of course nobody want to remain in servitude forever,so follow your exit plan judiciously and exit at the time when the ovation is loudest.

lexy2014:
so there is no systemic corruption in lagos

Why is Delta, Rivers,Bayelsa and Akwa Ibom not doing better as in new innovation, they are still talking about roads and gutters in these oil rich States.

Millions of jobs will be lost,Why is our government so vindictive and insensitive.This action will further add to the numbers of unemployed Nigerians which will further saturate the already saturated unemployed market.

lolu2019:
life is not hard.it is human beings that are wicked.

Life is human being, human being is life.

Ilamina:
isn't that the most wicked thing , you can do to a human being

Life is so hard

Life in itself is about facing challenges.If you must grow in life you must fight and engage your fears(challenges) otherwise you will depreciate.

Mom007:
I am not a Tinubu fan but no one can be as bad as this outgoing evil president whose tenure unleashed unimaginable suffering on Nigeria. So what are the so called SAN doing? Is there no one or no organization that can checkmate this last minute free for all looting that is going on across states and federal right now?

Since inception, this government has not gotten any formidable opposition.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Just dey gather wahalar for tinubu him successor head
He clear say this man reject tinubu same way Nigerians reject tinubu

Tinubu was never accepted by Nigerians
He was rejected completely....

The warey that claimed osun origin ...but lost osun... osun rejected hime ...a ten year old can not lose their origin during election..even me a keyboard warrior, drunkard, weed smoker, gambler and pussy banger that got no business in politics can not lose uhunmwode local government area of Edo sate during election because that is my origin

Now he claims lagos and father of lagos still he lose lagos during election..lagosian rejected him

Abuja way Apc and he people dey still he lose there also

Nigerians will bear the brunt of Buharis action not Tinubu.

zelnababa:
na Lagos dem go dey shuout up and down say e get agbero , the worst Tout in NIgeria are in Onitsha

Touts are all over Nigeria major cities collecting multiple taxes from motorist, investors and businesses the government is doing nothing about it.

The Agberos are ready tools to be used during election to snatch ballot boxes and cause commotion.

After the election,they turned nuisance in the streets, they are into all kinds of crimes,yet the government does nothing about it.

They've chased away major investors in the region including the multi nationals.

nairalanda1:
The older refineries are being rehabilitated.

Plus the older refineries failed because subsidy makes domestic refining unsustainable

Subsidy is a scam,it did nothing to the refineries.

NNPC is on production sharing agreement with the major oil companies,so crude supply to the refineries is almost free.so What stops the government from sustaining these refineries;

corruption was at it's peak as NNPC has more than 20 bank accounts, which are personal accounts where stolen fund are funnel into.

Okwyjesus:
Hostility here is something else. Rivers people are destroying bussines here through their hostility. Even the Governor is not exempted

Warri should serve as a lesson to them

warri copied from Rivers state,I wonder why Rivers state hasn't collapsed like Warri.

Lagos state the trail Blazers, other states que behind, the only state utilizing both the IGR and federal allocations effectively.

Come to think of it,the Niger Delta state should have been doing better if not for systemic corruption of their Governor's.

Kudos to sanwo only, Lagos state and Nigeria.

[quote author= post=123323547]PandoraObi don drop quote.



Heeeyyyaaaahhhh.
Na true u talk o....
(The ipob wings of obedient are going thru a lot,
Not the sensible one among them that have moved on,
For those terrorists wing ,
na dat "a lot" to wounjure dem one by one,
While we sane, honest and hardworking Nigerians move on to prosper in the land.


On a lighter note......[/quote]Why are you always a fan of failure, wickedness and curruption.You supported Buhari for eight years of hunger, hardship and insecurity,now you've started trolling behind BAT.Are you a sadist.

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Maynmann:
Arab prince is not a name, beware of “purportedly “ and also if this the norm why don’t you bring a recent example, women get married to men with lots of sexual pasts Everyday.
It seems the opposite happen rarely.

How many men have you been with and they complain? Or how do you “know”?
You said men complain alot on nairaland, bring out one link.
Most men cheat outside because there woman was hoarding sex or the woman is no longer attractive.

You don’t know these, you are just assuming ignorantly so you can bask in your delusions you feed yourself.
The example you of the prince you gave me is not the majority or the norm.
Remember men choose who they want to marry, they have the keys to relationships, women only have keys to sex.

So, a woman that takes care of the home; cook for you, washes your clothes and that of the children only has the keys to Sex, what a misconception.

A man chooses who to marry,so the woman have no choice,can you force a woman to marry you.

Let me tell you,a woman has the keys to a man's LIFE.Behind any successful man there's a woman.If your wife don't want you to succeed,no matter how much you struggle, nothing will come out of it.

isabi2lof:
Baba I need your help 🙏

So, You have joined the growing list of nairaland beggars.

We are discussing about girls begging online expecially those you are engaged with, you are here engaging me asking for help, even if you're a fool, you should know that's not how to engage your dad.

I know you want to fantasize with me,why don't you use the 10MB data you were gifted wisely.

achimendy:
You're talking complete nonsense, how can you be justifying that kind of begging from Nigerian girls, can you encourage your sister to be begging that way?
even almajiris don't beg the way this girls do. And majority of them doing this nonsense are so entitled and dependent, when you ask them out for relationship they'll devour you with billings, while the only thing they offer in return is virgina.

So, you want to ask a girl out without any financial responsibility, you want her to pay the bill abi, aren't you the one that posed as a superman in the first place,why not act accordingly.

If a girl actually knows your financial capabilities,she will play along,but some of guys tell them that you are the son of Dangote.

Your generation has failed the men folks 🙃

CAN and all Christians should shed these cowardly outlook and fight their enemies Headon.

Israel with a population of only ten million but surrounded by enemy nation with over 200milliom population but Israel never gave them the chance.

Unlike Nigeria Christians that are behaving like lame duck.They the God will come down from heaven to fight for them.

KingPure:
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I beg to understand what logic brought this miserable thought through your mind. And if I'm permitted to go further, I honestly shudder at your vim & courage to type this gibberish on the same thread that was supposed to obliterate every iota of begging, pro-begging, and the spirit of begging far from here. But alas, we quickly found out how many people were confused, and can't differentiate between begging and being a responsible parent. The number of likes your post generated is a pure reflection of how "entitlement mentality" has eaten deep into the fabric of once sane a nation.

I'm afraid armed-robbery will soon gain traction and sympathy once they get an advocate like you sire/ma'am.

Mr advocate, What has your government done to arrest the menace of beggars that littered every nook and crannies in the country.

It's some online gig between male and females that you are now the chief advocate, psychophantic elements.

Chynx:
This is total rubbish...more like reasoning from one's anus.

Do you have money to give to a girl after hawking gala under the scorching sun.

Lashist:
So you send money to every lady you meet in life? If her bill is upto 5k, you will also send too abi?

You lack comprehension skills.Majority of those teenagers complaining that Nigeria women are fond of begging online are the ones that initiated it.when their parents gift them data or they buy from the stipends given to them,the first thing they do is to start chatting a girl, probably of the same age.

When the girl now make demands on them, they will start complaining that Nigeria women begs too much.

Ordinarily, there's nothing wrong in helping someone who genuinely ask for assistance weather male or female.We know that there are a lot of scammers online using begging to ply their trade,we know them.

As i type i have received more than ten request asking for assistance.

AderonkeOlaniyi:
Chronic ignoramus. I'm sure that the people who liked your comment are loose idiotic girls.

Spotted one of those male beggars hiding under female monikers.

Kenneth10110:
The real men from your village will be ashamed of you

Who is a real man.A man that the wife or girlfriend pay all the bills You people fake internet red pills but in real life banana can pull your tooth.

Lashist:
So since you have grown up, you give every lady that you don't know whatever they want?? You attend to their needs every single time?

Assisting someone doesn't mean you will attend to all his or her needs.sending someone 100 naira recharge card once in a while,i don't think it's too much or when your heart leads.In life if you don't give, you will not be given to.

MadeMan01:
They should ask their fathers and male siblings or relatives than cheapen themselves before prospective suitors

Your biological parents, siblings and friends must not be the ones to render assistance to you when you need it most.Infact,most of these online beggars are males hiding under the covers of female monikers.

denzel231:
oga men beg too...
Most profile you see online begging are men using women profiles to scam.

Statistics shows that online beggars are more of males than females.Your observation is quite correct.