₦airaland Forum

Ikpeabujo:
Some girls get mind sha.
I have to bring this issue here because I need to hear more people opinion.
We having been dating for three years now and our relationship is basically a long distance as we are not even close but we communicate more.
As the first son she knew that I always carry my family matter for head, and I always make sure that I do my best for my family financially but the issue is that she is always comparing my spending on my family and the little I was able to do for her.
This year after purchasing a bus for my brother for transportation and informed her about it and honestly from her response I know that she is not happy.
By April ending this year she demanded that she need 50k because she wanted to travel and meet her family at Lagos and I told that I will give her the money next month been this May but something comes up and I was unable to fulfill the promise.
Ever since than I have received all kind of words from her.
In her words. “ if it’s your family you will have rush and send the money to them”
So last night she made a suggestion that if I don’t want her to be disturbing me about anything that I should place her on weekly salary.
Note: the girl in question is working for her sister’s husband and she is getting paid but because I have already made it known to her family that we are getting married she now assumes that I’m her responsibility and this worries me so much.
I’m honestly thinking of ending everything right now and I hope that I’m doing the right thing

There is nothing wrong in placing her on a monthly salary if you love her and you really want to settle down with her.This is one of the commitments in a relationship.

One thing you mustn't do is to tell her about everything you do for your family,be descret about it.Women don't like it when you spend on your family, they want all for themselves and their family.

Try to be modest on the amount you give her weekly, since she is also working.Dont do more than yourself,teach her to be prudent.

Eating food has no time frame,food is meant to be eaten whenever one feel like, not necessarily when you are hungry.I eat anytime i feel like, even at midnight.

Eating time is only regulated for children as a form of discipline and not for an adult.

Sucre6:
Obviously she is very dull, going by her numerous comments here and sense of reasoning makes that very obvious

Is IyaebeTheGreat a female,she almost in every thread posting senseless comments,maybe she's jobless.

IyaebeTheGreat:
If she's not a science student then I don't rate her intelligence .
Modified
She's a science student and that means she's truly brilliant.
Art students are dull and I don't regard them academically

How do you measure intelligence.

jaeyking:
Every student is great in his or her own way

The above comment is very bias and unintelligent

An intelligent art studen would have a higher IQ, EQ and sq than an intelligent science student.

Test the social survey as most intelligent science students are tagged as introverts

Education/Examination is never the true test of someone intelligence

papagiddy:
Adeleke will win...he will continue as Governor of Osun..!!!

So shall it be.

cpu2006:
LIKE FOR ADELEKE
SHARE FOR OYETOLA

Million likes for ADELEKE, the enemies of OSUN STATE should let this man be,he is the peoples choice.

CHRISSANCHEZ:
Give same advise to Southwest too.

Are the south west also crying as the south east about being marginalized.

SpecialAdviser:
Father ko, mother ni.
Let me ask you kid? Is it only Obi that is in court? Abi you no see Atiku name up there.
Did Igbos not back Obasanjo? Abi Obasanjo na Igbo man? Shame on all of you. Shame

Why the so much attention on Obi?
Chai, this Obi is a lion aswear down

Obi is the face of a new Nigeria.If he wins in the court, Nigeria will turn 360 degrees, you know what that means to the looters.They are using every mean to placate Peter Obi, even the so called royal fathers.

Dubetex96:
If e pain u that we are observeing sit at home go to Sambisa shekina

What have you achieved from it so far, you are just destroying your own region.It is self inflicted injury.

helinues:
The illiterate youths have been in charge of the happenings in SE.

The educated people from SE should cover their face with something

They are busy eating from the crumbs that falls from their oppressors table in Abuja.The Igbos are their own enemies.

Voiceofthestree:
I always subscribe my Gotv every time I come home in the evening and wanted to watch to relax my wife will say she wanted to watch a programme on zee world every time she no go give me the remote that’s her hobby. I stop subscribing the Gotv when she ask me I told him I forget she will call me when I am at work not to forget when I do that for one week she said make I give her money to do it herself I give her another execuse the next thing I went to travel two month Gotv I no sub

subscribe the Gotv,women are adult babies, after all, you are the man, father of the house.If you have the resources buy another television.

WorldRichest:
He is not useless. He is not a weak man. He is an ex-boxer. He has fought several men in the past. He defeated many and some defeat him, so one useless woman should not talk to him anyhow.

The TV, the remote and the woman are all his properties

If you don't have control (yourself) over your property You are a weakling.

It is shameful that a 56 years old man can't handle a woman.Women are adult babies,If he had waited a little,she would have given the remote to him.

tungamaje:
So the community has no police or any security post to at least confront the bandits before calling for reinforcements? I am saying this because everybody knows that security in that region is volatile

What is that wicked governor called Hell rufai doing about it.He is the worst governor in Nigeria

.Imagine,he is clamoring for position in this in coming government

ahnie:
Sorry you must have really gone through alot.
I personally sympathize with you.

On the contrary,i learn from others,i have a happy home

Absuchat:

Men have become endangered species in men's world

I always tell men this Everytime.The women folks always brainwash the children right from birth, they tell the children that you are a wicked,lazy and irresponsible man.Thats why any wise father should take the children out and personally show love to them not through proxy (their mother) they never tell the children how you labour hard to fend for the family.This lad must have been brainwashed by the mom.

Agbadocassava:
She’s a British woman with a Nigeria origin nothing else.

She is a born Nigerian of Igbo extraction,she only nationalized as a Briton.

Has he gone round itsekiri communities to see how they can improve it shanty nature despite the hosting multinational oil companies.

God1000:
Unforseen circumstances often pave way for others to climb up

It's not a coincidence,it is their destiny, nobody can change it.

Johnpaulooo:
Pls

@Johnpauloo are still looking for job when you have gotten one in Nairaland and other social media platforms.more grace to your trade.

Is there any new person among them,the same old criminals who has compromised positions given to them and with huge files of currupt practices with the EFCC.They are only old wine in new kegs, they cannot come up with anything new,their mission is to loot the treasury.

A new Nigeria has not yet emerged , let's wait patiently for another four years whether we can get it right.

Goalnaldo:
i swear you sabi kobo wella. It was recently i descovered shes a woman.

If Kobojunke na woman it means the man wey go marry her must be very patient o.

ChizzyBuna:
When was the Last time your Mother Had Sex?

Ask her when last she did it

This is a test to find out how loyal, strong and matured she is..

If she answer correctly, it's a good sign
Then you know that your mum is a strong reliable woman that will do anything for you.

If she avoid the question or react badly
Then you know your mother is hiding many many secrets from you.

If you ask your mom this question,she will be perplexed and dump founded because she will reason that she gave birth to a psycophant who need to be examine.Op for you to come up with this,it shows that the weed you are smoking is already having a great toll on your mental health.

Rootprof:
Nigeria is a sovereign country, bigger and stronger than most countries in Africa. Developed countries may know or see wrongs in the past election/selection and the winner but will mind their business cos Nigeria is a sovereign country. They can only give some clues codedly but not openly. If you really want to know things about Nigeria stop reading Nigeria history materials rather go find elders that have life experience of the matter then you can understand Nigeria better and will stop putting Nigeria matter for head. Who killed bola Ige and why ?

Nigeria is a sovereign state,does not mean a person who committed a crime outside the country cannot be extradited to answer for the crime he committed.

deyplay:
there is no right one, there is only right connections

And right interest.

lildush:
We are all aware of that. All cases must be solved before swearing in any body.

will the case before the tribunal affect the handing over date may29.Does the Nigerian constitution make provisions for that.

lildush:
The INEC president select. Mr amuda. Aka bola Ahmed Tinubu. Might end up in jail. Following alot of misconduct irregularities. Crime against humanity he have been committing. My candid advice for him is to step aside. Go home and treat himself.

Your wish can only be carried out before may 29.Immediately he is sworn in,he will be covered by presidential immunity for the next four years.

joinnow:
Why are you trying to be wicked
Sell to who
remember karma is knocking

Someone buying a car, do so for many reasons:parts sellers can buy it to butcher and then sell the parts or buy to repair to standard,then resell.

jayAjoku:
rent a house in a place you can afford that has Constant supply of light , Abuja is quite expensive when it comes to accommodations, I believe that’s the most expensive thing in Abuja, get a very good and reliable car That will carry you from point A to Point B very easily Abuja has good roads and most places are far from most places. Always buy your food in bulk and store it Food In Abuja is very cheap so buying in bulk is best as for business you can start with bolt or Uber till you get a hang of the city

After buying a car and renting an apartment, how much will remain in the 10m naira.This is a bad advice.

henrimoto:
Nothing dey Abuja ? ...abi na the location wey you dey for Abuja. The ones wey dey Breakthrough there ,na two heads them get ? Opportunities don end for Abuja ?? Oogaa!! Opportunities abound Every where.

That's why @Rubbish is telling frank33 to remain in Onitsha, opportunity abounds everywhere,he cannot afford to embark on an adventure with 6 children.like what Rubbish said,the world is now a global village;good schools
good tv programs, internet .can expose someone, He should be careful not to waste his money.A mother hen that has chicks doesn't knows how to run when the hawks will come visiting.

Labragadaya:
I bought it Naija used

I thought as much,those persistent problems are the reasons they sold it,they will never tell you the truth,i learnt the same lessons years back.Dont think of what people will say,put it out for sale then add money to buy direct Belgium, don't be in a hurry to buy another car.please also go for TOYOTA brand.