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Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please

Kushites:
These Israelis take the world for fools.

Any of those IDF guys could have easily carried those things in a bag and placed them there to call cameras and claim it was Hamas.

Just to justify bombing hospitals and other war crimes they are committing.

Nonsense.

Jewessgratitud3:
Senseless comments from up to down.

Why some people think they have the right to tell other people how to live their lives is what I don't get. If you chose to hide your life inside the cave, not any bodys business and if someone else chooses to expose everything about them, it's still no body's business. It doesn't make you better than them.

What is this one saying, insulting people because they spoke their mind? See below link the reason some of them spoke the way they do.
If your life is worth talking about you won't hesitate to do so. Only those whose lifes is nothing to write home about hide it to the last of their breath. Still, ko kan aye.

Jewessgratitud3:
Senseless comments from up to down.

Why some people think they have the right to tell other people how to live their lives is what I don't get. If you chose to hide your life inside the cave, not any bodys business and if someone else chooses to expose everything about them, it's still no body's business. It doesn't make you better than them.

What is this one saying, insulting people because they spoke their mind? See below link the reason some of them spoke the way they do.
https://www.nairaland.com/7901323/should-divorce-remain-subjected-punishment



If your life is worth talking about you won't hesitate to do so. Only those whose lifes is nothing to write home about hide it to the last of their breath. Still, ko kan aye.

DeleTaller:
Even if Tinubu was really sick.. Is it proper for Dino to mock him on stage the way he did?

Dino lost everything politically from that day.

successmatters:
The senate Committee needs money, and they are threatening to demolish all telecom masts in the country if the telecom companies don't play ball.

Stop confusing us with dogo turenchi, we are not new to your corruption games.

XerXers:
So why threaten invasion first?

Localemperor:
All quiet on the western front..

FreeStuffsNG:
The Governor can petition the DSS to report the individual that posted the defamatory content and sue whoever is behind the handle for cyberbullying and criminal defamation. NLC is not a gutter platform so the implication of the crime is the sole responsibility of the person who posted it and not that of NLC.

I will suggest that he takes that route just like Prof Soludo of Anambra state did when he was cyberbullied and criminally defamed.

As for LP, Labour Party is not helping by resorting to self help and needless resort to violence and intimidation of the Imo State Government.

It is election time in Imo state, every political party and its gubernatorial candidate should be decent, law abiding and campaign on real issues to convince the Imo electorates and let them decide on election day.

If the National Assembly doesn't urgently make a law that will separate NLC from Labour Party, our democracy will be in jeopardy. The NA should immediately make a law that separates NLC from Labour Party. Check my signature for free stuffs!

Testiebobo:
It is true that some elderly couples are more concerned about their partners even than the younger ones.
" I dont want to see you on social media! But why? Dont you know that when you are on social media you get more exposed to the world, and your privacy might be tampered with by the public. But you can only join whatsapp, so that i can get in touch with you whenever i am absent from home." hmm i laugh in spanish!

Amumaigwe:
You talk like a child. Why contribute to issues beyond your level of thinking? Face other pertinent issues like reading or learning relevant skills.

rightopdeep:
Please my son is having serious Itching inside his Throats going down to the Neck down without Cough .

He says it feels like something biting his Throats so intense as if it want to cut

Please help .

mayoklefe:
Which course can some study in masters program after studty bsc zoology

Rtk4:
After all the money he enjoyed at the Senate... He cannot contribute a penny. Shamelessly saying we shall call all the big names.

Bestchoice00:
Nigeria,,, tinubu what are you doing

Hardunmhi:
Pls enlighten me

Ttalk:
No, we equally have
CBN
National Assembly
That are not under any ministry.

They are treated directly from the FA under first-line charge

Godoverevery:
Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now.
She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money.
She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.

In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.

I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.

She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance.
From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.

She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.

Amotolongbo:
She may be right.

If things work well as planned and expected, everyone interested in getting married should be settled before 30