₦airaland Forum

The guy is really given her hard core, that is why he got the reward.

Another sick governor.

The Governor is really sick up there, Ten bag of rice and four cow to do what? I just hope that one when he governor is out of power should be sue to court to tell us where we have it in our constitution that in period like this cow and rice should be given to people like oshomhole and others that was mentioned.

Kiddo01:
Nothing like weed dear, you have to read my post first very well before you comment. I know you may have low lQ but please don't make it public

You're here showing your joblessness and useless way of life thinking you knew what you're doing, Go get serious job and get busy.

Kiddo01:
I have been wondering about this and I decided to bring it here. There is this girl I'm in love with for about six months now, I have intentions tying the knot with her (marrying her) but my problem is that she doesn't like having different sex style, she said she can't suck my d**k, she can't climb me or give me doggy style, (though I've never had sex with her, but these issues came up during my discussion with her) , and I like having fun during sex but she sees it as a sin. What do I do now, should I continue with her, or is sex style among married couple a sin. Please I need concise advice.

Stop taking weed in the morning like this.

EngrEngr:
My Story is a very interesting one and I will keep it short. I met my wife in the U.S. while studying my masters and she lives with her family. Honestly she did not tell me that her family (especially her parents) were difficult to please folks.

The moment I met her family, they began placing too many demands and interrogating me like I was a suspect. I continually showed maturity and managed the situation with wisdom.

A year after meeting her family, we began planning for marriage, I was running out of visa hence I and my girlfriend decided to have a private civil ceremony so I could apply for my stay. Fast forward to this moment, after she told her parents about it, they began saying dehumanising things about me in an attempt to denigrate me and even accused me of using their daughter for papers

A Pastor has attempted to reconcile us but the parents remain adamant. Her father insisted we must divorce and write to immigration to cancel the visa. My wife and I declined that.


He has now again asked that I must prostrate for him flat on the ground wherever I see him (even in public).

I am a Yoruba boy but I have never done such for my parents in public let alone outside Nigeria. And the unfortunate thing is that we attend the same church. And giving her father’s nature, I strongly believe it is a prelude to future demands

Should I change church or remain there and greet him without going all flat to the ground (bending my head a little is all I can do).


Nairalanders, please do your thing and advice me on how to manage this situation.

You can change church, God hears prayer even inside your house, look for another church where you can keep away from them a little and have rest of mind, you and your wife need should think together and be strong as a family and do things on your own, avoid getting favour from them if any such exist.

Freethought:
I know a lot of you are going to blaim me buh please let your message to me come with an advise. We are in a state of real dilemma

Few months ago, i opened a thread on how we both found out we were both of AS genotype and how we couldn't stop having sex. Well as against some advices here, we didn't stop having sex until this past weekend wen we found out that she's pregnant.

I remember the month after we found out about the genotype, she told me she told her parents that she's gon get married to me no matter what, they practically begged her not to, telling her different stories of SS children they know

We haven't told anybody about the pregnancy yet . We are scared every single one of them will blame us and think we did it intentionally just to get married.

I love her and I'm sure she loves me too buh this pregnancy, the tot of it alone being SS is scaring the shit out of us.

We don't know what to do

You see this issue you and gfriends think you're enjoying sex and not minding the implications, when wahala start you would look like when you come out it would be obvious something is wrong with you, if I were your relation I will warn you to find immediate solution now that its not to late, but if you play adamant and tomorrow I see coming to cry crocodile tears, you will see the other side of me.

Greediness is pushing you fast-fast and you're deceiving yourselfs thinking its love, taminationation should be anything between both of you and let everybody go his way no matter how painful, otherwise, get ready to face health challenges which you may loose after spending all your money. I thought educated persons should not fall such victims having read related issues/articles online.

Avoid what is already glearing, in the past one month I can't calculate what have spent as hospital bill for a relation, at first 24hours drip for two weeks. Occasionally drip for another two weeks. Though not SS/AS issues.

This has put me in a situation that I am not feeling the exmas air and anxiety for this season.

A word is OK they say for the wise.

dannyla:
Hmmmm, all the contributions are soo true but I fear he may become violent and go extreme. I've heard crazy things from him before.

Is like your mind has gone far on him, but given you knock on your head as if you're a child is what really surprise me, if you think you can take the heat fine, because it's just starting, my second worry is him already looking at you going out of your business, I hope he will not frustrate you just to make sure you quite, if you do you become a more lesser person to him. Think very well if you can continue, don't think of time you have invested on the relationship if you think his behaviors is not what you can bear.

HondaOnDemand:
Ready to buy when and what's the budget?

100k

HondaOnDemand:
Doubt that's possible. Anyways are you in Lagos?
A clean one without issues will cost between 1.3m - 1.5m

I need 2005 Honda pilot engine tokunbo
, how much?

luvinhubby:
450k for the engine, any decent mechanic can do the replacement for you.

Please Honda pilot has knocked, how much is the engine? 2005 model.

All these Benin people. Hhmmm.

OoniOfIfe:
This one foolishly testified against his own brother. If u ar wise nd logical enough pls don't go nd testify 4 or against someone in court, those people can u question that can formate ur brain

Ooohh I don't like people like you at all, My mother use to have this idea just like you, I stood ground that anybody that goes the wrong way would not hide, one day my brother came home in the evening quietly, around 9:pm I was sleeping when I had a bang on our gate, I came out saw police men came for my brother for fighting with somebody, I told them he is inside.

It was when he was been prepared for court he realised what he did, he has been doing it, but this one almost made him goes to jail.

My mother was blaming me, I told her what if your son was the one injured, will you rejoice?

The matter was later settled with the support of the victim, today he is the one fending for his family, he now understands the implications, if this happens again who is going to take care of his family, now he is a gentle guy supporting his immediate family. Today he didn't joke with me, he does not call me by my name, rather, call bros or elder in our local language, though he is my second younger brother, occasionally I assist him financially because the changes in him is visible compare to his former life style.

Don't side people when they do wrong, even if is your relation.

Butterscotch92:
I know I deserve all the bashing I'm receiving here and more. But I wonder why it's very difficult for most to believe that I'm actually repentant about the whole thing. I know I really hurt my man which is part of my pain. I can never repeat such action no matter the circumstances with what I've learnt and I believe if I am lucky enough to get a second chance I'll be a much better version of myself and be forever grateful. It happened in the car because I wouldn't have agreed to follow him elsewhere by then it would be premeditated. I rejected every of his attempt to meet him anywhere else. Those were moments of weakness although it cannot be justified.

Now I see you're truly sorry, first block all channel of communication with that married man, come closer to your man, spend time in his house , drop your phone freely, receive recalls in his presence and don't show sign of hiding anything, behave like house girl, servant, no problems its a way of showing Remus, from here he can begins to see some quality in you that should not let go, try this.

[quote author=Preciousgirl post=84738717]A friend requested my picture on Facebook and I sent him.


Am responding to your husband chatting a friend on whatsup and deleting it, changes the name on delay basis.

It could be your husband is already suspecting you for long and what you did now is given him a good thought as per your behavior, and it seems he is collaborating with his friend to tract your activities, you better stay away from any negative action, don't let fire burn you soonest.

Am responding to your husband chatting a friend on whatsup and deleting it, changes the name on delay basis.

It could be your husband is already suspecting you for long and what you did now is given him a good thought as per your behavior, and it seems he is collaborating with his friend to tract your activities, you better stay away from any negative action, don't let fire burn you soonest.

Preciousgirl:
Why? Is it so strange to give someone your picture?

You don't sound remus, did you realise you're not a single lady?

A responsible married woman should concentrate on good up concentrate on her immediate family and good up bringing of her children and not male/female devil who call their self friend, now, what you were ask to send, is it bringing joy to your family? or causing problem. I hope you learn from this.

Born2Breed:
Na her role model

Even at that its enauph to east that money , other opportunity will come.

Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago, to cut long story short, she told me that she is in a relationship. I respected the fact that she has a guy and I stopped making advance as a gentleman. But I call as much as possible just to check on her.

Then one night, her boyfriend chatted me up on Whatsapp and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend.

I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.

II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

Two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to, she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. She was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend".

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people's relationships.

The girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..

I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

Fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind of confused to chose between her guy and me. I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.

Few days ago, the girl said she wants to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

Please nairalanders, what should I do.

She is still a child and have not face the reality of life, that is why she could say these, and trying to start jumping from one place to another, maybe she would get her sense right when both of you dump her, then she would learn the hard-way.

Young lady running after unserious young guys who knew nothing but to keep pestering young ladies because phone has mad it possible to track ladies/guys, unlike when you have to send letter through post office, then one could easy cuff-off unserious guys/ladies and face the reality of life where you fined yourself and be more focus about life.

chiefolododo:
Shame on Jonathan

Nothing to shame about him, but you should be a sham of Dickson because from experience governors keep imposing unpopular candidates on the electorate.

See the fight between Oshomhole and the current governor of Edo State is this Pre. Jonathan again?

But the selfishness of the governors impose candidates and become God -father.

If you people want to avoid this you better advise Wike, who behave as if he is the only important person in river's PDP

Pre. Jonathan is not the problem, blame the governors who had made their self look like they are ultimate on state political party politics, state house of assembly will propose law, governor will throw it away, national Assembly propose law in collaboration with state house of assembly, governors will throw it away, e.g local government autonomy.

Calma just visit Dickson, don't blame other people for governors who impose candidates on the masses because they have stolen our money, when leaving office they look for someone they trust who can cover their looth. Lol.

Now that opposition won, you will see revelation of money the was spent, contract awarded without due process, lol.

Pre. Jonathan is not the issue.

cardoso222:
The use of English is being abused on a daily basis!
The word is commiserate not commensurate!!

What matters here is that the info has been communicated, is english your language or borrowed?

Just want to show yourself, even on this critical situation.

b0rn2fuck:
Jesus will help us , I think they have the right to chase as I have watched many criminal being chase at USA too but the roads here aren't helpful , they should have a way of linking the truck to others ahead and avoid unnecessarily cause of accident, tactically they lack sense

They are not suppose to chase vehicle because, doing that endanger the lives of other innocent road users, I have watched the Senior said they are not to chase.

All they need is to take record of the plate number, simple, but because what they want to take from the driver, they act unprofessionally, so that the driver would immediately start begging them with money.

I wonder o, its just show how some government worker are not productive.

softwerk:


Thank god you didn't say Zenith Bank but Access........Access granted my brother but be sure ready for the consequences!

Fucking another man's wife is equivalent to stripping her husband naked in the village square!

See as u fine for your profile pix.

alonzoiv:
Bleached-up police officer. Marketing what you don't have. Big booty, e no dey... sense for head, no where to be found.
Can't they post this lady to the North East, so she can contribute her quota to the FG's fight against Terrorism?

What is this nonsense saying?

samwash:
You can only reveal it to them when the issue arises,banking job require you to be honest, that's one thing that is very Paramount in that industry.

He does not need to do that, if you're applying for a job you look at the required ànd your experience on the job and apply, it must not be current cv, if for example, he has bank experience, and he is presently a driver and want to go back to banking job did you expect him to apply with driver's CV? All work experience must not be on a CV, you edit it based on your experience and the job responsibility and other requirements so that it will flow, the next is to defend it when invited, because you actually have the experience. If you want to all your experience from secondary school to uni, and post uni experience, who would have time to read it when you have over 3000k CV to review.

marshborn:
They are not aware of the issue at the moment. It was after I got home, after the first interview that I realised my mistake.

Don't say anything, they are ok with what you submitted.

skiillzautos:
Still available

650k

Some Nigerians are really amazing, some somebody just introduced that economic value is what several persons has partake in and more still lining up, what a waste of ideals, time and energy.

That was how two ladies ask to follow my wife for baby shower at swimming pool and I was not carried along while they planning it, only for to see them already prepared, I told them that if that person that introduced it is mad, I can't be mad as well with the person, I went further to tell them if it's so important they should wait for their turn so that they can go for it, that was how they left my place with their ugly faces like sawared okror soup

RoyalBlu:
This shouldn't end up being in audio mode tho.


We got what it takes!!!

Thank you, and with this announcement some countries may start putting their eyes on Nigeria security agents especially when they travel abroad, mostly country like U.S.

I don't know why when little things are achieved in Nigeria the whole world would hear it before Nigerians. But buy one A4 rilm of paper, packet of Biro, get ready, then ask then info on how they spent our budget and award contract, and you would never see anything to write, probably the only thing you could take home is the remnants of cash they have squandered, package in a neat brawn envelope used to slap your mount, face and dawn to your pocket to redirect you to where you came from, and when you look at the situations and condition of leaving, your mind goes straight to the rich pot of soup (eggusi, stock fish and cow leg/head and a pack of semolina) you could prepare with it, and either you like it or not, you smile and walk away. am I a comedian?