Better start picking up courage to assume the worst. Otherwise by the time she goes for NYSC you go get serious heartbreak. I lost my university girlfriend of almost 4yrs during NYSC, as she go she just change..no more communication or suspicious moods and voices whenever I call her. Heartbreak almost made me go to Borno from Kano state just to see her but I knew it had ended in time. I kukuma find another babe and forgot about her.
Bro start looking for another babe..
wfjimmytobby: There is this calm girl and decent I met about a year and half ago. We met and vibe then start about a week after we met.
She was loving real, not materialistic and very smart, this make me fall more for her..
She was in her final year in school when we meet and she didn’t let her studies affect our relationship. She was always active, infact she was more dedicated and active than me. So I made up my mind that after she is done with school and all I should be able to probably settle down with her.
So fast forward to a month ago, she suddenly changed. She stopped talking to me reply my messages and kept asking her what’s wrong she ain’t giving me any answer despite all my efforts..
Then after that she asked me to leave her alone…though she didn’t block me on her socials and she is not doing any suspicious it really shocking to me. For a girl that craves for my attention all this time and after have already start giving her my 100% she suddenly switch and wants me to leave her alone..
It really surprising and after I thought about everything the only wrong was that I do get mad at her if we had an appointment and she didn’t turn up that’s all..we didn’t even fight or argued much through out the time we were together…now in the situation the question is should I just give up on her and move on or I should give it more time hoping to get answers to what’s wrong…
A female student of Kogi State Polytechnic allegedly found dead around Crusher Lokoja IDOKO SARAH OJODOMO ,A final year student of Kogi State Polytechnic as sketchy information reveals. pic.twitter.com/PeZ9ECtA6y
— Omera Ugbede Opaluwa (@PrinceOfIgala) May 31, 2026
What of those bet9ja don send to their early graves ?
IzunnaOkafor: When Fanship Costs a Life: A Call on Arsenal FC to Honour Anambra's Late Chibuzor Nzediegwu
By Izunna Okafor, Awka
Football is often described as more than a game. It is emotion, identity, culture, community and, for millions around the world, a way of life.
Across continents, football clubs command extraordinary loyalty from supporters who invest not only their money but also their hearts, time, energy and emotional well-being into the fortunes of their beloved teams.
That is why the tragic death of Mazi Chibuzor Nzediegwu, a devoted Arsenal Football Club fan and supporter from Umudieleke Umuoru Village in Uga community, Aguata Local Government Area of Anambra State, Nigeria, has resounded far beyond his immediate family and community.
Reports indicate that Nzediegwu, a popular poultry and livestock trader at Orie Uga Market, suffered a fatal heart attack on Saturday, May 30th, 2026, while watching Arsenal's UEFA Champions League final encounter against Paris Saint-Germain (PSG). He was said to have collapsed amid the tension and emotional intensity of the match when the PSG scored the equalizing goal against Arsenal, and was immediately rushed to the hospital, where he was later confirmed dead despite efforts to save his life. Nze reportedly left behind his wife, mother, little children and other family relatives.
His burial, which took place the following day in his hometown, drew family members, friends, neighbours, sympathizers and community leaders. Videos from the emotional ceremony have continued to trend endlessly on social media, drawing reactions from football lovers across Nigeria and beyond.
While death can come under different circumstances and while medical experts rightly caution against drawing simplistic conclusions regarding sudden cardiac events, the symbolism of this particular tragedy cannot be ignored. Here was a man whose passion for Arsenal was so deep that the final moments of his life were spent following the fortunes of the club he loved.
Based on the foregoing, a pertinent question therefore arises: Should Arsenal Football Club simply move on, or should the club acknowledge the sacrifice and loyalty of a fan and supporter whose devotion remained firm and steadfast until his final breath?
Across the football world, there is this growing recognition and acknowledgement that supporters are not merely customers but stakeholders, custodians of tradition and the living soul of every football institution. Modern football clubs increasingly understand that their greatest asset is not television revenue, sponsorship deals or transfer budgets, but the emotional bond that exists between the club and its supporters/fans.
Over the years, this philosophy and understanding has given rise to a culture of remembrance, solidarity and compassionate outreach whenever tragedy strikes members of a club's fan base.
Arsenal FC itself has a history of recognising and honouring loyal supporters. In December 2015, the club publicly paid tribute to lifelong fan, Ernie Crouch, who died in an accident on December 5, when high winds blew him into the side of a moving bus near Finchley Central station as he was traveling to watch an Arsenal match against Sunderland. Arsenal FC expressed condolences to the family of the deceased who died at the age of 90, while players and former club legends joined in paying tribute to his decades of loyalty.
In another touching example, former Arsenal Manager, Arsène Wenger, in June 2015, personally sent a letter of condolence to the family of lifelong Arsenal supporter, John Cook following his death. Wenger's message acknowledged the fan's dedication and expressed gratitude on behalf of Arsenal Football Club for his staunch support. The gesture deeply touched the bereaved family and became a shining example of the human side of football.
Similarly, Arsenal FC supporters and the club community, in May 2024, paid tribute to a 14-year-old fan, Daniel Anjorin, a British-Nigerian, who was tragically murdered by a sword-wielding attacker in London on April 30th.
In their game against Bournemouth on Saturday that week, the Gunners paused play in the 14th minute as fans clapped in honour of the 14-year-old Anjorin whose favourite player was Bukayo Saka. A moment of remembrance was observed for him at the Emirates Stadium, as the scoreboard beamed Daniel’s image with banners reading “R.I.P Daniel” displayed in various parts of the Emirates Stadium in honour of the late teenage Arsenal fan, showing that football clubs can play a meaningful role in helping families and communities heal from their loss and pains.
Arsenal is not alone in this tradition. In November 2016, Crystal Palace FC publicly extended condolences and solidarity to the family of supporter Dane Chinnery after he lost his life in a tragic accident. The club's leadership, players and staff united in expressing sympathy and support.
Liverpool Football Club has also established a global reputation for memorialising supporters and victims of football-related tragedies. From Hillsborough to Heysel, the club has repeatedly demonstrated that remembrance is not merely ceremonial but a moral obligation. Liverpool's recent unveiling of a new memorial honouring victims of the Heysel disaster reinforces the principle that football clubs must preserve the memory of those whose lives became intertwined with the game.
These examples reflect what has become an international best practice in modern football administration: clubs should maintain meaningful relationships with their supporter communities and respond compassionately when tragedy affects those communities.
Indeed, the governing philosophy behind supporter engagement frameworks promoted throughout European football is that clubs owe a duty of care and moral responsibility toward the people whose loyalty sustains them. While there may be no legal requirement compelling a club to intervene whenever a supporter dies, there is undoubtedly a powerful ethical expectation that clubs should acknowledge extraordinary acts of loyalty and devotion.
It is within this context that Arsenal Football Club should consider taking steps to honour the memory of Chibuzor Nzediegwu.
Such gestures need not be extravagant. It could be by a letter of condolence from the club's leadership, message from the Club's Manager, Mikel Arteta; a commemorative jersey presented to the family, a signed memorabilia package, a mention on the club's official platforms, a video message from players, an invitation for a family representative to visit the Emirates Stadium, or any other befitting was. Any of these would send a strong message that Arsenal values not only trophies and titles but also the supporters whose passion fuels the club's existence.
For the grieving Nzediegwu family, such recognition would provide comfort during this unimaginably difficult period of sorrow. For millions of Arsenal supporters across Africa, it would demonstrate that the club genuinely appreciates the loyalty of its global fan base.
The significance of such a gesture extends beyond one family. Nigeria remains one of Arsenal's largest international support bases. Across cities, towns and villages, countless supporters wake up at odd hours, spend hard-earned income on subscriptions and merchandise, and passionately follow every kick of the ball. These supporters may never set foot inside the Emirates Stadium, yet they remain emotionally invested in the club's fortunes.
Chibuzor Nzediegwu represented this global Arsenal family. He was one of millions whose connection to the club transcended geography, language and nationality.
His death should not be reduced to another viral social media story or a fleeting news headline. It should serve as a reminder of the serious emotional influence football exerts over people's lives.
Football clubs often celebrate their supporters during moments of victory. The true measure of their humanity, however, is revealed in how they respond during moments of grief.
Arsenal Football Club has an opportunity to demonstrate that its famous slogan, "Victoria Concordia Crescit" (Victory Through Harmony) extends beyond the pitch and into the lives of the supporters who make the club what it is.
As tears continue to flow in Umudieleke Umuoru Village, Uga, and as the family of Chibuzor Nzediegwu struggles to come to terms with the reality of this irreplaceable loss, there is this simple hope and expectation among many football lovers across Nigeria that Arsenal Football Club will reach out, stand with the family, and honour the memory of a loyal Gunner whose love for the club endured until the very end of his life.
Although, such a gesture would not change what happened. However, it would ensure that Chibuzor Nzediegwu is remembered not merely as a fan who died watching football, but as a devoted supporter whose loyalty was recognised by the club he loved and cherished till the very last breath of his life.
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Izunna Okafor writes from Awka, Anambra State, Nigeria. He writes at izunnaokafor70@gmail.com .
Oga 2k? If na your sister be princess you hear say she give opueh 2k even in 2008 how you go feel?
Kalulu44: Na una problem be this, una no dey calm down read. In 2008, how much you think say 2k go worth now? 2008, from Iyana Iba to CMS #150-#200. Now na 2k. Do the maths yourself.
Just like you didn't want to be serious in catching them when you were COAS. 🙄 You are still useless even in Benin republic Since you have been here we have never felt any impact from you
treesun: A former Chief of Army Staff, Lieutenant General Tukur Buratai (rtd), has questioned claims that security agencies are unable to locate bandits and kidnappers who openly share videos and communicate from their hideouts.
The former Nigerian Ambassador to Benin Republic insisted that authorities have the capacity to track such criminals.
PUNCH Online recalls that gunmen abducted schoolchildren and teachers from three schools in Orire Local Government Area of Oyo State, and later beheaded one of the teachers.
Buratai spoke during an interview on TVC on Monday while reacting to concerns over the increasing use of social media and video recordings by criminal groups operating across the country.
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The retired lieutenant general said he did not believe security agencies lacked the ability to trace bandits who frequently publicise their activities.
“I don’t think they failed to locate. If they can locate ordinary citizens or social media influencers, I don’t believe they can locate these bandits that flaunt their loot or whatever activities they do,” he said.
While stopping short of directly criticising security agencies, Buratai suggested there could be reasons behind their operational decisions.
“I would not like to say it is a capacity-building challenge, but I think they may have their reasons,” he said.
The former army chief stressed the need to strengthen Nigeria’s security architecture through continuous training, recruitment and improved welfare for security personnel.
“There must be capacity building of all the security agencies, and continuously,” he said. “There is a need for more operatives. We need more troops to be recruited, more operatives and more policemen.”
He also highlighted the importance of regular retraining and better living conditions for security personnel.
Related News Abia doctors threaten strike over kidnapped surgeon DSS dismisses reports of writer Okey Ndibe’s arrest, explains airport stop Manhunt begins as gunmen kill two police officers in Anambra “They should be trained and retrained. Their welfare is very important. Let us have good accommodation. They must have good accommodation,” he said.
Speaking on whether Nigeria has specialised units capable of carrying out high-risk hostage rescue operations, Buratai said the armed forces possess such capabilities.
“I will not tell you exactly or be specific, but generally we have within the military specialised units trained for such rescue missions,” he said.
According to him, the Nigerian Navy’s Special Boat Service and the Nigerian Army’s Special Forces are equipped and trained for rescue operations and VIP protection assignments.
“The Special Boat Service is trained for such rescue missions. Even the Nigerian Army has Special Forces. They have rescue and VIP protection capabilities,” he said.
However, Buratai noted that operational decisions in kidnapping cases are often shaped by concerns over hostage safety and the risk of collateral damage.
“The sensitivity of that type of kidnap, the location and those involved, and the danger of collateral damage may play a very important part,” he added.
Buratai also advocated the expansion of the National Counter Terrorism Centre under the Office of the National Security Adviser, saying improved coordination and technological capacity would strengthen the fight against terrorism and kidnapping.
“The Office of the National Security Adviser has a Counter Terrorism Centre. I think the commander there is a professional and highly strategic officer,” he said.
He proposed the establishment of state branches of the centre equipped with advanced technology and operational facilities.
“If it can be further expanded to have state branches of the Counter Terrorism Centre with highly technical equipment and very good operations centres or situation rooms, they will be able to do a lot in coordination with the security agencies and the military,” Buratai said.
Omo you need to see what girls sent to school in universities are doing for money. 50k can do alot for them.
ErnestNc: My ex opened up to me about why we had friction in our relationship.
We spoke from 1 am til 4, reminiscing about everything that played out and I got the closure I needed. She wants back, but I don't have the stomach for it, especially for someone who unintentionally repels love.
She actually said she was scared of loving me deep because she wasn't used to being loved, assured and shown security in a relationship. She's dated 8 men in the past and I'm her 9th. Was treated way worse cuz she was scared of the way I loved selflessly . She was tasting something new for the first time. Every guy she encountered played her cunningly and brutally. The other men got the best treatments and the strength and fruit of her youth while I got unforgiveness, malice, silent treatment and unresolved conflicts with little or no investment from her.
It confirms everything redpill teaches. Never be the hero in her story or the knight that tries to save a woman . A nice guy will always finish last or be used and dumped by a lady. Never invest in a woman , truly. You'll get nothing but punishment. You'll pay for her past.
Kalulu44: It was the year 2008, just celebrated my 28th birthday and newly acquired apartment to become an independent man. No more living and staying with my parents and siblings. This freedom and independent started making explore things. It was the year I took my first alcohol and also started clubbing. Though the clubbing of a thing didn't last more than 3yrs before I started detesting it and finally stopped. One thing I am happy with myself for is, all those years of sowing my wild oats, I never indulged in smoking and taking of hard drugs. Till date I don't know what's smoking or taking of hard drugs is like. . So to the main gist. In 2009 at one club along Alaba Int'l road beside Awori College Ojo, Lagos State. The name of the club is Heavens 2, they have Heavens 1 at mainland around Oyingbo area. I went as usual to catch fun on a Sunday night after a hard days work driving thru out Lagos. Lagos drivers, we dey see money nah. So the one to spend for club no hard. While dancing and drinking my can of beer, I saw this beautiful dark skin average height girl hit the dance floor. She was wearing a black silk see thru armless gown that revealed her inner wears of only white bra and equally white panties. And then a red wrist bead on her left hand. . I quickly cornered her before other vultures like myself 😀😀😀😀 will do. Stood in her front and started making some dancing steps towards her. She didn't resist and reciprocated. Mehn! Before we know it, we don gum body each other. This babe was giving me all the sexy dance steps you can think of, including rubbing her bum bum that is round and firm against my crotch. Meanwhile other guys have been given her signals to come to where they're. For where, I hold on to her very well. . After about 30min sweating it out, I told her let's get a drink and she obliged and we went to the bar where she took Smirnoff ice and I collected another can of beer. We went and sat at secluded place inside the club and start talking. We talked and gist, and she told me she came all the way from Port Harcourt for a week visit to Lagos with her family. That while in Port Harcourt, she's been caged. That's why she decided to come have some fun at the club. I asked for her name and number, she declined and said I should just enjoy the time I have with her. . Hmmm.... Inside me, I was like this one dey whine me ni. Abi bcus you be runs girl. I didn't asked further, we just had our drinks and hit the dance floor again. This time around, her sexy dance and manuevering all over my body started doing me serious strong thing. I didn't know when I whisper in her ears, "why don't we have a quickie?" To my surprise, she replied with "do they have rooms here" I nodded and she said ok let us go then. . Omoh, just like that. I took her upstairs. Paid #500 for short time and we went inside. While inside, she asked me how much will I give her. Ah ah! I thought you said you came to Lagos to just catch fun I said. And so, so I should just give you my body for free she said. I said ok ok, how much does she want? And she said any good reasonable amount that comes from my mind. Ah! This girl wan put me on the spot, I said to myself. Then within me I was battling between giving her 1k or 2k. . Finally I deep hand in my pocket and gave her 2k. And then said hope this amount is reasonable. She collected it, smile and nodded and said it's ok I tried. Then we got down to business, me no dey kukuma forget my Gold Circle back then when going to club, cus possibilities of something going down is always there. Mehn! This babe gave me an unforgettable s*x. It was like her life depends on it. She reminds me again that she has been so much caged not to have this kind of fun often. . I tried to know how she mean by caged, she just wave me aside to forget. The last word I rmbr from her was: just enjoy me the way you can cus this maybe the last time we'll ever see or meet again. And true to her word, it was. After over an hour exploring our bodies. We freshen up and went back inside the club. Me I have cum and relief myself, wetin I still wan dey do inside club😀😀😀. So I told her it's time for me to go, and then persuaded her again to have her number which she still refused. . I left her to continue her fun. The next day Monday, I hit the road for daily bread. I have gone two trips from Okoko to CMS. On my 3rd trip around 1pm in the afternoon at Agboju going towards Mile 2. There was heavy traffic. A trailer fell First gate close to Maza-maza making vehicles moved slowly. While inside the traffic, by my right a little further I saw an SUV with the plate number HRM which means His Royal Majesty King of so so and so place in Port Harcourt (name witheld for some reason). I just read it and continue my slow movement. . The lane I was, then move a little faster which made me stay side by side with the Royal SUV. I looked at the SUV, there was a driver and a matured female with beads all over her neck and she holding something that looks like what all this Lolo we saw in Nollywood movies hold. I said in my mind, that must be the wife of the king, the queen. Then when I looked at the back seat, they were two girls and a boy sitting there all wearing their royal emblems and what not. Meaning those are the prince and princesses. . Then a sight caught my attention and then look closer to her again. Lol and behold, one of the two girls was the girl I met at the club last night that we had fun and sexcapades together. I almost wanted to call out for her. But 1. I don't know her name which she never gave me. 2. Their glass were rolled up, how could she even hear me. Then lastly, I thought to myself. Isn't it even foolish and childish of me to try to get her attention. Not long, their lane and ours moved but theirs moved furtheress than ours. And before we could say jack Robinson, we are out of the traffic. I guess they were traveling back to Port Harcourt. I began thinking to myself, why would a bonafide princess come to the club and sell her body, cus I'm very sure after I left, other guys would have take their turns too. . Was she really caged according to her and decided to use the opportunity she have to explore things or it's in her blood. I just can't crack my mind as to her situation, so guys what do you think?
Help yourself and go for medical test. You think you are the only one she has done Jackie Chan on bed with? You carry stoner go your family house?
If you get that kind mind you must have slept with her without condom.
Iamdbull: So I met this girl at an hotel while I was bored as hell and mere looking at her, one will know she’s an addict, so I walked to her and asked if she was a stoner( street name for a weed smoker) she replied in affirmation, so I told her I would love to vibe with her while we smoke even though I don’t smoke, told her that just to get her attention, then I gave her my number because I wasn’t with my phone.
The next day I say her message and did chat her much, so one day after like a week I told her am in town we should chill together, she dropped her location that I should drive down to pick her.
Fast forward to some moments later she was in my crib and something led to the other we started knacking wotoporously. As in let me ask you guys, weed addict as in girl wey don colo don knack you before?
It was during that last two weeks when one couldn’t wash cloth and hang it outside cos it was raining continuously, na so we Dey inside for 4 days straight Dey give each other woto woto as in all the styles I use to call film tricks in porn she perform am for me live and direct. She even do 360 on my jt.
Omo so the last day the sex don clear for her eyes she started disturbing me that she wants to smoke and she was doing like her life depends on it, that’s how we went to get the weed, couldn’t even watch ball.
She smoked to her satisfaction, I couldn’t even watch the match because of her and we went home, only for her to start giving me attitude and acting strangely. The next day was the straw that broke the camels back, she started smoking in the house, family house, and I told her when we go back to my place in Lagos she can do as she like, cos I met her when I came for this ileya visit
The craziest part was my late brother was a chronic weed smoker and it traumatized my mum so I told her she can’t try it around only for her to confront me saying she’s going to smoke in front of my parents that’s how I told her to leave.
Omooo can’t get over the sex all on my bed is her smell am going crazy even wrote a song already.
Please what can I do? Such a sexually talented lady cannot be allowed to just go to waste like that please
Wasted on arrival. Person wey Pastor Chris don almost make her Colo wan wear heavy crown... I laugh! Reminds me of the type of crown Khal Drogo gave Vinaerys Targaryen in Game of Thrones.
Sowore is just gathering a clan of jokers to his camp.🤣
"Is Vibrator a crime?"🤣 Justice for vuuuum [quote author=Chickenandchips post=139538104]"How can having a vibrator bring us shame? Did you mean to arrest us for possessing a v!brator?"
Who settle this argument!
"How can having a vibrator bring us shame? Did you mean to arrest us for possessing a v!brator?"
If you cannot respect her nunship then we will escort you to jail.
udofia234: Just like I was advised by my niggas here to let everything rest, that she has moved on and our parts are now different.....
So I told her I've forgiven her from my heart, that I have one last wish .....
If only she can at least grant it for me for the sake of the love we once shared...... I know some might find this story fictitious, but I don't care, it's happening to me just this week....
Back to my wish......
I told her I wanted to have sex with her as a goodbye and we can now part for ever .......
She became mad at me and insisted she'll level up a charge against me....
Guys I'm only seeking an advise please.... Have I committed any punishable crime under the law? It was just a harmless conversation........
I never knew she has changed so much to a wicked and devlish nun....
After all she did to me she's sueing me... The man she kept telling 8 years ago that she loved with all her life.....
This show she never loved me.....
I got it was a joke until I was contacted today by court baliff ....... 😠😠😠 ...
You can see how women change?
She even threatened to go to my parents parish to report them to the Reverend father so they'll be bared from holy Communion and worker..... Please is this not wickedness? How does this concern my parents?
I know I messed up! Was eaten up by unforgiveness now see where it's going for me now......
I'm thinking of also threatening her that I'll write and accuse her before mother General of seducing me into asking her for sex.....
I need your candid advise, this is my life line for now......
Our police is one of the most corrupt in the Africa. Know this and this would not come as a surprise. Wait till you see Egbetokuns next move.
enemyofprogress: How did these men become so rich in less than three years of serving as Inspector General of Police?
Two former Inspectors General of Police under former President Muhammadu Buhari, Usman Alkali Baba and Abubakar Mohammed Adamu, both contested for governorship tickets under APC in Yobe and Nasarawa States. Both men bought APC nomination and expression of interest forms reportedly worth about ₦50 million each.
These were public servants. Police officers who spent most of their careers in government service. Yet immediately after leaving office, they suddenly became wealthy enough to spend ₦50 million on forms alone, not including campaigns, consultations, logistics, delegates, and elections that could easily cost over ₦500 million or more if they had won the primaries. And Nigerians are expected not to ask questions?
Abubakar Adamu served as IGP from 2019–2021. Usman Alkali Baba served from 2021–2023.
In less than three years in office, they became powerful political figures with enormous financial strength. Meanwhile, millions of Nigerians became poorer during the same period. Inflation exploded, insecurity increased, businesses collapsed, and the economy suffered heavily.
This is why many Nigerians keep asking: What really happened during the Buhari years? How did public service suddenly become a gateway to massive wealth? Why are retired security chiefs immediately turning into heavyweight politicians?
The painful part is that ordinary Nigerians struggle daily to survive, while many former public officials move from government office straight into politics with unbelievable financial capacity.
Nigeria cannot truly recover from what Buhari, Tinubu and APC did to this country until citizens begin asking hard questions without fear or tribal sentiments.
Some truths are uncomfortable, but silence has cost this country too much. How did these men become so rich in less than 3 years of serving as Inspector General of Police?
Why is her face burnt like this, if she cannot reface the face is it political office money that will do it?
abc115: The old woman who defeated Aisha Yesufu in the Abuja NDC Senatorial primaries has no social media account, she doesn't go on TV stations to rant like a pregnant racoon.
She has the structure and Aisha has social media likes and shares and elections are not won on social media.
Upon all the gragragra 😂
✅Grandma who has never appeared on live TV ✅Grandma who has never tweeted ✅Grandma who has never condemned Tinubu ✅Grandma who has not rejected the national anthem
If you are still like that from 2022 and now 2026 then you need to work on yourself really hard. Learn to let go of things especially for your own sanity and well being of your soul. Remember forgive those who sin against you and God will forgive you too of your sins. The Almighty God is very strict about this !
Anuoluwa12345: Good evening, pls I need help on something I don't even know how to put it well, but I will try my best to explain a little..and I seek sincere advice from matured and experienced ppl on the forum.
I am a type that when I love ppl, I love them wholeheartedly..to the extent that I will give in all my best to them.. be it family members or non. When I tell you I gat your back, then I truly mean it. But the problem now is, when these ppl hurt me. I don't know how to handle it, I don't even know if I will call it unforgiving spirit or maybe cause I remember things alot, I will surely not forget.
It's not as if I won't forgive them o, I will but, to make that relationship between me and that person smooth back.. it's not possible.. the distance will always be there.. tho before I get angry or pick offence it takes long, but once it happens like this! I know I have lost relationship with that soul.
Some of my relatives (extended fam) offended me, and since about 3 yrs now, these ppl have been sending different ppl just to beg me and talk to me etc.. in order to make things back, but it's just not working!. Cuz I know myself.
And I am a type that, once I vex, I don't look back..even if the person has done a lot of things etc.. I have tried my best but it's just not working. And I understand the fact that there is no how there won't be argument among humans, it's not possible.
My greatest fear now is, what if I marry, is this how It will be towards my husband, someone I claim I love? Pls how do I tackle this problem before I reach that stage, pls I need sincere word of wisdom from elders, else why I come to a faceless forum to pour out my mind.
You mean the ambassador of the 5th arm of Nigerian govt wanted to sleep with you
Well,trust anything that comes out of the mouth of a Nigerian banny at your own riisk. Even if you are eager to trust anyone at all,try as much as possible to add small seasoning to it
Reports from the cabinet?🤣 You know nothing bro, and so does your President!
TokoEkambi: Lolz. Ask any neutral and you'd know where more psychiatric hospitals are needed. Your agulu messiah even said he takes advice from madmen. Lolz. What other proofs do you want that'll be stronger than the one your can-never-do-wrong agulu messiah gave? That's apart from a president knowing where psychiatric hospitals are needed after getting reports from his cabinet. Lolz.
China's railway and metro system is so dynamic. Infact their entire transport system. Intra city buses charge just 2¥- 3¥ to any destination even as far as Badagry to Epe . 3¥ is not up to 650 naira Populated countries like Nigeria need to do more
I see your sarcasm. But really it's the south west that needs more psychiatric hospitals. If they build 25 in the SE they should build 50 in the SE and 100 in the North 🙄
TokoEkambi: He also forgot to add that Nigeria's economy will become 10x bigger than that of the US by his second day in office. (Buhari really messed up not building those 15 psychiatric hospitals he promised for the SE before leaving office).
What do you mean. Even with the present government aren't there some people who are crying. If you are not crying your own cry will still come. There is enough cry to go around
agabusta: That's the only one you are interested in. That's sort of a bitter take.
Be careful what you wish on others, you may be the one to cry eventually.
Bsssss: If Peter Obi takes the oath of office in 2027, let’s be honest: the era of "business as usual" will end the very next morning. It won't be a magic wand performance, and it won't be an overnight fix—but it will be a level of disruption that the establishment is not prepared for. If you are expecting a "soft landing" for the corrupt, think again. Here is exactly what we should expect during those first 100 days:
1. The End of Waste: Say goodbye to endless convoys and frivolous foreign junkets. The era of government-funded luxury is ending.
2. Audit Season: Ministries and agencies will face serious heat. Expect hidden contracts and inflated budgets to become front-page national scandals.
3. The Subsidy Reality: The conversation will return immediately. It will be painful, but this time, there will be a structure behind it.
4. Market Sentiment: The Naira might swing wildly at first...but watch as serious investors start taking notice once they see fiscal discipline.
5. Silence of the Parasites: The political middle-men and "connection" contractors will go quiet once the supply chain of free money dries up.
6. Renewed Hope: The energy among Nigerian youths will shift the national mood. Hope is a powerful tool for rebuilding.
7. The "Old Guard" Resistance: Expect the status quo to fight back. The old elite will not give up their grip on power without a massive, noisy battle.
8. Institutional Friction: Expect tension between the Presidency and established institutions that have grown comfortable with corruption.
9. Competence over Godfatherism: Appointments will be driven by merit. The era of "Who is your godfather?" is heading to the exit.
10. Education First: ASUU and universities will finally get the attention they deserve, not just in words, but in policy and funding.
11. The Brain Gain: Nigerians in the diaspora will start looking back home. Stability is the only thing they need to return.
12. Corruption Headlines: Expect a flurry of cases in the news. The cleanup will be visible and loud.
13. Forced Transparency: Governors will suddenly realize that "transparency" is the new trend.
14. Digital Revolution: The civil service will be forced to move from paper files to digital, efficient operations.
15. NASS Drama: Attempts to cut National Assembly waste will create enough drama to last a lifetime, but it’s a necessary fight.
16. Market Confidence: Watch the stock market. Confidence returns when investors see that the leader is actually in charge.
17. Initial Hardship: Fuel prices won't drop overnight. It will be tough, and the critics will try to use this to fan the flames of unrest.
18. The Media War: Once reforms touch the pockets of the powerful, the media attacks against Obi will intensify to an unprecedented level.
19. The Digital Battleground: Online division will hit an all-time high. The clash between those who want progress and those who want the status quo will be daily.
20. The Psychology of Leadership: Most importantly, Nigerians will finally feel a sense of responsibility from the top. That alone is a massive shift.
We are talking about a total reset. It won't be easy, and it won't be pretty for those feeding off our national wealth, but it is necessary for a New Nigeria.
What do you think? Will the establishment be able to stop this, or is the change inevitable? Let's discuss.
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