Cashsteady:
I laugh when igbos think it's a Yoruba problem alone.. But let me tell u Yorubas are only fortunate to have a good media.. Do you know how many villages this people would have been terrorizing that the media don't know about? Be it in the west, east and south?

Abeg face ur problemy, dnt involve the Igbos...

After the results was announced they all ran back to him like

greggng:
I am not a lawyer but I am very sure that even if obasaki wins, he will be defeated at the supreme court . I warned pdp not to accept him but they were adamant ...bayelsa experience is still fresh ..David Lyon was removed cos of inconsistency in the certificate of his deputy ...what did pdp do? They jubiliated ...right now is pay back time. 4 years ago obasaki presented nysc certificate with the name Obasak. ..he was lucky by then cos on one noticed it...but after bayelsa experience , apc decided to of load him in other not to give Pdp another opportunity to reap where they didn't sow. Having being disqualified, he headed straight to nysc and corrected the error ....with the correction , he applied for Pdp primaries ...it is too late for him cos that correction cannot stand in the supreme court ...he ought to have corrected it before attending apc primaries ..that was where he made a mistake....oshomole being very smart ensured it was published for the world to see. Right now obasaki is parading two nysc certificate which amount to inconsistency ...Supreme court in their wisdom will do justice...the moral lesson is tbat we should not be desperate for powers .

That mistake is too small!
Simple Affidavit will solve that.
Even NYSC can solve that sef

my2chains:


oga its like you just woke up from sleep without reading what i just wrote here,

i said its a joke and i dont hate the yorubas,

its something even the yorubas around me uses to joke on someone or maybe something that does not seem right to them,

and we all laugh it out in peace
try and get that!
cheers!

Please mods try push this kind of yoruba news to the front page abeg!

Where is the joke in this statement

my2chains:
Please mods try push this kind of yoruba news to the front page abeg!

Tribalism kills. Say no to it.

And how did dis topic get to front page

All the MODs here are not serious with their job.

Incompetence at its peak!

Pls i need any of the GTA i ll give FIFA 19 in return

Ulunne777:


She doesn't know her worth. She is pushing your bro away with such behavior.

Men chase us we don't chase them.

We have retired from the game

Yimu!!

Wait make menopause kee you

pocohantas:


He considers it pestering because he is not READY or doesn’t want to marry her. In future your brother will be ready and would ask one girl when he can come see her people. That is how men are, when they are ready- they are ready. Before then, it is pestering.

As for cleaning, some people LOVE cleaning. I can even use my tongue to mop floor, e no mean say I want make you marry me o. Naso I dey clean for my house.

Baba is ready jst studying her character.

Our eldest brother made a great mistake so everyone is trying to be careful.

pocohantas:


And if she doesn’t clean, she is not wife material. The prototype for confusion is definitely a Nigerian man.

Nope...Truth is in my family no one cares abt that. She cooks poor (not that poor sha) but my mum has never ever complained abt dis( my dad sef own worse cos ntn dey concern am except he detects a bad attitude problem). So u see my family is one of best u can marry from but dis girl keeps stressing herself.

My brother was even the person who told me she is pestering him for marriage

Xj2020:
Yes. In my own case she deliberately got pregnant for me and I had no choice than to marry her thinking it was right thing to do. See my story below https://www.nairaland.com/5922955/how-cope-ill-mannered-housewife

If you are good you are good, and if you are bad you are bad. You might hide your bad side for a while. However, it is only a matter of time before everything would come out to the open. The Big Brother Show is a perfect example.
My story is that of a young chap that fell in love and got married to the women of his supposedly dream with kids. From day one till date, my beloved wife has been anything but a good housewife. She doesn't give me peace of mind. Always looking for ways to provoke me.
My wife isn't submissive. She is abusive and unappreciative of all I have done and have been doing for her and the children. This is even though the financial burden of the house has been mine 100% from the beginning to date. This is a woman that does not want to do any kind of work if it is not a government job. I have provided her with everything she asked for and even those things she didn't ask for. This woman has never lacked anything in my house to date
My beloved wife insults me in the presence of our kids. Mind you, I don't smoke, drink, and womanize. Neither have I laid my hands on her or intend on laying my hands on her. This is a woman I help with house chores like sweeping, washing the bathroom and toilets, and mobbing the house at my leisure time.
This woman has taken sides against in the time past when I had a misunderstanding with some persons outside. This woman isn't scared to insult my parents every time we have a misunderstanding. My mother-in-law isn't helping matter as she has continued to instigate her daughter against me.
I have finally decided to move out of the house for the now and see how things play out. If things don't improve, then I would have no choice than to seek divorce. Notwithstanding, the children would continue to be my responsibility.
Mature advice would be highly appreciated.

Any matured advice would be highly appreciated from the house.

It would interest the house to know that I am under 40 years old and a PhD. D holder in XXXXX in one of the foremost and most prestigious Federal University in Nigeria where I lectures. I have a First honours in XXXXXX in the same university. I was among the top three best graduating student in my Department and was adjudged best student in WASCE during my secondary school days; Best graduating student in my Department at the OND level before seeking and gaining direct entry admission into a Federal University; Won an award for best student at the 300 level in my Department that year. I was a committed member of Deeper Life despite coming from a Muslim. I still remember how my brother and I used to sneak out the house just for rehearsal that year. I was a member of the youth choir that year and I can still remember playing an active role in evangelizing and teaching search the scripture that year. I still remember going to music class that year and playing an active role in my school fellowship. Everything I am experiencing today is 100% my fault. How could I have fallen in love so blindly and got married to a member of a sect called "Grail Message: In the Light of the truth" without a comprehensive background check. Yes, she got pregnant for me outside wedlock which I take 100% responsibility for but still I shouldn't have allowed her cajoled and pushed me into marrying her talk less of having a court wedding. Do you know that this woman is holding on to the fact that she has children for me and that we did court wedding to do whatever she liked with full support from the mum. Do you know that this woman is very good at reporting everything that happens in my home to her mother? She wants a government job and nothing else. I tried my possible best to get her into my institution without success and she knows this. A woman that has never lack anything since we got married but has never been grateful for once in her life for all I have done to keep the home running. A woman that sees the family problem as solely my problem. I have been a member of Nairaland for years but decided to open this account to keep my identity private. I know for sure that if she happens to stumble on this thread she would definitely put 2+2 together to arrive at the conclusion that I am behind this thread. However, I do not care what she thinks or do anymore. I have already told her yesterday that I am through with her and I mean it. I still believe however that it isn't too late to change the narrative of my life. For all the guys’ out there forming 'I am in love' please and please open your eyes before you take that step to settle down with the woman of your dream as that lady could either make or mar you for life.

Bros!! U don't know me but dnt see am nt a child. I ve seen things in life.

I swear to you that I called off my marriage plans because of mere pre wedding shots. She was so keen on us taking pre wedding shots which was against my wish
N.B: i was only trying to test her and her extremely rich family on how they interfer in my decision making. Only the father was reasoning well. The mother and sibling was insisting on her own decision. Another thing is that we dated for a short period of time. I was happy going into marriage with her cos i thought i ve seen a rich family hereby having all the right connections but my dad(the wisest person i ve seen asked me to test her on how she respects my decision). My family are some how rich too but u can't her family to mine in terms of wealth.

Long story short She left my house with anger and promised not to call till am ready for pre wedding shots. Till date I ve never called even her parent(especially her mom) is still surprise and kills me daily calls. I jst had to tell her that its over between her daughter and I (everywhere scatter).

I am telling you my own story jst to tell u that it takes only a step(action or word) to end ur current and future problems.

Divorce that lady u call a wife no matter what it takes u ll only av to be paying her some amount monthly. Jst leave her and have your peace. Face all ur challenges today and leave happy tomorrow. Never relent in taking firm decisions.

Seems she is a nairalander as well.

Ulunne777:
First arrangee. Came back for Xmas and we finally met. He said if I agree before the end of the week we will marry. I refused, Oga wedded another woman end of the week. I marvel at women . You marry someone you are meeting for the first time in less than 3 days.

2nd Arrangee. Suddenly realized he was getting old. I was 19 and just got admission he was 34.There was nothing he didn't promise me even a car. My plans in life didn't have him in it. Will be disturbing me with midnight calls. #1 of his money I didn't see, an importer at that with so many shops. He doesn't give girls money lyk he said.His mum on meeting me for the first time told me if I won't marry him I shouldn't waste his time and money. I left him quick quick.
When I refused and left for school, he dated another girl that he paid for her school fee for 4 yrs including project and clearance then the girl absconded. I was on my way home from school when he met me on the road after 5 yrs to narrate the whole story and started begging me again.you and your mother should Eat your money. Nonsense

3rd was hellish. My lecturer. This man begged me at every opportunity until my course mates started laughing at us. He informed even his colleagues and they joined in begging me. He was in his 40s while I was in my early 20s.

After I went out with him on a lecturers insistence, he was gulping okra soup ND telling me he can't stay a day without eating it. We drove over to his house where he claimed he wanted to pick something. This man inserted porn for meoo and started caressing me as his gbola has risen. God saved me that day. Anuofia..

One week later he called me that our wedding cards was out. See me see wahala, I had to inform my bf and parents. It was war. Laslas he started threatening me with my results in final yr. My lecturer friend and my Course adviser had to warn him.

Almost a decade later, he isn't married yet which is his business anyway.

4th one that I was recommended to. On our first meeting the fool was squirming in his seat and when he could finally muster courage to talk had the guts to ask me if I was ready to bear children. I then asked him if that was all a wife means to him. Idiot. No introductions whatsoever.

[s]They are plenty oo. For one man that esdapes a desperate woman, the woman has escaped 5x more. . E NO get wetin we no dey see.[/s]

Ps no pms. I already have 3 boys

The bolded statement is a fallacy!

Women are the real desperados. Come and see the way my immediate elder brother's girlfriend is pestering him for marriage.

That girl can clean the whole of our B close where our family house is situated here in festac jst to prove to my family she is a good girl.

sassysure:

[s]U want to marry me
I am a married woman of course.

Just wanted to let you guys know it ain't easy on babes too. In dormitory, I was nicknamed one guys name because he couldn't give up. Till I went to uni.

He is one of my cousin's friend. Took my picture( don't know if its with his permission) from his house and enlarged. Hung in his sitting room.
When he finally got the message that I don't want to marry him, he went for another person. It was around Easter break and I came home from school, was jisting with a nebor when I saw a convoy of cars,asked and was told it's the guy. This guy still stopped, walked up to where me and the elderly woman were. Thank goodness for that woman. She deflected what would have hung me finally. I saw this guy with the wife drove pass me the next day, he stopped and came out to greet me. I have to involve the head of his family. I sneak in to my village towards late evening, use apiam way and enter my house through the backyard. Stay with my mum without coming out till I leave. All because of men. They will be at the compound with the elders and I will jump fence from the back and disappear straight to my mum's hometown.

Girls get it worst. They will ruin your reputation. They will go to beer parlour and make u the topic of discussion.
A babe almost blinded me with very long cane simply because her so called boyfriend wanted to marry me. His dad mandated him to marry me. Have never met the guy. Actually bypassed him on his way to my house to see me
He don't know me either. It wasn't easy for me at all. Some babes get guys who want to befriend them, I get suitors. Had few,very few guys who want to befriend me and all were outside my state.

Some will stalk you.

So when u guys are busy making it look like babes are all over you, know that your brothers are killing themselves over other women. They spent money, they can go to any length.

The way men aggressively pursued me actually had a very negative effect on me toward men cos it was suffocating and too clingy. Yeah, at a point my mummy got worried cos I never responded positively to any.

You want to know about what women pass through in the hands of men, u will never find it here, go to hair salon or campus and you will be shocked to see the level men( not boys) with money and class will go to have a babe answer his name.[/s]

I've seen ur comments and feel its audio. U re jst fantasizing. Even Juliet Ibrahim nor dey get dis kian attention. Pls shift ur lies to anoda section.

Na only you be the girl for the Nigeria

anoziechi:
they should go and sit down

Agreed. They re all useless liars!!

Casalindal:
It still amaze me how some guys here reason... I stated here that I’m not on anyone of you level. The fact still remains legit. I will never take or go low by ruining someone else marriage.. really most of you guys here are bitch ass. Because i exposure your nude you feel the better way to come at me, is by destroying my marriage?? Telling me partner I use a spell on him, lol keep it up I will come back for you when I’m done with the issues on ground

Maam!!! Did u really expose his nudes

Woow! I can't support u on dis!

I broke my engagement because of mere pre wedding shots...

And am nt regretting it a bit. OP better move on.

Hmmm.... This table u re shaking!

It's jst natural... U ll notice how tin wuld be working out naturally without stress.

Nonsense!!!
Men re really suffering. If it was a male thief that was striped nothing like this will definitely happen.

Everybody go lock up.

Dis is serious...i ve donated the little i can..

i wish her quick recovery.

My pple of NL lets help dis girl pls. i went thru her ig page and verified the authencity. pls help her dnt let her die.

sorry bro... laptop powerbanks re all fake.

my own was a useless toyota camry spider i bought nigerian used. it has bin from one problem to anoda. i ve spent alot trying to get this car back on track but for where,
infact it kept bringing new problems... Am planning on taking it to ladipo on friday so that they can butcher and sell part by part.

am tired

12Monkeys:
It is all over

Twelve monkeys... It is time

TechCapon:
stop being a fool and insensitive. It's better to shut up than spill bile from ur mouth

Thief... Go n look for work

LOWLIFER:
Good morning Fam,

I made a thread last Friday/Saturday contemplating suicide because of the various and endless life challenges that has bedeviled me in recent times, I didn't plan to be sensational with the issue or create unusual attention ,as some people have made themselves to believe. I was just tired of Hoping and I am at the crossroad of life and I can barely help my plight. I have cried, wished for death in my sleep, tired of living an unproductive and stagnant life.

I am just a less privileged older brother to 2 younger siblings. I have been responsible for them in my own way since the demise of my Dad years ago and my mom this past August. I originally trained as a Fashion Designer, i am done with the apprenticeship but I have limited means to do a proper ceremony for the collection of certificate and other miscellaneous stuffs.

I work as a security guard for few months but I had to leave the place coz they downsized their labour and I also couldn't get going or survive the job because of peptic ulcer I have suffered for years which affects and cause burning sensation in my upper back and chest. So I quit the job.

At the moment life is unbearable for me. I am homeless ,dampened and clueless about life ,because I have already exhausted my strength and I am at God's mercy and his response and salvation has not been forthcoming. I couldn't get a place of my own or be able to help myself get on the track again.

I am Calling on good people of this forum to show empathy and goodwill and give me a little lifeline so I can have a single room of my own( a BQ preferably) . I am tired of trying and this year is gone with no noticeable achievement or improvement.

I am fighting through depression and my energy is failing me everyday. I honestly don't know how to push forward in life coz I am overwhelmed, helpless and hapless.

Please come to my rescue and help me in any way you can for my accommodation. I will be better,composed and focused and energized to push further and think better in becoming a better person and getting a better life.

I am genuinely in dire needs and I want people with goodwill, character and empathy to show compassion on me.


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Useless scammer... Ur format is old. Try a new one.

mummyson26:

Is ur iphon7 still available
Contact asap 08023982385

Sold Bro

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Wen ever i go to my mom's shop i always encounter dis rubbish..

Its really annoying sha

Mrcashman87:
I am not new to Nairaland but I have to use this account for my story . I have met her in 2009 she was calm , doesn’t talk much but easily get angry and I also noticed that she wasn’t a good cook but was good in other things ( chores) , it didn’t stopped me from loving her, I didn’t tell any of my people even though I have sisters that are good cook but I decided to take her to catering school to learn how to cook which she went for lessons to practice.

We got married in 2013 , she got pregnant that same month and she became so lazy that I will go to work and come back to found the house very messy with everything’s all over the places , dirty dishes and not dinner yet, and I have to take over cleaning and cooking dinner for us. She claimed she could not longer clean the house , she is tired and need to rest so I have decided to get a house help for her , a small 14 years old, this girl was hard working , very obedient but to my wife she is evil , every single day I comes back from work , this girl is always in tears my wife will beat the hell out of her to the extent of giving her black eye , if I confront her she will start accusing me of sleeping with the girl which is not true, I can never stoop so low to sleep with an underage girl. I have nieces of similar ages what I wouldn’t want another person to do to my nieces and wouldn’t do to another person daughter.

One time I came back from work to found the girl in a pool of blood , that my wife hit her with a wooden chair and she had a deep cut on her head , I got angry with my wife even her reasons didn’t make sense to me , all because she asked the poor girl to warmed up the baby milk and she mistakenly left it for too long , the milk was too hot to give to the crying baby so she got angry at her and hit her . I have told my wife she shouldn’t act like that no matter what and here come again you are sleeping with her and that’s why u are siding with her , we had an heated argument that I have left the house to cool down , I came back after 5 hours and next morning I have send for my brother to take the girl back to her parents , I have given her money 30k to manage that was how the girl left the house.

When our first child was 6 months , we found out she was 2 months pregnant she cried that the baby is too small , she can’t keep the pregnancy , I have begged her to keep that everything will be alright . Our twins were born a girl and boy , having 3 children under 2 wasn’t easy for us and I have to go to work while she staying with the kids all alone and she was depressed , I have decided to bring in a house help 15 years old boy , the same thing repeated again , she was maltreated him the same thing she did with the girl , that boy didn’t even stays with us for 2 months , he run away . I came back to found her crying that the boy has slapped her and run away, I was angry for what he did even swear if I catch him , he will regret the day he was born but the other way I knew that boy did it for self defence .

After the boy left I said no more e help , she will have to manage alone because I couldn’t help her anymore , but my house become dirty that I wouldn’t even want to bring in visitors because of the state of the house , dirty plates can stay in the sink for 3 -4 days , laundry she has a washing machine but she couldn’t bother to do , cooking we eats take away every single night , imagine I comes back home 9pm due to my job and Lagos traffic , at that time I’m even exhausted but I have to started cleaning , one time I got pissed with her that she didn’t wash the eldest daughter school uniform and all her uniform 5 sets of uniform were dirty and she had no clean one to put on in the morning , I have to wash them at 10pm and for her she didn’t see anything wrong with that.

When the twins were 1 years she told me she is tired of staying at home that she wanted to go to work , I have told her to wait at least for them to be a year and 6 months to start school before she can pursue her career but she disagreed with me, so I gave her money for business , she opened a shop . We had an agreement that she should be closing down her shop at 7pm so she could be home with the kids and take care of the house , she was ok and I got a elderly woman as a help , she doesn’t lives with us , she comes at 6 am and closes at 8pm and I also brought 2 of my nieces 18 and 11 to the house. Every since she started working she has never get home on time , sometimes she stays until 10pm , if I talk she get angry and will start raining insults on me , we haven’t make love in a long time , she always complains of being tired , her stomach is paining her etc etc. I have decided to leave her alone and not bother her about sex anymore , and it doesn’t bother too. She acts as im a nobody to her. So it happened in July I came back home to found my niece 11 years old with a deep cut and blood on her eyebrows and my wife did it just because the girl broke a plate so she hit the girl with the broken plate , first all I had to rush her to the hospital and she had 11 stitches and went back home, all I wanted to sit with her and to talk sense with her but she wasn’t even interested all she could do was shouting at me , accusing me of sleeping with both my nieces and the elderly house help , was so angry that I have beaten her badly which I later regretted and apologise to her.

That was the first time I have lay my hand on her something I vow not to do to the woman I love but she pushed me so bad and I have been remorseful but she refuse to forgive me . It’s now 4 months we don’t talk , we don’t sleep in the same room , she just do her own and come home anytime she pleases. I just don’t know what to do anymore , I love my wife and children but her attitudes isn’t right. We have 3 beautiful children 5and twins are 4. Sometime i want to divorce her but when I think about my children I just don’t feel like going ahead with divorce but I’m also a human and can’t stop living like this .

Please my brothers and sisters help me with your advices

I wish u ll hear me out.


Divorce that bitch u call a wife, u knw why

Cos one day u might bring in anoda maid nd she will so beat that maid that it will get to court. Once it gets to court u re doomed.

Speaking from experience. I had a neighbor at my office plaza that his wife landed him into trouble of this kind and till 2day almost all his properties re gone due to court orders.

Pls be guided

She wuld av jst added filter or maybe cover her breast "agbalumo"

richidinho:


How much

Already sold!!

Thanks

vikkimimi:
Bae let them be...
they insult ladies in public and go on their knees in private.... mtcheew!

Any guy dat does dat is an asslicker!!!

I

U all ladies like coming out as d victims, why is dat so

I ve seen loads of threads where guys re been bashed too..