Ryan03:
Do you know that most ladies already have a picture of what their wedding will look like? Wedding is for women, allow her fulfil her dream and have the wedding she wants. The kind of men i see on this forum

blissgregory:
Six months courting is too short nah

blissgregory:
Go bak n read wat u commented on 16th feb 2018 @11:38.Dat was ur wish

bukatyne:


I don't know about been a 'man'.

All I know is that lovers make compromises for each other and make the other party priority in their decision making.

habsydiamond:
for u to say that, means u have another reason apart from shyness as ur reason not to have pre wedding shots.

bukatyne:


For me, 6 months is too short for courtship.

I don't know why prior to now, you were not so involved in the planning however it seems your input would not have been concerned important if she is not willing to reason with you.

Also, in order circumstances, I would have said meet her in the middle: take the pictures, don't add to any gift you would share but do a banner of it on the wedding day.

But now that her showoff to her friends is more important than what you feel or why you even feel it, you are on a long thing.

Give her a timeframe in your mind. If she doesn't call you, call her and ask if she is still willing to go ahead with the wedding.

If she is willing, you want no pictures or you do a work around like I suggested above.

If no, cancel all plans.

habsydiamond:
that's what u think. Women don't play with once in a lifetime thing like weddings. The level at which women place wedding is 60% higher to that of men 40%. U said she's from well to do home.. and u no want elaborated wedding, u must do am by fire by force now oo

Easybela:
is she actually in love wirh u or in love with competition and pre wedding pics ,is that how she will be submissive to u?,ladies who tink they are "made already" are always stubborn. If u must apologize to her now,be ready to always dance to her tune. The choice is yours.

Oma307:
that lady is not ready for marriage at all, if her major reason to engage in pre-wedding picture is because of competition among her crew. my brother, if she is able to maneuver her way over you because of her flimsy excuse, you are about to be slave husband in the making.

habsydiamond:
U better forget shyness, b4 u use it to spoil ur future. Who being shy help. That's women for u. They always like competition. Dem no like to dey carry last among their peers. If u love her let her have her way. If shy shy still won kill u. Drink one bottle of schnapp that should give u confidence.

Tajbol4splend:
A lot of people only grow in age but they fail to grow in mind, winning the competition against her friends is more important than marrying you and you can't see that. That's why it's best to marry for love, it doesn't cost that much, not all this I'm ripe enough reason.

UyaiIncomparabl:
They treat us riiiight!

Say NO to young blokes.

dominique:


Here we go again with this stupid justification of gender based assault, una no dey tire? Did you not read the part where she was robbed of her phone and purse? I suppose she deserved that as well for not minding how she spoke to the stranger

dominique:
She needs to include a vivid description of the vehicle including the licence plate number in the tweets. The first thing she should have done is to file a police report with all the driver and vehicle details. This is a clear case of robbery and assault



Is this one ok at all? You must be an armed robber yourself, that's why you're supporting your fellow partner in crime. You will meet your Waterloo one day

Asuokaa:
CU has rules that every one there knows they must follow, it's not new .. most CU alumni knows this and never complained but Nigerians won't face their own lives and fix it but poke nosing in what doesn't concern them..

for example in CU ur not allowed to keep beards, u can't dress any how, there is a standard there that must not be broken..

they are training them to become responsible and they must follow it that's why their parents pay millions to have them their ..

if not fayose children won't have gone their

GarriKoro:
May thunder fire any idiotic pig of Biafra who dares eat any Nigerian rice produced under Buhari's regime

ajokebelle:
This boy that loves going to shoprite upandan and posting it online.

otipoju:


Talking to a ranting, cowardly bitter soul with fried brain cells is a waste of time. Ride on you are the best.

otipoju:


I see that madness runs in your family and it's a generational thing. so I won't respond to you again.

You can continue to curse your father.

otipoju:


On a good day, one on one for road you no go fit talk sey your papa dey stupid but the coward that you are can hide behind a keyboard and vomit anything.

Exactly what goes on during preaching. ...a lot of learning that impacts your thought process for good.

Leaving the church when sermon starts is very dishonorable to God pure and simple.