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elbalishow:
fairly used follow come ps4 pad available for sale

Buttermilk:
Lagos and that's the last price. Others have posted this same model for more exorbitant prices. Let's deal

donbachi:
"I could not sleep the whole night"... My brother,nothing kills a man like pre- dawn(counting ceiling) while others are sleeping.dont allow her to kill you with her pressures.,.she done carry the business money dey wear turkey tops.

Guys should avoid (I will manage with you) kind of women.every woman na material being.dem like good things and naso GOD create dem.

graciousolo:
Gptech and other skilled people. I need help a with deciding what gen to buy.

I will post the ones I am looking at please help me with your opinion on the rest.

1. Will a 3.5kva carry my AC (at least 1), a tall fridge, washing machine, TV and other stuff like kettle, microwave, blender, iron (when I need them) and charge inverter?


2. I want copper coils only. Aside from their descriptions there is no way to tell which is copper or not.

Lutian particularly looks really cheap compared to others like thermocool and firman. These are the products I'm looking at though. Please your suggestions.

dhameelare:
Na true talk oo

Na u go turn atm for her younger sibilings

sacramento1212:
Your unit is most likely due for service. The unit needs to be serviced by a competent AC technician

cortix:
I hardly recommend products but I must say i tech is super cool, I have used it for 8 months now and it's worth the value for money.
it powers my 1.5HP AC and fridge at the same thing with TV, home theater, laptops and fan

Jaiiis:
I found this online now, please I'm a novice in generators and I'm so scared to make a mistake cause I can't afford to from a financial standpoint.

Is this original, and would this work for my load capacity

rock003:
There were many women, but focus was on the men.

Why are you ignoring the scriptures that said women should submit to their husbands?

Is it because that scripture doesn't agree with your hideous, absurd orientation?

So, you only choose part of the Bible that is convenient for you and disobey the parts you don't agree with?

So, what are you doing? Serving God only where it is convenient? You are only deceiving yourself.

murphyibiam15:
Not possible, every organization must have a leadership if not they will be anarchy. Imagine saying no leadership for groups, countries etc. God actually knows the state of mind of you females and what you're capable of that you want anarchy and that's why he placed you all beneath the man

igbosoupkitchen:
What a read dear OP, from the message I sense you are deeply troubled and emotionally too, cant say about other aspects,I extend best wishes to you hoping you recover fully.

I have also tried to bolden some parts of your message that I find interesting, permit me to make some comments too;
- No matter the background search you do, even it you court her for 5 years, trust me , you may never really know it all till you really get married ; I have seen childhood friends who got married and still got divorced, I have seen people who got divorced after courting for 2 months.
The point is, there is not magic rule for marriage, nothing cast in stone; no guidelines-- people stay married because they want to stay and they decide to;; people get divorced because they want to and they decide to (it is that simple).
Love, beauty, money, sex, children are not perfect solutions to a good marriage- cos we have seen people who have it all and yet it crashes.

For me, marriage is about decision, if you dont decide that you have a reason to stay married, then the only option is to decide to leave.

I have also seen a lot of statements that indicate that you 2 were never really bonded , a lot of me, I, she, her--- I dont recall seeing "we", "us" ;
The moment couples can not see themselves as each other, forget it; everyone runs with his/her own priorities ; then the blame game starts, then external family interferences , then finances, then abuses, then bitterness , then we remember how ugly the person is, how tall/short/ sexless/childless, poor , disrespectful, proud etc.. the list is endless until BAMM!! it all crashes.

All I can say to you is rather than dish out opinions on who is to be avoided, married, courted, married etc; take time off and have a self reflection of yourself- the marriage and all that happened; if you have friends that dont think like you and always agree with you try and get a honest evaluation of yourself from them, and maybe share the truth about what really happened, maybe u can get fresh perspectives.
The worst mistake you can make now is to jump into another relationship, trust me, u will be back to square 1.
I have seen childless couples who are still married, I have seen a family where only 1 person provides and they are still married--- etc...

Above all, in this part of the world, we have so much expectation of other people in marriages, but not many of us truly know what is expected of us and fulfils it-- hence it is very easy to pass the buck.... Nothing in life comes easy, it is how you DECIDE to take it.

Dont forget to find God as you seek solution to this pain, just open up to him and ask for direction, he always has answers that we dont have ,even if he sometimes gives it to us in the way we do not expect, but he always has all the answers.

All the best and like I always say, all will be well ...

lordally:
The last girl I dated for 1yrs and 3 months is a first class graduate from Afe Babalola university. She studied petroleum engineering. Her fees used to be 1.3M although in finals her fees was 900K. She was respectful and adores me too I do take her out now I saw a red flag the day she took me out. We were having a discussion and she said once she gets married it's only going to be here and her family with no other person! She wasn't just saying it she was acting it. Such girls would allow their mum to visit but you never allow yours and I won't have non of that. She was also non sacrificial. I was broke then to even buy Airtime to call her Omo to her it was my duty to call and I just had to look for a way she didn't care! I made out time to go for her convocation in university she didn't know I was to come cos I wanted to surprise her! When I showed up she was happy took me to her family house but also said it was unnecessary to come that I shouldn't feel bad if she doesn't come to my own that it was stress. I knew we wouldn't last cos I can't be with someone who can't sacrifice comfort to out smile in my face! And while I was being foolish I had a girl( My current GF ) Who was studying BUSINESS ADMINISTRATION who I felt wasn't a professional course, who was always doing the calling always wanting to hear from me always wanting to make me happy! But I didn't even give her chance it was my dad that sole sense into my Bald head! He said "" they there make pant dey wear you! You have a girl who values and sees the potential in you while you're running after the one wey no even send you"

Omo that was the day I focused on the new girl and we've been together for 4yrs now once I have my one leg in Nigeria and One leg abroad then I go wife her. The thing is my ex was dark in complexion get nice height studied PETROLEUM ENGINEERING get better front and better back wey dey Make me go mental! But my current babe is fair in complexion and is more beautiful but doesn't have the front and back my ex had and she studied BUSINESS ADMINISTRATION I had to choose between peace of mind and Breast and yansh! I went for the Former abeg so I go fit live long.

There are still ladies who are in this so called profession that a wife materials bro! Baba see I swear Irrespective of the profession wether Man or woman A GOOD PERSON IS A GOOD PERSON.

djon78:
Why should I drop the mentality

I am the captain in my relationship

My woman understands that fact and accedes to it wholly

Maybe you can tell that to the men that believe otherwise

lordally:
My friend's elder brother left a Cool headed and respectful business woman he was dating saying he needs to marry a professional by the way , he's a doctor working at UCTH he ended up marrying a Doctor too! That is one of the greatest mistake he made in his life and he's deeply regretting it. The woman does nothing in the house! Even to cook na Wahala to even sweep na Wahala, plates go dey sink for 2 days. The woman's mum came for Omugwo and does absolutely nothing in the house. In the morning the wife go carry phone dey press the mama go dey follow the wife gist na this man go wake up to go cook. The wife has no atom of respect for the man! The man's mum too came for Omugwo this woman doesn't even care if she eats or not. But the woman would bath the baby , cook etc. Make I just stop here. See bro take your eyes away from Profession. Doctor , lawyer engineer , SSCE holder all na bullshit! You're not marrying the profession na the woman you dey marry! See let me tell you , a stack illiterate and a PHD holder all give the same wahala! Just go for one that gives peace of mind and sees her Helping you all round as her responsibility.

Munzy14:
That your last statement is deep!..


I av noticed their is a threat of arrogance and pride when some women feel they have achieved financial stability...You will notice this when you date some professional or career ladies.


Yet, there are very comfortable ladies humble, cool and humane..with womanly care...

In all this, you just pray you meet the woman for you...Even in the long run most trusted partners can be influenced by a lot....Friends, what they read, hear or see etc..

When a man is ready to settle, e dey involve prayer o..

If not you may repeat marriage.

Belafonte:
If I weren't trying to avoid a ban I would have said you're an imbecïle.

If he was cheating why didn't she leave? Why become a monster in another man's house?

Now that she's acting like a loon, the man has decided he will have none of it instead of becoming a monster. That's what people with functional brains do, not coming on NL to disgrace their lineage with watery hypotheticals

QuietMynd:
Hw much

iamoyindamola:
how much

Rapsowdee01:
Price and Pics bro

QuietMynd:
Na 3 pad dey there.
I need one

QuietMynd:
Is the pad follow come/original

Nikkganc08:
If u can get access to d phone someday,

Go to settings,
Remove the screen from 'lock immediately'

You'll fund it in DISPLAY SETTINGS

Change it to 30 minutes.

She won't know.
Even if does, she won't take time to reset it back immediately.


Now, wait for that lucky time when she'll sleep off.

Or simply tell her u want to collect some of her movies through XENDER app (it's usually on all phones)


Secrets of ladies are usually in their PHONE GALLERY (if she's giving out nudes).

Or her Facebook messenger.

Or WhatsApp.

Or lock apps.


First of all, check if she has any app like App locker, gallery vault, app hider, etc

Some ladies are intelligent. They simply download lock apps that are actually alarm clocks, calculators, etc.

For instance, if I open d CLOCK then set d time to 6:30a.m, the lock app will automatically open.

For the calculator, it works like a normal calculator But once a particular number is pressed it opens. For instance, if I press √780, the hidden applock will open.

So, simply check if any of her apps is duplicated. For instance, 2 calculators in her phone, 2 clocks, 2 contacts, etc



Now...
go to her phones File manager, then click SETTINGS.

make HIDDEN FILES visible.


You see...

No matter d lock app someone is using, all those files remains in d phone. It's only encrypted. That's all.


Now back to d topic.


Assuming ur bae locks/hides her files using GALLERY VAULT app (there are different types on play store),

Once u make hidden files visible, you MUST see a folder named galleryvault****.

The name might be slightly different e.g secgalleryvault. But once u see it, you'll know.


Send the whole gallery vault folder from her phone to ur phone via Xender app (exactly the way it is)

Also, send the gallery vault app to ur phone too. Then install it.

Once installed, you'll see a folder that's similar to d one u copied from her phone.


Open the folder from d newly installed galleryvault in ur phone and you'll see a FILE like...

"password.ini" or "pass.cmr" or anything

But once u see it, you'll know that it's d password of d gallery vault app u installed.


Go to xender and look for the password.ini file (or anything its called) from d folder u copied from ur bae. DELETE THE FILE.

go to ur own folder for d app u installed, copy ur own password.ini file and put it exactly where ur bae own was (d one u deleted from xender).


Now delete that ur entire gallery vault folder.

MOVE OUT ur bae own from d xender folder to exactly where urs was before.



Finally, go to APP SETTINGS on ur phone, locate d gallery vault app u installed, clear d CACHE and STORAGE of d app.

Then UNINSTALL the app.

Reinstall d app.

Input ur normal password (instead of bae own)

The app will open

And you'll see all the files ur bae has been hiding exactly as it is in her own phone.

Don't logout else the app will lock again and the password won't work again unless u repeat d process again.

Instead, RESTORE all d files u see.


UNINSTALL the app.

REINSTALL it again.

Then u can hide d files if u want.

The app won't log u out again FOREVER.



I love cheating girlfriends that use android phones.

I can easily hack their WhatsApp, Facebook, App hide apps or even their messages.

It makes d relationship fun and easy for me to walk away anyday I want to cos I have physical evidence.

But I'll advice u....


NEVER HACK A WOMANS PHONE...!!!

it's locked for a reason.

Once opened, what you'll see will shock u.

You'll be heartbroken.

You'll be depresssed.

It'll take u 3 months before you'll finally believe what u saw.

Don't lose a good woman just because she cheated.

Boss13:
Oh shut it. These are modern men now, weak at heart and weak in the brain. I can understand it is wrong to beat a human because it is a criminal offense. However, do not inject womanese and feminists talking points.

Imagine your statement - it is wrong to beat a woman, but it's fine for a woman to hit a man, or beat a child. It is equally right for a woman to emotionally and verbally abuse a man as well as a child.

These kind of men should be hanged and castrated. These are the men who push feminists agenda and erode the rights of men. These are the push over men who think curdling to women will make them more attractive. These are the pretenders in male body, but think like women.

Men - if you have these kind of people as friends, cut them off completely.

PS: I am for equal rights and justice for all human kind. A woman has not right to hit me or another other human whether a child or maid, just like I have no similar right to hit anybody, whether woman, man, child or servant.

iLegendd:
You already know what to do. Problem solved. You caused everything.

1. You don't have principles to checkmate your relationship (a woman that doesn't allow you have access to her phone should only be a f*ck buddy and NEVER make her look like your girlfriend, but friends with benefits)
2. You've cheated on her, but you didn't mention it (true or false? The answer is true)
3. You beat her (yes, beating do reset some women's brain, but I would prefer you reset her brain with principles, but you don't have them)
4. You don't pity humans for too long — those you pity for too long will hurt you for too long
5. Marry a woman that loves you, not a woman you love (the ones that love you will open up to everything and they'll be your partner in crime — they'll tell you about all the guys disturbing them and show you their chats)
6. Don't let a woman emotionally blackmail you
7. When ending a relationship, don't be the one to end it — make her end it; e get why
8. Also, not all relationships end with conversation and closure — some end by being absent and incommunicado for a long time (ghost them)
9. Be emotionally unavailable for all these silly relationship stuff, else you'll drain yourself — don't derive Joy from relationship, but your progress in other aspects of life
10. The less you care while possessing the qualities they need, the more they care and become open to make sure they don't lose you

Any girl who doesn't want to lose you and at the same time doesn't want to open up is a mini Devil in disguise — flee.

Look at how pretty and innocent Chidinma Ojukwu looks and how handsome the man she killed is. She couldn't spare him — she had lots of secrets she was hiding from him and the end is death.

Same thing for women. When a man hides too much, run.

When one partner has lots of secrets, death comes to one of them faster than their appointed time.

It's either the person with the secret will die, but most times, the person who doesn't know the secret is the first to die a premature death.

Worksunlimited:
My brother! You get..

At times I wonder if women meet somewhere, be it social media or real life, to discuss and share the best way to frustrate a man and drive him crazy..

Everywhere you go, is the same issue..

If you go beer parlor, na married men full there..

Annoyingly, this women will tell you they see nothing wrong in their behaviour...

Belafonte:
I have read it and thus my question: "would you advocate taking divorce off the table if physical abuse was a factor, considering you said it is on par with verbal/emotional abuse?" This thing is simple english na

Belafonte:
I just taya. See her dancing atilogwu everywhere and refusing to answer the question

Belafonte:
would you give this advice if the complainant had been a woman talking about how she was being constantly boxed by her husband?

pansophist:
If you will be honest with yourself, you will admit that you are responsible for the situation that you are in. There is possibly no way she didn't show these behaviours before marriage, but you ignored and ringed her fingers. So why the shock? Marrying her was you implicitly acknowledging that her behaviours were acceptable. But there is a solution, and it is to divorce her. It is even easier since you do not have a child together.

Women from an existential perspective are weaker vessels, and the characteristic of the weak is exploitation, which she is doing perfectly well. Tolerating, ignoring, and leaving the house, etc won't make her stop her disgusting behaviours, instead, she would double up to determine the extent of the abuse she can get away with, while assured that you will tolerate it from her. It also seems that she does not have any fear of losing you, which is a problem in itself. For example, my spouse may decide that she would torment my life henceforth, but she knows I won't accept it, and that would instantly end our relationship. The fear of losing me is enough deterrent to keep her in check. And for a woman to fear losing you, she needs to see the value you hold.

The battle is usually won before the war, and if you lay your mat right, you won't be passing through these problems at all, since it's a foundational problem by nature. You know your situation better, so go and iron it out. You need to look at things honestly and be sure you want real changes. If there are any bad behaviours that you do to her, and you know to be genuinely wrong, stop it. You can not point fingers at her, while immune yourself from your wrong deeds. And do not relent in those qualities that made you attractive to her, that is what will bring respect, keep her in check, and makes you infinitely attractive. Stay strong.

alizma:
Those raised by both parents are not totally excluded. You need to add that men should observe the spread of authority in their prospective in-laws house before they say I do.
If the woman is in charge, the young lady is likely going to see it as a normal thing for her to be in charge.