MrIcredible:

My only problem with you is your stupidity and nativity to thinking or believing that she's not CHEATING on you, just because "she can go to church 10 times in a week"....
Yet, your wife prefers to be on her phone than anything that concerns you.
What do you think she's doing on her phone? Playing candy crush?

Do you know the people she's talking to? What kind of communication she's having?
Do you have access to her phone?
Do you know her password?

You seem to know nothing about women...
It will surprise you that in that your 6 years marriage, there are other years of relationships with other men you know nothing about... Even the ones older than your relationship and marriage with her...

No woman feels comfortable in a toxic environment or marriage, unless she's having an affair with others outside and she's enjoying it.
It could be with her ex
Her pastor
Her church member
Or boss...


It's even possible you're not the father of one or both children you think you have together.

If you doubt me, try hacking her phone and seriously monitor her for just 3 months and you'll find all the answers you're looking for.
Life is already too complicated and you don't have to allow one winch of a wife to be stressing you more.
If you can't find peace with her, DUMP HER! Forget about the children, they'll be fine as long as you take care of them and take good responsibility for their care. You don't her to be with their mother to do that.

if he tries this the pretend marriage is gone
Cause he will see things

See them
Thinking a woman can love a man
Even men love under conditions
A woman is loyal to her feelings not your sacrifice
Agba Jon doe

Protect your wife from your family
Protect your family from your wife

UK wey Muslims dey dictate for too dey talk

ednut1:
sold or gifted to them by them British after they looted it during the Benin expedition

okay

How Benin artifacts reach Sweden
Can someone explain

tensazangetsu20:


I am optimizing myself by general self improvement in all areas of my life and making friends with as much american women as possible. I hardly go out but once I start doing, I will only go to where americans hang out and fall in love there.

Tatics
Observing from the university
Once done I follow your path

tenpipsperday:





Bandits are their brothers and must be protected. An average northerner perfers suffering from a fellow northerner to freedom he can get from a southner especilaly if that southner is not a muslim

Northern go explain tire no evidence

Henry22:


They said Allah is not against terrorism

No wonder

Northerns especially Muslims will go from zero to 100
If Allah is insulted
Yet they can't protect themselves from bandits or is it their violent brothers

People who know they won't be good spouse are refusing to get married
People who know they won't be good parents are refusing to have children
But you on nairaland won't mind your own business

I still don't understand
Soldiers get killed in the North
No massacre
Guess it is a different game in the south

atoliman:



Go and farm, that is how our ancestors survived, the soil is fertile , the labor is hard but the yield is food. Once food is plentiful, there is hope to come. We have fertile land in Nigeria, we do not live in the Sahara desert where there is no vegetation. not all lands were taken by Bandits or Fulani Herdsmen. Rome was not build in one day, Europe was shitty back in the days- Read about the Black plague and see how bad things was in Europe. The problem with the youth is that many do not want to farm- They want shortcut to rich, but life does not work like that. If you do not work or evolve to work smarter, poverty will be your companion
There is hope in Africa, some countries in African are learning and doing better. The youth can learn the mistakes from the older generation and continues to make the same mistakes.

how many farms do you own

Africans that accepted Christianity and Islam is the case of a man rejecting his father .

To hate your father's God is to hate your father himself as he should be an accurate representation of God on earth
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Others should ignore

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Onyiiobi7735:

Lol! You have the mentality of a degenerate.That is why Northerners in spite of their Islamic Wahala are a thousand times better than the likes of nonentities in the South like you.
Their youths don't joke with greetings to elders including children.
I served as a corper in Niger state and I have experience.
They even now in greetings.
So quit this animal mentality of yours.

you mean terrorists are better than well behaved humans
Are you sure a bolt is not missing some where up there

See those that will be claiming logical gender speaking out trash

Jayboi:
drop your ego. It's the best you can do. First learn to check what you have been doing that he complains of and after you can then face him. Issues creep into marriages when there are two masters in the boat. You just need to submit and then pray to God. On the addiction, talk to him, invite older and experienced friends of the family. If you want your marriage to come back, fight for it and don't let events dictate.

Listen to this man at your own peril

Caveaddullam don dey write erotic romance

Na mumu go believe this trash
I repeat no woman can regret being a feminist
Oyibo dey catch cruise
Mumus will start commenting on how feminism is doing this and that to women

pansophic:
Do you ever consider at this time we are that God is very concerned about how we dress ourselves as his children, right from the very hair on our heads to the sole of our feet?

God is very interested in your appearance if truly you belong to him and he seeks your total obedience to his word he has given us. Here are some of the things God said to us in the Bible.

He said;

"Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will." Romans 12:2

And also;

"Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them." 1 John 2:15

These verses highlight the distinction between believers and the world, emphasizing the challenges and choices faced by those seeking to live in accordance with their faith.

The very "world" the Bible is making reference to are the ungodly things we find around us. From the latest trends to the latest fashion, to the new gadgets, to the glorified beauty norms and products and even to the lifestyle of the world, Our jealous God doesn't want us in any form to be one with them. Thus, he gave us those instructions.

Loving the world and the things in it only brings enmity and separation from God. As followers of his word, we need to understand this and make our adjustments where necessary if we ever desire to be where he is. This may be hard for us to accept but it is necessary and rewarding to our souls. By the guidance and support of the Holy Spirit, we shall conquer all there is to conquer.

Thereby, the issue of hairstyle comes in. What manner of hairstyle do you (if you have a good level of discernment) think Jesus had when he was alive here on earth? What manner of hairstyle do you believe the apostles and godly women in those days put on? If you are a honest person within yourself, you will know that it definitely has no resemblance with the arrogant and lustful appearance of today.

I'm speaking about hairstyles such as

1. Afro, Fade, Galaxy, Phunk, Sports Waves and the like

As true believers in Christ, the names of these haircuts are supposed to irritate us alone compared to wearing them. They give the vibe of worldliness and canality and do not speak of or glorify God at all. Their design is of the ungodly world of which God himself is enemy to and shouldn't be put on, practiced or admired by anyone who claims to belong to him.

Remember Leviticus 19:27 (NIV): "Do not cut the hair at the sides of your head or clip off the edges of your beard."

This scripture emphasizes on the detestable appearance of hairstyles which involves the cutting of the hair at the sides of the head such as those mentioned above. Most boys and men alike today act contrary to this verse by cutting the corners of their hair and leaving the middle to be full. This will only bring God's judgment upon us as we are being disobedient to his word in that verse. You may feel, "this is far stretched and insignificant today" or "it applies to only a specific set of people".

Dear friend, it applies to all God's children. God doesn't seek half obedience or service but a total of our personality ranging from the heart, to the mind and even our bodily appearance. You need to accept this message as many has fallen and been judged because of it.

2. Attachments, Tinting, relaxing, stretching and perming of the hair:

1 Peter 3:3-4 (NIV): "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight."

1 Timothy 2:9-10 (NIV): "I also want the women to dress modestly, with DECENCY AND PROPRIETY, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God."

A deep research on the origin of these things will reveal that these things are from the ungodly world and the devil, not from the Father who chose us. They are the vices of the devil to trap as many women as he can to fall with him to destruction and putting them on will make this a reality for you when you leave this world.

The Bible urges women to be decent in their appearance as God wants there to be a stark difference in appearance between his own daughters and that of the world which by design tinting, relaxing, perming and attachments to the hair won't give. Yes dear reader, this is true though you may be told otherwise, accept the truth and make adjustments where necessary as a daughter of the Lord you are - to be natural in your appearance as he had created you. Keeping your hair long, neat and well dressed without any forms of artificial beauty attached to it. You're beautiful in the eyes of the Lord just the way you are and making artificial changes to your appearance will only separate you from God and puts you up for his judgment.

Romans 12:1 (NIV): "Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship."

3. The total scraping of the hairs on the head or keeping of long hair as a Man.

Ezekiel 44:20 (NIV): "They must not shave their heads or let their hair grow long, but they are to keep the hair of their heads trimmed."

Scraping your hair until your scalp appears is detestable unto God just as the style of keeping a long hair as a man. God spoke his mind, his very heart of what he desires for his people in that verse and other verses in his word. If he had no issues with such, he wouldn't have made it known as God never gives empty words or speaks to just to fill the silence. You need to understand that you aren't just any ordinary individual but one who is chosen by God through salvation as a priest unto him forever. Thus, you have to live your life in accordance with that which pleases him as this and only this is your true service to Him. Doing otherwise will only make you a rebel and a sinner before him.

1 Peter 2:9 (NIV): "But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light."

An Ending Message For You

If you're reading this, it is because God wants you to. You're blessed by his grace to be here. Do not abuse or waste it. You don't belong to this world and you're surely going somewhere beyond this world. You may go tomorrow, next year or the other years to come. By the mercies of God, be wise enough to make corrections through the Holy Spirit as you are loved by Christ who died for you and I. Accept this truth from him with your heart and live by it genuinely. You are a precious soul to Jesus who died for you and that is why you're privileged to be alive to read this. Make wise use of this privilege to correct your errors as only the truth can save you if you apply it to your life. Grace of the Lord be with you.

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Kobojunkiee:

all those commenting beatings made me who I am today are deliberately lying
Another sign that beating doesn't work
It is on the individual to decide what kind of person he or she will become

Nigerians Sabi ways to bring up good and well behaved adults with beatings yet the society is bleeped up and messed up
I wonder if nigerians are deliberately stupid or just hiding behind religion to pass aggression on kids who can't fight back

All the beating wey una chop
Shey e turn Nigeria to developed country
Misplaced priorities

Nonsense
According to Nigerian christians
You only need to pray and SS will turn to AA

If you claim to use logic and reason
And you are still bothered about heaven ,hell and eternity
You have missed it
Any one who uses his brain know the above is slave morality

Dtruthspeaker:


No one anywhere need tell you that as you have said this, it is very necessary that you be judged punished adequately for this. And this is why hellfire is there waiting for people like you.

Oga waka pass me
The shittalker

See all these ones
Allowing someone from middle east to be playing pingpong with their brain
Bleep religion
Bleep hellfire

So it is a bad thing to apologize when wrong

reXurrectionZA:
~ there is no actual "great good". what you see as "the greater good" may be evil. i believe the "greater good" has a different meaning to each person. Every action(even actions taken with fear or regret) a person takes deep down he believes somehow is for the greater good, the "greater good" can be a moment (even if its a short moment), a feeling or a reward.

Hmm another angle

Op change topic to it is only an animal that will raise its hand on another human