ennysuccess:
Stop thinking with ur outdated dick

are u igbira? Ur attitude is really something!

NIJJAking:
if you secretly wish that in ur life time for a war to come up where nuclear bombs will be used to clear nations click like , if u dont click share

secretly wish? pls how old r u? y not secretly wish for a trailer to ram into you?

this is serious oh! anybody with info pls help d op save a life. no b wen e don happen everybody will comment on how evil pple r. pls let's do wat we can now.
@ op in which state do u reside

at the risk of sounding tribalistic, the igbira tribe is known for grave anger issues and malicious intent. so I'm not surprised!


* runs out of thread*

omenka:
And so shall this useless trend continue until we find a way of having them receive part-time salaries just as they work part-time.

It has become so bad one hardly even notice any difference when they reconvene and when they go on recess.

Awon Ole buruku.

for the first and probably the only time I agree with u

MizMyColi:
[size=14pt]*faints*[/size]

*sprinkles holy water on her*

Some folks sha I don't think its a wise decision. Y not take wat dy offer and move?

IsraeliAIRFORCE:



Get behind me "Satan"

I overcome you.

Amen bro!
*sprinkles anointing oil*
Apcheats! All Ur lies against d person of GEJ will be judged

luvmijeje:


Is it enough reason for Jonathan not to pick his calls? The truth of the matter is that every country knows we have a corrupt and incompent President who only knows how to loot.

Ore! U have a brain pls use it.

TV01:

And you have every right to expect and demand that in marriage.

There may well be a case of shakey foundations - were things fully disclosed, discussed understood and agreed? Having said that, situations change, and your expectations are reasonable and legitimate. I really feel for you.

You need to engage your husband directly on this - preferably face to face. If his next visit is imminent, plan towards it. State exactly what you have above. Tell him about your needs, your desires - all rightful - and the frustration, temptations, and of course welfare of your children.

As much as I hate involving 3rd parties, it may be an idea to discuss first with your parents and then possibly have a fuller meeting with his, and sit down with hubby whne he's back. I hope they don't have any entrenched attitudes in favour of this kind of arrangement or bias due to support they recieve from him.

If it is not imminent, I think he should be impressed upon to bring his next trip forward as soon as possible. There are a number of worries here;

It could genuinely be difficulties regularising his papers. You need to know the steps required, the action being taken and timelines. It could be it's easier for him to live there and fund your staying at home.

The initial effort to establish or stabilise a family can be huge. But this begs questions about how he is satisfying his intimacy needs? And emphasis should always be on the kids, kids, kids. The earlier they are over there, the better they adapt.

He may well think bringing you to Europe may change the dynamic of your relationship. The truth is, men are at the mercy of their wives here and he may have seen some scary things.

And be willing ot think creatively and ahead. Is there a case for him returning home?

Whatever the case, it's best that you are exactly clear on the situation, then you can plan accordingly and hopefully look forward to the time you'll be together.

I commend you for the sacrifices you have made for the union and wish you and your family all the very best.


TV

well said!

innervoice:


Your kids are already growing up without their father.
Our ladies are as gullible as some white ladies who fall for scam marriages.
Your man lives abroad and MOST men who live abroad and have wives back home live their lives abroad like the marriage never took place in the first place. Is that your marriage an arranged marriage?

y do we do this to folks seeking advice. how does Ur question help her? wat has happened has happened arranged or not all she needs now is advise on d way forward and not criticism.

huangcheng:
This Lai Mohammed is a Pathological liar. I bet he doesn't even know when he lies anymore.

that's y we are told to be careful of names we give our children. he's been called lai all his life and a lie he's become!

adamskutty:
shaaaaaarap there, chief wailing wailer of taniods. I am surprised you still have steam left, pdp never sack u?

when I read this type of comments I get scared for our generation. this isn't a matter of my party vs Ur party. its outrightly wrong. the DG of such a sensitive post shldnt be partisan its bad for d system! its implication is far reaching.with the way this government is being run I pray freedom of speech and freedom after speech that we began to enjoy only recently is still guaranteed.

oh baba na now u just dey know? after how many years of criticizing GEJ for doing just Dat. even Pentium one loads faster dan this now

kenny091:
I have realised no matter the amount of good Buhari does, some people will always hate him, what surprises me is the moral justification that PDP has to castigate him. I wish Barcanista would one day take time to compile an article of all the failed promises of his party PDP in their 16years in governance. Buhari and indeed APC need opposition to function properly since this is a democracy but PDP is just not the right party to provide it. They are grossly inexperienced, overeager and too hate-filled to fulfill this crucial role.

that ,my dear, is y Nigerians voted for change .though I voted transformation ,change won so we need to see things done differently.its actually childish of apcheats to use d last government as a yardstick for governance when dy heavily criticized their every move

natas22:
I can never say anything against any man that says he serves the lord whether his of God or not.

God said his judgement will start from the church so its left for the almighty to do so
www.

that means u choose to bask in ignorance. what this man is doing is wrong and saying so does not mean ur judging him

indigene:

The correct word is her wrap in one or wraps in two piece.
Wrappers are what is, usually used for wrapping gifts or gift boxes. I hope, You will accept this correction kindly.
Mama I am hungry, she will scold and said; Do I look like food?

pls don't b a wet blanket.d guy is on point na wrapper we dey call am for here. wrapper singular wrappers plural proudly naija

bobbiekrantz:
What do you expect from A shameless and bigoted "priest" full of vile and hatred..

You blamed and criticized GEJ for Boko Haram killings in the North East...but for two months now,,Boko Haram have up to not less than 700 innocent souls and yet you forgot to open that your trashy mouth to criticize buhari..

You have no business in politics and yet you played the role of a political antagonist before march 28


Mbaka....You just proved to the world that you are a disgrace and a disappointment to the church..

Since you know the hectic nature of the seat of the President,,, Instead of Portraying your sheer stupidity and arrogance,, why didn't you pray for GEJ....

You will remain a shame and a waste to the Christendom!!!


may God bless GEJ!!

Amen! GEJ is a blessed man. it just goes to show how human we all are. in my opinion Mbaka missed it.

reading this saddens me deeply cos it shows a generation that considers nothing as sacred. see how easily we defame people becos they r well known. who eva wrote this does not know God.

op don "shayo"

its more than 50ft by 100ft which is a standard plot. it can take that design and you will still have plenty space left .

op pls I like the shoes
where u @?

Thoniameek:


Davien, it's personal because it's a relationship

If you fell in love today to this girl only you know how she makes you feel, and only someone who has been in love before can understand with you

And if you and I loved one woman at different times, I'm pretty sure we won't have the same experience with her despite the fact that she never changed

So it applies to God. He's the same, but us humans are different. So, we all get different personal experience that's unexplainable just like being in love, that can only be shown by actions

wow! dis is deep. great insight

Thoniameek:


I like you comment, but that part there - I don't think there's a place like that. If it was in those days I would say Jerusalem, but in this Kingdom,,,,,,,, it's in our heart not a place or a gathering

Note: i am not refuting the gathering of the brethren. It is only helpful if you've found God for yourself

well said! God bless u sister!

bananaboi:


please advise me, I want to practice christianity and still have my senses intact

I sense in ur heart a quest for truth. Jesus is the Truth. u remind me of myself. for a long time I was at one extreme of Christianity legalism had me bound I attended countless deliverance sessions all in a bid to get right with God by His grace I stumbled upon truth
JESUS! who is the direct replica of the Father. don't be worried. God says those who seek Him find Him. its not abt church attendance or religious activities its a relationship. if u seek Jesus u find truth and u can Neva go wrong.

its not fair nah!

Beremx:
and you're a mega wailing TANoid.

Oniranu!

berem! I've told u before, no insults pls its not ladylike. just give Ur opinion or is the topic too complex for u make I call barcanista to break it down!

all this I will I will. pls help me tell baba bubu Dat all those miracles he promised shld start manifesting oh. its so amazing that its taking him so long. even pentium one no dey take dis long to boot

disloman:
Then y is he challenging d sitting of d tribunal at Abuja?Bros!Go sidon 4 somewhere joor.

its legal tactic employed to delay or derail the court case. its d norm all over d world. lest I forget dacumcum boyoyo petersback will not smell Dat seat!

Blackett:
I'm shocked. . . Really, I am.


Nah. Not because of the story. But because, a self acclaimed 36 year old OND, HND holder cannot construct simple error free English, to save her own life. The story was a pain to read.

I'm having a "WTF" moment right now.

hilarious!

this is really shameless!