₦airaland Forum

Chiscomax:
The way you people are quoting money here when... are you sure that all of us are in same Nigeria?
Make una show us way.

As in eh. Me I go enter here see figures, read and go.

My hand never too reach.

Sixfeetbelle:
Like I said, stability is key. Even if the Father helps out, he can't do past the marriage rites. Now imagine husband having to deal with wifey complaining about not starving in her former house as if the man should kill himself. Is it not better that they didn't marry than to be quarrelling cause of money?

The solution would be for everyone to tighten belt after this pandemic. But like I said, well to do families will typically not adhere to this rule. My advice: hustle ooh and marry when you're comfortable financially .

Dont worry, each one to his.

Those who want to wait for the money bags can keep waiting and d men can keep hustling.

I am sure those that were 30 and hustling ten years are now millionaires and those who were 30 and hustling 20 years ago are now billionaires.

Men hustle o, thats why God created you, to hustle up and down the earth until u drop dead and die.

So she did have sex with him?

I wasnt wrong, it was too clear not to see.

Ha! Women, greed has always been their undoing since d days of Eve, always wanting to have d best of 2 worlds.

Bro, be strong. Its painful, I understand but I pray u find a woman who will.love and be faithful.to u till death.

How did you get these chats?

I thought she left to her base?

Sixfeetbelle:
@ the bold.

It's actually Igbo men that is the cause of their own problems. How can you expect a father to give his daughter's hand in marriage to a man who can't even rent a 2 bedroom apartment easily with a car to boot when said girl is living in mansion and her papa has two cars. Bearing in mind that an average Igbo man is well to do and expects such from his in-laws.

(Forget those that are poor and demand the world for bride price. Those ones are 'hidden' thieves cashing in on directives already issued by tradition a long time ago.)

Okay o. If she truly loves d Man, and the Father judges that he is a good Man, he can help him out since he has d means to do so.

Time is ticking o. Life expectancy for an a Nigerian is less than 50. Prices of goods are going up, jobs are being lost, make hay while d sun still shines.

James4bright:
I swear bro. Very tiring indeed. And they have nothing to bring to the table neither.

Sometimes, I dont blame them, its d culture thing.

30 isnt late na.

Your friend said he was waiting to make money abi? Guess what? My friend just lost his job yesterday. I wish people would understand that word "money"

If I was a yoruba guy, I would have gotten married right now at 28 because only a Yoruba woman is ready to start small with you and watch it grow.

With d little u have and with what they have, they dont mind starting d journey even Beroms from Plateau are like that.

But u see Igbo gals, tufiakwa!!....... Its d love of money from them and their families that is their undoing.

Its just that I want to keep my bloodline in d Igbo way, if not......

Ire Ire Ire
Ire Ire Ayo
O Npe Mioo
Oni Kin Ma Bo
Oni Kin Ma Bo Nile.

My dear, go back home.

ahiboilandgas:
Naira is a dead currency no stability from 150 in 2013 to 450 ....African are going to be poor for ever ....

Food for thought.

Because my guy wants to lash, he called his wife a gossip on a public forum.

Lol. A man without honor, not deserving of respect, thats what you are.

Millenniumlady:
You know nothing about life so run along

Yes Ma'am.

Millenniumlady:
I would have asked you to be careful but i did say well done cause you know better

Its very easy to get u worked up and thats ur weakness.

Take a chill pill, life is beautiful.

Millenniumlady:
Let this be the last time you'll quote me on this forum.

Once again I ask, if I dont, what are you going to do about it?

Millenniumlady:
Did i hear you say we can managed Manage kini The relationship is not yet started and you're talking about management......See lemme tell you something your brothers here hate us because we're esteemed ladies and management is out of our dictionary so if you truly want a nairaland girlfriend you need to hustle more cause even the oloshos in ondo don't manage costumers not to talk of real ladies like us do the above started then we'll know where to start from...........Hope it helps

SMH

Pravedk:
I used this method some weeks back, best decision i did. Mama was banging a guy she keeps telling me was just a friend from work

Your wife?

Reazest:
I have done that

She just played u

Except she is changed, if not, walk away.

When I hear people say leave relationship and focus on yourself, your studies, develop yourself I just laugh as if both are mutually exclusive events.

I once had a close friendship that I wished went further to becoming a relationship. We pushed ourselves to the very edge, it was like we were in a competition spiritually and academically.

After our ND, she finished with a Distinction, I finished with an Upper Credit. She did her I.T at PWC, I did mine at GTB.

Lets stop all that rubbish narrative. Look at Obama and Michell.

What we should do is to encourage people to choose smartly.

SavageMaster:
I just asked him a question. Is boredom a reason for seeking a "soulmate "? You're just bored in your life, and gbam, next thing, you start advertising for a "soulmate ". Is that how it works? Please educate me.

I pity the girl he wants to use and cure his boredom.

Well, since you want to help him, you can give him your sister's number, ok?

You should understand what he meant by being bored. You can open up that word into many parts.

He probably didnt express his thoughts well but, one thing is that he is not looking for a Bovi or a Basketmouth.

SavageMaster:
Lol. You need Jesus!!!

Wow! Your life is so boring these days and you need a soulmate. Like, seriously? Did I just read this?

Whatever happened to developing yourself within this period, maximizing your potentials and building your character, esteem and self-worth?

Let me end here, for now.

Keep quiet if u dont have sth to say.

Whats wrong with him seeking a soul mate?

I dont want to talk too much this night but I dont know where u Nigerians learnt this philosophy from.

Farki:
How exactly will they be able to enforce a night curfew in Lagos where traffic can keep someone on the road until 9p.m?

Paper work is different from walk work.

The division of USSR greatly reduced Russia plans of being a big super power.

Lets not forget language also plays a big part also.

abduleez1:
That's cos largest gold reserves are US.

Also after world war 2 the US was the largest economy and strongest military. It was in prime position to lead global economics back then.

It was also the most stable economy then, hence it was logical to anchor the global currency on their economy. As it seldom partook in the war— just entered in the very tail end.

Military and Economic might is what u need to be a top power. From there you can have breakthroughs in science, engineering and medicine.

US has it all.

whitelotus:


I understand. Too proud to admit facts.

As in eh

Greatzeus:
They are there now,but lots of damage has been done,even the next compound where Exotic cars are sold is not spared.
Before the fire escalated,the person on ground at the car dealers place couldn't do much,I heard the cars are locked and the person who could provide the keys isn't around,so they tried to push the cars by force,they succeeded in pushing just one into the road,but the heat from the petrol station was too much so they left the compound.

Thank God they are already on site. Yes, there is a car dealer besides the gas station, thats a serious loss o.

whitelotus:
That is a meaningless measure. The British pound is stronger than the American Dollar.

Lol okay

If you say so

Lol. College road.

That station is very close to my former work place.

The fire service at Alausa isnt too far of, they will be there soon.

Lol.

America is not among d top 10 in d world but d defacto world currency is the dollar.

Its alright

dokyOloye:
Leave those short sighted ppl.Some na their religion de determine their judgment of anything.
Is there anything like human rights in China?
A country that outrightly banned religion.Meanwhile America is a place you can sue even d president and get justice.
The America they diss,if it were America that handled this Corona in d way China did, many ppl would've been in or on their way to jail but in China,its d whistleblower that mysteriously disappeared.
Can you compare American companies in Nigeria like Chevron etc to d Chinese slave factories in Nigeria in terms of workers' welfare?
American companies all over d world is where ppl work and earn like ministers, can you say same for d Chinese?
What of business ethics?Can you compare Chinese to America in terms of honesty and ethics when doing business?And funny thing is their govt will shield them but America will at most look for soft landing for their citizens when they commit crimes or ask for them to serve their punishment in their home country.

Bless you.

Yakubu113:
What u should be concern about is the girls you are dating not the family she comes from because sometimes in life you get the best kind of people from a very terrible family why u get the worst type of people from very loving family.

Some families are cursed, some are jinxed.

I would be stupid if I dont put that into consideration.

Ask of the Kennedy's, rich? Yes they are but early death runs freely in that family.

Family line matters a lot to me.