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PoliticallyInco:
THE PROBLEM OF NIGERIA IS SIMPLY LACK OF CONSEQUENCES.

Yo have a valid point.

The NPF has been flexing their muscles everywhere. Up till this moment, the Kara end of Lagos Ibadan express way is shut against vehicular traffic, not minding people coming from work as farther as the 3rd mainland bridge axis.

They all feel like a god these period.

Nooil:
Sorry grandpa

Don't be certain, you maybe older than me.

Millenniumlady:
This is deep but i think those men played you for having kids for them try to get custody of the kids so you can start earning from child support.

Your jaundicism is out of this world.

Nooil:
If Nnamdi Azikiwe, Anthony Enahoro, Herbert Macaulay, Sir Ahmadu Bello, and Obefemi Awolowo had given excuses, we would still be a dependent country.

You know nothing of Nigeria Pre and Post colonial periods if not you wouldn't use such an example.

Audiodonation:
I am married at the age of 29 as a Banker.

Nothing in my account.
Debt everywhere
No rented house
Was squatting with my friend
Yet my wife said she would marry me, as her name Grace will speak for me. (Na only once my woman don straf in her entire life).

One week into our agreement and commitment of been together forever....... I got a deal of 178,000 been my commission for a purchase of a car.... Na so I rent and moved into my own rented apartment. (I didn't mention that d guy who accommodated me gave me 3 days to leave with my wife), and my miracle happened with a space of a day and d second day I moved out.......

I am happily married, own 3 cars now, a 4bedroom bungalow in Lagos(Dopemu), a father of one and now an SBO in an old generation bank. .
(Started)Nov 2016 - April 2019(Achieved all).








All these stories are not to show off, but to let you know you can start from scratch; from somewhere......... Once you marry/see your own woman (Wife) you will know.......... No pastor, prophet or prayer needed.......



Just start from somewhere....

Lovely story. You found your Grace, very few women out there are willing to take a leap of faith.

When I was in d poly fellow female students like me used to look down on we guys because of d discrimination in Bsc - HND, today I have a Bsc and most of them are still stuck with HND.

Many women can't see beyond their noses, to them it's either today or nothing.

ThinkSmarter:
The problem is that humans do our intelligence have complicated life.
Life is to be lived.
We struggle in every point in our lives.
We hardly live happy.
Our intelligence are really working against our happiness.
Do you that we all animals in the 1st place?
Ur closely related apes and other animals are living very happy in the jungle.
No education, house, no technology, no luxury ,no investment, no skill, no hospital, no social amenities, no antenatal or maternity hohospitals, yet these animals survive and live exuberant life.
Our problem is ego.
We have placed our personality at a level that we are struggling to maintain.
We are over stressing, over working over thinking just to maintain our self acclaimed ego and impress our and people around us.
People living in thatched houses want to live in a bungalow.
People living in a bungalow want to live in a mansion, people living in a mansion want to live in a skycrapper, people living in a skycrapper want to live in the sea house.
If you really want to enjoy life, kill your ego, maintain a modest lifestyle.
Stop trying to live in the best places.
Stop trying to impress people.
Have confidence in urself.
Too much ambition will lead u to too much stress, anxiety, depression and worst self hate (low self esteem).
U will end up not enjoying your life due to too much expectations.
Life will never, I repeat never work to your expectations.
It's a human nature to strive, struggle to get out of their present status.
Dangote and Bill Gates are never satisfied with their current status.
It's a human longing.
It's good to aspire for greatness but don't allow your aspirations to cost u your happiness and joy.
U only got one life.
And ur life is actually ticking away.
In every second, u re getting closer to your grave.
U re a mortal, ur days here are nnumbered.
Ur mindset is ur enemy.
Throttle low ur expectations and life will be cool for you.
High test leads to depression, human wants and longing are insatiable.


Try and Go to YouTube and watch Sadhguru's inspiration talks.
It will help you to re-engineer your inner mind.
And you will start living joyfully.
We all are going to die one-day remember.
And whether u re an illiterate, taxi driver, bricklayer, CEO, MD, Bill Gates or a beggar, u will all die, decay and return as a manure to plants and flowers close to ur grave.
U have the choice to live a life of joy or miserable life.
Stop trying to fit in to a certain class that will drain your pocket, over stress u.
The whites always understand life more than Africans.
A white man will be living comfortably with a bicycle and bikes.
A white man will be comfortable with a 1st generation golf car, but a black man wants to cruise in RR, Bougghati.
Many whites left their luxury in Europe to live and explore the beauty in African jungles.
Life is an adventure.
It's not a race.
No one comes out alive.
Be patient with your boyfriend.
Social, political and economic Classification is stealing our humanity and joy.
We are all biological compatible until race, class and religion brought segregation.
Happiness is a choice.
Misery is a choice.
Reconfigure your mindset.
Best of luck

God bless you Sir.

hopefulLandlord:
since 2011

Just hearing of it.

hopefulLandlord:
Gary Speed was all smiles in photographs a few hours before he was found dead from suicide

Wait o, don't tell me Gary Speed d English football legend is dead?

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
a strange man groped me in public
I always carry a Swiss knife around
in rage I whipped it out and aimed for his privates
I sliced his dirty prick really bad and I think he nearly lost it but it was saved
I was arrested and of course I had to pay for his treatment, the idiot police didn't even consider the fact that I acted in self defense
anyway my family came through for me and paid him off a hefty sum to drop the case
I have absolutely no regrets and I would do it again if any nasty, perverted motherfucker tries to sexually assault me
only this time, I'd make sure I'd completely hack his filthy prick off

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Story. Very useless article and writer. Imagine how pathetic you'd look reaching out to the girl to beg her to stop sleeping with your husband. I have too much pride and I'd rather pour acid on my husband's face after all I made the wedding vows with him.

Let him dare cheat on me first

I will burn him alive while he's asleep

I honestly pity the man that'd end up with me because I can kill if I ever get hurt

I've sliced off a man's prick before and I can do even worse than that

Fiction

Humanoid01:
People are going through a lot.

Like I said in a thread earlier:

You see people smiling and laughing like everything is good
with them, but you have no idea about the thoughts going
through their minds.

A white user on Twitter once posted a photograph of her and some friends having fun in s beach setting, there was a guy in particular that was so happy and all smiles...... The next day, he committed suicide.

She posted that picture and couldn't believe that the person who was all smiles just yesterday could go ahead and kill himself d next day.

Last week Tuesday I slept on d road it was like a movie. Police blocked incoming and outgoing bound vehicles on the Lagos Ibadan expressway.

Mosquitoes bite my life not forgetting the cold. I fell ill for 2 days and couldn't go to work the next day.

Same thing almost happened yesterday but I dodge am pass

It's not funny sha this curfew should be scrapped let everything return to normalcy.

You need to see d traffic this morning, LagBus doesn't load full passengers anymore, bus fare has shot up, I'm tired of everything.

Lol. Who said anything has changed?

kendrick93:
A classic.
Seen it about ten times,
One of Will Smith best performance.

Favourite quote from the movie- " Don’t ever let someone tell you that you can’t do something. You got a dream, you gotta protect it. People can’t do something themselves, they wanna tell you that you can’t do it. You want something, go get it. Period.”

Interviewer: Chris, what would you say if a guy walked into an interview without a shirt on and I hired him, what would you say?

Will Smith: He must have had on some really nice pants.

Karleb:
Nice review. I'm definitely downloading this. How would you rate it?

It's revealing, exciting, intriguing, astonishing, captivating. It keeps your eyes fixated on the screen from the beginning to the end.

10/10

Saw The Pursuit of Happiness over the weekend and I was speechless

That was a top act performance from Will Smith and his son Jaden.

I thought it was a beautiful fiction until the movie came to an end; the real Mr Chris Gardner is d MVP.

This is d kind of movie you see over and over again.

Change your name to Musa Ciroma Nuhu and you will get a speedy response.

Anything that sounds like Igbo to this administration is an aberation.

olaboy33:
Why do Lagos house agents collect as high as 100,000 for agreement and commission when they aren't lawyers.

A house of 96000 annually would still require 100000 agreement and commission and some even collect 2 years upfront.

Pure unchecked extortion.

LASG has just introduced an agency to checkmate those sharp practices, you can't operate anymore as an agent without a license and so many other things.

It was created during Sanwo Olu administration, all these greedy agents are in for a big ride when this Corona pandemic is over, Lagos State is ready for them and their landlords accomplices.

Lizzyangel:
your comment brought mixed feelings to me...I firstly laughed then tears dropped from my eyes....thanks so much...may God answer you also in Jesus name.

Everything will be fine, I will keep you in mind, hopefully by month end will send you a token.

Stay strong.

Sheuns:
The kain houses built on the Lagos island ehn. A 30-40 year old bungalow will be re developed into a 3 storey building within 3-6 months.

There is no proper spacing amongst the houses there sef, everywhere choke. Just walk around some of the streets on Lagos island at night, you’ll see almost everyone outside receiving fresh air especially when there’s no light.

To even carry furniture enter your apartment na through balcony using ropes and ladders. Doors are too narrow to allow chairs in. Everyday new construction dey go on.

Roads sef narrow join. Na one ways plenty pass for there. If you no dey careful or be new driver on the island, you go pay lastma tire.

Omo Lagos Island na different world entirely.

I was there on Friday and kept on wondering how people live there, better for me to go to my village and have rest than such stinking and unhygienic place, but I understand, everyone dey hussle.

@Lizzyangel don't listen to that vagabond and never do well, she is already cursed and living a life of sorrows and doom, very soon she will meet her Waterloo which will be the end of her.

Keep trying and striving with your husband, it's God's blessings that maketh riches and added no sorrow, in his own time he will make everything new for you.

Unfortunately, I don't have anything to give you, I wish I could.

tabithababy:
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You better start sleeping with different men for Money if you see men offering you such..


this one you are sleeping with one man for poverty

You're are an idiot, probably a bastard and definitely an harlot. You think everyone is as filthy and dirty like you, may whatever you believe in strike you and cause your body to rot till you die lonely and wretched.

Will check it out tomorrow.

udemzyudex:
Love is overrated.


Respect is the number one thing people should look at for when it comes to relationship or marriage.


When there is no respect, everything fall out of place..

Respect is underrated.

To be more specific, Philos type of love needs a lot of respect to make it work, because in Agape love, love itself is not complete if there is no respect.

But I agree, respect is very, very important. I don't think I am still friends with people that disrespect me, and I try not to disrespect anyone.

Evercurious:
Did she say or imply so? I wonder why just want to be bitter

My dear, go back and read her post again, she said so expressly and impliedly.

Naughtysite:
If a second person doesn't improve your life and happiness level, no need marrying such a person

There is someone for everybody.

I agree.

adadike:
Lalasticlala, please share your testimony

It's not because you are a prayerful person, many who are more prayerful than you have gone.

Smile4mee01:
Melbourne, Under 1 yr, Tribe- Yoruba/Edo, in fact, Lagos boy. I only understand Yoruba.
It would be fun to meet up with Nigerians.

Cool but, the lady in question has been there for over 3 years now, she's Igbo and I don't think she will be interested.

She's not even in Melbourne.

missdivineprove:
Stop using other people's stu.pid behavior to measure yours.

Where are the not-stupid ones?

In hindsight, that guy maybe stupid but at that time it seemed rational, abi love isn't selfish as they say. Go outside to the streets, everyone is just doing anyhow.

It's well.