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OP this sounds too good to be true.

When I was in d poly the highest I went for a lady to date me was to buy Gala and La Casera for her, this was way back in 2012

I felt if she took it, she would listen to my pleas, I begged and begged her to take it she refused. As she left that night, a part of me was happy, I chop my Gala and La Casera as I walked to my hostel

Later on, I would take my Dad's car key to school because she called me to know if I had resumed and I foolishly ran to school after washing d car forgetting to drop the car keys, only to get to school and she was acting up had to quickly go back home the next morning.

I also went on 1 week fasting and prayer hoping her Dad would return to her mom, while this girl wasn't, initially we agreed we would both fast and pray together.

Then one weekend like that, I followed her to her church camp at Apostolic faith while my family where looking for me in school.

Then she played me again on one April Fool day, that was all. Where I wan even see 5k give her that time sef

If I wan too form, na to go buy her egg and indomie for front of SUG

2 years and I was on her case

She later said I didn't act fast that's why we didn't happen.

So OP, we have all been there, maybe if I had 4 million, I would have given her everything

sisisioge:
Oh my goodness! What an unreasonable fellow!

1. He married a witch. Did he not court her before marriage? Surely , he saw the signs.

2. He borrowed money for a party...what an unwise fellow.

3. He allowed another human to run him out of life....what a weakling! Him and him God go dey talk am.

Hian!

But your not a man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So you don't have a clue.

I really feel sorry for him, I am sure he didn't see this coming, he must have loved her enough to take that loan then BOOM!! It came down crashing.

I am beginning to think being single might be better than being married.

Ceeci6:
I have all the time in the world, thank God for covid 19, its been a while I engaged in social media banter, so bring it on if u can't read and pass or mind ur dam business
Its fun to be anonymous on nairaland
I might even be ur best pals without you knowing

You sound so much like fun

zionmde:

Thats true bro. During my days as a teacher i always saw the Joy the parents of most brilliant kids exude. they are always happy to come around for their kids, both dad and mum, there is something special about raising well cultured, brilliant kids.

Since I have missed marrying the love of my life whom I could have married unconditionally, any lady am going to marry must meet the qualifications. No matter how beautiful a 3rd class or weak 2.2 girls is, I am not interested. I need an assurance that am not marrying a graduate olosho, and that assurance to a long extent will be proven by her degree

Your want/need is justified, good luck bro.

zionmde:
yeah i know. but when they love they love with their soul. moreover u can hardly any 1st class or strong 2.1 that was playing around with her womb in school.
the major thing is dat very brilliant kids have ways of holding together the family. When u look at dem u will always feel like they deserve fighting for

Yes, I was very close to dating one but I didn't. Anytime I look at her, I just felt special, she was simple tall and beautiful in my eyes, a virgin definitely, but my village people spoil show for me.

She is single till date and has never been in any relationship, though, she's just 22 and serving.

Lest I forget, she didn't finish with a 1st class, she dropped later on, E.E she studied.

I still wish I was a little bit patient, I did sth stupid that earned me a blocking everywhere and I dare not call her again, didn't like the way she spoke to me last time.

But I will choose an intelligent lady over a beautiful one anyday anytime, if there is compatibility.

gaby:
Real girls hate and detest olodos like you who went to school to waste their parents money.

My two year old won't write this razzly and incomprehensible.

I fear to see what your handwriting will look like if your typed English can be this horrible.

#4m indeed.

Instead of you to have used your time in school to study and better yourself, you were busy doing nonsenses you can't even explain in writing.

I dey good mood this night, I for tell you one bad word.

Instead of me to born pikin wey mumu and useless like you, make I jejely born Buhari

Abeg carry this your indigenous English go front jare

You are wicked.

zionmde:
She must be Academically sound
Either 1st class or strong 2.1
At least I won't be afraid if her genes dominate
I need brilliant and sound kids

others include
humility, understanding, beautiful, Decency

I bet that you can't handle Stephen Chika, the best graduating student of Bells University 2017 set (Accounting Hons)

Everyone wants her but she wants no one

I used to be close.to many 1st class materials in school and I can boldly tell you that they are difficult to love, proud and stubborn. It's like trying to tame a wild animal.

2.1s are different though.

jamesbawa:
Morgan Freeman
Samuel L Jackson
Will Smith
Denzel Washington
Tommy Lee
Harrison Ford
Bruce Willis

How did you know my favourites?

I love Nairaland wahlai!!

The best part of this site is that you guys are just yourselves and you are incredibly funny.

Look at how one lady up there cautioned a lady, then a guy came and made a jest of them, then another guy came and cautioned the guy that made a jest of them.

Let me not even talk about the OP's replies.

Someone would tell me to leave Nairaland and I listen, how?

mekaprime:
Don't be, cause none of it was actually shot in Nigeria. Everything was shot in Hawaii.

We are a joke to Hollywood.

The Black man has suffered.

mekaprime:
The writer didn't do any research on the Nigerian civil war, he just wrote what pleased him, the movie was really an insult to we Nigerians.

I agree, all those proud white folks that seat in California and write stories about Africa, a place they have never visited.

mekaprime:
Language spoken was Igbo. It just that it was poorly spoken, the white Rev father actually tried in speaking the language more than the black folks.
As an action flick, it was ok, as a biopsy, it was horribly horrible.

The US Soldiers breath life to it, those black guys looked lost. The Nigeria soldiers didn't look anything like what the Nigerian Army is. Seems more than half of the movie budget was given to Bruce Willis

I won't be surprised if none of the setting included a Nigerian location.

abduleez1:
Lol that movie was shite_ mekaprime can testify to how pissed I was by that movie after watching it.

I also complained about the language spoken, soundly more like Cameroonian than anything Nigerian. And a few characters given Nigerian names.

It wasn't even clearly about Nigerian civil war as I kinda saw elements of other military regimes aside the civil war era.

Bruce Willis acting was plastic-like, although he was obviously the best performer amongst everyone In the movie. That goes to tell you how BAD that film was.

Sincerely, the casting was poor, was it that in 2003 Nigeria didn't have good actors and actresses?

Let's not even talk about the early scenes that were adapted from the Liberian civil war and somehow was used for a Nigeria movie. Story was just too poor, as if there was an absence of Historians.

Pastor Poju is not just a Man of God but a brilliant student from Unilag and a very well cultured and we'll mannered individual.

He doesn't throw words carelessly, he doesn't abuse people or do those dirty things.

A perfect gentleman and I respect him a lot.

Anyone seen the movie Tears of The Sun?

A 2003 movie based on a fiction story of a rescue mission in Nigeria for a doctor trapped in a civil war.

The movie had Bruce Willis as the main character but the black people used didn't look like Nigerians and the language was more of Senegalese, didn't hear any Igbo or Hausa all tru.

A fair movie though.

By the way, why does Bruce Willis always have that look in all his movies

TheeDetective:
I was about to type exactly the same thing you just typed; but you got there before me

I remember that thread last year and I actually think this @op is one and the same person in that thread as the story is so similar.

The @op just did a bit of alteration to this one posted so that it would not look exactly the same like the story in the thread link below.

https://www.nairaland.com/5109581/wife-doesnt-post-pictures-social

Thanks. I feel it's d same person.

OP you are very stupid (pardon me pls) look at how fellow stupid people are trying to bring your marriage into disrepute.

If it's so much an important issue, why haven't you discussed it with her?

You came here to seek advice from frustrated jaundiced fellows and ladies? Tueh!!

Who remembers this exact story/issue on this section last year?

Take away social media and many would run mad.

MadeINchenzen2:
If you will agree. let me be your coach... it an offer

I will pass, thanks.

MadeINchenzen2:
Husbands has fathered children of other men, thinking they are his. such men falls under desame category as u !

My Dad and Mum have a happy and successful marriage, mine won't be any different.

MadeINchenzen2:
I want to set you free... but u are refusing it

I will have a marriage filled with love without the issues of trust or its likes.

My Dad and Mum have a happy marriage, mine won't be different.

For now, there are other things to do than stalking one girl somewhere that doesn't add nothing to me.

MadeINchenzen2:
lol... how can you even use the word TEMPT, when verifying trust !!!

Oga if that's how u do Ur things it's fine.

This is entrapment and an idea from d darkest of minds, why would you want to tempt the one you love?

Theundertaker:
you will if you try meeting other women , till u get a woman who value you, for a lady, she doesn’t need to make much effort , but for a guy , if u don’t supress ur inferiority complex, and go out there , u will never get a woman. And women acceptance is very important for Everyman ,

back then, my dad use to give money to give girls , I will be so down and depressed and he would ask my problem, when I tell him, he would encourage me not to give up, give me money , buy me card to call the girl , and guess what I had my first girl friend at ur age n he was so proud . until u get a woman u never really feel like a man , don’t give up

Falsehood. No one should listen to this part.

duality:
People living sexually reckless life. Tomorrow, they will tell you to forget the past.

They would attack virgins, try to intimidate them because they've lost something they wished they never lost.

A Lady cohabiting with a student?

I know God is still keeping people who will not bow to immorality.

You too have seen the hypocrisy of this generation.

Sin is now what people openly dance at the market square.

Hotel Rwanda is forever green.

iyke926:
Frank Edwards - You too dey bless me
Judith Kanayo - More than gold
Sinach - I know who I am
Sinach - Shout it out


Miracle - Alisa Turner
Do it again - Elevation worship
What A Beautiful name- Hillsong
Mountain - Hillsong
Through All of it- Colton Dixon
Oxygen - Lincoln Brewster
Tears of the saints - Leeland
I have hope - Tenth Avenue North
Broken Vessel - Hillsong
Fear is a liar- Zach Williams
O come to the alter - Elevation worship
Walking on water - NeedToBreathe
You Say - Lauren Daigle
I need a miracle - Third Day
Lost without you - Jaci Velasquez
Lord, I will - Matt Maher
Great are you Lord - One Sonic Society

Make sure you download all . Would have added more my thumb is paining me

I have had You Say by Lauren for one year and didnt know its a gospel song.

Lord have mercy on me. Thought it was a love song all these while, and I listen to it everyday.

Now, I listen to it and d lyrics slaps differently.

Sincerely, Witney Houston.

I cried. She was special to me from afar.

That woman was a bundle of talents and gifts, but a wrong choice in a spouse ended that light.

I hope broken hearts find their way home as they continue to look to you (lord)

hulk616:
that's why I m a marvel fan and an higher level thinker

Yes Sir, no one disputes that.

hulk616:
what?
You must be trolling
A movie consisting of two marvel actors and was produced and written by the greatest directors of all time Russo brothers is 3/10 to you

You always marvel me