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phazotron:
Mine

She turned cold and I had no choice than to dump her

Even overheard her telling her friend a guy sent her voice note while on a call With her

Something that she would have told me str8 up before

It was majorly my fault because I couldn't give her all the attention she wanted

But she really did love me

Second issue was that she had a tendency to over react to little things

Me trying to ask after her welfare would become a war of words

After several complaints about her new behavior and no change from her in sight

I blocked her in January one fateful Tuesday morning no hello no explanation

I felt guilty for the way I ended things

I called her today to let her know why I did what I did but she no pick

I'm laughing at her because she go dey believe say na me lose

Woman too Much for outside make I come dey waste my time with person wey no wan cooperate

I will try again to contact her but if she like make she no pick na her cup of tea b DAT

Person wey no get university degree

I need to level up and upgrade not downgrade

#i no need liability

Not cool bros.

ToyBoyAaron:
I was planning on closing the thread but I promised to update so I'll.
I met her a virgin, she gave me the honor of.... She's super shy but can talk dirty. She explained that it was a compound discussion about a girl who got pregnant and left with the guys baby. Then using her as an example in the discussion it continued on WhatsApp. The talk too plenty I no fit write all. She assured me she respect her body and can't allow any guy touches her. Thanks for the whole contribution because it really calmed me down to talk to her. I'll keep it cool but time shall tell.

I am not one to scatter anyone's relationship but Sir/Bros, you are clearly being played here, and its quite unfortunate if u allow yourself to be used.

Wake up!!! how does her story correlate with d 1st chat? She said she didnt kiss but u saw it in d chat that she did....... There's only one guy being played here and its you.

lefulefu:
see its religion that will make u to lose a good girl.u can date her and make her convert.there are some muslim girls who convert to christianity cos of the love they have for the man..except if she is very strict type of muslim.for her to even make friends with u shows she likes u.u fall ur hand o .

She is d strict one. I have been at her place, all of them are strictly Muslims from Lagos, even in school then, she used to say that she cant convert.

lefulefu:
since 2011? why did u not date her? is she not ur type?

Lol. She's a muslim.

lefulefu:
the only time u can announce on facebook on having a partner is when u are getting married to the girl.if u now had a new relationship and u announced on facebook and u two broke up under one week and u had a new gf will u now announce u have broken up with the other girl? .Its only when u are getting married u can announce on facebook if u the social media type.

I guess I was too excited because I am not even d social media type but loosing those 2 friends especially d 1st one still pains till date.

We have been friends since 2011 and its not like we can date since she is in a relationship and shes a muslim.

Lol.

Recently, I posted on FB that I have found a new babe.

The following day, my very close female muslim friend told me that I shouldn't I have posted such that I should have kept it private. Since then, she dissappearred from my life. This is someone that we talk at least every day on Watsapp and on phone at least every week. The funny thing is that she is in a relationship and I have been telling her that I am seriously searching.

It didnt end there, like 3 days after, a girl I knew tru a family friend and was planning on seeing b4 d lockdown told me she saw my post and that she is happy for me, I told her its nothing serious but she insisted that I have found someone already. Till date we havent said a word to each other.

That was how I lost 2 friends not to even talk about family and friends that kept on talking about d post, I just had to delete it.

Modified
This is getting strange, I have noticed that 80% of my comments on any relationship or family thread gets to make front page. Initially, I waved it off being it may just a mere coincedence but with this thread hitting F.P I am now curious. Is any Mod following me?

henrycloud:
Yes o....a pastor advised me to marry someone who is not too spiritual...that they will not have time for me and children. Just imagine pastors secretly given out that advice to all young men.

Dont listen to that Pastor.

You know d truth, live by it. Do not be unequally yoked.

thattnaijaman:
I thought this space is for Tbills.

If you want to buy land or build a house or even have issues with Discos please go to property or relevant section, this space is for Tbills.

Stop making a nuisance of this space.

Nigerians are lawless and itreflects in our society

Lol. I saw dat comment and I just smiled...

To be fair, it didnt start with him, check previous pages, no one did bat an eyelid then.

I am looking to buy any blog or news-site with a good history of Political news (Local and international) and most importantly, is adsense licensed.

lefulefu:
u think so? there are some married men and women who have their problems multiplied when they get married.no peace of mind,nagging and all.those men that have troublesome wives how many of them have u seeing living long .Some develop high blood pressure which kills them in turn due to the troublesome nagging wife they got married to .some men before the lockdown prefer to sleep in beer palours and when they returning home their hearts start beating faster .men in their bacehlor days who were not acholics suddenly became alcoholics after they got married .

You always find fault in everything why?

falconey:
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That's bad, my job is secure I am one of the most valuable asset of the company.

I work so hard to be the best that ever did it, I am irreplaceable!


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Lol. Even Hitler said more.

nizzyong:
It will be a huge boom for him if he is optimistic enough and can take the risk. Because definitely with time we will be out of this, I just hope we are among the survivals. if he has the storage capacity he should do that because after the pandemic the rate at which economy will move will be equivalent to speed of light.

Is the facility up and running yet?

I forsee a suituation where by trade and barter system would be introduced in World trade.

Nigeria gives countries its oil for the equivalent of food stuffs.

If this corona pandemic continues, paper money would become useless.

Right now, countries that are self sufficient in food production and supply wont break a sweat.

This is d best time to be a farmer anywhere in the world.

The Catholic chruch decided that.

Then came King James.

MummyIMadeIt:
Truth be told, that lady loves you more and is willing to wait. Hence she opened up to you.

Either Propose or let her go?

Now aside from your financial phobia which has been sorted out in a way by ur lady (talking about her willing less to wait) , I believe there are other underlying reasons you have deep inside you about your lack of marital commitment to her.

Forget that bandwagon talk of "children suffrage".

I ask, Must you give birth immediately after marriage?

Do you suppose you remain financially redundant even after marrying her?

What are your plans for the future?

Frankly with what's on ground economically these days, a man can wait till eternity to get married if waiting to be made.

If you love that lady, then you should start your marital plans now against 2021 unfailing.

Meanwhile what do I know as I am still single

Yes, u are single but u spoke wisely.

The other day it was a thread to vilify mothers, now parents.

You people should continue, d ground will swallow u all las las.

Sleeping and letting the food burn to ashes.

Millenniumlady:
Take your 2 minutes fame and get off my mention

Lol. Wonders they say never end.

So if I need fame, its you I would seek it from?... Come on, dont flatter yourself, you are not that special, fall back!!

You have anger issues and have continued to shout it from d top of d mountains like its one award nevertheless, this is an open forum not your house and its d collective duty of every member to admonish anyone spilling thrash like u did earlier.

I have given u more than 2 minutes of my time, you should be elated.

Now go on and be a good girl.

Millenniumlady:
Never you in your life quote me again.

I will quote u again and again.

What are u gonna do about it?

Millenniumlady:
Can you imagine in his word's " was expecting her to use her sense " any useless guy that tries that rubbish with me will receive a hot slap and I'll end the relationship immediately don't play with my emotions especially for someone like me that gets angry over any little thing......Reason like this are why guys like you are kept as plan B cause know sane lady will take the risk of making you plan A

You still dont want to use ur sense? Still talking like a kid.

Grow up.

SweetCunt97:
If parents are open minded and teach their kids sex education, teach them the essence of protection, get them on the pills, I doubt that would b an issue. But we treat sex like it some spiritual thing while everyone is doing it and shying about it.

When u have your daughters, you can give them this beautiful advice.

SweetCunt97:
The first man and woman did not even get married sef. They cohabited.

Lol. Semantics, God was involved and he approved.

Ishilove:
Well spoken. Very interesting

Thanks.

Ishilove:
Please can you shed more light on the bolded?

Cos of brivity, permit me to omit scriptural references.

God created Man, made him in his own image and likeness. He shaped him with clay but Man was nothing until God breath in him.

Suddenly, d 1st Man was alive. That breath represents d 1st spiritual energy in Man. Adam went on to do physical works like naming and bonding made possible by dis breath (spiritual energy)

God went on to create d woman (Eve) from Adam and gave her hers (breath)

So now, we have 2 beings with 2 different spiritual energies.

Man fell, was cursed and thrown out. Cain, Abel and Seth were born spreading their seeds around the world.

Lets take a look at where this energy was first recorded; The book of Judges with Samson. Created for a purpose Samson was very strong but warned not to lie with strange women. He did and did and did until nothing was left, his spiritual force couldnt help his physical form, he fell.

Lets note that the Mosaic books or laws were written for Israelites. There were other countries existing, the Syrians, Amalekites, Egyptians and co. They had no law, and were sexually reckless hence, the continous warning not to lie with strange women and the need to be sexually upright themselves.

Lets take a look at d 1st Kingdom of Saul, which was d doing of the Lord himself, after his disobedience God rejected him and a troubling spirit entered him, Saul later fell.

David was reckless, he lost some sons and the Kingdom but God forgave him.

Remember the breath of life into Adam was d only reason Adam became active. As that energy starts to deplete weak decisions are made, battles of life are lost because it is d driving force of d physical and sex depletes like no other, however, there are peculiar cases like that of Job, Elijah, even Saul and co as it pleased God.

Lets look at Solomon, d philanderer who said "he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the lord"
Historians can only tell us if this was made b4 his 700 to 300 escapades or b4.

What we know is that how he started wasnt how he ended. He lied with several women both familiar and strange.

Lets take a quick Fast forward to d New Testament.

Who is a Wife in d eyes of d Jews? An Israelites who was faithful to d law of Moses including sexual purity, when the Man finds her, he weds her, and blesses that union (favour)

This was demonstrated with Mary the mother of Christ. That energy was full, it was good and Joseph found it, it was pure enough to bring forth d Son of God.

This energy is filled in us through Christ by d Baptism of the water and reinforced by d Baptism of d Holy Ghost and Fire.

Since Christ has not come to do away with d Law of Moses but to fufill it, who then is a wife as King Solomon described it in relation to d new Testament?

A woman who fears d Lord and obeys his commandments, a woman who has d Holy Spirit and is guided by his steps.

She is a good thing, and when d Man finds her, his life changes because as d Lord promised "he obtains favour"


Anything other than this is a strange woman, a woman like d wives and concubienes of Solomon, a woman who lied with Samson and made him fall from grace.

If she isnt born again, she is a strange woman, if she receives d new breath (Holy Spirit) but goes back to her vomit she becomes like d strange woman who shouldn't be yoked with, who shouldn't be lied with, she is not a wife and hence marriage to her brings more misery.

Ishilove:
No, what I mean is can you explain what you mean by 'dead spiritual energy'.

Ok. Its kinda an essay but I will make it brief.

Sixfeetbelle:
I only replied to your prayer. Don't go off topic.

oh!..... Then a big Amen to our prayers.

Sixfeetbelle:
May God not lead us to men who will impregnate a lady, willingly provide money and also demand for an abortion. Amen.

So, if I tell u to put your hands into a burning fire as an adult, you would gladly do so?

We have been shouting it since that dis Govt is very tribalistic, but u guys called us Ipobs and pigs.

Oya now, enjoy your country.

Ishilove:
Please can you shed more light on the bolded?

Same can be applied to the man, I wrote with d assumption that the Man has no issues because d story in question pertains to a female.

Liliantalks:
if u see a woman willing to support fine but thats until u get ur shit together

Some of u will just open ur big mouths like a whale and talk on issues you have no knowledge or understanding on at all.

Just look at you. You aint bright at all.

All of u are just arguing in d rubbish, you are arguing in d nonsense, you are just constituting a nusiance that do not have a sound meaning.