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hulk616:
can you imagine. Humanity needs cleansing

MARKone:
Wait until you see Dr sleep. I Slept through out the movie

hulk616:
spot on. if that piece of trash wins an oscar. that will be the greatest insult to humanity.

CAPTIVATOR:
Understand the scriptures
Context of husband and wife please, Christ didn't have sex with anyone, you should not be romantic to your wife then . nonsense

Ladyjane5657:
Do we still need to pay for them Bible school anymore?? Nay! Bible people now littered all over the streets of this thread..
It's an alleluia Thing

ehiblessing:
Am writing this so that the unmarried onces would learn, simply never settle for someone less.

I got married June 2013 thinking i just made the best decision never knew i had just made one of my life mistake,i was young and opened having gone through a rough breakup i decided to get married to my ex husband.

The first thing i noticed was that he tried seperating me from my family and friends, at first i didnt really mind. Less than 100 days after my marriage was when i received the first beating just because i filled the kettle so when it boils it pours on the ground. You see i took in immediately so i was always cold during the evenings but because my kettle was small i would want to fill it so i can use it. I had to report him to my aunty and the next day my aunty settled us. And from that day i became mind full of how i talk to him.

The next was when he was having a fight with his sister i tried seperating them i was hitting him to stop and he just turned around to start strangling me the mum and everybody was shouting for him to leave me but he refused till his mum fell on the floor that was when he removed his hand from my neck meanwhile i was still seven months pregnant and that was how it continued till i put to bed.

When my baby was 2months he beat me again and i had to leave the house for sometime he came begging and i accepted because i really wanted my marriage to work this was something i had put in my best,like there was nothing i just wanted than a peaceful home in all these my business was crumbling because he usually collects from my money from where i keep it i. all this i could not talk to anyone because all my family had left me to my faith he had insulted all and no one came to see me cos if they come he would insult them i was not allowed to go home to see my dad either.

2016 i got pregnant again hoping with another child he would become responsible but i was wrong it became worst, we didn't't talk all through my pregnancy he still beat me June 14 which was our marriage anniversary and i gave birth July 16th in all he gave me 4500 to buy baby things i struggled to make up for the rest so shame would not come,i still discharge myself i cant forget how he treated me when i was in labor or was it when i fainted at hone and i called him to come home and even when when he came he told me if that was why i called he home and left the house immediately only to come back 10pm.


Am not even going to talk about the cheating or the emotional abuse, if am eating insult i laugh too much self its insult. We dont talk, no sleeping on the same room, in short it was as if i was leaving alone and that's is why its easier for me now.Of a truth shame would not even allow me say the things i went through just because of that man, and finally october 23 2017 my birthday he beat me again and used my head to open our kitchen door and i told him one word i wont give you an opportunity to lay your hands on me again.

October 26th i finally parked out and since then the grace of God has never left me. It was not easy and its still not easy taking care of my kids, rent,schooling and the almighty feeding but am greatful to God that he his face has always shine on me he refused doing anything in his words i left with the children because i was capable. I even took him to welfare here yet nothing came out.

I have learnt to love and appreciate myself.
For my kids i wont trade them for anything but i wish i had stayed at home and count beans the day i met him.

P.s pardon my typo and errors

cococandy:
Woman hate, misogyny, all kinds of degrading comments so easily fly off the fingers of some of you. And that’s normal. No biggie. Just another day.

In your mind now, there’s nothing wrong with this your obviously demeaning anti-woman post.

Watch you start frothing at the lips the moment someone gives you back half the insults that were so casually loaded in your post.
Instead of you to go find another thread to go do your usual things you’re here .
Ask yourself if you’re a single mom and what your post adds to this thread.

phillippians:
I have no pity for most single mothers. They caused their ordeal. Why won't you be rejected when you will ignore responsible guys and be after looks and swag, how handsome he is, if he has pink lips or not, then go about spreading their legs apart for a an irresponsible fine boy who continue to enrich their pussies with his baby making fluids, women are too carried away with looks, ever ready to get down with "Ramsey Noah" looking kinda of kinds even though he has nothing in his bank account. Why won't he dissapointe you and run away, is it a fine boy who can barely Carter for his own needs what will add a baby mama and her child to his expenses? Fish-brain women, they think everything is all about LOVE LOVE LOVE until reality teach them money is more important!

CAPTIVATOR:
I actually dont support adultery, never! But I like your point, Many people rush to comment and blame the OP , whereas they would have done worse if in her shoes . its high time many realize Money alone is not enough, emotional closeness is important in marriage too, No wonder even the bible said " Husband's, Keep ON loving your wives. " it says " Keep on " which means an action that must continue or else she seeks it elsewhere.

Even some ladies blaming the Op do worse, So much for hypocritical comments

aminusodiq:
So with all d hype... Dis is d camera quality of. Redmi

aminusodiq:
is d camera worth it... Pls send mention me in another pics u make wit d phone

Fountainofyouth:
It is good to understand things comprehensively, in your eagerness to try and make sense, you're still going in circles,

The fact that someone gets married early, doesn't mean everyone will get married early, the fact that a lady gets pregnant or give birth early in marriage, doesn't mean others who marry early will have a child early,

The fact that a lady marries late, doesn't mean she would have kids late or early, same with a woman who marries early,

The fact that you started a journey early, doesn't mean you'd reach your destination early, there can be setback, loopholes, delays, and also, someone who started late can reach there before you, that doesn't mean it will be same for others

Life is unpredictable, everyone has their own fate, destiny, and will reach there at different times.

GrossPrice:
I call this the philosophy of the mediocre!

This is going to be a difficult read.

An undergrad should spend 4 years in a social or management science course at a University or Polytechnic. Would it be normal if this undergrad languishes for 5, 6 or 7 years at the university because he neglected his studies?

Your statement above assumes thus "As long as the undergrad eventually graduates all is well. And it does not matter if a student could have graduated 3 years or fewer years earlier even if he had the power to do so, because he may even get a job faster than his counterparts who graduated promptly"

However, what if he had graduated at the same time with his colleagues; could he have been 3, 4 or 5 years ahead of them in work experience; could he not have started working at an earlier age and learned 3 years ago, what he is learning today?

When you decide to travel from Lagos to Abuja; You start the journey as early as possible, you can start it otherwise ... in the afternoon or evening but you will not get to Abuja earlier than a traveler who starts the journey at the break of dawn.

Now using this "Lagos to Abuja" scenario can you see how mediocre, even inferior your position above sounds. If we have 10 cars and 5 start the journey in the afternoon and the other in the morning. The cars who leave at dawn will get to the destination earlier, and experience the journey at a favorable. If any morning cars reach the destination late, they proly had a major delay.

Your position is that because a car who sets out at dawn may have a major delay, and not make the journey on time - it is ok we start that we start our journey in the evening.

aminusodiq:
So with all d hype... Dis is d camera quality of. Redmi

Fweshtiny:
Transcript is Required for the application in this year.. I uploaded my transcript when i was applying.. ptdf might not really put an eye concerning transcript at this stage. I think it would really be required during interview stage

Minnieny:
Its when you get shortlisted that you'll need to present your transcript. But I don't know for this year whether uploading is required.

Minnieny:
Were you shortlisted earlier this year?

Minnieny:
She's good, no doubt about that. But its luck too at times. A friend of mine that introduced this scholarship to me said during his time, a lot of first class were not awarded and he finished with 2:1 and won the scholarship.

I've not decided yet but I may give it a try