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Andre92:
So sad. I really feel for him. During my undergraduate programme I was studying around 5hours daily and I had the notion that several companies would come looking for me when I distinguish myself. Little did I know that the country is so messed up that I can't even predict how my life will pan out in 5 years.

How has the mighty fallen. I spoke with a frd whose dad works at NPDC Benin, he told me NNPC, shell and the likes used to come to FUTO several years ago to conduct recruitment exercise for top performing students in Engineering. Now even with excellent results I dont knw what life holds for me. Thank God for fiverr. We shall all succeed IJN.

Sometimes I feel bad when I look bad at the energy and commitment I put in my studies.

I have tried using my knowledge on LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter to advertise myself, yet, no show.

This year alone I've been to so many interviews more than the number of combined goals scored by Martial and Lingard for Man U in 2019 calendar year, yet, nothing.

These days little things get me worked up and I don't even get paid for it.

Emaprince:
You are a FOOL!!!

In your usual irritating manner to hang a man, you always can't hide the uselessness inherent in you.

Cheat with his own daughter, just because he loves his daughter. Idiot!!!

I saw her post, pathetic!!

Lots of mad people here.

Between the Government and the populace, who has more duty of care?

The one upon which the duty of care lies on its shoulders is the one to love more.

Therefore, it's the responsibility of the man to love more.

Don't want to go into further details.

Godislove1234:
To all of you shouting money money money... What happens if with one bad financial decision you go totally bankrupt... What will happen to the woman whom you impressed and bought with your money? Hope she will still be with you when nothing dey again? I'm not surprised because most guys on nairaland believe that all women are after money. Please check the Proverbs 31:10 woman. They still exist. And guess what they're not impressed about your money. If you're not valuable they won't even consider you. Please to guys with such mindset grow up! A man who needs only money in order to appeal to a woman is still a child. Real men possess value first and real women recognize value before money. So guys it's not me you're actually mad at. It's yourselves

"For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it?"..... Luke 14:28

"She should stubbornly insist"

Rubbish talk. Crappy post.

Hmmmmm.

deboysben:
The ones they passed I'm yet to see the impact.


Imagine 10k I got yesterday how the money manage to finish I can't tell.


Tyrant General Muhammadu buhari.

Last week I waka enter supermarket, just bought toiletries, na so 8k waka o. I was just wondering, did I buy a car or something?

I used to think that the OP was a very mature and courteous person, but I assumed wrongly.

What's even wrong with everyone these days?

Everyone is angry, swearing and cursing.

Money issues everywhere. Too bad!!

itzgSeth:
From what I've seen, 90k to 120k but it's not confirmed

Not bad at all. So are you still going?

Marriage has been described as the union of two strange fellows. If you understand this statement, then things that you see in marriage may not come as a surprise.

"It is not good for man to be alone, I will make him a help mate"

If he doesn't feel he's alone (financially, emotionally and the likes) then you shouldn't be in that marriage. Only when a man feels lonely that he would appreciate a woman's presence in his life.

Then if he feels he's alone, the quality of help you bring now matters.

Please, see a counselor.

Goodluck.

Graxie:
Thank God for my wonderful father, he gave his best to see us through. No wonder I married his type, I see the boldness in my kids around their father.

Too early to say Ma.

Valleys:
How did you know? You must be a prophet.

Alanikoko:
I opened my nairaland account sometimes this year. just yesterday,I stumbled on a particular guy's Post named ubunja. Chosen miseducation. I read his submission and this made me go ahead to read all of his write up. How can a single person has that kind of knowledge about reality?. I have read the " chosen miseducation" twice today. it's the best thing I've come across here.

" people who love you without you doing anything to impress them are those who won't stop loving u when you do anything to impress them"......

I've been a witness to the above reality

This will make wanna ask if this ubunja guy is some sort of religion or what

This is so true. That is love at its purest form.

Close to God kind of love.

itzgSeth:
Please who is going from Lagos for this test

Still pondering if I should go or not to go.

Do you have any idea on the pay package?

None.

Your best option is ICAN or CFA.

midnighter:
Truly, I dont understand whose side you are on either! I removed those last two questions from my last post to give it more focus.

I didnt prescribe study habits for the dude. I asked you whether you made an honest effort to be as brilliant as he was before coming to this conclusion.

Apart from that, are you as kind, generous or patient as he is? Do you know if his parents having been praying for him every day since he was born? Since you seem to think that his sexual deviance should by rights have scupper his ability, do you equally know where his blessing is coming from?

On a purely logical and intellectual level, do you know if he grew up in a house filled to the brim with books? Or if his father woke him up an hour early to solve one mathematical problem or the other? Did you equally have such a stimulating environment?

How can you come to these kind of conclusions based on somebodys sex life! Thats what I dont understand. There are so many variables here but youre just focusing on one thing which is tangential without looking at the main issue.

Look how you said "God kept pouring him wisdom/sound brain despite his unfaithfulness"! Haba, so what about all the atheists and agnostics in the world who dont give a hoot? What should God be pouring them

Did I forget to mention that he was the second in charge of our campus Catholic fellowship?

Anyways, I'm not even really into this religion thing anymore, anyone can do whatever they like.

midnighter:
Your reasoning is lacking.

Being a serial fornicator didn't stop that guy from being a brilliant student. Does ejaculation into a woman you are not married to affect ones mental capacity

Being a faithfully chaste guy didn't improve your brain power. But improving your studying techniques would have. Or maybe youre just not as smart as the guy! What does it have to do with your peepee

Or you were expecting God to rubbish the guy in your presence so that you could feel justified

How do you know the fornicating guy hasn't suffered a loss that he/you doesn't know about?

Do you know what you have been saved from by keeping chaste?

I'm trying hard to know whose side you are on.

First, the Bible talks a lot about fleeing from sin as a prerequisite for wisdom. So, if one indulges in sin and is sin to be "living life" it somehow cast doubts in the minds of people trying to live holy.

My friends wisdom/intelligence/knowledge isn't a result of special study habits, he is gifted, one which can come from a superior being.

God kept pouring him wisdom/sound brain despite his unfaithfulness. That was what I couldn't understand.

But, Grace they say is sufficient for us all.

When I was in school, one of my closest friends till date was a serial fornicator, yet, he was the best in our department, I couldn't understand it, here I was trying everything to be the best, not engaging in sexual sin, but someone was just cruising life like a plane on an auto pilot.

Presently, he is a lecturer and his philandering nature hasn't stopped.

I have thought about this so much that I came to a conclusion that it is "Grace".

We don't ever deserve anything, King Solomon described this in the old testament as time and chance.

This is a public announcement, if you really have huge cash in your account and you must be with your ATM card, please transfer small cash weekly into another account I call expenses account, so that in the event of a robbery, you don't loose too much.

Stop carrying the ATM card of your main account around.

Regards.

I chose Lagos as my preferred test center, yet, they chose Benin city for me.

I don't think I will go, if the pay isn't more than 100k then I will stay put, besides, I heard dragnet questions are very tough.

Bbbwings:
does it ever occur to you she might have another moniker?

You maybe right but I don't think she has time to do such. She's a very busy and goal oriented, she isn't double faced, I met her and we stayed together for a night.

Except she is really good at deception.

VirginSearcher:
I don't know why it is difficult to find a pure virgin in Naija.. but eventually I see one.. I promise to buy her a clean SUV for that.. even before anything.. Yes I said that

Buying her an SUV isn't the issue, but does her virginty worth that? Virginty is priceless, you can't put a value to it.

OUK played into the hands of his enemies, the worst thing of it all is he has insulted his people and the one he went to take refuge at has also rejected him.

Too bad.

Iamnobody:
You need a job and you’re telling your employer to WhatsApp you?

Wetin Musa no ho see for sambisa

It's a crazy world Bro

My advice: Do it for 2 to 3 months, get the experience on your CV, that's all that matters.

Marketing isn't that bad, I've been a marketer for MTN before, got paid well (under outsourced contract o) and that experience got me to the table of other jobs.

I hardly turn jobs down that's why my experience are so numerous, employers are always surprised.

I said 27 and seems the stars are already aligning for me, if it doesn't happen next year, then definitely 2021 when I'm 28.



Quick question guys.

Between a lady within the ages of 24 to 26 not employed and a young girl of 20 in school, which is best suited for a guy of 27 to plan his life with?

Let's assume the factors of character and love is positive.

MumNatasha11:
to answer ur question, it was my mil that refused seeing or talking to me, my mum started maltreating me when she learnt I was pregnant because of her post in church, her maltreatment made me run away. I can't go back to my parents because I have made all effort to do that but we weren't welcomed, and for the father of my daughter, he didn't deny the pregnancy, but never asked after me nor the baby ever again. If u think am lying, my shop is at 83 Rumuola/rumuokuta , opposite first bank. Lastly I registered today because a friend that knows what we are going through sent me the link to try my luck

Sincerely, I wish I have something right now would have learnt a helping hand.

But, I will keep you in mind for January.

Cheers and say hi to your daughter.

armadeo:
Joker.

Best film of the year.

Joker has depth. If you dont like it you dont like it. Thas my opinion. Like that woman who screwed a fish. J havent still watched it though it was oscar raved but the fish screwing thing put me off.

Joker is legend.

Wow!!

I'm amazed.

PrettyHelen:
I enjoyed your thread, in fact I just did my medicals today for a bank as well. I don't know why I'm just scared (maybe fear of the unknown) , seeing someone post about medicals three years ago is so refreshing. I pray I scale my medicals as well.

Care to breif me about your banking experience so far?

Workforce?

prizlezzlalasky:
Was why I did quote you. say the prayer for me biko, you never know Gods plan.

lemme go and sip my juice first, my belle is sweeting me.

prizlezzlalasky:
Ayam looking @ you in 3D

You know you are the one I described right?

prizlezzlalasky:
Ayam looking @ you in 3D

Lol. I plead the 5th