₦airaland Forum

BRATISLAVA:
Do you live with the aforementioned woman? You have access to her private life? Or you hate anything to do with women so much that you've become adept at fantasy themed fiction like what you just typed out?

Have you ever heard that an Indian or Chinese or Korean woman called the police on her husband for shouting at her?

Or start messing about with those AA men with gas pipes as penisess just to spite the husband?

jedisco:
I'd say there are different kinds of ladies everywhere.

My point is there are sensible white and Nigerian ladies. Women everywhere have similar traits just like men... It's just natural. The way these traits are expressed is dependent on the environment

Marry a Nigerian woman, bring her abroad and you are playing ping pong with your peace of mind.

The odds are not in your favour.
You could get a good one, but it is increasingly unlikely.

Marrying them at home in Nigeria though is a different kettle of fish.

rusher14:
Hasty conclusion.

Doctor may have been experiencing psychological problems which in itself needs investigating.

If it was an isolated case, maybe.
Then, it could be argued that his psychological issues which he undoubtedly has, is from marital tensions at home.

Besides, It is becoming a case too many.

BRATISLAVA:
Do you live with the aforementioned woman? You have access to her private life? Or you hate anything to do with women so much that you've become adept at fantasy themed fiction like what you just typed out?

Clown.

I love women. I am a lover of women.

Don't bring that nonsense near me.

rusher14:
Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala is very successful Nigerian lady.

We are yet to hear a scandal from her home.

This is all relative.

She is part of the ever dwindling exceptions.

The North is like a curse.

An embargo or a yoke on the destiny of Nigeria.

It's like no matter what Nigeria does, as long as these people are there, the country is never moving forward.

Right now in the National assembly, these savages are asking that underaged married girls should be allowed to vote.

She has probably turned the kids against him too.

The guy must be at ground zero.

hammerDK:
SPOT ON!


THEN THE MAN PERCEIVE IT AS AN AFFRONT, REACT LIKE A STINGRAY, BEFORE HE KNOWS IT HE HAS COMMIITED MURDER.


THE DOCTOR TOOK THE EASY WAY OUT RATHER THAN FACE THE CONSEQUENCES.

He fuccked up.

Left to me, I would just give up.

Take my medical degree and walk out. Let her take everything else.

I would just enjoy the remaining life I have on my own terms.

Magnoliaa:
Exactly. It's not "really" about women's servility, but men's attitude towards women (and their exploitation of the behaviors bred in women). Indoctrination and conservatism are largely tools that have been used to keep women subdued, and things are fast changing. We cannot go back to the wives in the fifties' era. So the gender wars will persist if men refuse to change and adapt. Why should women be the ones to remain below for men to be satisfied?

Why is it only happening in the African immigrant community.?

Asians don't change much.
They keep the same customs and traditions even in America.

Yet their women are not going off like wild animals.

cococandy:
I’m sure you live with them.

Also make sure you marry an Indian woman

Why not?

delishpot:
If that is how you talk to your woman, I will not blame her for tormenting your life. I should learn manners when you have not even learnt what it means talk less of actively implementing it in your life. It's like telling a person to bathe very well before entering shit. I am the person, bathe is manners and the shit is you.

Look at this one.

I am a gentleman to the core but I don't tolerate nonsense.

Talk well or don't talk at all.

lightpurple:
The Nigerian men in the US are very very very lazy

Is a medical doctor lazy?

Or you need him to wash plates and spoon before he can be hardworking?

jedisco:
Then why can't these men marry already established White ladies?
They have live in the West but still opted for a Nigerian lady... That should tell you something. The problems you'd encouter with the White lady is on another level.
Fact is that it's much more likely for a Nigerian man (born in 9ja) in the West to have a successful union with someone of same race and background. That's a fact that cuts across everyone?

That person (wife or not) is a human. That you facilitated yhe persons travel, paid for their schooling e.t.c gives you no right to Lord it over them. That's not how the West works.

Have you ever asked yourself if the mrn do anything that makes the wife turn around?

There are different kinds of white ladies.
Some are very sensible.

Nigerian women take undue advantage of the gender chaos in THE West.
It is Like they discovered Gold.

Men won't change. They know what they married and they expect it.
In fact, they would be more compromising than if they were in Nigeria.

It's the women that change of their own accord and for the worst.

lightpurple:
You should see Nigerian men here. So disgustingly unbearable. If not for the fact that Nigeria is not habitable to a point, after tasting how easy life in he US is, most of those so called Nigerian women that were brought here by their husbands would have gone back to Nigeria within months of their arrival

They should go back.
You can't benefit from somebody and still be a thorn in his side.

pocohantas:
I know some too. Educated with submissive foreign women.

He is probably not educated.
Besides he is in Nigeria.

A Nigerian man in America with a good degree will do you the favour of marrying from NIgeria when there are options everywhere in America.

Options that are not beyond his reach.

And you still won't appreciate.

Nigerian women in Canada are crying.

All the good Nigerian men they know have been snapped up by foreigners.

Frustrated007:
help me tell am my brother!
They don't value us

See as the woman hold am with pride.

She knows she has land a gold mine.

This one is a Yoruba man married to another beautiful Indian in America.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dNrBQO5-dS4

pocohantas:
Go to that same YouTube and find a cultured intelligent Indian girl na. Make sure to tell her you are Nigerian, then wait her response.

Shebi naso e easy for an average Naija man to hook foreign woman in her youth?

I know many Nigerian men married to Good foreign women.

There is a YouTube video of a Nigerian Igbo doctor in America married to his Indian colleague.

They are both doctors in THE same hospital.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8D5dLcedoIU&t=448s

As long as he is educated with a future, a Nigerian male can marry any woman in the world.

Indra Nooyi and her family.

Her husband is the undisputed head of the home.

delishpot:
As per na you be their boiboi wey dey clean their bedroom. So you know weda she dey talk or no talk for house shior.

Stop talking nonsense and learn Some manners.

There is nothing wrong with some level of liberalism and independence.

A man that is importing you to America and sending you to school wants an exposed independent woman.
A woman of timber and calibre that can contribute in every way.

The problem is when you don't know that everything has a limit.

aribisala0:
You have visite Indra Nooyi's family to conduct research?

There is a video of Indra Nooyi and her family on YouTube.

She is not different from the average Indian women.

Cultured and highly intelligent.

jedisco:
How many Nigerian men are CEOs of fortune 500 companies?
Most of those 'nurses' carry the financial burden of their families and extended families of both sides at home... This stuff goes both ways..

It was what THE Nigerian men accomplished that they used to import these wives and give them a better life.

Some even train their wives through expensive Nursing school.

pocohantas:
Nigerian men always talking of foreign women, but never talking of foreign men.

Always comparing Nigerian women with foreign women, but never themselves with the men.

Few days back USA warned her citizens of Nigerians. Everyday one of you is traveling to one country or the other with drugs, tainting our national image and further reducing the value of our passport. You don’t ever talk of these things.

Yet you somehow think you are perfect and deserving of these foreign women?

Like the average young foreign woman would marry just any Nigerian man, so you guys always end up with the retired ones. Keep living out your dreams on Nairaland.

We are not talking about riff raff here.

This is a Medical doctor.
He snapped and killed himself and his wife.
You can imagine what it took.

Same goes to many Nigerian men in that same condition.

Good men that have accomplished a Lot in society.

Their wives became their undoing.

Yankee101:
If you must marry a naija babe here, infact any babe here she must bring in 50 50 or more self, if not they can switch on you and take everything

Imagine, Kobe Bryant is dead and his wife inherits everything

The parents that paid for his Jordan's, training, feeding, boarding and upbringing get nothing, except at the mercy of the wife. And the dad did not attend his wedding cos he felt it was a wrong choice.

Ask yourself why do successful naija men shoot their wives here. Cos she wants to take everything. Reduce his 30 years of hustle to nothing. Imagine having millions, after a divorce she take the biggest house, cars and all the children. Abeg where do you start? Fo

Do not import wives oversee.

It's a collosal mistake.

Look for a good woman there and marry.
I told one of my cousins to marry in Switzerland when he wanted to import his girlfriend.

At least she is not going to drastically change overnight.

You already know what you are getting.

Indra Nooyi is the CEO of Pepsi.
An Indian woman.

Dem no born am well make she misbehave for house.

The same goes for CEOs of many Fortune 500 companies headed by Indian women.

Women with sense. Women of timber and calibre.

While a Nigerian Nurse earning small dollars would become more feminist than Hilary Clinton.

12inchess:
In fact, you've said what is on my mind. You will hardly hear such cases coming from the Asian community despite how much more their population is in America.

Those ones have their heads screwed on tight.

From Indians, Chinese, Koreans.

Better women with functioning IQ.

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Also I believe Nigerians woman adapt too much of the conventional AA lifestyle.

A lifestyle that was a product of slavery and conditioning.

Asian women would not be caught dead behaving or adapting such indiscriminate liberal nonsense.

optimusprime2:
Maybe dude found out all the kids were not his...
Immigrant life in the US mheen no be smo thing o

Nigerian immigrant life is nonsense.
Be specific.

Indian women are CEO of fortune 500 companies, yet they don't misbehave at home.

Ordinary Nigerian Nurse would think she has arrived.

Asians travel abroad too.

Indians, Chinese and Koreans rise to the level of heights Nigerian women dream Of and yet it is always the Nigerian women trying to prove something stupid.

A man that brings you to America likes you.

It's for you to put your head down and remember you are in a foreign land.

It's not the land of your ancestors. You are to maximise the opportunity for the well-being of your seeds.


Dimwits.

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