You put plastic bags on seat, it suddenly becomes 'brand new'

A statement only your gullible followers will believe.

A talk only your gullible followers will believe

Tinubu is now negotiating. HAHAHA

We know how this one would end, he might be lucky to escape badluck.

ZILCH!

You can tell he loves PO so much. Obasanjo is truly detribalized and means well for Nigeria.

Me too bro, I just follow the matter since it started. It is well.

Chemlite:



I can't even tell how I stumbled on this page, but been laughing althrough. Sincerely, nlanders are just too good in observation and follow up.

Maybe I might just bring this business idea for scrutiny!

I have gone through your posts and I can see that you are a hate-filled person. I wish you can get some sunshine in your life mate.

mutantninja:
Sanwo The Winner!!! Igbos will be tenants in LAGOS till Jesus comes! I am Yoruba forever ! We are superior!

70-80percent of her pay goes into Bill's for the house and mortgage. I spend 90% of mine or sometimes even 100 on some mths.

cococandy:


What percentage does she contribute?

I see, coming from a woman, I now understand. I now know what to do. Thank you xx

cococandy:
The problem is that you make twice as much as your wife and she’s contributing to the mortgage and other expenses in the house. Which tells me you Jane your eyes on her money. Hence she kept her eyes on your money too.

Thanks mate, I know we made a mistake. Gosh, I had this lofty idea of doing everything together including finances. I was dead wrong! Thanks for your time tho

Pastoshizzy:
You need to cut some slack b. As a man, you're entitled (this I took from wise old men) to a certain degree of discretion. The mistake can still be managed. Don't change a mutual agreement with one statement. Being discreet does send wrong signals (that's why I used the word 'manage') even if you're not the philandering husband. Over the years women get to respect us for some discreet actions bourne out of love and peace. My advise is this: Firstly you bleep up letting your wife that deep into a preserved sanctity, that of the relationship between you and your parent. That needs to be corrected discreetly (no more forensic auditing). Let her spend her earning the way she dims fit. Secondly, let the last bedroom ruckus die quietly. Choke it with silence. Thirdly, it's a very minor incidence, get it off your mind and don't give the quarrel a foot hold. Stay blessed.

This is what I plan to do henceforth.
I think because she contributes to bills, she feels entitled to a 50-50 arrangement.

Karleb:
I wonder why you people make life difficult for yourselves intentionally.

Why would you both agree to tell each other about when you send money to your parents.

That's some bullshits. So long you are doing your duties to her and you send to your in-laws sometimes too, you will do no wrong by not telling her how much you send to your family or know how much she sends to hers.

Marriage go just easy finish but una go dey find ways to make am hard.

YinkaOlusesi16:
There is no advice to tell you than you should stop doing like a fool. There is nothing wrong having a joint account with your wife, but you are the head of the house, Be the head and not the tail, I won't talk more than that.

If you are married and you have a financial dealing that your wife is not in support of, you will not have peace until you get her support. What is the use of not having peace and not being a simp? Your wife is not a block of wood but has got her emotions, innate tendencies and instincts including self-preservation.

Hello everyone, I never knew I could be in this situation even though I read other people's stories here.
I would appreciate the advice from experienced married people here pls.
I am married with 2 kids.
My wife and I work in the UK and although I earn twice as much as her, she supports bills in the house. We contribute towards the mortgage together as well.
We do not have a joint account, however, we pledged that we would inform the other party whenever money is being sent back home as courtesy.
Due to her level of support, I agreed to send money to her parents whenever I send to mine. Her mum is based in the US but not really financially buoyant (still not as bad as my retired dad in Nigeria)
However, I realised that she wants such fund split 50-50 between our families. This has caused problems in the past. Hence, I resorted to sending money secretly to my parents who are usually cash strapped.
NOW THE ISSUE
Wife caught me on one occasion sending money to my parents without her knowledge. She asks me and I denied initially but later admitted and apologized, tried to make up in some way.
To find out if I had been sending money severally in the past without her knowledge, she plays a mind game by telling me that her co-wife (my brother's wife) who had just come into the UK with my brother told her (my wife) that my mum secretly advised her (my brother's wife) to be sending money very well back home(to my parents) like I do and that she should not let my wife know about it. By this, my wife alleges that I have been sending money back home.
I denied I ever used to send money secretly, insisting that that episode was the first and last. She agrees and lets it slide.
3mths down the line, I ask my mum if she ever said anything like that and my mum's voice broke down, she denied it with her life and was was really disappointed that my wife could lie against her.
I have pleaded with my mum to keep mum about the issue and I have full trust she will.
I feel really hurt and cannot understand why my wife would go to the extent of lying against my own mum. I want to confront her and express my profound disappointment.
My wife has also sent money to her mum without telling me and although I found out 2mths ago, I have not mentioned it just waiting for the right time.
I always wanted to be open/honest but my wife being inconsiderate by demanding 50-50 was what pushed me to send money secretly.
She denies ever being against sending money to my parents.
What would you advise me to do please? No insults and matured comments only please.
MODs please send to FP pls!

Look at my sec school in the news for the wrong reason o

Happy birthday sir, on your mandate, I and my family stand gidigba! In fact my extended family included. lol

I cant agree more!

Tonypen247:
That era is passed already....let us discuss something Yus Ful

The UK is not Russia or North Korea. They do not need pressure to administer justice and fairness.

pls pls pls! This is not news!

Dr Alban was my fathers primary school classmate. You know the guy had his roots in naija

solonubinho:


And Dr. Alban. "Guess whose coming to dinner carolina"

Buhari congratulating RMD meanwhile here is RMDs feelings about Nigeria right now.
https://www.nairaland.com/6594633/richard-mofe-damijo-find-nothing-cheerful

A thorough-bred individual like Madu has tried to make Malami see reasons and follow standard judicial processes, but no, ignorance, bigotry and hatred for the Igbos would continue to blind him and his followers.

You are a confusionist and your divide and rule tactics wont work. Nonsense! [color=#990000][/color]

Kuginzi:
Confession time!!

Of all three of them in the picture, Frank Mba is the true cop. The others look clueless. Anyway, Nigeria is known for Mediocrity!

You sabi jare. I come dey wonder the Fury him dey yarn about

KNIGHTBlaed:


Oga mi, when Fury defeated Klitchko, he was unified champion, it's nothing new. He had all titles when He defeated Klitchko.
Every boxing fight is about Legacy. Fury can never be the greatest heavyweight in history. Even as British, Lewis is miles ahead of both AJ and Fury.

Nonsense talk. Have you been to the UK before?
Please do your research. I live in Newcastle, the ‘village’ here is better than
Asokoro. Dont even talk about the main city

nograv:


Remove Finland : Too cold and racist

Remove Denmark : Too cold and racist

Remove Netherlands : Too racist

Ireland : Fine for now, good god fearing Catholic people who are friendly. Work hard and keep you head down you'll be liked..

Australia : ok I guess

New Zealand : One of the best countries in the world to move to as a foreigner...

Japan : Waste of time.. The Japanese arent racist per se.. No one will beat you for being black.. But the Japanese rarely let anyone become a true citizen, so you will ever remain an outsider. They culture is very hard to adapt to unless you are disciplined and hard working.

Canada is still good if you dont mind the cold..

UK is finished because or Brexit.. If you do go there only live in London

Sorry what do you mean by dont drop the soap?

ArticleBeast:
Hushpuppi my advice to you...Don't drop the gaddem soap.

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Hunger has no friend or foe

You are also booking space in your own thread

Macsjebs:
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People are actually responding to these lies of a story?