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lanredo: feedback will be appreciated please

lanredo: Good talk

Lmao @ speaking to urself.

I was so scared cos I have been having difficulties accessing my mails. Now I know I am not the only one

@op there is no remedy. I am telling you out of live experience(not personal).

Its even worse for whoever breaks away. The guy would move on and she would get stucked. Your friend is foolish by the way! So upon all the warnings about how diabolical & evil that shit is, she still went ahead with it? The only option is death!

antitpiah: The same God that didnt stop her from finishing with 1.9 is now the same person you want her to approach for help?

[quote author=Okija_juju]Even God sef tire for the matter![/quote]Who are these jokers? Using God to play like that!

pro01: Cuddletemi ti so oro gidi as usual. Unfortunately, most women do not share this 'ideal' mindset, and that explains why prostitution is the oldest profession, and why men have resigned themselves to the idea that money is essential for amorous relationships. For most women, sex is a commodity that should be used to gain monetary compensation or other kinds of material benefits - directly or indirectly. It is almost as if the physical pleasure they derive from sex is insignificant and meaningless without tangible, financial/material benefits. This is very ridiculous, but then, I guess there is little anyone can do about that, since Cuddlemiis are in very short supply.

pro1tiwa ki lo n sele? everyone has their views to life and should respected!

sosoluv: Ur response is cute, when it has finally educated the millions of african kids that have not been able to receive education simply becos mummy and daddy had what that they cldnt afford please tell me marriage in most cases lead to having children and those children have financial needs, its not about the mother and her undying love for her husband, love is a beautiful things but at some point financial security is needed to back it up.travel around africa and tell me where love gave children a decent education, decent food and a bright future to look forward to.

Lmao this babe na wa o!
We seem not to be communicating here. We all have our ideologies and I respect yours. I am just wondering what your perception of a mother is?
Does she get to work(even if its petty trading) or just a full time housewife? It seems to me you are only bothered about the imput of daddy.
African kids are probably hungry because of mentality like yours. If female empowerment & gender equality were instilled then half of the poverty would be solved because women would be independent & fend for themselves too.

Whether you like it or not, a wife/mother also has to contribute her quota no matter how little. The fact that someone's guy is not a millionaire now does not mean he won't get there. Ask the wealthy men of today, majority of them started small but their women knew their worth & were smart enough to encourage them. All these african kids this and that is not necessary, obviously before a marriage there is preparation & after marriage there is planning no one is in a rush & no one is stupid these days with the present economy. Date your man while he is struggling, when he hammers you marry, when his funds increase, u give birth).

If you traveled around Africa and love didn't feed kids. Were the kid's mothers crippled? If the man is not forthcoming, women should get their lazy butts to work. Assuming, all things go well & you marry a rich man but he throws you out & stops the funds, how does the woman survive? Sosoluv, this your philosophy sweet well well but make room for life's tolls. Every woman has dreams of marrying a rich man but not every woman would & they would still turn out fine eventually or even better. Make the best use of what you get. Its not all rosy & u can't have it all.

Binty: Good day all ! I am a 100 level computer science student in one of the universities in Nigeria After studing so hard for my first semester examinations and believing i passed i was so suprised to get a 1.96 gpa
pls i want some advice to get it back up because i have always wanted to get a first class is that even still possible for me ?Thanks in anticipation

If there was an option for you to repeat your first semester, I would have advised you to do so.

Do you have any failed courses you have to carry over? I am asking this because having a GPA of 1.96 is even the least of the problem, but having failed courses you have to carry over is the crux of the matter as it would draw down ur CGPA (with all the division involved with calculating CGPA) and increase your workload per semester, you might even have to drop some courses in the first semester of your second year to accommodate failed courses and the trend continues like that..

I can't really ascertain the probability of a 1st class except I have a better description of your result. The failed courses(If there is any) would help clarify. My advise for you is this, year 1 is the best time to get a very high GPA and then use your remainder years to maintain it so try as much as possible to concentrate solely on your school work this second semester of your first year. Read after every course taught and try to jot down key points during every lecture(ur subconscious mind would assimilate it as you write & at least give you an idea or help you memorize). Always attend tutorials with your peers & if possible pally up with a brain box in your class.

Best of luck, anything is possible with hard work!

sosoluv: How many white women do u see marrying broke men? How many of them actually live in porverty? How many black women do u see who marry broke men, have a millions kids none of them can take care of? If money was never as important as u try to make it sound tell me why black people are the most poor race in the world? Tell me why black pple are the ones who always have problems with putting their own children in school until they receive their tertiary education?
(I'm not saying other races don't face the same problems, but its mostly with black pple) so women should rather marry that guy who wants to have a rugby team of kids but spends the little he earns on alcohol or other women?women should instead settle for a dreamer who constantly says ' I love u' but never does anything to prove it?
If u know u r not financially stable be wise enough not to bring another human being into ur misery until u have sorted urself out

Lmao at the bolded!
Is money meant to prove love and commitment to a lady? What if the money runs dry eventually? Will you opt out and leave? What if the availability of money was just to phuck you and later dump you? What if the money comes with bruises and abuse? What if the money comes with you sharing your man with other mistresses?

Everything you have stated is, "the man does this, the man does that". Is the woman not also going to contribute to the upkeep of the household and kids?

I don't know the kind of orientation you have but I don't believe in being dependent on any partner for funds. I am not asking anyone to marry a broke arse, I am only saying money is not a determinant of a lasting relationship/marriage AND There should be some level of financial independence between a man & woman.
Men themselves are not dumb, do you think they want liability? Even if you want money, u have to use ur own resources to attract it. You can't be lazy and expect to bag a goldmine. Its safer for everyone to work hard for their own funds!

seedord247: Shuttup slowpoke.

If it's like pure water. . . . Where's yours

If person go check u wella naw. . na skate board u buy since u don dey US. Eediot

;DWetin dey always do u sef? Ur body too dey hot!

Hasn't Nl overgrown these money matter issues in relationships?

Well I think both men and women should strive hard to make it in life independently. When you sweat to make money then it becomes yours hence you have the power over it and can decide not to share. If there is an objection, the other party should work towards making its own money or learn from you. No man or woman should be compelled to run a charity course just because of love or marriage. No man or woman should rob the bank or steal just to please his/her partner. Human beings need to stop equating lovemaking/sex/phucking to funds. You get intimate because you are aroused to and its enjoyed by two consenting adult so you don't need to pay for pleasure derived from both parties.

That being said, women should not base their choice of relationship on wealth or finances alone because
1) The poor man might actually be rich but putting you to a test/or he needs genuine love/camourflage
2) The man might have prospect and potentials to make it on the long run
3) You might miss that opportunity and end up with your greatest nightmare or end up alone

When choosing a partner(be it relationship or marriage), you must be as reasonable and realistic as possible. I know we all want the finest things in life but look at the marriages these days, its not about swag, bling blings, luxury or extreme beauty, its about wise women who picked the less difficult partners to manage that would also give them security, consistency, relief, peace of mind and happiness. Money can get missing or improperly managed but character is already instilled!