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LiteratureRe: OAM4J & Rocktation Have Got Chivalry & Would Make A Lovely Match Without Rivalry by Cuddlemii(op): 1:31pm On Jul 30, 2012
Rocktation: If you're sure undecided...the second is about some dead lover grin lipsrsealed
LiteratureRe: OAM4J & Rocktation Have Got Chivalry & Would Make A Lovely Match Without Rivalry by Cuddlemii(op):
.... I saw it coming and it all started here: https://www.nairaland.com/990032/nairalands-poet-competition


OAM4J: Nice one!

@Rocktation are you dedicating those poems to me? You might just win my heart if you do wink
LiteratureOAM4J & Rocktation Have Got Chivalry & Would Make A Lovely Match Without Rivalry by Cuddlemii(op):
A nightingale hummed a sweet melody into my ears
I was enlightened about a man and lady of pedigree & class
I was chosen to play cupid
I was honored to introduce a knight & goddess
I have been in this business since 1965
But never have I had to match make a thoroughbred couple

Just writing about them gives me warmth & tranquility.
That soothing aura & eloquence they both elude distinguish them from the rest
Rockstation is my golden girl!
Oam4j is my stallion!
And together, they would make a good match!
Let’s test run my psychic abilities
Rockstation & Oam4j, please join me as we unwind & mingle together to make a long lasting friendship……….

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LiteratureLiterature/Writing Section's "Chat Central!" by Cuddlemii(op):
Grab a cup of coffee/tea/wine/water/juice while glued to your laptop/blackberry/PC, and chat with other members of this section.
It is an opportunity to "network and meet people!" wink

No top up
No pay as you go
No pre-paid plan
No long distance charges
International Roaming inclusive
Wide network coverage for your leisure & relaxation
Just Chat on!
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LiteratureRe: Food For Thought - Inspirational Quotes by Cuddlemii(op):
cool

LiteratureRe: Food For Thought - Inspirational Quotes by Cuddlemii(op):
TODAY'S THEME IS- STRENGTH & COURAGE cool
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RomanceRe: My Aunty's Husband Wants To Marry Me. He Says He's In Love by Cuddlemii:
Amya: And for calling my Aunt a b.tch, I have reason to believe that shƺ sees other men when he's not around. I never told him or anybody. Plus the kind of friends shƺ hangs out with are of questionable character. Portharcourt girls! shƺ didn't go to school. . . . Don't have a job, just hang around the net all day looking for men? Her best friend has been married to 4 white men in the space of two years!

I'm well educated and I work. How much lousy change can the stupid Akata drop sef. Both of them should carry their wahala and go sef. I ain't telling nobody!
Amya, you keep contradicting yourself with your comments. You have given the pieces to all the missing puzzle already!
What is your business with if your aunty is a b.tch or not? She found herself a husband, go find yours,simple!

You should never have had bbm chat with your uncle(ur aunt's hubby) from the very beginning, what does your aunty's husband want to entertain you with in a chat? Its easy to know a man with intentions based on the chat frequency and tone, you were carried away enjoying the attention and LED HIM ON. If you simply did not like it, trust me you would have insulted him or ignored him or said things like, "i am busy so I didn't see your message, uncle i have things to do, take care, uncle my aunty loves you bla bla bla". He would have gotten the message and backed off!

There is something called discipline and integrity, if a man smells that in you, he won't offer you trash! For example, if you chat with a guy, he either ask you to phuck him or date him based on how you present yourself. Why did you even bring this to nl? There are some things you don't need advise for because all you needed do was to have done the right thing even if its to delete his contact, that would have been my first step.

Based on previous threads you have created, I think you need to outline your goals in a relationship and set standards for yourself. Else men would use you! The chopping his money part was very degrading and has given an impression. Only God knows what you have been feeding that man with about your aunt if you can mess her up on a public forum filled with strangers. Do the right thing!
LiteratureRe: Food For Thought - Inspirational Quotes by Cuddlemii(op): 1:20pm On Jul 27, 2012
TODAY'S THEME IS- GOSSIP! embarassed

"Who gossips to you will gossip of you"- Puerto Rican Proverb

"Gossip is called gossip because it's not always the truth"-Justin Timberlake

"Be Impeccable With Your Word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love"-Miguel Angel Ruiz

"People who are too weak to chase their dreams will always find a way to discourage yours. Don't let 'em"- MamaBaig's Original Gossip Quotes
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LiteratureRe: The burning cold by Cuddlemii: 1:06pm On Jul 27, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]Cuddle wadup?[/quote]I am good.
I am here
Keep up the good work!
Poems For ReviewRe: Nairaland's "The Poet" Competition by Cuddlemii(op):
Flashaldrin: your being a mod i never could fortell
i'm sad as your bestie you never did tell
but now you are, you'll be the model
your super talents you'll now unshell

oh what a chance to show your inner jewel
to portray you externally as a belle
cos many a fight your words will quell
and set a record that'll always ring a bell!
what more can I say than, "well, well, well!"
you call me your bestie, yet you are unavailable for me to tell.
do you care to check up on me if I fell?
all these while, I felt you had bid me farewell!
these words of yours are like a bombshell
feels like i am hit with a dumbbell
is this really you? i must be in a trance or a spell
good to hear from you again though, i must yell!
FamilyRe: Nairaland's Cutest Baby Contest by Cuddlemii:
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Poems For ReviewRe: Nairaland's "The Poet" Competition by Cuddlemii(op):
I can see some peeps having fun
That is good
Keep it up!
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 12:23am On Jul 24, 2012
Pharoh: With hindsight, i believe the debate would have been conducted differently but its all good that we have the chance to learn from experience as it is the best teacher. There are some arguments coming up which needs to be addressed and i should say that the debate might have been rushed. I am following the original threads right now and the originator really had lofty ideas but the normal distractions eventually influenced the final structure. I think the coordinating team should be expanded to include more people for behind the scenes deliberations. I will try to drop one or two suggestions before the next debate so that we will not have some of these arguments in the future.



Says me initially but i guess my assumptions were wrong and you realy have a good memory you know.

I am doing okay and you?, been away for a while due to some issues but am back now and congrats for being a mod, hope you do well and bring changes to your section of influence.
Thanks, I hope you come support the section with ideas too, seem you came back pregnant with ideas.
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 11:15pm On Jul 23, 2012
Pharoh: This was a wonderful thing to do ( wanted to do stuffs like this as well ) and thanks to everyone who made it happen and to the project coordinator ( don't remember me again i guess ).

Hope we can all take a retrospective view of the past events and see how we can make this debate better going forward. In my personal perspective, i think shymexx should have not been banned if he did not break the debating rules ( was there any rule concerning plagiarism before the debate commenced? ) and also i think some posters will like to make some suggestion to the debate and or see how it can be expanded and reorganized with adequate inputs.

Thanks everyone and keep the discussion going but with less fighting please cool.
Says who?
How are you?
LiteratureRe: Food For Thought - Inspirational Quotes by Cuddlemii(op): 5:17am On Jul 23, 2012
TODAY'S THEME IS- "SIMPLICITY!" cool

LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 2:20am On Jul 23, 2012
[quote author=Sisi_Kill]You did a FANTASTIC JOB!!! I'm sending you a chilled bottle of champagne. cool

Errrr. . .I hope you are okay with regifted gifts oh. I'm sorry but I didn't have time to get you a real gift and I'm looking at the champagne Newacca sent me and the idea just popped in my head to send it to you. embarassed[/quote]Add strawberries & whipped cream to that, I am taking newacca to the resort wink cool
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 1:10am On Jul 23, 2012
cowgurl: WOMAN...

@Mod Cuddlemii, You are AWESOMELY CREATIVE!
wink smiley smiley
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 1:09am On Jul 23, 2012
freecocoa: You forgot to add that it will eventually end with names calling and probably extend to whenever the parties involved will leave NL.

I can't wait,so excited in advance.grin
Me too oh! I cant wait to compile the list of peculiar babeswink
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 12:06am On Jul 23, 2012
First of all, I want to thank the 6 debaters who were brave enough to go through with this despite all odds. I am proud of you all! You believed in this project and worked with us through thick and thin. Your patience and understanding is very commendable. Thank you!

My warmest gratitude goes to the judges(Jaybee,Jarus,Sisi_kill,Roland17 & Oam4J). You were all part of an impactful journey. Thanks!

To the audience, thank you for supporting us. Your criticism and support was remarkable!

A special thank you to Oam4j and Chrisbonoger, the idea was conceived on a Tuesday but you worked with me day and night to make this a reality on a Saturday & Sunday. Thank you!

Watch out for the female debate session. Its going to be bigger and better!
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 11:48pm On Jul 22, 2012
chucky234: Its been two days of fun,using this opportunity to say a big thank you to Cuddlemii for this great idea and our judges for their immense support,you guys were wonderful.

To my co-debaters, you were all worthy opponents and I look forward to locking horns with you guys in subsquents debate on NL,Shymmex,Newacca,Chedarking,Breezy and Coogar
You guys were damn smart and intelligent,great efforts from you guys.
Our audience were great as this debate wouldn't have achieved its aim without your imput, Freecocoa,Odunno,Jones,Sisi_Kill,Fagamite,Jackbauersballs you guys were wonderful.

Thank you all and good night.
Thank you love!
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 11:46pm On Jul 22, 2012
freecocoa: Everybody relocate to another thread please,this one is closed.

Btw Cuddles,when will the ladies have their own debate? I suggest the topic should be "multiple partners is the best for any woman" grin
Lolz. You don't want a political topic? cheesy
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 11:34pm On Jul 22, 2012
shymmex: Cuddlemii ain't even saying nada.. grin

Next time, make physicsQED and Katsumoto the judges..

Your judges are inept for something as logical as this.
What would I say? I am trying to play it civil!
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 10:25pm On Jul 22, 2012
coogar: this is fraudulent....5 judges minus the judge that stepped down...yet 3 results were presented!
my simple arithmetic tells me 5-1 = 4.
what is this blatant fraud perpetrated by Nigerian judges?

then again, that was supposed to be the semis....
that newacca mauled shymmex does not mean he would obliterate coogar...
he won his round, i won my round....shouldn't there be a clash between the 2?
I didnt receive all the scores on time. I have updated it. Sorry about that.
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op):
FINAL SCORES

"Congratulations to you all!"

LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 9:52pm On Jul 22, 2012
Debaters, time is up! Scores are being collated now, but if you wish to continue arguing, you must understand that any argument outside this time would not count but would be allowed, the audience can learn too!

Wonderful arguments by the way! Thanks!

Judges please submit scores.
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 9:22pm On Jul 22, 2012
This debate would end at 9:40pm.
Thank you!
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 9:10pm On Jul 22, 2012
Judges, I think we should take time off to investigate the debater, Shymmex. If he is found guilty, then he should be disqualified!
We are big on originality, transparency & integrity
Thank you!
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LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 8:19pm On Jul 22, 2012
Breezy047's Arguement
breezy047: Good day ladies and gentlemen, my honourable panel of judges, co-debaters and my fellow audience.

For some time now there has been deliberation over the topic ‘Godfatherism is the major cause of corruption and developmental crisis in Nigeria’ and I am here today to debate AGAINST this motion. I have succeeded in making this deliberation as brief and comprehensive as possible and here we go.

1. Look beyond Godfatherism.
Almost everyone here that is carried along with this present trend of politics in Nigeria will agree with me that to solve the current problem of corruption and developmental crisis in this nation, you will need to look BEYOND Godfatherism. As Godfatherism is only a VEHICLE whose engine you will need to look beyond to catch a bare sight of the DRIVER. My arguments are extensively presented below.

2. Obasanjo as a case study.
As you know, when Obasanjo came into power in 1999, he promoted elite corruption to the extreme where only almost a few elite had access to the wealth of the state at the expense of the ordinary people and He changed the modus operandi of godfatherism suddenly. Under his nose, the Adedibu-ladoja (Ibadan), Saraki-Lawal (Ilorin) and Uba-Ngige(Anambra) saga occurred. The culprits were not properly brought to book according to the standing laws of this nation.
Now it is no secret that the President 'Obasanjo' at this time clearly allowed and permitted this trend only to favor his own political PARTY (that was in power) and its obvious egocentric ends. Because this party was desperate and largely interested in devising means to circumvent the ordinary law and rise above every citizen, policies or constitution that may stand in their way. This party was desperate to remain in power forever and that is clearly one of the major reasons why the 1999 constitution was amended in section 308 to provide IMMUNITY for political office holders.
And this is not the end because this moment I openly put it to you that Godfatherism became a tool in the hands of this PARTY that had already or beforehand if you like defected the law and laid a massive foundation of inappropriate political structure.
And as you follow, this leads US to the reality of the hideous fact that Godfatherism is only a tool or a toy in the hands of a desperate GIANT that feeds on and thrives with corruption, self-interest and a desperate lust for power.
Hence you quickly realize that Godfatherism as WE see is not the problem here as it was merely polished by greater element and forces which serve as the foundation to the nation’s political crisis.

3. Babangida and Tinubu as a case study.
The Babangida regime (1985 - 1993) practiced Godfatherism and it achieved a vast sum of development because of strict disciplinary measures taken. Now this present regime also practices Godfatherism but development is stunted. This reveals that the Godfatherism cannot rise above the law except when greater forces allow it to.
Also as we know that Godfatherism is presently practiced in the politics of Lagos with Tinubu occupying the role of the Godfather, yet the state has witnessed notable amount of development in infrastructure.
Now the political party that installed the present Governor of Lagos has been noted and observed by sundry to be a keen achiever and has executed better administration than the present ruling party. Though they practice Godfatherism too, compared with the ruling party, the state within the grasp of their rule has achieved significant development.
If through inappropriate political structure one party uses Godfatherism and some other means to achieve corruption, would it make any sense to lay blames on these means and leave out the source? Not so?
The political and developmental problem goes deeper than Godfatherism. There is a whole lot of rot beneath the lid.

In conclusion,
If Nigeria as a nation is ready for a change in its political situation, it must be ready to look beyond Godfatherism. It must be ready to address the foundation of these problem, such as the inappropriate political structure, the ethnic divide/issues, the elite corruption and a host of others.
LiteratureRe: Nairaland's Literary & Debating Day - FINALS by Cuddlemii(op): 8:15pm On Jul 22, 2012
Its 8:15pm, participants start posting your rebuttals/response/questions/answers!

"Best of luck!"

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