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hmm well lets hope he finds his partner soon.

^how is he different from a single guy dt has kissed all lips and is till yet to settle with one lip. he has new intakes of lips and the sky is the lipit

bhusayor:
^I'm good, been around tho, reading thru posts mostly, u'd b surprised I knw the person, I read a lot in ds section, don't judge me by my posts.

If you think its sexkillz, then u r wrong. If you think its another then you  really read thru post then. It would be so nice for someone to get who the nlder is. Too many wrong guesses .

bhusayor:
You again! Now lemme direct u to aunty fickle's (your love doctor)new thread! Status declared alredy,

wrong move. aunty fickles already declared u as part of the hotties on nland in her last thread & pple approved so that should bring toba back to u. damn i think i just did

bhusayor:
^hmmmn, tnk I know u the nlander is *grins*.ow u duing?

Bhu baby I am fine & you? Its been a while. Nope you don't

Mr blazer:
@cuddlemi. What do u mean cut your coat according to your size? Hey little gal dont think my posting this thread makes me a local dude.

See I didn't even call you local. You just have a thing for local. I am just saying you should stop being ignorant. When you like a girl, its not about her status or the class division she belongs to. You just like her for being her which is an attribute of individuality & uniqueness. Stop generalizing biko nu.

7) In a relatnship but complicated 11) Secretly admire a nlder & its mutual Sorry that is all I can divulge



1) Yes, I am extreme & intense romantic, don't get me started please so I don't derail your thread.



2) Realist

190smh:

190 stay as one na. 190, 190@, 190smh How do I know the real one

charlie193:
@Cuddlemmi,

Serious you make me smile, do you know what? I was just like you last year, but the truth is that stop worrying yourself. Go and start preparing for your travelling. Buy a nice school bag, some exc books, pen, food stuffs, dry some vegetables too, buy jeans like 10 pics, and some nice ladies shirt too, if you like buy some jacket for yaba railway, I think it is 500 for one, but place hold like 200 dollars to shop for another one imediately you arrive, cold dey kill poeple for canadaooo. just buy thing and start getting ready to come here. Also get some nice campus shoe too, if you like go to mandella buy the chico type, all na shoe. ,

You have done your medicals, stop panicing, start preparing, mark my words, on a serious note, YOU WILL GET YOUR VISA

Whao thank you so much. Now I know where u bought your stuffs no wonder u r smiling, will go fetch things there too so as to smile. Notin do u. Thank you, I believe you. I will just take a chill pill & pray. Who knows I might do some window shopping in those places and pay deposit till end of the month when I collect salary abi dem dey give on credit? Thanx ur post got me a permanent smile, hope I wont look crazy when I sleep with a smile on. Thanx. God has done it. Amen.

whao again

kpolli:
^^^^^ Horatio Caine just passed me your file. . . .

Have your full name, address, office name, class captain and even the date that your embarrassing incident happened. . .

You might wanna get a chalk & blackboard while you are at it. So much to learn dude

I think you went to KC cos of the way u are curious.

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=699754.msg9065763#msg9065763 date=1314996768]Hi sweetie, how you doin?[/quote]Hey dearie, I am good as it gets. Hope u r aight too

@op

I don't blame you jare. You have to cut ur coat according to your size. That's what your swags can get you. You just not marketable for the rich girls.

You unlucky fellow, what has wealth got to do with sexiness, hotness, class, presentation, intelligence & etiquette. You don't need to be a million dollars or less than a million dollars to get heads spinning & command respect. I just think you are not worth the time of real women.

Hi people

Thank you newacca. Im a good now

Oh Shut up you all. It is always women woman girl babe lady. The men too should keep fit and get rid of the beer parlor tummy & hallelujah jazz man hands. Everyone should keep fit, True story!

:-x :-x :-x :-x :-x

@naijababe,

Some babes r just too cultured to even joke. Asas is an ajebutter. I would be damned if she pollutes farts the air.

@sexkillz, back off my school mate O.

claremont:
Hello MODs,

What exactly is the criteria which you guys use to brazenly edit posts of a thread that appears on the home page? I, Da Doctor, Good Girl, and a couple of others I can't remember, made some valid, non-abusive posts on this thread >>>https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-749533.0.html, and I just noticed that all our posts have been summarily deleted with blatant ignominy.

I do agree that you guys have every right to delete posts as you deem fit, since NL is apparently a "private" website, but the least you can do is to publish a set of standard criteria which we should be guided by when making our posts. I just can't understand how a couple of simple non-abusive posts advising a lady on the next course of action after she assumes her lecturer has failed her unduly, is deemed to be incompatible with NL rules; yet we have people spewing abuse, vile, and hate all over the pages of the romance section, and their posts are not deleted.

Thanks.

That is the guy . Such poise even in anger. I like, Impressive .

dave2:
This Goldie

As in am weak. Who took my bestie away. She came back 190daverealitied

^Well I just guys get Ray Charles kind of glasses. Who wants to be with a partially blind man who sees only No road or One way, its even better he sees slippery road ahead signs

Pmen:
Plss i need a strong and good looking sugar mummy,not necessary rich.pls i need d responce soon.Tanx.

U mean you need death?

I think using the word toasting is uneasy. More like have you given the green light. That is more romantic

trodon:
@ cuddlemii: I understand how you feel. I submitted on the 11th of May and went for Med on the 6th of Aug. I have not even emailed them. If i have waited this long then this is certainly not the time to panic. Don't be pissed but be patient.

. I will be fine. I will soon be all happy again. Thanx

. This topic is very interesting. And 2 friends of mine attempted the question. I dnt roll with chickens but chicks 

I am proud of my gals

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=239117.msg9061489#msg9061489 date=1314956103]Reading these replies have made me realise that I would have loved to be in the same school with CUDDLE and BABE![/quote]If you are ready to plate kiko, shuku, koroba, koleso, aja loso, patewo & all back with base on your head we can re-live that fantasy of yours.

ebonyvibe:
@ cuddlemii is disregard everything you've said about me with all the bones in my body.

if a man was useful i wouldnt call him useless. And as for ironing things out before marriage this was done like a  million times but if a man chooses to change or not do the things he is meant to what do you call him.

Married men that cheat do not do this while they are dating their partner but as soon as they get married they do. would you blame the wife for not seeing it admittedly some do and those do not deserve any pity from me.

Trust me you cant take a step in my shoes not to talk of walking a mile. I am feed up and seriously considering divorce. i could tell you my story if you want to listen to it but am not one to consititute people together for a pity party.

I have made a mistake with the man I married and will not continue the rest of my life in this mistake. My thread does not say that  all men are useless i know neither does it states why are some men useless. But this is the conclusion I have come to and I am entitled to my opinonion.

For people to come here and jugde a persons whole life based on a few paragraphs is beyond ridiculous

Well you should have concentrated on the issues you are facing with your hubby. As claremont said, if you had told us what you were going through then you would have gotten comfort & advice here. I have met ladies that were molested or raped but even in their venom they never generalized & disrespect the male gender. Instead they leave vengeance to God. Everyone has gone through one thing or the other worst than whatever you are going through but coming on Nland to disrespect what God created is distasteful. I bark at such even when the female gender is rubbished because of a silly issue. People should learn to treat people as individuals & stop generalizing.

I sympathize with you but I still blame you for the outcome of things in your marriage. A woman's role is to hold her home & from what you spat here I am certain you are bothered about men in general & how to deal with them. What happened to prayers, its like people have started serving judgement on earth. If your child was to be the one frustrating you, would you throw him or her to the street. If you were the one frustrating your hubby & he throws you out, what would you say? There are always trials & tribulations in everything we do in life but that doesn't mean there would be no rain & sunshine afterwards. I know you are bitter but you are already in it because "it was your choice, you selected you hubby, what the hell were you thinking so its your consequences to deal with".

Develop a thick skin, find something that makes you happy & concentrate on that, with time he would come around. Men provoke women because they know their temperament, why not surprise him & show him respect is earned. There can't be too kings one palace, you must learn to apply wisdom. If he beats you then that's another ball game but with your kind of tongue & fury, I doubt that. Remember we are sinners & something some of us have done to others, if we were god, we would kill them but God died for our sins, God loves sinners & God forgives sinners.

I hope you wont let anger guide you, its never a good ending. Let your brains & intellect be ur guide even if you are not that religious. I suggest you apologize for calling men useless because I already have an impression of your handle.

iyatrustee:
@ cuddle,  i disagree! high chief doesnt jump at anything in skirt unlike our lil bro

Thank you . Need to find that man and appreciate him for his loyalty . Me & him have the same similarities we don't flirt around

190 shares the same similarities with high chief. Jealous & Possessive men

God is good

Good Girl:
Don't brag too much about people telling you their stuff. I (the person you opted to label a 'typical lady') have people who tell me deeper and sh[i]i[/i]ttier crap about their lives because they think am the only one who will listen without judging them, including my own oga at work (see how we have things in common?) and a married female friend who is having an affair because her hubby cannot satisfy her sexually. Why did she come to me? Because she knew that this 'typical lady' will not judge her. I however cautioned her to NEVER EVER have unprotected sex with her strong lover. So believe it or not, many people also do consult me for relationship advice. I am the one who advises my girlfriends to lower their expectations and be realistic, but at the same time not put up with extreme negativity. It drains a lot of energy.

A drinker, a smoker, a jobless man; not at all difficult to handle, but whether you admit it or not, womanizers scare the sh[i]i[/i]t out of every woman, even the ones who appear strong. Syphilis can cause blindness my friend. It's worse than HIV. The worst are those who sleep around without protection, siring children and bragging about it. The same fellows are here on Nairaland bashing South Africa's HIV statistics because they think they are immune to it.

The point am trying to put across is that people should not accommodate too much negativity or lose their self-respect/esteem because they believe that they must "get hitched". Responsibility is not too much to ask for.

Well I don't see how the bolded comes to play here. Are you aiding the poster or you are admitting men are useless. The point you made is very reasonable but the ops post is too degrading to attract your beautiful logic.

Hers is medicine after death. Coming to disrespect her hubby because he doesn't do house chores is very stupid because these are the things she was meant have worked on during courtship or dating. For heaven sake, you would always know domesticated men. They are the ones who clean their carpets, wash their clothes themselves because they are scared people wont wash their clothes clean enough, they are the ones who pick grains of rice on the floor. That's why you see some men at 70 are still agile & independent, some even walk to their kitchen to fix themselves a meal.

She sticking her butt in her hubby's house & coming to Nland to motivate ladies to see men as being useless makes her an hypocrite meaning she is who she attracted. You making a point out of these when numerous post about marriages have passed by but this was significant only means you agree with her. Or probably you found my post offensive. Deception & lies is the problem this world has. A corrupt politician would ask EFCC to catch yahoo boys, A pastor that is a pedophile would be judging fornicators. We need to understand that all hands are not equal as such look out for the flaws, deal with it or let it go. Focus only the good sides, the discovery of the bad side gets u crazy when u can't tolerate it, that is what op is facing.

I don't brag. I only explained what I meant by being a realist. I also like your points too but I feel it can be useful on more positive threads.

Good morning everyone

Who is mr blazing again. hmmm na wa